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With Halloween, there are tons of itas around
"teehee, dressed as a lolita for halloween this year!"

here's some rules because people apparently forget what ita is:

>no posting someone because they are fat/ugly
>no posting someone because their coord isn't accessorized well enough (aka boring coords)
>if the coord doesn't make you go "oh holy hell what is THAT" upon first glance, you probably shouldn't be posting it.

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>> No.7171283

>>7170847
Is.. is that a juggalette in lolita?

>> No.7171633

>>7171283
she said it she was a "clown loli"

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Dump.

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>> No.7171716

>>7171712
>>7171708
Well, that is pretty scary.

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>>7171712

>> No.7171719

>>7171716

it really is disgusting

>> No.7171721

>>7171717
What the shit is on her knees

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>>7171717

>> No.7171726

>>7171717
That smug old guy in the back...lol

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>>7171735

>> No.7171744

>>7171738
That coordinate could actually be a lot worse. I mean, they need a lot of makeup to hide the obvious, bu-

>gothic lolita wigs

10/10 would feed to lion.

These threads give me some confidence, because I know now how to avoid creating such a disaster, and that I have the capability to create something better.

>> No.7171746

>>7171735
oh dear god that poor skirt

>> No.7171748

>>7171744
>That coordinate could actually be a lot worse

You're kidding, right?

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>>7171738

>> No.7171750

>>7171748
Yes. I was saying that being a model for GLW is probably worse than bad taste.

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>> No.7171756

>>7171750
What is it that you get for being a model for them? Was it a free wig or just a discount?

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>> No.7171764

>>7171735
HOW CAN YOU HAVE MOITIE AND STILL BE A WALKING

FUCK

>> No.7171771

>>7171756
You get $10 store credit per submission. Ten bucks off isn't too bad. Although I'm sure their regular 'muses' get more perks than that after awhile.
I guess if there's a lot of wigs you want from them it's worth it, and you'd never have to feel bad about being the worst lolita because there have been some horrible ita coords posted.

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>>7171757

>> No.7171775

>>7171735
Oh manasan, you just keep em coming, don't you.

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>> No.7171813

>With Halloween, there are tons of itas around
That was my costume for our Halloween meet this year. I'll laugh my ass off if I end up in one of these threads when the photos show up.

>> No.7171817

>>7171809
Is that a petticoat around her shoulders...?

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>> No.7171869

>>7171773
This redefines a head-eating bow.

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a classic

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>> No.7171991

>>7171899
please anon-chan, make it stop, it burns my loli eyes

>> No.7171998

>>7171809
Is it bad that I like this? The petti-poncho looks cute but then again I love ponchos and get shit for it. She just looks so happy too

>> No.7172003

>>7171708
>>7171712
>this
>lolita

It's a costume. By no means is it a good one, but I always laugh at the poster every time this shows up here because just because it has lace on it doesn't mean it's supposed to be lolita.

>> No.7172004

>>7170847
>>if the coord doesn't make you go "oh holy hell what is THAT" upon first glance, you probably shouldn't be posting it.


Isn't that subjective though?

>> No.7172007

>>7172003
She's said it was lolita herself multiple times, she even has started dressing a bit better.

It's milanoo shit, she thought it was lolita.

>> No.7172006

>>7171809
I don't know why, but I really like this...

>> No.7172009

>>7171813
preemptive backpedaling/10

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>> No.7172023

>>7171738
honestly, besides the stupid bow i kind of like the color scheme for the OP, with the alternating pink and blue ruffles.

>> No.7172030

>>7172021
>that girl 2nd from the last
poor thing looks like she wishes she hadn't come.

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>> No.7172040

>>7172035
Aside from the bow and the mantle how is this ita?

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>>7171717
isnt that a decora wannabe?

>> No.7172060

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>> No.7172070

>>7171751
if you take off the wig and head.. this coord doesnt seem that terrible.. maybe take off the fishnets too

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>> No.7172073

>>7172060
Lol how are there spambots on 4chan again? What'd they do, buy a fucking pass? That's dedication.

>> No.7172096

>>7172069
This looks fine to me, but what is wrong with her calves/feet...?

>> No.7172098

>>7171864
I love the look on the face of the girl in pink.

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>> No.7172120

>>7171878
Dear God.

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"Steampunk Lolita Cheshire Cat"

>> No.7172148

>>7172069
this isn't ita.
you failed.

>> No.7172154

>>7172115
This isn't ita. She's not wearing a blouse, but from the style of mirror pic, I think she just wanted to show off her jsk. You can't see her hair or shoes either, so you can't judge the outfit as a whole. Either you're tryign too hard, or this is vendetta.

>> No.7172164

>>7172115
I know its supposed to be some kind of bone print, but man it looks like penises at first glance

>> No.7172170

>>7172096

She's short and having her picture taken by someone taller.

The same thing happens to me.

>> No.7172177

>>7171836
>>7171849
What's wrong with these two? They look pretty damn cute. Damn, some of you guys seem so annoyingly bitchy.

>> No.7172179

>>7172128
In this girl's defense she's also a LARPer and her other coords look better. Not the best but I wouldn't call her ita.

>> No.7172183

>7171728

Now *that* is a lacemonster. It'll hide under your bed and come out to rub scratchy nylon raschel on you while you sleep.

>> No.7172184

>>7171735
>>7171764
Classic example of how one can be covered head to toe in brand and still be ita.

>> No.7172186

>>7172177
The girls wearing the clothes are cute, but their coords are ita.

>both dresses look Milanoo tier
>all that gross lace
>first one's shoes look like long Converse with lace attached
>second one no petti
>cat ears
>dress looks like a slutty maid costume
>those furry things on her legs?

Fat/ugly girls don't automatically make a coord ita, and alternately being thin/cute doesn't make an ita coord look any less ita.

>> No.7172188

>>7172179
Her other coords do not look better. She is definitely ita.

>> No.7172191

>>7172177
are you blind or one or the girls pictured

>> No.7172194

>>7172191
>>7172186
Damn you chicks are picky as hell. I think if someone outside of the lolita community sees no problems with it, then you guys should just get over it.

>> No.7172199

>>7172194
>I think if someone who is completely unfamiliar with something and wouldn't know the difference between quality and shit if it bit them on the nose sees no problems with it, then you guys should just get over it.
Yeah, makes perfect sense. Maybe you should keep your genius ~*opinions*~ to yourself?

>> No.7172202

>>7172199
OR, or, you could stop being a bitch and make some friends.
Maybe they'll teach you some better come-backs, too.

>> No.7172206

>>7172202
>implying implications
It wasn't a come-back. There is nothing to come back from. You said something stupid, and I pointed out how stupid it was. I'm not even
A. any of the anons you were quoting or
B. the OP of the pictures in question
I have plenty of friends, many of them lolitas as well, and we'd all have a good private laugh if we happened upon either of those classic disasters. Why don't you run along now and go work on your homestuck cosplay or whatever it is you do?

>> No.7172208

>>7172206
Maybe instead of laughing at them, you should actually try to help them? Oh wait, that goes against your bitch-code, doesn't it? Sorry, I'll just get back to you know, having a life.

>> No.7172210

>>7172208
Lol I don't know those girls personally and even if I did, that type is usually resistant to any sort of constructive criticism because they're so used to their tumblr hugbox. Kind of like you!

>> No.7172212

>>7172208
>W-WELL AT LEAST I HAVE A LIFE
they say, as they spend time posting on a thread they have no real reason to be in on a Friday night.

K

>> No.7172225

>>7172186

Something tells me you're a jealous fatty-chan. They're not ita, ita means its a flat out fail and difficult to look at from how bad the coord is. These are simply bland coords. Get off your high horse.

>> No.7172229

>>7172225

0/10

>> No.7172241

>>7172179
>Thinking that Hildekitten's coords ever look good.
Nope.

>> No.7172243

>>7172194
Someone outside the lolita community doesn't know shit about lolita so why would we give two shits about their opinion?

>> No.7172256

>>7172225
ita detected

>> No.7172258

>>7171773
At first I thought the red was crushed velvet, so my impression of the outfit actually improved after looking at it for a second.

>> No.7172296

>>7172241
Maybe I just like weird girls.

>> No.7172302

>>7172296
maybe your fetish is a lack of fashion sense

>> No.7172303

>>7172302
It's still better than sweet lolita.

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>>7172303
u wanna fight mate

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>>7172308
well played, anon

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stop shitposting

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>>7172315
then post some ita stuff instead of bitching and shitposting, yourself.

>> No.7172327

>>7170847
If it wasn't trying to be lolita, i'd think it'd be pretty cute... Then again I have a thing for cute clown girls so I supposed i'm biased.

>> No.7172328

>>7171721
Garters I think.

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>>7172322

>> No.7172360

>>7172331
Mr. Yan?

>> No.7172398

>>7171717
> Poorly altered Simplicity 3673

Girl doesn't know how to slash and spread.

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Just...so many things...I can't even

>> No.7172441

>>7172115
I don't see 'ita' here, I see 'not even dressed.' I think this one was just trying to take a picture of her new JSK.

>> No.7172443

>>7172128
oh hildekitten... you really have to be something special to show up in virutally every single ita thread, don't you?

>> No.7172444

>>7172194
That's like asking an antiques dealer to appraise a badly damaged piece, and then getting butthurt at their evaluation and countering with "Well, my nobody neighbor Joe Shmo thought it was worth more than that!!!"
TL;DR - if you don't know what you're talking about, then you have no basis to make judgements

>> No.7172471

>>7172154
>>7172164
>>7172441
The dress itself is ita as fuck.

>> No.7172474

>>7172443
Even worse than classic pics like >>7171878
she ends up in every thread, with a different outfit, usually a new one. I wish DL wasn't such an asspat-fest. I would ban her in an instant, this shit isn't fucking lolita.

>> No.7172480

>>7171998
I...I like it too anon-chan

>> No.7172484

>>7172040
Idk maybe the horrible shade and quality of the dress, maybe the fact that her whites don't match maybe because if you take away everything horrible she would be standing there naked

>> No.7172487

>>7172179
Do you have eyes

>> No.7172489

>>7172212
exactly what I was thinking, she must be one of the girls posted, nobody else would be this dedicated

>> No.7172492

>>7172296
maybe you're one of her creepy steampunk friends, she doesn't have any friends in the lolita community because she's such a stuck-up, special snowflake, judgemental arrogant BITCH

>> No.7172504

>>7172128
How does she manage to look this shitty when it's possible to do a steam-punk inspired Lolita style well?

>> No.7172505

>>7172069
Mom?

>> No.7172507

>>7172474
Ugh all of this.

I don't get all these people who post in a community and don't want criticism, either. (Isn't that why everyone jumped down PT's throat, because she said something similar when she posted her shit-tastic art?) Whenever I see that kind of attitude I think to myself "Enjoy being mediocre, I guess." Honestly, if daily_lolita were a place where you could expect good critique, it would help so many of us.

Although they have a reputation for having a shitty online community and a bitchy attitude, the gal comm seems pretty good at giving concrit. They're really thorough and eager to suggest options. I wish the lolita community could adopt some of that, but without all the bullshit.

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>> No.7172533

>>7172507
I'm starting to want to switch to gal. I'm starting to dislike the type of crowd lolita has been attracting recently, the SJW daddy issue tumblrites who don't understand fashion or rules or even the idea that the world isn't a hugbox and that people grow from criticism.
So many poorly dressed people use the excuse that "it's a fashion don't tell me how to dress!"or "this is my take on it" well to me it seems like they hate the fashion if they try to change it so much, atleast call it something else. Honestly I think the main problem with it is how lolita is portrayed, it's not all inclusive and it's definitely brand driven. Despite what some people say, brands do dictate the evolution of the fashion, colored wigs became popular because of AP, same with salopettes and miniskirts(I still don't find those lolita but many do) AatP made more costumish themed outfits acceptable. People obviously have their own additions that brands won't, like antlers(but I hate those) but either way, I feel that lolita was toted as being too user friendly to the wrong crowd who think that it's a free for all with no cohesion or distinguishing feature, let alone guidelines.

Although gyaru is more niche, with much higher standards of presentation as far as looks and style goes I think it's a much more grounded comm, even with the bitchiness. All in all, tumblr is really destroying a lot of good things with the "fresh out of gender issues" mentality many people hold, and the same logic and hugbox mentality is seeping into daily life.

Sorry for writing a book by the way, I just hate people mucking up my fashion.

>> No.7172535

>>7172533
I would buy 3 of your book if I could, anon. I feel the exact same way.

>> No.7172544

>>7172474
A girl once suggested that Hilde could add a ruffle to the hem of her skirt to make the outfit more Lolita, since she wasn't really feeling it. Hilde didn't even respond to that comment. Some people just don't want to learn.

>> No.7172560

I don't know where these people get the confidence to call every piece of shit they could throw together "lolita", and take pictures and post online no less. I have 10 main pieces, 5-6 good outfits (not inspiring or anything, basic but good) and still don't feel up to par to posting myself online.

>> No.7172563

>>7172533
Can we form some kind of alt fashion site with a magical filter against wishy-washy faux gender issues and lazy pseudo-activism? I miss the good old days when most people didn't try to twist their identities into pretzels and it was enough just to be a bi pagan.

>> No.7172575

>>7172560
>and still don't feel up to par to posting myself online.
I know this feel, sis.

I always put my hair up really nicely too but I still feel like I'm too meh to take a picture.

>> No.7172583

>>7171777
i'm impressed by the level this girl had to go to in order to bring us this "coord" (i use the term loosely). I mean it looks like she had some superman/flower print custom made...?

>> No.7172585

>>7172021
my favorite part is strawberry dress girl lookin at her like "hat the fresh hell..."

>> No.7172589

>>7172563
>bi pagan
Uh, excuse me, bi wiccan was where it was at.

I totally agree though. I've seen people on here suggest that a lot, but no one ever does anything since it would be a bitch and a half to deal with, pruning trolls is one thing, but whiny bitches too, fuck that noise.

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>>7172360
10/10 My sides

>> No.7172599

>>7171878
I kinda feel bad about about this one, it's been over 3 years now, surely she'll have improved.

>> No.7172613

>>7172544
That was me, I was really annoyed at all the other responses being from girls who were fawning over her magnificent creations. I guess she really doesn't want to grow up...

>> No.7172635

>>7172533
I certainly and whole heartedly agree.

Lolita definitely caters to a certain type of person more than it does others. However, I'm also one of those optimists that believes it's not impossible for people who don't fit that narrow mold to look good. It just takes more work for them because they have to look harder to find flattering pieces.

Unfortunately, as we've discussed, criticism is either dis-regarded--our spats-loving friend featured in this thread is famous for this--or discouraged. A combination of that hugbox mentality and the aforementioned trend towards wanting to make experimental outfits that are 'unique' and 'interesting' (often at the cost of looking good) only makes this worse.

Like you said, it's in part because they disregard fashion and guidelines. In fact, I think some of them don't look at it like it's a fashion at all and instead more of a collector's hobby. (Possibly because of how popular prints have become?) It seems like a lot of them would rather spend their money on a sought-after item that looks terrible on them than something that's plainer, less popular or off-brand, but would look better. I also like the idea of offering hints and criticism to make Lolita work for a wider range of people, but even that is taboo to some degree because it involves making remarks on someone's personal appearance.

That being said, I think part of the reason that the LJ gal comms is dying off is because of the community's attitude and reputation--excessive bitchiness/exclusivity can hurt the quality and standards of a fashion comm, too. A lot of people in the gal threads have had some good discussions about it. I think a happy medium between the two would be best: a focus on thorough criticism and higher presentation standards with a healthy amount of bitchiness on the side.

>> No.7172730

>>7171738
He's super sweet in real life, but DEAR LORD THAT DRESS IS GOD AWFUL.

>> No.7172744

>>7172730
WHY DIDN'T SOMEBODY STOP HIM!

>> No.7172752

>>7171777
Hideous!

>> No.7172754

>>7172730
>>7172730
I hate it when bad outfits happen to good people. He has potential, too. :c

>> No.7172859

>>7172504

Because it isn't possible to do steampunk lolita well at all.

>> No.7172899

>>7172518
Where'd you find this pic? This looks a lot like a girl I used to go to school with.

>> No.7172905

>>7172899
iirc that's czol from livejournal

>> No.7172984

>>7172613
Aha! Now I know which one of our comm is also on here.Fancy seeing you here!

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>> No.7173010

>>7171878
who is this anyways?

>> No.7173017

>>7171735
How can you be decked out in brand and still look disgusting?

>> No.7173055

>>7172984
Damn, I blew my anon-cover

>> No.7173062

>>7173055
though I hardly doubt we're the only one

>> No.7173101

>>7172004
Yes it is subjective. I'm guessing the OP has been posting in one of these threads recently and they're hoping they won't get reposted.

>> No.7173107

>>7172113
Not ita, just casual/boring coords.

Except for that girl in the hat, that ain't lolita.

>> No.7173120

>>7172471
I feel like this bone dress gets posted every thread and every time there's people in here defending it for some reason.

I don't care if she's just showing her new dress off, that dress is AWFUL. Bone dress whiteknights pls go.

>> No.7173126

>>7172474
I always thought it'd be great to have a place where you have to post your coords in order to join, and the existing members vote on your coords. Itas don't get in and then there's a place for people with at least a decent fashion sense to hang out and post good coords.

>> No.7173160

>>7173126
The butthurt something like that would cause would be amazing.

>> No.7173164

>>7173126
But isn't there a website for that already? I don't remember the name of it but you have to get a code to join from someone who is already a member and I think you have to send pictures of your cords in order to be approved to join. The creator made it originally for her friends on Facebook to have their own place to go but it kind of blew up and everyone wanted in on it. Can someone help me with that name?

>> No.7173170

>>7173120
I feel like it's a cute concept poorly executed.

>> No.7173172

>>7173164
Lacebook

>> No.7173192

>>7173101
No, OP is referring to people who post coords that aren't ita and when asked to explain how they're ita they say "That purse doesn't match" or "I don't like the shade of pink on her socks." That isn't ita. Ita is painful to look at.

>> No.7173195

>>7173192
Disregard this I misread >>7173101

>> No.7173579

http://daily-lolita.livejournal.com/5761761.html

what the fuck is this?

>> No.7173581

>>7173579
the infamous thousand dollar ita

>> No.7173583

>>7171777
danganronpa.jpg

>> No.7173590

>>7173192
thats exactly what I mean.
I want a true ita thread not
>"welll.. her socks dont match.. "
>"I dunno about her wristcuffs guys"
>"b-but she's uggo"
I want lolitastuck, milanoomonsters, girls without pettis, clashing colors, that stuff.

>> No.7173598

>>7171864
the girl in pink doesn't look very ita. the purse doesn't match and she could do without the stuffed animals, but compared to her friends there she's not ita at all.

>> No.7173601

>>7172322
Apologies for a dumb question, but how is this Ita? I'm just seeing a poor choice of shoes.

>> No.7173625

>>7173601
poorly-made outfit, awful lace, bad colour scheme, ugly wig, terrible photoshop, bad shoes (as you mentioned).

>> No.7173629

>>7172296
Maybe? Thing is that her outfits have the distinct tendency to make her look homeless... Perhaps you like people that look like hobos?

>> No.7173633

>>7172635
>>7172533
>>7172535
Completely and totally love the way that all three of you ladies phrased this.
The only good news about tumblrite ita crap is that most, besides people like hildekitten, of the noobs who join the fashion in that way leave pretty fast: They do it for attention so to keep getting attention for dressing funny they have to keep changing the way they dress. Lolita is just one of the fashions that they will inevitably fuck up before moving on into/ from goth, steampunk; fairy kei, *Insert weird clothing choice here*, ect. Lolita needs people with attention to detail, perfectionists, who have a genuine love and passion for the fashion that makes it worth more than just tumblr notes to them. In the days of instant gratification however it seems like buying a cheap crappy replica and posting a half assed coord + some sjw crap on tumblr is enough for a lot of people.

>> No.7173634

>>7173120
Still looks like cocks to me. Normally id be all over this sort of thing but it really does look like cocks.

>> No.7174127

>>7173160
Meh, people can go ahead and be butt hurt about it. Being butt hurt would just mean that that person dresses bad and is unwilling to take criticism or improve themselves, and everyone hates that type of person anyway.

I figure membership would always be open to anyone so long as existing members rate your coords well enough, and you could try joining as often as you'd like with new coords so if you are making progress you can eventually get in. It wouldn't be like some exclusive clique runs the whole thing since it'd be up to a community wide vote.

>>7173164
>>7173172
No Lacebook isn't like that. That place is set up to keep the general public out, not itas. You do need to get an invite from an existing member to join but that's it. Anybody who's already a member there can invite shitty itas in.

>> No.7174139

Just stopping by to say if anyone can direct me to the place to host it LJ, tumblr or otherwise, I will make a group and start taking applications.


It will be by application only, one photo of yourself in a coord you are proud of and a short intro about yourself would be required, as well as a few questions to be answered.


I am all for doing something like this.

>> No.7174142

>>7172533
I think with Gal, the makeup, hairstyles, nails, and brands are much more obvious. A lot of the worst itas look shitty because it seems they never learned any self care basics, and they're so damned clueless I bet most couldn't tell the difference IRL between people in natural looking makeup and barefaced. Probably never even tried to style their own hair, either.

>> No.7174197

>>7172179
>Not the best but I wouldn't call her ita.

...Is that because "ita" isn't a strong enough word?

>> No.7174231

>>7171708

>dat body
>dat cat
>dat parallel

>> No.7174253

>>7173579
>no critics please
Ugh

>> No.7174262

>>7172585
I KNOW and the best thing is, unless my eyes lie, that's a strawberry Wa-Loli dress.

You know you're doin' poorly when a Wa-Loli gives you the raised eyebrow.

>> No.7174337

>>7174139
It's probably a good idea to require 3 or 4 coords rather than just one. You want a general idea of the way someone dresses, not that one outfit their friend helped them coord and stands out as their only really good outfit.

An introduction is irrelevant.

>> No.7174341

>>7174139
>>7174337
Also, there isn't really a good preexisting site out there to host this idea. Someone would need to build a site from the ground up to stream line it and make people actually want to migrate to it.

>> No.7174401

>>7174253
i want to make her cry with a harsh and unforgiving list of head-to-toe makeup and coordinating tips

>> No.7174424

>>7173625
You didn't even mention that hideous "lace" on the edges.

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>>7174142
Yep. Honestly the mixing of gal with lolita was probably one of the greatest things to ever happen to lolita. There are less chubby frumpy looking girls and more head to toe well groomed and styled girls than there used to be.

Granted, the chubby frumpy girls still make up a very large portion of lolita, but at least there are now a good amount of girls out there that do really nice makeup, style their hair, stay in shape to fit the dresses, etc.

>> No.7174533

>>7171773
This could be cute if it wasn't for that dumb as shit looking bow and velvet shit she's trying to pull off.

>> No.7174581

>>7174424
>>7173625

>awful lace

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>> No.7174625

>>7174596
haha omg i hate all her coords and that one pose she does

>> No.7174669
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>> No.7174686

>>7174669
So, there is such a thing as too much poof and I believe this is how it looks like.

>> No.7174692

>>7174669
how does anyone look in a mirror, see that, and say, "yes, this looks good, so good I need to take pictures and upload them to tumblr"

>> No.7174693

>>7174596
>>7174669
What is up with that hair? Is it a wig? It looks awful.
It really is tiring to see her pictures which all look the same and have the same pattern. A skirt/dress that has the silhouette + regular clothes, Same face, same pose.

>> No.7174695

>>7174596
>>7174669
Is this her own hair? She needs to stop using those shoes. She has a pretty cute face, though.

>7174686
Looks like the skirt isn't full enough for her petti.

>> No.7175016
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fucking ruining this dress. ugh.

>> No.7175020

>>7175016
So fat she's not wearing a petticoat, natural, built in poof....

>> No.7175021

>>7175016
ok seriously, the chick who was saying her friend is 5'5 and this dress is a 'shirt' on her and doesn't cover her ass must be talking about a fucking whale of a girl. I get this chick is wearing an underskirt, but still, she appears average height and even being fat, this dress isn't a 'shirt' on her

>> No.7175025

>>7175021
yeah thats bullshit, it's not *that* short. too bad the underskirt/blouse/entire coord looks like shit, though.

>> No.7175044
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I believe thats with an Atelier Pierrot designer/model.

>> No.7175047

32"waist chan is on /fa/
>>7175016
I would help if she was wearing a wig and not wearing knee socks.

>> No.7175072

>>7175047
... Those are the OTKs for the print

>> No.7175096

>>7175072
Just because they're part of the set, doesn't mean they look good on someone with big legs
>OTKS
what...poor socks

>> No.7175098

>>7175016
are her socks just torn from trying to pull over her mass of blubber or is that the print? it looks like she's got two pairs and the top layer's just given way to her chub.

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>>7174686

you ain't seen nothing yet

>> No.7175382

>>7172177
Guuuuuuuurl.

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>>7174606
She has the exact face type that shouldn't wear those shitty "ironic" 80s frames. Normal eyeslasses shops barely carry etsy/tumblr garbage like that anymore, so she had to go out of her way to look that bad.

>> No.7175471

>>7172170

Does anyone have tips on how to post to fix this?

>> No.7175715

>>7175471
Have them take a lower angle. I usually do that when I'm taller than someone and taking a picture. Hold the camera down lower, make sure you get the legs and top of the head (headbow) in with a little room, and take it. Instead of holding the camera right up to your face. Pretty simple.

>> No.7175727

>>7174596
>>7174669
She's adorable, but yeah her coords need some work. There's a new breed of Lolita that I like to call tumblr-lita and I think this personifies the worst of it pretty well.

She has the perfect face for those classic-sweet or toned-down sweet hybrid styles, though.

>> No.7175795

>>7174669
what is it with her and that fucking ugly top

>> No.7175804

>>7175727
you have been tricked, she has the face of a bridge troll

>> No.7175816

>>7175020
don't worry shippou, we look forward to posting your pictures in brolita. don't forget to shave your neckbeard.

>> No.7175871

>>7175021
I'm that girl and I was referring to the OP. I'm not fat at all and neither is my friend. Have you seen the OP worn other than in AP's stock photos? I won't post my friend's picture here but it's definitely too short to be worn as lolita.

>> No.7175879

>>7175871
I'd also like to add that another friend of mine just got the JSK and she's 5'7"? maybe even 5'9", not sure (internet buddy) and it is the proper lolita length on her. The OP is seriously a $300+ shirtdress though.

>> No.7176040
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7176040

guuuuuurl

>> No.7176053

>>7174596
Forget the coord, that hair is making me cry. It looks fried as hell.

>> No.7176054

all the asskissing in her post was just embarrassing
"such a kawaii brolita!!"

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7176155

"hi
my outfits mana sama gothic lolita bible"

"please look
no critics please"

>> No.7176354
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>>7176054
dropped my fucking pic for ten years

>> No.7176361
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7176361

I keep seeing this guy in the brolita tag and for the most part he seemed to be doing alright, but then this happened

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>>7176361
good god why

pic related's face scares the shit out of me

>> No.7176375

>>7175264

I think her dress is pregnant with another dress

>> No.7176378

People like these calling their outfits "lolita" is why I never looked further into the fashion until the real thing came to my attention recently.

>> No.7176377

>>7175264
Now thanks to you, I have seen it...
Have mercy.

>> No.7176382

>>7176040
she actually has some nice legs

>> No.7176410

>>7176059

Is that person... pregnant? Their body shape seems just bizarre.

>> No.7176412

>>7176135

She looks so happy that I want to give her a pass.

>> No.7176707

test test test

>> No.7176856

Anybody else see this?
http://technotropism.tumblr.com/post/32256003310/i-got-posted-to-cgl-again-come-on-guys-i-cant

>> No.7176863

>>7176856

Yeah, a year ago, slowpoke.

>> No.7176966

>>7172533
>wanting to switch fashions because of other people who wear it

I agree about the Tumblr SJW hugbox dipshits but god anon just wear what you want for aesthetic reasons.

>> No.7176967

>>7174692
because on Tumblr, "attractive" either means "unattractive as fuck" (see: mollysoda) or "doesn't even look human" (see: shmegeh).

>> No.7176971

>>7176967
Tumblr seriously has the worst standards when it comes to attractiveness. It's that whole "trying to be inclusive" mentality they promote so hard, which leads to them forcing themselves to believe that someone that is flat out ass ugly is ~alternatively attractively.

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>> No.7177494

>>7175098
Those are the AP Drink Me OTK's...

>> No.7177498

>>7177477
i wouldn't call this one ita, just very very plain.

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>> No.7177519

>>7176367
Good god, wash that hair and get some bangs, Fivehead.
>>7176971
Ironically, they're just making people more miserable in the long term by keeping them in denial of their own limitations. Not everybody was meant to be a model, an artist, a writer, a musician, etc. and there's nothing wrong with that. But living in denial, you make a fool of yourself, pass over real chances for a better life, and deep down you know it's all a lie.

>> No.7177596

>>7173579
I laughed for eternities. The makeup, the attitude and the fact that she's drenched in MMM. The advice people are giving her is funny as fuck, too. Someone suggested she try blue lipstick. My sides.

>> No.7177612

>>7177596
At least one person called her out.

>"best example for how slapping on a bunch of burando doesn't make you a lolita..."

>> No.7177619

>>7177519
The critic from Ratatouille said it best - "He didn't mean 'anyone can be great' but that 'greatness can come from anywhere'" tumblr seems to forget this.

>> No.7177625

>>7177612
I don't know, I'm the one that posted the link and even I think that was pretty mean, it wasn't constructive in the least and was obviously meant to just hurt her feelings...

>> No.7177630

>>7177477
Eh, I would call it ita because that the shirt is just a scoop neck, the shoes don't go at all, and the white tights and cream purse don't match. She also didn't do her hair and this is just an overall bad outfit.

>> No.7177648

all these beat rachet hoes, how do they get dick

>> No.7177680

I have a sad ita story.

>be at con with my friend who's wearing lolita
>GORGEOUS girl comes up to us wearing a really cute outfit, she's just looking 100% flawless and cute
>starts talking with us, says her outfit is lolita too
>her outfit: VERY short skirt, raschel lace, stilettos, head eating bow, twin tail wig
>uncomfortable

I felt really conflicted because she looked really good, but her outfit was definitely not lolita, but I can see how it was an attempt.... I would feel awful to call her ita though, her makeup/wig/everything was that flawless, great figure too ;_;

>> No.7177690

>>7177619
as a former trip, I must tell you. stop tripping. people will pull up drama out of their asses about you. if you defend yourself or complain about anything people will see you as a shitposter. if you compliment another trip, or they compliment you, you will be accussed of circlejerking. Even posting in this ita thread makes you look bad. regardless of the type of person you are, the fact that there is a name and a jumble of letters in the place of " anonymous" will make people assume that you think you are better than everyone else, and that every post is just a desperate cry for attention. If you are anything other than a perfect human being, your trip will be hated. YOU will be hated. even without trip, people will remember you.

>sincerely, a former trip who desperatly wants to go back being a nobody.

>> No.7177694

>>7177690
Hi Nia.

>> No.7177755

>>7171735
I don't care if it is brand. Mana's an excellent clothing designer but the material used in his stuff is shit and doesn't look good on anybody.

>I'll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!

>> No.7177756

>>7177694
hey Vanilla Lace, what do you think of Shippou?

>> No.7177764

>>7177694
don't you dare derail my thread, tripwhore.

I'd take that anon's advice, because I dislike you allready.

>>>/out/

>> No.7177769

>>7177756
I have no opinion of him at all.

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>>7172444
>>7172243
>>7172199

Actually what he's saying makes sense. "Good" lolitas within the community who have immersed themselves so deeply therein seem to care more about whether or not a person is following the "correct" procedure in coordinating their outfit than if they actually look good in it or not. It comes down to having the correct pieces in the correct places, and if you don't then you've failed no matter how good you might look objectively. If you do not wear the uniform as instructed, you're ita.

Enter unbiased third party. A person from outside the lolita community who has not been immersed into all of those rules and instead values the outfits purely on aesthetics. It could be argued that their opinion matters much more than that of the swarm of ruffled harpies within the lolita community for that reason alone. They don't care if you "did it right," because the person who supposedly sucks might look much better than the proper lolita and they recognize that.

It's like how little kids speak very honest truths because that's what they see. If a little kid calls you fat, you're fat. If a kid says you're pretty, you're pretty. If a normalfag thinks an unconventional lolita without a petticoat looks better than a proper lolita, it's because she does.


And of course, that makes lolitas furious.

>> No.7177799

>>7177777
solid get m8

>> No.7177800

>>7177519
>>>7176367
>Good god, wash that hair and get some bangs, Fivehead.

Actually, I don't think bangs are the solution. If you know how to style your hair you can very well look good without bangs. She just needs to learn how to care and do her hair properly.

>> No.7177806

>>7176361
milanoo-kun...

>> No.7177810

>>7177477
>>7177630

And her skirt is literally right at her boobs, which doesn't look good at ALL

>> No.7177816

>>7171773
that's...really not apparel fabric, that flowery shit is clearly meant for a tablecloth or something. ugh i hate when people use non-apparel fabric for lolita, it always looks like you made your mother's curtains into a dress.

>> No.7177820

>>7171777
shit like this baffles me. who the fuck comes up with this concept and thinks it's a good idea?? who looks at themselves wearing this in the mirror and thinks "yeah, this is a good look"?

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>>7177816

>> No.7177823

>>7171878
That fucking house. I hope she purposely drove out to an abandoned house for that picture and she doesn't actually live in that fucking dump.

>> No.7177828

>>7177820
It's kind of like the people who go on those talent shows and sing and suck ass but think they sound good because they're completely tone deaf.

>> No.7177829

>>7172021
the neon girl actually has kind of a tacky 90's clubwear charm that i don't find terrible but it's not lolita.

>> No.7177874

>>7177612
Good.
At least somebody had the balls to do it.
(I don't really post and I haven't met my comm yet, so..it wouldn't have been prudent to throw my rep right down the shitter before anyone knew me but god damn I wanted to. )

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7177886

why

>> No.7177914

>>7177886
oh. oh no. this is...not good. usually in most ita pictures there are at least 1 or 2 semi-redeeming qualities, but this is awful from head to toe.

>> No.7177917

>>7176155
is she just wearing a wig on top of her normal hair???? i don't understand. wat...

>> No.7177918

>>7176354
right has nice legs.

>> No.7177927

>>7176135
what is it with hugely obese women and sweet lolita? out of all the lolita styles, sweet is probably the worst one for really big girls. it's really, really unflattering to put all this poofy, light-colored shit onto a poofy, light-colored body.

if i were heavyset i would go for classic, preferably in dark tones, so at least you can look like some kind of sophisticated plump baroness like the kind you see in paintings. why are people so bad at using their natural physical features to their advantage?

>> No.7177929

>>7177917
?????????

>> No.7177933

>>7177929
like, what i mean is, her normal (long) hair is still down and showing. she didn't put it into a wig or even tie it up underneath. she's just wearing the wig like a hat on top of her hair.

>> No.7177935

>>7177933
*into a wig cap

excuse me

>> No.7177958

>>7177927
maybe they're hoping their round faces will go well with the style?

>> No.7177971

>>7177927
>>look like some kind of sophisticated plump baroness like the kind you see in paintings

Oh god I want this so bad. I wish there was an abundance of plump/heavy Lolitas who dressed like this, now. Super-elegant styles are my favorite and this would be just awesome to see. It could be OTT in its own way, if they're worried about missing that. It would be easier to accomplish than one might think, too. And probably much cheaper than dropping 400+ on the new AP set--especially when said set is going to be worth half that in less than a year when a new flavor-of-the-month is released.

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lel

>> No.7177981

>>7177777
No.

>> No.7177982

>>7177917
I think that it's not a wig, but clip-in claw curls on top of her regular hair. Almost as bad, but not quite.

>> No.7177986

>>7177982
the bangs just seem like they match the color of the pigtails, not the natural hair. either way, its not looking good for ol' mana-sama

>> No.7177989

>>7177986
I didn't notice that until you pointed it out. Hm. It's hard to tell with such a tiny photo, but it really doesn't look good, no.

>> No.7178053

>>7177755
It looks like a Walmart Halloween costume. Although to give the brand credit the top looks like she's squeezed into it as tight as she can.

>> No.7178091

>>7177777
> Assuming that the only people that check these threads and laugh at these trainwrecks are lolita.
Besides: it ain't just the lack of a petticoat that gets someone posted in an ita thread.

>> No.7178100

>>7177971
>much cheaper than dropping 400+ on the new AP set--especially when said set is going to be worth half that in less than a year when a new flavor-of-the-month is released.
Or if they are real fatty chans: Buying a badly made replica that doesn't fit right and looks even worse for it.

>> No.7178115

>>7178100
>badly made replica
implying there are well made replicas.

All of the replicas I've seen are shit, it just looks off. I don't even care if you're within brand measurements, replicas look like shit. I'd be so embarassed/pissed to drop the kind of money replica makers charge and get something that is not even bodyline quality.

>> No.7178116

>>7175020
shitpou plz go

>> No.7178227

>>7177823
the thing, I think I've been in that house.. I'm tryin g to find out who she is, because I swear I've been in a house just like that, you don't forget it.

>> No.7178233

>>7178115
This is true.

>> No.7178244

>>7175816
I don't have a neckbeard.

>>7178116
I dunno what your problem is but I'll let it slide.

>> No.7178258

>>7178115
Hear, hear. I wouldn't pay more than thirty quid for one of Oo Jia's dresses, how she gets away with charging $100 is beyond me.

But then I wouldn't pay three hundred for a new brand dress either, I'm a taobao addict. Gorgeous original designs for sixty quid, yeahhhh boi

>> No.7178311

>>7177977
oh lawd

>> No.7178478

>>7177927
Holy crap, my thoughts exactly. I think they could honestly rock classic and even aristocrat-madam-style if they put their hearts to it. But, who knows, they might all really like sweet loli...

>> No.7179618

>>7176361
>8
Bonbon-chan????

>> No.7179632

>>7178227
I have a friend that growing up lived in a house that looked pretty fucking similar to this. The place was a hell of a lot cleaner and less cluttered, but the floors/walls/etc, looked almost identical. it's sad, but some people really do live like this. My friend's parents had their mobile home repossessed (as pathetic as that is), and they had to throw some kind of shelter together, out of a collection of beat up single wides.

>> No.7179635

>>7178258
but sometimes you just need that new brand dress. I love taobao designs, and I'm quite enamoured with some of bodyline's shit too though, so I'm not all about that burando.

>> No.7179704

>>7179632
I feel really sorry for her if she lives there, one of the parents is probably alcoholic or something and let the house go to hell. And she doesn't even know that a hell house is abnormal and you shouldn't take pictures in it. Of course it could just be a kid out ghost hunting.

>> No.7179707

>>7177777
The point of these threads aren't to discuss if someones outfit is "ugly", but to discuss if it is "ugly with regards to lolita". The tag "lolita-inspired" or "lolita-ish" should have more entries than it does, so people who want to see real lolita fashion don't have to wade through the sea of ita.
Again, that antiquing analogy comes into play, though instead of a damaged piece it's more of a 5 year old earthenware piece trying to be passed of as Victorian bone china. Joe Schmo might think it's pretty, and so may the antique dealer. That doesn't mean the dealer can't kick him out of the store yelling "ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME!?".
Go ahead and display the teapot in your house. Don't do it at an antiquing jumble where people know their shit. They don't have the time nor care about tagging on "but yes, it is pretty" after they laugh their asses off.

>> No.7179715

>>7179704
that's generally what happens. My friend's parents were like on disability or something, and I don't think they ever really left the house. they had some kind of issues, but we never talked about it, since it was such an embarassment.

>> No.7179746

>>7177777
except in general lolita looks strange/retarded to pretty much everyone outside of it so your point is moot.

and anyway, it's is no different than any other alternative fashion. the quality of an outfit is judged based on the standards and guidelines that make up the style. and guess what? those were set by the people who participate in the subculture. because it makes no sense to suggest people outside of a subculture (who more than likely know next to nothing about what it's about) know best when judging an outfit on the terms of said subculture.

a 'normal' person might like someone's shitty interpretation of gothic fashion, but that doesn't mean it's a good outfit by the gothic community's standards. therefore, an outsider's opinion doesn't really matter because they are likely not very knowledgeable about the standards and guidelines that have been set by the community at large.

tl;dr: ita shit might look 'better' to non-lolita and while they're entitled to their opinion, theirs are not the same set of standards that the lolita community judges an outfit on. just because some outsider likes it doesn't mean anything. you can say it looks cuter than lolita, you can say it looks better than lolita, you can say you like it more than lolita, but don't CALL it lolita. because by their standards, it isn't.

jfc why is this so hard for people to understand.

>> No.7179753
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7179753

Who exactly is this man?

>> No.7179755

>>7177914
she has a nice face/good looking skin and gothic seems to suit her well? she definitely has potential.

>> No.7179761

>>7177874
she b'awwleted her post looks like

>> No.7179808
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how to be an ita in brand

>> No.7179814

>>7177777
My god..all those 7s.

>> No.7179850

>>7177596
As I recall from another thread, that girl is mentally disabled; she's not going to respond to or comprehend any crit.

>> No.7179886

>>7172177
>>7172194
>>7172296

sure smells like /r9k/ in here tonight.

>> No.7180064

>>7179704
I grew up in such a house, except worse. My dad is a hoarder. I got the fuck out of there as soon as I could, and my sister likewise. I don't know why my poor mother sticks around; he screams at her when she attempts to clean it up.

>> No.7180068

>>7177977
Something about that restaurant looks so familiar to me... Do those people live in a Chicago suburb?

>> No.7180161

>>7178244
>what's /cgl/'s problem with me?

being a creepy frillseeker, contributing nothing to this board, shitposting in threads upon threads, whitenighting yourself anonymous time and time again, whining about your your ex, being creepy as hell (yes this has to be mentioned twice), derailing threads for your own personal amusement, and, in the end, the fact you exist.

go back to whatever board you came from, and by watching your behavior, I'm assuming /r9k/.
if not. go. you'll fit in there anyway.
>>>/r9k/

>> No.7180167

>>7180064
Similar horror story.

My mom was a hoarder. Also a heavy smoker. My siblings were all heavy smokers. Even when they moved out, they'd come to visit daily (and their kids, eventually all started smoking). Since there was so much stuff, and so much smoking everything would be covered in a thick coat of dust and tar. The dogs would regularly go on the carpet, though aside from being picked up, it just sunk into the flooring. Brother and niece moved in and would never flush the toilets, leave food sitting in moldy dishwater for days (when I wasn't home, when I was I wouldn't let it get that bad), plates of food and piles of ashes all over the computer so when I'd come home I'd have to clean it all up. Came home from a con and no shit, about 12 three inch long ash-pillars whatever they're called flung all the way to the wall on top of the router. Food piled up with a trash can right there (empty). Anything that came out of the house reaked.

When I had the chance, I moved out, my mom eventually ended up with lung cancer. Towards the end, the house looked very much like the one in the picture of the messy ita. Basement celing caved in, flooded before and I think black mold was growing. Brother finally flushed the toilet and it clogged, and it caved in the ceiling above the stove. It's sad because it was pristine and freshly painted when we moved in. My dad's repaired a lot of the house since she passed away, took out the nasty carpet, repainted, got rid of the smell and most of the nasty, but it still needs a lot of work.

All of this really happened over the span of about 8 years to get to that condition. It wasn't too bad the first 5 years we lived there. Just really the lack of care, and a bunch of nasty ass relatives. I have a habit of clutter, but thankfully not that complete level of nasty and lazy.

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>>7180161
Shit posting in threads? I'd love to see some sorta RECENT evidence of this. Since you have none, fuck off.

I don't white knight myself, and I haven't spoken of she who must not be named for a good while, moved on, have better bitches to fuck, and how am I creepy as hell?

You seem to just be reaching for any sorta argument to prop up your little house of "I hate Shippou for absolutely no raisin". The fact that you choose to reply to me just shows your obsession, hop off and move on, I'm not doing anything to you, so drop whatever silly vendetta you happen to have.

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>>7180167
I know the feeling anon. I grew up in a house where they left all the cleaning to my poor grandmother when we had 7 people living in the house. The carpet was saturated with animal urine, the walls had urine on them and corners were shredded from the cats clawing at them. Dogs and cats would urinate on the furniture.

Probably the cleanest carpet in the house was my bedroom because I kept it shut up when I wasn't there, and if I did, animals would come in and piss/shit on the floor WHILE I was sitting there. They tore all the carpet up in the house, except for a couple bedrooms. Put down veneer tiles. Animals pissed on it so much that tiles were coming up. People's solutions to cleaning it up? Throw a towel on top of it and leave the towel there for days at a time and never bother moping. I grew up with a weaker immune system and my parents made up excuses from it being from when I was a baby but probably it was caused by living in a filthy disgusting house with animal urine and feces everywhere.

Sorry off topic but just rage feelings on my part.

>> No.7180197

>>7180167
that is horrible and i'm glad you were able to get out. it's one thing to let yourself sink into deplorable conditions, another to drag children into it as well.

>> No.7180199

>>7180197
Funny thing is, it was never that bad until we lived in that house. When it was just me and my parents, it stayed fairly clean, obviously lived in, but the house was cleaned often, vacumed, mopped, swept, once a week or two at most. Still some smoke issues but nothing like it had become. My mom stayed pretty clean and usually always kept a clean, if not a bit cluttered house. And then when everyone moved in and the health problems hit, it all went downhill. I was just too sick of picking up after complete white trash, red-necked slobs. When she was diagnosed with cancer I moved an hour away and had a full-time job. So I came back as often as I could to do what I could (and of course everyone else decided to bail then, go figure).

Sorry for the off topic, just... augh. I feel for that ita girl in that messy house. Man I feel for her.

>> No.7180217

>>7180189
Dude no one wants you here and no one had ever wanted you here. Please go be an attention whore somewhere else. And before you throw yet another tantrum: you're a tripfag. That is evidence enough that you are indeed an attention whore.

>> No.7180275

>>7177777
that's like saying someone who doesn't know the rules of chess has a better idea of how to play because they know how to have fun
lolita has rules
an outfit can be pretty, but if it doesn't follow the rules of lolita, it's not lolita.

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>>7180217
I can post whatever I want, under whatever name I see fit.

If my browsing and using this board bothers you so much, go make my trip a filtered word, like they've done on other boards to other trips. I'm not that big of a deal, you're making a mountain out of the tiniest molehill. Seriously, you're throwing a fit about nothing.

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>>7180288
Okay I'm going to assume being a faggot on this board is just your mourning period. I hope you move on with your life soon.

>> No.7180352

>>7180288
you realize multiple people dislike you, right?
even IF everyone on this board filtered your trip, you'd probably make a new one just to attentionwhore.

you're worse than any girl with daddy issues.

>> No.7180385

>>7180332
we really shouldn't have to deal with some beta shit posting for 2+ months now over someone who clearly never cared about him though

>> No.7180422

>>7180332
He was a huge faggot even before they broke up, though.

>> No.7180485

>>7179746
>you can say it looks cuter than lolita, you can say it looks better than lolita, you can say you like it more than lolita, but don't CALL it lolita. because by their standards, it isn't.


My sentiments, exactly.

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>>7180332
>>mfw

jesus christ how sad. I almost want to feel sorry for him, but then I remembered that most guys who usually act like this are desperate, creepy Nice Guys(tm)

>> No.7181062

>>7180491
this "Nice guy" loves you so much he'll show up at your house with a gun~

>> No.7181074

>>7177777
>implying that everyone outside of Lolita has a good sense of aesthetics

No. There are ita equivalents in all walks of life, some people are just naturally drawn to crap.

And what I want to know is how do itas find Lolita at all, decide they like it enough to want to participate, and then proceed to fuck it up so bad that it looks nothing like it at all?

>> No.7181152

>>7180199
My mom is one of those people who thinks animal piss and shit in the house isn't a disgusting problem. Piss/shit on your things? Just wipe it off or let it dry! I don't understand it at all, but she's trashier than the rest of her family in every way, there must be some kind of white trash gene.

>> No.7181165

>>7177777
>normalfags
>having good opinions

>> No.7181322

>>7180352
I used to talk to Nia regularly a while ago, and she told me that they shared everything and talked about many lolitas she has personal grudges and drama with.
He also regularly follows lolitas on tumblr, sends them rude anon messages and they both like to post them in the its threads on here.

>> No.7181396

>>7181322
I smell bullshit

>> No.7181494

>>7171751
Ugly but it's impossible to see if the outfit is ita.

>> No.7181647

>>7181322
Lel wut? I do follow quite a few lolitas on tumblr, but I don't send rude anon messages, that's silly. I have no personal problem with anybody, so it's rather pointless to do that.

>> No.7181809

I actually met loliclown a couple of times and she's really nice in person, albeit, a bit scary. She actually a clown, it's her job, and dresses in lolita style pretty regularly, not just for halloween. she has a tumblr too, pretty scary tho.

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>>7180189
can moot just ban shippou once and for all?

>> No.7182571

>>7181647
>I have no personal problems with anybody
top kek

if I told you I was nia's new boyfriend or some shit you would hunt me down with an axe.
>>7182562
it needs to be done.