/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>7228640
>tfw no tryhard lolita gf

>>7228640
>tfw it's true

Probably somewhat true. As someone who's definitely of slightly-below-average-looks, lolita was one of the first things that made me actually feel "pretty". It actually really helped my self-confidence though, to the point where I started putting effort into my "regular" clothing as well, and actually have a definable style. I still have a long way to go, but as a person who used to live in jeans and oversized t-shirts, I'm definitely improving.

>>7228654
Oh my god are you me?

>>7228657
Honestly, I think a large percentage of lolitas come from a similar background. Not all, of course, people get into it for different reasons. But I've heard a lot of people talk about how wearing lolita was their first real opportunity to get into wearing and being creative (but tasteful) with clothing.

>>7228640
>>7228654
As an outside looking in, there is actually some really good looking stuff. "Fedora" fashion is pretty much entirely 1-2 sizes too large clothes coupled with a fedora.

While there is bad lolita, the clothes and style itself isn't actually that bad depending how they wear it.

The more neutral colored stuff with fancy prints and matching outfit/socks/etc looks pretty nice and attractive.

Fedoras also are just used horribly to imply "intellectual" by idiots, but almost all male fashion is terrible and ill-fitting in america.

I couldn't agree more. Lolita seems to attract the strangest people, and a lot of the oddballs seem to treat the fashion like its an ideal lifestyle and shame on anyone else that doesn't adhere to these unofficial frilly rules. These are the one's that make lists of "what a Lolita should and shouldn't be." There's always like a handful in each comm.

tfw people keep calling trilbys, fedoras.

Anyway Lolita is kind of like that, There are the well dressed attractive girls (the Fedoras in this situation). Then there are the Ita's/ 'special snowflakes'/and poorly dressed girls (the Trilby's). Then just like anything everyone assumes all the 'fedoras' of the lolita world, are exactly like the 'trilbys' then everyone is painted with the same brush.

>>7228678
dis nigga knows what's up

> I am lolita and atheist

nope sounds like ita not lolita.

I think the concept is KINDA there, but there's some differences.

Lolita is at least an attempt at fashion, at wearing a full outfit that hits a particular style.

the hats are more...there's this paranoid concern about "manly" amongst a lot of the nerd community, so they'll pick "hats are manly! beards are manly! bacon is manly!" And slap those on top of the usual "this outfit exists out of legal requirement to wear lothing" outfit.

>>7228763
This is probably the "male" equivalent of Lolita. If you had 100 guys try to pull off a similar look you would get a lot of horrifying moments, and in general he wouldn't fit in anywhere except the most fancy or well-dressed areas but overall the look is nice and attractive.

imo clothes are like 40% about a proper fit and 40% the wearers body shape.

>>7228775
This, it's so infuriating to hear people go "but I'm beautiful no matter what they say! I can express myself through my style! I can wear whatever I want! I'm proud of my body/cuurves!" and then whine about someone telling them they look bad.

>>7228777
I'm a fat girl who wears cosplay, and I've come to the acceptance that I'm never going to look as good as a smaller girl. I still try to dress to my body shape and look clean and well put together, but a fat person is never going to look as good as a thinner person in lolita.

It seems ridiculous to have someone point that out and get mad about it when it's true. If you are comfortable with your body it wouldn't bug you anyway.

>>7228775
>>7228777
I'm a fat girl who wears lolita, and I've come to the acceptance that I'm never going to look as good as a smaller girl. Body shape is super important. I still try to dress to my body shape and look clean and well put together, but a fat person is never going to look as good as a thinner person in lolita.

It seems ridiculous to have someone point that out and get mad about it when it's true. If you are comfortable with your body it wouldn't bug you anyway.

>In this moment I am euphoric. Not because of any phony god's blessing, but because I just got a great deal on burando.

>>7228744
Anon, please. Trilbys are a brand of fedora. They are both hideous, and there isn't that much of a distinction.

>>7228789
Are those rain boots? Why would anyone do this?
Aside from that, she's kind of cute. Looks like Kerli.

>>7228783
>I'm a fat girl who wears lolita, and I've come to the acceptance that I'm never going to look as good as a smaller girl.

But you definitely and objectively can though? Or is your self-esteem so shitty that even if you have an amazing coord, that you'd still give an ita a medal just because of her waistline?

>>7228777
People like this cherry pick a certain type of person to prove a point. You can still love the shit out of your body but still accept that you're not going to be everyone's preference.

Typical that a bunch of women would take a metaphor that blatantly mocks men about their personalities/attitudes and when they use it to talk about themselves, make it to mean it addresses looks/weight.

Thanks for proving how shallow you dumbfucks are, once again.

>>7228807
>>>/r9k/
No one really cares

>>7228811
>someone rightfully thinks you're being shallow
>oh they must be from r9k
More dumb bitch logic.

>>7228813
/r9k/ pls
Go talk about your redpill and tfw no gf elsewhere

>>7228815
Aw shit
Ditto what this person said, /r9k/ anon should improve their reading skills, this is a thread self-mocking lolita fashion.

>>7228803
No I wouldn't give an ita a medal, I'm just saying I can dress myself well, but in the end a girl who is smaller and dressed well is always going to look better.

>>7228800
And a dog is the same thing as a wolf.

>>7228835
>comparing animals to hats that are always ugly in every incarnation no matter what

>>7228775
...Edgeworth?

>>7228803
it's not about loving or not loving your body, it's about knowing what you look best in. This is exactly what I meant. You can love yourself all you want but still have the common sense to not wear something that you look like shit in.

Everyone has something they look bad in, it's not about being someone's preference or "dealing with dem haters", Jesus Christ.

>>7228873
unfortunately using that arguement only nets you

>but I DO look best to ME
>YOU'RE ONLY GOING BY YOUR STANDARDS OF BEOOOTY

It's like that super huge lolita that doesn't wear a bra, and she got posted to secrets and everyone was like, 'dude, just wear a bra, you'll look 100 times better' but all you get from her is

>nope, i think i look great without a bra, and my opinion is the most important, not your opinion on how i look

you can't win against those people

>>7228835
Seriously? You couldn't come up with anything better?

Not that anon but anyone dumb enough to wear a fedora/trilby/whatthefuckever seriously needs a reality check.
There is a reason why Jon Hamm can pull it off and you can't and it has nothing to do with wolves ( it has more to do with sheep).

Nope.

Rockabilly is.

>>7229519
....now this I'll buy

>>7228829
>I'm just saying I can dress myself well, but in the end a girl who is smaller and dressed well is always going to look better.

You're either self-hating, or pretending to be fat.
Either one is quite pathetic, honestly.

>>7229541
Neither actually (and 49-38-50 is definitely fat, no question about it.). It comes from being posted on this board actually several times out of revenge by another girl that has since left our community. I could wear the perfect coord for my body type, but if a regular sized girl wore the exact same coord, guess who would look the best of the two? The smaller girl.

I'm not saying I look awful all the time, I think I look great! But since the style was invented to flatter smaller frames, the same outfit would just inherently look better on smaller figures.

>>7228835
ngyahh i've been foiled again!

>>7229708
>I could wear the perfect coord for my body type, but if a regular sized girl wore the exact same coord, guess who would look the best of the two? The smaller girl.

I feel so sorry for you.
I'd keep pushing this, but I think it's a lost cause. Go on feeling inferior, I guess, even though I'm pretty sure personal preferences and ugly thin people do exist.

>>7229777
It has nothing to do with ugly features, it's that a lot of clothing is designed to flatter skinnier features. And considering most lolita is designed for skinnier people it's going to look better on people who it's made for. It's not about feeling inferior because they're ashamed of their body, it's more about knowing what looks good on yourself and what doesn't.

>>7229708
Eh, this is true for most people. I'm pretty small, but guess what? I'm not really very cute. If I'm next to a cute girls wearing the same outfit, she's gonna look better. We're ALL in that position - there's always going to be someone cuter, smaller, or better suited to lolita than you are, no matter who you are (with perhaps a few exceptions). Same with regular clothing, or even life - someone's always going to be more confident, prettier, smarter, richer, etc than you. We're all in the same boat. Try to just do the best you can, and, as much as you can, let go of the comparisons. They'll do you no good in this life.

>>7228744
I'm so happy someone else knows this difference.

>>7229784
>flatter skinnier features
Except....no? And in Japan this is considered a chubster fashion. This fashion is ideal for flab hiders.
But whatever,
>opinions

>>7229806
I'm not going to argue with you all night, but I will say this, I am fine with people being happy with their bodies, but to think that most clothing isn't designed for skinnier people is really just ignorant. The other anon isn't unhappy with her body, she's just aware that some things look better on different body types she's ashamed or hurting over it, and you're really being rude for "feeling sorry for her".

Also, you are reeking of tumblr, being "chubby" in Japan isn't even close to being chubby in the west. I hate people who seem to think that every country in the world is the same as their own.

>tfw I think fedoras and trilbys are sexy if a guy has the outfit for it

>>7229828
That suit cut is making me rage so hard holy shit.

>>7228744
I hope you realize the only people who care about the difference is the people who wear them.

>>7229833
I posted it and really the only problem I have with it is I wish his 2nd button was buttoned and it kind of irritates me that it's not buttoned.

Fat women need to die.

>>7229828
I agree, that jacket isn't doing him justice

>>7229814
And I think it's "really rude" to assume that people look better than someone else just because they're thinner. But WHATEVER. Apparently you're kawaii ambassador for what shit looks good on whom always.

>>7229847
>>7229833
Do you have a picture of a better suit? I think suits are really hot.

>>7228802
Hey now, rain boots can work.

Just... not like that.

>>7229828
Exactly, the hat was originally designed to be worn with classy suits (unless you are Indiana Jones), not jeans and t shirts that haven't be washed in a month. when you wear them the way they are meant to be worn, and with the brim fitted to your shoulder width, they look amazing.

>>7229857
>and with the brim fitted to your shoulder width
What do you mean by that?

>>7229855
Cute.
I actually like rainboots in lolita, but that's just me.

>>7229851
The fucking truth is.

How fat or skinny you are is hugely important for how an outfit looks on you. Lolita probably is more forgiving, but once you lose the general shape of a girl it's just very hard to look good in clothes.

For lolita, it works up till the point your stomach becomes outwardly round enough that it destroys the shape of the skirt and poof, making it look silly as heck.

Basically, "chubby" girls can wear lolita okay, but once you get past a certain belly size it just comes crashing down and you can't look good in it no matter what.

Lose weight if you want to look good.

>>7229867
Vampire hunter D style?
Idk what they mean either

>>7229921
Alucard style?

>>7229519
I agree.

>>7229855
Except those aren't really rain boots.

>>7230015
oh my god what happened here

>>7229851

God just go back to tumblr already. This is not your realm.

>>7230015
Ew. No one wants to see that

Haha @ captcha: butledi cottages

>>7230023
>>7230018
just think, somewhere on 4chan, probably /d/ or /s/ or who knows where, is a picture of AP star engineer boots where a fat black lady butt is supposed to be.

>>7230015
>mfw

>>7228802
they can work, if you do it right.
thaaat however was not a doing-it-right example.

>>7230015
>look at picture
>look at file name
>look back at picture
What in the gosh darn!?!

>>7229914
>>7230021
Lol what a couple of cunts.
You're the ones who sound like tumblrites.
>NO NOBODY CAN HAVE A DIFFERENT POV THAN ME FUCK OFF TO TUMBLRR BAWWW

>>7230043
When will lardasses learn that lolita fashion isn't made for them?

Back to Walmart with you.

>>7230026
>implying /d/ would want that shit
If it's not drawn and unlikely to exist in real life, then it has no place on /d/.

>>7230045
>expecting wannarexics to come up with something original for once
YAWN.

>>7230045
>fatties insulting other fatties
Aren't you 38 inch waist chan? Do fat people really hate other fats?

>>7230056
/d/ is not what i meant to type

>>7230061
My waist is 26inches, so not sure who you mean.

>>7230063
>26 inches
Lose weight fatty and accept the fact that this fashion wasn't meant for you

>>7230065

Diff anon but it's very hard to take you seriously, asspained fatty.

>>7230065
Not them but even girls who weigh 100 pounds have 25 and 26inch waists. 26 isn't bad at all.

>>7230065
...26 inches isn't fat. Lol wow.
Ok I'll stop feeding the troll.

>>7230066
>>7230069
>>7230073
>butthurt fatties itt

>>7230065

>>7230066
>>7230069
>>7230073
>it's okay for us to troll people but it's not okay for others to call us fat
Fuckers deserved it. Eat shit.
>inb4 samefag

>>7230078
Calling a woman "fat" is the worst social offense of the internet. ALL women are beautiful, ESPECIALLY the ugly ones. Check your privilege, scum.

>>7230078
I didn't even read the thread and I was >>7230069
All I saw was the one post. So no, not everyone here was a trolling whore.

>>7229851
Indeed I am. Now get out of my dominion, blubbery pleb!

>>7229828

Word. A sharp-dressed man in a fedora will get me to stop in my tracks, especially if the strip of fabric matches his tie.

>>7229851
Listen, I'm not here to fight with you, but you need to calm down your attitude. You can't just elevate people by ignoring facts, and that's why you seem like you're from tumblr. You think you're being nice because you "sympathize against fatty oppression~" but you're really just being rude and telling them their opinion is wrong, and that you're right because you're trying to 'help' as well as the fact that you're grasping at straws to try to make yourself right by ignoring pretty much everything anyone is saying and yelling about how wrong we are.

Honestly, you're just making yourself look foolish.

Lolita is pretty damn forgiving, probably the most of any type of fashion as far as body shape goes.

Like, your ass doesn't matter, your hip-waist curve most of the time doesn't matter, and even your breasts are downplayed in terms of mattering.

The thing is, the shape of lolita does actually look fine on most bodies if worn properly, probably more so than any skirt and dress.

There is just a limit. To be real, past a certain point the body shape of obese people just becomes too much. Maybe if it was done amazingly well and custom made it could look okay or good. There is just something inherently shallow and based on shape with fashion and obese girls can't pull it off.

That being said, do what you want, just don't expect it to look amazing or as good VISUALLY on your body type. Also maybe work towards eating healthier and getting more exercise if your visual ascetics are important to you.

>>7230092
Yes, agreed.
I kind of like the skinny ties too.

>>7230102
This. You don't need tits or a great waist:hip ratio or anything like that. You just need to not be fat, and have a general awareness of how to dress for your shape.

>>7228640
this thread is cancer, stop replying.

>>7230104
Is there any actual good style that matches with lolita that guys wear? This is one of the only ones I've seen that matches but it's more tomboy and the wearer is a female.

The only thing I ever see is cheesy or ugly looking gothica looking costumes. It seems really hard to pull off and was just wondering if anyone knew solutions.

>>7230122
Aristocrat is one thing that works, though most of it is too fancy vampire for sweet lolita. Over the top classic attire, think late 1800s, is also really fitting, a nice tie between that and victorian clothing works also.

>>7230122
...are you referring to dandy/kodona/ouji?

>>7230127
This just seems the "norm".

>>7228807
Just a guess but I think op is a man.

>>7230026
But she's white.

>>7230065
Guaranteedreplies.rar

>>7230165
That doesn't change the point of the post though. The vast majority of the argument has likely been among women.
Is that really how /cgl/ thinks? "Guy said it, must ignore." Kind of dumb, imo.

>>7230180
The point of the post is to rustle jimmies anyways, are you daft?

Also I'm agreeing with rockabilly anon that rockabilly is the fedora of wymynz.

>>7229519
I may or may not know that girl. Otherwise just same face and makeup

>>7230165
just a guess but I think you're butthurt

>>7230180
I think it's less a "all men are evil" reaction and more a "a woman would probably not say that" reaction. Because, in theory, a woman would know how it's like to be one, thus they wouldn't make such /r9k/ like comments.

>>7230188
How do you know what all women will say and think?

>/cgl/ is the tumblr of 4chan * checks privilege*

>>7230204
>>7230180
Hi OP!

But no really, the point is that it's a troll post to rustle jimmies, and usually people from /r9k/ post this sort of shit.
>lolita is pedobait
>you can't attract guys with lolita
>lolita is the fedora for women
It's all the same shitty bait thread topics.

>>7230027
Oh wow someone saved a picture I made!
>sage for no contribution

>>7229519
Rockabilly is fucking hideous.

>>7229855
These are engineer boots, not rainboots.

>>7230208
>Hi OP!
Nope. Try again.

>>lolita is pedobait
Actual lolitas call Sweet ageplay regularly
>>you can't attract guys with lolita
"Lolitas not about being attractive to guys, jerk.!!!111
*Proceeds to have sex fully clothed in $400 dress*
>>lolita is the fedora for women
Lolita is considered an alternative fashion and is inherently quite tryhard.

It may be b8 but some of the points are pretty valid. But wait, using logic on women is considered misogynistic now. Sorry.

>>7229519
Is this even rockabilly? I don't think that leggings count as pants in that...

Both rockabilly and lolita look dumb as fuck.

>>7230227
Your reading comprehension is atrocious.

Anyways I'm not disagreeing with you, but stop trying to turn shit into a sex war. The only reason people think that the OP is a dude is because it's happened before. You're just making all the idiot feminists pop up and scream neckbeard!

>>7230226
I know. I see so many potentially gorgeous women covered in ugly tattoos and bad hair and unflattering clothes.

>>7230228
Yeah, it kind of looks more like a rockabilly girl on a casual day. I get the hair and glasses, but the spandex leggings and t-shirt don't scream very rockabilly to me. I always think more 40's-50's-60's.

>>7228807
It mocks them about a hat they wear and if they happen to have a shitty attitude it gets made fun of too but usually it's just the fact that they wear a fedora that people make fun of them and assume their autistic asshats. Sounds pretty shallow to me.

>>7230087
just because you call someone fat doesn't mean you're calling them unattractive. Someone who is fat is fat.

>>7230061
I think she was "just" 32in, I know who you mean. The girl who self-posted in a PT thread and was like 'THAT'S NOT A 32IN WAIST, THIIIIIIS IS A 32IN WAIST' like she was some tiny fairy person for being marginally smaller than PT and then threw a fit when everyone laughed at her?

>>7230320
I remember enjoying a PT thread and then she suddenly happened. I didn't even understand what was going on until I read the ED article a little while later.

>>7229519
>>7228640
Man, I just want to be able tow ear cute dresses that fit full petticoats without some 'alt' chick in the city assuming that I'm in some stupid fashion subculture.

>Rockabilly 'pinup' chicks say I'm not doing it right.
>Lolitas say I'm not doing it right.
>Whatever that other weird group of people are say I'm not doing it right.

;~; I'm not doing anything.
>

>>7230396

Just say you're in otome man.

>>7230396
I know those feelings, anon

>>7230015
OH what the fuck... I seriously thought I posted AP engineer boots. How did I even save that picture? Fuck my life guys. I'm so sorry.

This is what I meant to post except they're the SS version and hopefully won't show up as a big butt.

>>7230449
Those are so cute. Gosh

>>7230090
Some day, some day, dominion

>>7230449
Well, whoever meant to post that other pic that turned up instead is going to be just as surprised when a pair of pink boots appear instead.

>>7230056
>If it's unlikely to exist in real life, then it has no place on /d/.


Have you actually ever been on /d/

>>7230320
Aah that was great

>Feodra of women
>fedora

Hahaha oh wow

>>7230473
He said
>If it's NOT unlikely to exist in real life.

>>7230520
>If it is not unlikely to exist in real life

I wonder too, has this poster ever been on /d/

>>7229867
A proper Fedora's brim should be fitted to your shoulder width. Meaning a brim width too wide, or too short for the width of your shoulders makes it look awful. Just like a suit is tailored to your body, a proper Fedora should be too.

I have a friend that dresses in 40's suits often for special events, and when he ordered his ridiculously expensive Fedora to wear with it he had to also send his shoulder width (measuring from shoulder to shoulder across his back, and chest) to the hat maker so the brim wouldn't be too wide or too short.

>>7228761
>I am lolita and atheist
>I am lolita and atheist AND YOURE WRONG IF YOURE CHRISTIAN OR BELIEVE IN A GOD HAH I PITY YOU THERE IS NO GOD YOU DUMB PLEB
the difference
1/10 for making me respond

>>7230554

dude but you have to accept mana-sama as your one god and savior or you won't get the baptism into kawaii. Anon's truly ita for not believing in the never aging power of mana-sama.

>>7230548
Now, /tg/ and /co/ very much like /d/, and I've seen /r9k/ say how much they dislike and are freaked out by /d/. What is /cgl/'s opinion?

>>7230569

I'm a /cgl/ regular but I pop over to /d/ now and then, especially for the Pochi threads.

>>7230565
No, fuck you, stop messing with newbies. True lolita can worship only Maki and Asuka, and have to and sacrifice at least one stuffed animal a day to praise their glory. Only then one can be blessed with infinite aura of kawaiiness!

>>7230569
I am into rape/tentacle/bondage stuff so I'm ok with it but there's WAYY too many dickgirl and balloon tit threads.

>>7229788
Agreed
This anon gets it

>>7230593
>there's WAYY too many dickgirl and balloon tit threads.

This.

>>7230598
Is it like a special Japanese style to wear lolita outfits way too big for them?

I'm just wondering if they are intentionally going for a "midget" type look to make it more young girl looking.

>>7229914
>mfw i have violin hips and no matter how much weight i lose, i will never have the normal girl figure.

What even funnier is all the girls that whore themselves out to get some stupid dress that they look like retards in.

Maleanon here by the way.

>>7230672
>i'm a guy btw don't hit on me silly girls teehee

>>7229519
Isn't it funny that feminists constantly wear clothing from an era they claim they were most oppressed.

>>7230676
THEY'RE TAKING IT BACK FOR STRONG WOMENS EVERYWHERE!!!

>>7230676
not really?
maybe im ignorant, but i dont see how the fashion of a specific era correlates to the oppression of said era.

If you can't pull this off please just don't leave the house.

>>7230687
bitch those shoes are the grossest thing ever

>>7230687
if it was a choice between wearing that or never leaving the house, I would never leave the house.

>>7230687
Those girls can't pull it off.

>>7230686
Do you just not know anything about modern feminists? A lot of them tend to shun anything feminine especially things like clothing, because they wrongly believe that clothing was a way of oppression since it was so intricate and almost painful at times throughout history, even though that's not the case.

This is especially true with dresses of any kind.

>>7230690
short bitches tryin to be tall.

i always feel sad for short girls, they're trying so hard to elevate their stubby legs and look sexy but i can throw on some heels and my already long legs just look amazing.

>>7230690
>>7230694
>>7230696
Can you imagine how much free shit they get. Being an ugly woman is like being a man, no one pays for your shit, LEL.

>>7230700
>those weird-ass poses
I get that the girls are really attractive but why are they contorting themselves into those positions? They look retarded.

>>7230629
thats incorrect women accumulate fat in their thighs, you just need to lose more weight Rotunda.

>>7230697
ah... i guess i dont then, all the feminists that i know dont shun feminine things like clothing.

>>7230700
I get enough free shit without having to wear a shirt as a dress. I fucking hate girls purposely turning themselves into sex objects.

>>7230705
Well there's a lot of extreme tumblrshit "feminists" who shun basically everything that's typically defined as feminine, even shit like long hair.

>>7230707
What kind of free shit

>>7230700
Yes I'm sure being gifted 10 dollar dresses from target and jewelry from the dollar store is such a marvelous privilege

>>7230713
I get free drinks and gifts from anime cons and taken out to dinner all the time. The worst part is all the guys are so beta because I let all of them know I both have a fiance and am not interested in them in the least, they just give me stuff though. And it's not like I'm not clear about it, I introduce them to my fiance and tell them straight to their faces they won't get anywhere. I also try to introduce them to my single friends who tend to be kind of frumpy so it doesn't work too well.

>>7230720
I also forgot to mention that my fiance thinks it's funny since we have a really strong relationship.

>>7230721
Why do you let them buy you stuff, seems skeezy.

>>7230724
This. It's still being whoreish in a way. You have a fiance and still crave attention and gifts from lesser, more desperate men. You could always turn down their offers.

3DPD, not even once.

>>7230725
Guys do the same shit.
95% of shit guys say to girls is just to get inside their pants. Like, I'll literally say so much shit I'll regret later just to get some.

>>7230724
>>7230725
Most of the time they just do it anyways without me asking. And a lot of the time if I turn it down they do it anyways. I've walked out of hotel rooms with a bunch of stuff infront of the door that I was being given the day before.

>>7230699
> cries because short
H-Have fun with burando being too short on you

>>7230732
classic for days. need some toast for your jelly, sis? or maybe i can bottle your tears bby

>>7230736
A-At least I can be kawaii, unlike those baka gajin.

>>7230738
there there, babby. let me pick you up and embrace you, we can be kawaii together.

>>7230672

Are you talking about actually exchanging sexual favors for cloths?

>>7230569
I have a femdom fetish, so I like it, but it can be hard to find threads that aren't mtf futa inflation tentacles.

>>7230687
>>7230700
All of these girls need plastic surgery.

>>7230731
Sure you due white whale

Honestly I think a lot of it is psychological and comes down to the parenting.

For as far as I can remember, even to the age of 4, I remember my Dad taking me out and choosing victorian styled ruffled dresses, tartan pinafores, cardigans tying my hair in pigtails, bows, headbands and just about everything cute, he would shower me with praise and tell me it looked best on me. Eventually I felt awkward and boyish if I so much as tied my hair back, I refused to wear jeans or anything that wasn't feminine enough, always felt like I had to overcompensate for my lack of grace, clumsy nature and androgynous face by covering myself in dresses and bows.

Years later when my parents divorced and my dad made new children to live with, I felt that continuing to wear dresses and bows would help me relive the years when he would tell me he loved me and call me his princess. He has a new 6 year old princess now... And I don't think I'll ever be noticed by him or have times like that again, so I can only wear the dresses by myself to remind me of the unbroken family I used to have. Call it daddy issues if you want, but to me it's just reminding myself of a simpler time, a time when wearing that stuff made me feel happy and cared for

>>7230827
you're into age play and adult baby stuff too huh?

poor girl ;_; one day you'll find some creepy abusive guy to relive those days albiet with more creepy overtones and self-hate.

>>7230827
I think a lot of it is a lot of different things, but almost everything is psychological in some way.

Many people do things for different reasons.I'm a gothic loli(I also wear EGA) and I personally wear it because it tends to make people back off. Plus it's a mature look and much of it is inspired by mourning clothing, which I really like. I tend to wear it as a kind of shell and to reflect my hidden pain from an invisible disability.

>>7230841
1/10 try harder.

I wear gothic and bittersweet, not into ageplay. Moved away from my family and made a new life for myself with my boyfriend. It's simply nice to remember praise from a parent sometimes.

>>7230802
RELAX

>>7230690
That gif always gets me.

>>7230731
Sure thing buddy.

>>7230848
>bittersweet

It's still not a thing. Years later, still not a thing, stop trying to force it.

>>7229839
Do you just not know how buttoning work on modern suits?

>>7230865

>>7230708
Um, no. Most of tumblr is with the "feminine != anti-feminist" movement and anti slut shaming.

>>7231074
Yeah, I think it's just women in general that are jealous of any woman more feminine, skinnier, younger looking, or more popular than themselves.

You can't deny that there is backlash on lolitas that are viewed as trying to be too cute or sweet. Terms like ageplay getting tossed around and whatnot.

>>7228824
>this much autism in one post

>>7231119
>I think it's just women in general that are jealous of any woman more feminine, skinnier, younger looking, or more popular than themselves.

I think it's funny how you assume people are all jealous of the same things, and all have the same self-hating aspirations in life.


Tbh, I get a kick out of how lolitas tend to persecute themselves like this when in reality nobody gives a shit.

Also-What exactly was the point of this entire thread? It's been nothing but a circlejerk about six different series of bullshit. Do you all just like hearing yourselves argue or what? Christ.

>>7231125
>>this much autism in one post

>>7230396
I know this feel anon

I just want to be kawaii like my chinese cartoons