/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

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>>7319577
Thank you! I just bought that dress and had no idea how to coord it.

copy pasting from my other topic

I wear lolita during the winter since that's the only time the weather is cold enough to survive in it.

My parents, no matter how many times I've explained it to them are absolutely certain that it's some kind of weird sexual deviant thing and not a just something I wear.

I don't consider myself a crossdresser or weird in anyway gender-wise, like I'd never just wear ordinary women's clothes, my interest in female clothing is entirely lolita. In fact to me lolita clothes doesn't really feel "female" at all.

I feel very alone because all the other male lolitas and "brolitas" I've seen have been into it for fetish or some other unsavory reason.

Are there any other boys out there who are actually JUST into it for the fashion, or am I really all alone here ;;

Is it bad that I think this is kinda sexy?

>>7319577
>>7319589
literally better than half my comm

>>7319627

You're probably on your own.. If you wear lolita and are a boy you are a crossdresser..

I love lolita as a fashion but I'm transgender so I still don't fit any of your definitions.

Problem I have is finding the right prints. I'm 36a chest and pretty much confined to wearing a JSK with shirring.

Can never get into a OP because of Man shoulders.

Any suggestions for new prints welcome!

>>7319627
My boyfriend only does lolita as far as "crossdressing" goes, but he doesn't really tell anyone about it.

In fact, I think the only people who really know are his best friend, myself, and him. He doesn't do it for sexual reasons, he just really likes the way it looks.

In fact, I'm trying to get some Kodona together for myself so I can be his prince.

>>7319883
For some reason, I find this really adorable.

>>7319875
There are a lot of OPs and JSKs that have full shirring throughout the neckline and straps, such as btssb Dessert OP. Something like that may accommodate shoulders a lot better, or generaly just make for a better fit. I am tall, so the shoulder shirring helps me a lot because I can pull the dress down to wear I would like it to sit, instead of where it would naturally, therefore lengthening it.
As far as finding the "right" prints, can you give me an idea of what you're looking for? Or in this case, what has made a print 'wrong' to you?

>>7319922

I tend to stay away from anything sweet. Whilst I do like the style I am far too worried about people confusing it with sissy (an issue with the trans thing and something I really don't want to be associated with)

So I tend to lean more towards gothic. I had vampire requiem but gave it away to my ex. I am thinking of MMM cathedral as my next purchase

Pic obviously isn't lolita but is me - it's what I've got to work with :p

>>7320006
I think you'd suit Moitie really well. In the least possibly offensive way you have a mature looking face with high cheekbones which is the best look for that brand- I find it's hard to pull the Moitie look off if you're cute and youthful unless you're very oldschool about it. I'm unsure about how the sizing would be for you, though OP's ought to be fine?

>>7320006
>>7320053
Ugh, why don't more brolitas try gothic? They would look gorgeous!

>>7319589

Wow do they look great! I'm still new to EGL (Although I have been wanting to get into it for a while) so I love looking at photos of brolitas who are putting a lot of effort into their coordinates and hair/makeup.

>>7319627

I'd consider myself more of a brolita than a crossdresser, as like you I'm really only interested in Lolita - Although I do want to someday crossplay Touhou. I'm actually shocked at how a lot of brolitas just look like absolute crap.

From my own experiences, one nice aspect of lolita for me is it's a good impetus to continuously stay in shape and exercise. At my office my coworkers are amazed at how committed I am towards fitness but little do they know what one of my biggest reasons why is.

I've also picked up some good skincare habits from reading the daiily skincare threads that pop up here from time to time.

>>7320064

I'm planning on building my wardrobe completely in the direction of gothic and classic. There's no chance in hell I would wear sweet nor do I think I'd look good in it. Even for classic I prefer darker pieces and coordinates.

This Sunday I'm picking up my btssb LP in black from their SF store which I'm totally stoked for.

>>7320346
Fuck yeah, gothic brolitas. Are you in the SF area usually? If you're looking to make brolita friends- we do have one trans, which isn't the same, I know, but she passes amazingly and you might feel less lonely with a comm, anyway!

Unfortunately, we also have Melissa, which is the worst example of a brolita you can present, fetishes included.

>Lolita is expensive as fuck
>Can't buy second-hand because that'd be really creepy wearing a female's former clothes
>Still nervous with online ordering
>Have a far shorter time frame to actually be a neato brolita until the 20's really kick in and mess you up
>'those' brolitas only imagined in horror stories give a lot of brolitas a bad repute.
>Reception is typically hostile to brolitas unless you can coord really well and / or resemble a female when you do

Still worth it. Even learning about petticoats and makeup is worth it for conversation or general knowledge.

>>7320517
secondhand isnt bad, girls wearing other girls clothing is wierd too but you get over it.
mbok and yahoo japan are the b3st.

>>7320550

>>7320558

>>7319577
moar spelendora.

>>7320550
>>7320558
More kawaii than I'll ever be qq

>>7320559

>>7320599
ew whatthe

>>7320599

Yooooo where da foundation at?

>>7320559
well thankfully this thread is up, coz this is all i have

>>7320626

>125x93

What is this? A picture for ants?

>>7319883
can someone link to what skit this is from?

>>7320635
Lol I know right, I saved it anyway.

>>7320517
>that'd be really creepy wearing a female's former clothes

That'd be like the "wearing dead pplz clothes" mentality
Its not creepy to anyone unless really fucking stupid. So feel confident in your intelligence if someone ever thought so.

Anyway y no offbrand brolita-chan?

>>7320638
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DwpXmTSojA

>>7320517
There is taobao and with taobao you can get somethings custom made.

Seriously, this guy is so cute. I would totally go gay for him.

>>7320370

I am! I've been thinking of going to the SF comm for a bit once I get confident about going out.

>>7323145
Please do! I would love another gothic/classic around.

Could any brolitas in this thread tell me what good conversation topics are with you guys. We have a few brolitas in our comm and it's gets tricky trying to work out what to talk about.

>>7323253

We like talking about forced feminisation stories.

/r/ing some black/hispanic brolitas please ^^

>>7323253
Not a brolita, but why can't you talk about things you normally talk about? It's not like it's about periods and boobs 24/7. Talk about new releases, video games, cats, whatever...

this is one of my favs

>>7323253
Talk about lolita? Or about your other interests? Have you only talked to girls in your entire life? Dudes aren't that different. If they're at a lolita meet you know they have common interests with you, so it's not that hard, jesus. I actually find the brolita in my comm the easiest to talk to. He's a super chill guy.

>>7323270
those don't look like brolitas anon...

>>7323572
They are brolitas. Look at the facial structure.

>>7323572
Are you blind?

>>7323262

Was he the one in that documentary about the LA comm?

>>7323612
no that's a different guy

>>7323262
Beautiful!

>>7320678
dammit, video not available in your country.

>>7323612
this is the guy from the LA comm

>>7323265
He could invest in some damn makeup

>>7320678
link that works in 'murica
http://vimeo.com/33498147

>>7319607
where is it from?

>>7324518
he's so cute!

>>7323270
brittany murphy's not dead! she just ate her way out of the grave!

>>7323265

brittany murphy's not dead! she just ate her way out of the grave!

>tfw trans and I get uncontrollably jelly when I see threads like this.

>>7320006
You are gorgeous for gothic lolita.

>>7320559
Going to be sad when Yohio reaches his mid to late 20s and can't be kawaii anymore.

>>7327377
more like fucking terrifying.Testosterone kills kawaii

I think brolitas are rad and totally deserve to wear whatever fashion they want...

But I really wish some of them would use proper makeup on areas they get 5oclock shadow. It looks kind of scary with it, and no matter the age/ethnicity they would look marvelous if they would just cover it up.

>>7319699
make it end

>>7326768
Innocent World

This thread.
These stupid sexy brolitas.
I know how I feel about it.
I don't know how I feel about how I feel about it.

>>7327795

You should feel bad for being attracted to sissies.

Aspiring brolita here. Where do I get shoes in size 11? I'm having a hard time finding any that go about 9 it seems like.

>>7327802
LOL.
Are there no degenerates who are into lolita because they like the fashion not because they have horribly disgusting fetishes?

>>7328998
You think that transvestic fetishism is disgusting? I have that fetish, but I would get into the style because its awesome, as well as its gratifying my kink. I don't because of funds and for fear of standing out and judgement :(

>>7328998
>>7329015
And here come the idiots to take this thread to off-topic bullshitastan

>>7328998

No. Lolita fashion is fetish wear anyway.

>>7329037
No it's not.
>Yes it is
repeat

>>7329034

Cry about it, tranny.

>>7328954
If you mean US men's size 11, I have no idea... If you mean the US women's size 11, though, Flugvog women's shoes go up to 11.

>>7329128
I meant womens, thanks!

>>7319589
Whoops just fell in love

>>7329015
I guess you just don't find badly looking (supposedly) grown men dressed into fetish-bait fashion as unusual as me.
So we have fuck-ups who for whatever reason want to get into not just any fashion but one of the most fucked-up fashions (if it can be called that). That's fucked-up squared. Adding the sissy angle takes it up a notch to fucked-up cubed.
Brolitas are just one more thing to add to the ever expanding list of creepy shit (which includes but is not limited to age-play, diaper fetish, living dolls, whoring out for pocket change for "burando" - the list goes on and on) hidden beneath those petticoats.
I don't think that above holds for the majority of lolitas, but you and people like you - who indulge in all the creepy shit mentioned above - made it far harder to look past all of that. It's just easier to recoil in disgust.

>>7329210
It seems like you have some sort of mental illness.

>>7329136
Whew, awesome! I'm glad I could actually help. Keep in mind thay Flugvog has a sale in May for their designer's birthday.

>>7329219
You know that I should be telling you that if I was trolling. I am also pretty sure you were already told that at one point in your life.