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Can we get another lolita feels thread going?

I'll start. That feel when broad shoulders in lolita. All puff-sleeve blouses make me look like I'm wearing football pads.

>> No.7029187
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>tfw not one but three of your dream dresses are up on mbok for less than $100 with <5hrs to go and you cannot afford to spend one dime on something that isn't rent or utilities right now
>tfw you had a steady job and a decent income and got too fat for your favorite dresses, and now you're losing weight and focusing on school so you're living the impoverished student life
>tfw a normalfag genuinely likes your coord and wants to know where you bought it
>tfw you have a huge ass but lolita hides it
>tfw the newbie you've been mentoring finally gets a good grasp of the fashion and starts making beautiful coords

>> No.7029198 [DELETED] 

>>7029187
I know those feels re: normalfags wanting to know where your clothes are from. All I say is they're from Japan, I think people would be shocked and even disgusted by the amount I'm willing to spend on frilly dresses.

>> No.7029199
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hurr

>> No.7029200

>>7029199
Got em

>> No.7029210

>>7029159
tfw same feel.

>> No.7029251

Nothing much. I just need a vent.
>saves up 500+ dollars
>Wants to buy Milky Planet jsk
>I want to buy everything at once,petticoat, shoes, accessories...
>Turns out I can't afford everything for my co-ord at once.
>get worried about stares if I even get into lolita and horror stories that I've heard
>end up not buying it
>"No! I change my mind!"
>go online
>the jsk I wanted is gone
Fuck this shit I'm going for fairy kei instead.

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>that feel when no local lolita comm

>> No.7030817

>tfw 6feet, oval face, and flat chest that makes me look like a man in lolita
>tfw boring coords and don't know where to get cute lolita accessories
>tfw apperantly I'm "ita" for my boring coords
>tfw boyfriend is a drama hungry bitch that loves bitching on /cgl/ whitenighting me (and making me look like an ass while doing so), and gets super excited for the secrets and calls me up when they get published
anyways, if you see somebody whitenighting me, instead of calling out "hi Nia" call out "hi shippou" or "hi nia's boyfriend"
because its most likely him. and I usually scold him for it.
anyone else have drama hungry boyfriends? this shit is getting tiring.

>> No.7030838

>>7029251
That may be a good idea minimoose, and brands sometimes release miniskirts or things that look better in fairy kei. you should get some of those!
>>7030696
where are you? sometimes its nice being the only lolita. you get to feel like the "top dog" around there.
>>7029187
>those last three
glad your mentoring worked! good job!
its heartwarming to hear that

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>>7029159
tfw i can't even fit into most brand blouses for my shoulders

also tfw your dream dress comes up in sales 3 TIMES when you're flat broke, then the second you have ANY spare cash it's gone
>the wtbs they do nothing

>> No.7030900

>>7030817
I'm jealous of you for having a dramu boyfriend, my BF HATES drama and refuses to talk about anything, which sucks cause I love to stir shit up.
Let's trade.

>tfw you wear full shirring dresses and you can feel everyone thinking that youre fat

>> No.7030910

I decided to give bonnets a try. I'm mostly classic/gothic so I think it would work. Are there any tips about how to wear them correctly?

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>>7030856
>>7029210
>>7029159

Frill body twins, I know that feel as well.

>> No.7030950
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> Meet cutie boy online
> start explaining lolita after a few dates
> growing to really like him as people
> he supports my lolita feels and vents
> not scared he will dislike me for lolita
> but tfw scared he will become a Frillseeker and break up with me for a cuter lolita

>> No.7031001
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>>7030838
I'm in West Texas, about two hours from any town with a comm. I know one other cosplayer/lolita here and she's both adorable and perfect, but eve with just the two of us I'd be worried wearing lolita in public because people here really react poorly to anything even mildly alternative. I wouldn't be surprised if we got food/drinks dumped on us if we went out somewhere wearing out frills, to be honest. Not to mention, there aren't a ton nice places we could go for photoshoots either...it all just sucks.

Also, sometimes I wish my fiance was more interested in lolita. It's just really not his cup of tea and it's hard to justify even tiny expenses to him, even though he's always trying to encourage me to improve my self image and build confidence and lolita has been helping me make leaps and bounds in that department even though my wardrobe is still small. He just doesn't put the two together and it makes me sad sometimes.
I can see how you could get exhausted with always worrying about what he might be saying/doing on the internet though. I'm sorry bro.

Also also you do not look like a man in lolita and I would kill for an oval-shaped face :(

>> No.7031014

>tfw when discover and join local comm
>tfw local comm is small and not very active
>tfw all the girls seem to have their own lolita bff
>tfw when you're the odd loli out

>> No.7031027

>>7031001
texas? I visit waco sometimes but it sounds far.
and thanks, I'm sure other lolitas have had the problem with 2edgyteens asking to their faces if they're men as well. a store manager once asked me this when I was with my friend.
>"hello, ladies, if one of you is really a lady" (starts laughing at his own joke)
oof, right in the ego. not sure how to respond to these comments.

>> No.7031031

Hey guys, /fit/izen here

So what's the story with all this drama around Lolita?

>>7030817

I don't understand, why do you put up with him? He sounds likes whiney little bitch. Hell, I'd murder someone in cold blood to have a cute little petite gothic Lolita cosplaying gf.
>vidya gayman
>cute outfitsan
>something she's passionate about

I mean, I used to go to cons and shit, got mates that do it, but I've never cosplayed so I've never experienced the drama associated with it. Can some one explain it to me?

>> No.7031051

>>7031031
>gothic lolita cosplaying
well that there is your problem.
you're fetishizing them.
will you still like her when she swaps AP for jeans?
also petite lolitas can be pretty rare.
i've concluded i dislike you.
you sound like the type of guy who would avoid me during high school and beg me for my number 3 years later.
Do not want.
>captcha creeps nfintny

>> No.7031053

>>7030950
Related to this, but someone I feel like some guys will only date lolitas? I feel like some have even been cycled around my local comm, and it's really odd.

>> No.7031054

>>7031001
Aren't you a /soc/ slut?

>> No.7031061

>>7031027
You could be like, "Well, I have more balls than you do"?

>> No.7031063

>>7031027
Haha, yeah. Waco's about a 5 hour drive from here.
And I've definitely had that problem...people have said things like that to me my entire life, 'cause I've got such a sharp jaw and prominent features. I didn't know how to respond to things like that when I was a kid, but nowadays I literally just tell those people to eat a dick. If they've got the nerve to say something like that to my face, I don't have a problem retaliating aggressively anymore, I don't care who it is.
I haven't really had to do that much lately though since I chopped all of my hair off...I would've thought with such a boyish cut that I would get more shit but honestly I've gotten nothing but compliments and it's pretty sweet. Still feel like I'm looking at a shota in the mirror though, lol.

>> No.7031072

>>7031054
I have never a /soc/, never even for a once.

>> No.7031091

>>7031063
>>7031061
haha, thanks, I used to say
"suck my frilly ladydick"
and two asdholes were like
"thanks for confirming your a man" so I thought I'd try something new.
one time I played along with it and said I was in the deepest voice I could muster and I got shit from people all day. good ol' deepsouth. really respecting the trannies now.

>> No.7031098

>>7031051
You misunderstand me.

Firstly, I love the style. I'm not going to demand that she wears loli around the house 24/7, Jesus. What do you think I am, a monster? I'm just one of those guys that finds cute things attractive. Jeans and short shorts are cute, so is loli style and messy wake up hair and a big sleeping shirt.

>high school, avoiding, generalisations, etc

And where did you pull that assumption from? Your arse? Is it because I'm from /fit/? Or because I labelled nia's whiney little bitch of a boyfriend as a whiney little bitch?

I was the fat loser in highschool, hence /fit/. I'm actually going to go out on a limb here and say that it would be YOU who would avoid ME.

Wait, am I being rused? Taught by example?

I asked what the story was with all the drama and in one post, you showed me that some cosplayed are elitist, jump to conclusions and think themselves better than others. What a bitter, lonely social life you must lead.

I had mates like you, and now they have no one, because this sort of attitude drove them all away. Normally I keep them around on Facebook not to be an arse, but I can only handle so many
>I'm so bored no one likes me
>give me attention
>these guys are pigs
>everyone sucks and other cosplayed are whores.

My list still stands. Is it possible to have a cute, social, nerdy Lolita gf who isn't apparently mentally unhinged?

Bonus question: what's with the attraction to the feminine body type in males? Are muscles on a guy intimidating or something?

Genuinely curious now. Think I'll stick around. Might even get into some large mech suit cosplays or something.

>> No.7031104

>>7031063
Do you have any pics?

Shota's are cute too.

Besides, I doubt that its THAT bad

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>>7031001
I use to live here, but that was 3ish years ago, but about twice a year I come back to visit family.

>> No.7031110

>>7031091
Hahaha, basically the south in a nutshell.
And it doesn't help that I sang bass (sometimes tenor) in high school.

That feel when trying to be cute is so damn hard.

>> No.7031115

>>7031098
>Is it possible to have a cute, social, nerdy Lolita gf who isn't apparently mentally unhinged?
I guess it's possible, but you gotta realize everyone has baggage.

>> No.7031116

>>7031031
Da fuck did you say faggot?

>> No.7031120

>>7031098
Yes, it's possible. Most of us are just taken though! You have to go through all the crazies to find the sane ones. Be social and put yourself out there. That's how you meet people, dude!
For the bonus question.. Feminine body types? I wouldn't say BODY TYPES, but feminine males are just good to look at. Muscles are intimidating.. in a good way. ;) If a girl wants a man, she'll get a man. If she wants a girl-man, she'll wait forever for that k/jpop star of her dreams.
I hope my answers were helpful!
Best of luck with mech suit cosplays, dude.

>> No.7031123

>>7031116
G'day shipppou, you able to fit into your missus's tight frilly dresses yet?

>> No.7031125

>>7031115
Baggage I get

Being a bi polar mentally unstable cunt isn't baggage though

>> No.7031129

>>7031123
One day.

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>>7031104
Saging for being way off-topic and selfpost.
I know I shouldn't wear as much eye makeup as I do, but it's been a crutch of mine for a long time because I feel so boyish and frumpy without it. Also as always, sorry for instashit.

>>7031106
Oh? Were you in San Angelo? I used to visit at least once a summer when I was in high school, it's much nicer than Midland lol.

>> No.7031132

>>7031120
>feminine males are just good to look at
So we're not really good for relationships, though?

I always get told "You'd make a really good trap" and "oh shit I thought you were a girl".

But I think I look better with long hair than short, ugh. No way for me to win. Not the person you're responding to, but I have taken to doing push-ups/lifting to counter my effeminateness.

>> No.7031135

>>7031125
Haha, then yeah that's understandable.
I've met a good amount of nice lolitas that aren't crazy, so there's hope.

>> No.7031137

>>7031120
Very helpful.

I have no issue with social skills, this is a collective of people with generally poor social abilities (lol now I'm generalising) so making mates is easy as fuck.

And I mean, what's the appeal? What makes them fun to look at? Personally if I were a girl, I wouldn't want a guy who could look nicer in my clothing than I might, or who would constantly stir up drama.

Then again, I'm Australian and ausfags believe in treating women properly. Let the bitter and unhappy bicker amongst themselves while we laugh at their obvious frustration and maybe jealousy while doing something fun.

>> No.7031146

>>7031132
Wow. You're right, I'm sorry.
You are relationship material, that was such a broad generalization I did. All I was thinking was KPOP MEN. sad..
Dude, flaunt your looks for what they are. Like the girl above your post. She rocks the boyish girl look. You shouldn't be discouraged by trap comments. I'm honestly really attracted to feminine men AND masculine men.
Anybody is relationship material if they want to be in a relationship. Does that make sense?
Ugh.. Bro, do what makes YOU feel good. Sooner or later a girl is going to come along and love you for YOU. Not your looks, but your personality. I know that's cheesy, but it's truth. A relationship shouldn't be based solely on looks, because then it's just about fucking.
Again.. I hoped I helped. And I do apologize for the comment. I didn't mean for anybody to take it like THAT.

>> No.7031151

>tfw your bloomers help you pretend you have a fuller butt.

>> No.7031154

>>7031130
Now, be gentle with me.

Claiming ID by the way. I might have fucked it up.

It seems like you need to put on some weight. Not a lot, just a kilo or three, to round your face out.

Is I bet you'd look stunning with long hair. I'm not much of a beautician, so I'm not sure of how you could use makeup to round your chin out. You are right though, ease off the eye makeup a bit.

Also maybe try wearing some form fitting clothing? Draw attention to your bum and chest, your figure is hiding under that big loose floppy shirt.

>>7031132
Lifting will work bro, keep it up.

But maybe you'd make an adorable trap too? Maybe you're not into bring a trap.

I demand pics to assess your trap level capabilities

>> No.7031155

>>7031132
>mfw cutesy feminine boys are the best boys
>mfw I can never tell if they're gay or not so I never hit on them
>mfw I have no proper face to express the horror I felt when I read the last few words of your post

STOP THAT

>> No.7031157
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>every blouse i have fucking bought fits fine everywhere except is too small in the bust area
i'm only a 32d, why does this keep happening? they are not even that big...

>> No.7031165

>>7031157
Binding?

Is binding even safe? Some of my mates do it for crossplaying.

Or just modify it yourself. Of you're here I assume you know how to sew

>> No.7031167

>>7031137
Personal preference. People like what they like, dude! That's as simple as I can explain it.

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>>7031165
>bought a binder but it was TOO SMALL GDI
>get discouraged so havent bought another one in a larger size
>sports bras make the blouse button but there's still gaps
>too afraid of altering burando and lowering the value

i cant even hold all of these fucking feelings dude

>> No.7031173

>>7031137
Just personal preferences. Having a guy who likes you when you dress up all cutesy is nice, but some of us just like having a guy who would dress up all cutesy with you. It's a healthy kind of jealousy.

>> No.7031176

>>7031146
Alright, thanks anon. I wasn't really taken aback or offended, but you reply really was sweet.

>>7031154
I do often wish I was born as a girl, but still not into trap stuff. Too scared to post my face on /cgl/.

>>7031155
I'm not trying to get completely ripped or anything. Aiming for the "ottermode" body type.

>> No.7031178

>>7030696
Me too anon, me too.

>> No.7031188

>>7031173
Well, as long as no ones getting hurt.

>>7031176
That's ok, mate. Just keep it up and you'll be ottermode twink material in no time.

Unless you're not gay / bi. In which case you'll make some loli into VK very happy.

Anyway guys, it's been eye opening. I'm gonna shoot out for a smoke then head to the gym. I might pop back in tonight to see how everyone's going.

Sorry to have derailed the thread so much. Here let me add to it:

>183cm
>still cutting fat, maintains muscle
>tfw I will never ever be feminine enough to be a cute trap loli

More of a "just wanna see what it's like to be a girl for a day" issue I guess.

Ugh I'm bad at this.

>> No.7031189

>>7031157
Oh anon, I feel you.

Although maybe it's just because I'm picking the wrong blouses, I've tried two IW size M blouses, one gaped a bit, one was almost a good fit, an Anna House size S blouse, a standard Meta blouse yet no luck.

>> No.7031194

>>7031172
Can't you buy a small separating strip? Adds an inch or two to the small binders circumference?

>> No.7031195
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>>7031154
I've actually gained a few pounds on my new birth control but none of it went to my face, hahaha. It never does. And I had long hair for about 10 years, it was such a pain to maintain though and I don't regret chopping it off because it's so much faster to get ready in the morning...not to mention, it's much cooler in the 110+ degree weather lol. Like I said upthread, I actually get more compliments on my short hair than I ever did with long hair.
Also boy you can't tell ANYTHING about my figure from that photo, hahaha. That's actually a dress and admittedly it's basically T-Shirt: The Extended Edition, but my wardrobe's got plenty of things in it that show off my figure (pic related). Granted, one of the things I like about lolita is that it's not like "HEY LOOK AT MY TITS AND ASS".

>> No.7031196

>>7031195
would rip hymen and fill cunny with my seed/10

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>>7031196

>> No.7031199

>>7031195
Wow, you are stunning.

Not gonna lie, I imagined lifting you up by that waist for a hug and a kiss. Looks ticklish and cute as all fuck.

You have a great sense of style. I'm not sure where the negativity about your looks come from, maybe being that openly rude is an American thing.

Pics normally aren't a good judge of character, namely because how most of our communication is nonverbal, your movements may be more feminine etc.

Either way, I can KINDA see where some people are coming from, but that all really comes down to the jaw and without some sort of bone surgery, I'm not sure how to fix it.

You still look amazing though, we'll done.

>> No.7031203

>>7031201
you're fucking gorgeous. everytime I post my face I get called a trap.
but girl, you're cute. don't let anyone else tell you otherwise

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>tfw this thread has devolved into one lonely faggot projecting his feelings onto every girl or passable guy in this thread

Stop, you're embarrassing yourself.

>> No.7031207

>>7030910
Accessories, youcan ad roses and charms, on the Inside, they will fraw attention to your face. If you have already a baby face, look for hard bonnet, not too large, Victorian Maiden's style or even AatP"s long style

>> No.7031210

>>7031206
hi shippou

>> No.7031212
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>tfw when I find my dream dress, make the first payment and then the girl says she had a problem having the dress shipped to her from the original owner and I now am going to have to buy from the original owner
>tfw original owner won't do a payment plan
>tfw I finally get the money to maybe buy it and then my identity gets stolen
>tfw when I fix that that original owner admits to having slightly damaged the dress but won't consider lowing the price from what it was when it was in perfect condition
>tfw when I will probably never get my dream dress at this point

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>>7031210
Still doesn't change the fact that he's shitting up the thread and projecting feelings on everything that moves.

>> No.7031216

>>7031137
Hello Aussie anon, I am also an Australia, and a lolita.

If you'd like to meet lolitas and perhaps even have a cute lolita gf, you should start by looking to see if anyone at your uni or tafe (if you go to university or tafe) is a lolita. Quite a few lolitas in the major cities wear lolita to uni, other than that I guess online would be the next best option.

Also to answer your question everyone has different tastes just like you anon.

>> No.7031217

>>7031199
I really appreciate it, and I appreciate you giving me concrit without being a huge dickweed about it. I like to think that the openly rude thing is more an rural American/southern thing, especially when it comes to alternative fashion and things like that. I'm probably never going to have the balls for plastic surgery so I'll just have to deal with the occasional shit.

OKAY ENOUGH OF ME DERAILING MY OWN THREAD sorry guys

>> No.7031219

>>7031217
also that feel when you realize you forgot to post the thread with your trip and now you look like a dumbass

>>7031212
Oh my god what the fuck.
Also what's your dream dress??

>> No.7031221

>>7031157
This is one of the reasons why I'm afraid to start buying lolita. I have natural 32DDD breasts and I don't think I should bind because I have asthma.
My breast measurement is only about 92cm with some wiggle room, but would anything even fit my chest without looking horrible?

>> No.7031228

I want to vent too.
>finds dream dress with accessories on mbok
>uses shopping service, but notices SS already bidding on set
>"oh don't worry we can bid with another account!"
>internal SS bidwar between me and someone else
>lost the auction
>the set pops up for sale a month later
>"i found my dream dress in the colorway i want so i don't need this anymore!"
>contacts seller
>already sold
I know I shouldn't feel entitled to it, but damn.

>> No.7031253

>>7031201
I rated you as attractive.

>> No.7031298

>>7031098
nigga i am married. I had a gross-ass gap between my two front teeth until i was eighteen(hooray braces) and my now-husband has dated me since I was 15-we first bonded over Queen, TOS and Hawking so he happened to not mind the gap. He is fit if a little bit plain. I might be a bit biased but not against /fit/izens.
Even so, the guys who liked my "type"(blonde ringlets, hourglass, pale) and pretended to act -very- interested until I opened my mouth to smile can suck a sweaty dick.
Like/get to know girls who happen to dress a certain way? Great! Go for it.
start to pursue girls -because- they dress a certain way? bad idea. i would't recommend it anyway because many lolitas have shopping addictions, hoarding issues, ect.
(borrowing vernacular from an earlier anon)just don't become a frillseeker and you should be fine.

>> No.7031300

>tfw tits too big for MM
>dream dress is MM

>> No.7031306

>>7031300
Oh no not you too. Does MM dresses have any bust strecth at all? There are a few that should fit/are over my bust measurement but I'm unsure.

>> No.7031312

>>7031306
i don't even know i am a 36C
god damn it
I just know that even if i could squeeze my ribcage would bust the dress open
>tfw can't wear corsets because HURRDUR SCOLIOSIS
>seppuku

>> No.7031317

>>7031300
>tfw when tiny as fuck, 82cm bust, MM ops will be forever way too large

>> No.7031318

>>7031312
bust the dress open when I exhaled like that scene in White Chicks*

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>being tall and having a large bust

Seriously I'd take the tallness over the boobs. The dresses are already short due to my height then the bodice is filled with nothing but boob. I'm one of those people who loses weight last from the bust. My waist, hips, stomach, thighs, and face will loose fat but those fucking udders will loose like a half inch. Hopefully my cardiologist will clear me for surgery next summer so I can have some relief from these sweater canons.

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>tfw fit MM and VM perfectly

For some reason some early-mid AATP stuff is tight on me in the bust, though? Will never get that one.

>> No.7031346

>>7031336
Can I ask what your bust measurement is anon, I've never tried MM or VM as I'm worried I might not fit, but have fit into BTSSB, Meta, IW, AATP, etc. non shirred and some with small panel of shirring.

>> No.7031352

>>7031312
Oh no! You have scoliosis too anon. :(

>> No.7031364

>>7031300
>>7031317
>tfw perfect size for MM but tits sit too low on chest so they don't go into the boob area in bodice and skirts sit at rib cage.

>> No.7031367

I have problems with my ribcage so wearing dresses gets painful after a few hours, especially my Chess Chocolate OP. On the plus side though, I can't wear bras because of said problem so I can usually fit into most dresses bust wise no problem.

>> No.7031374

>>7031367
> I can't wear bras because of said problem

This is a thing? I don't have any problems with dresses, but bras make my back ache something awful after about ten minutes, and breathing is like twice as difficult as normal, despite my bras being the correct size. What do you have?

>> No.7031388

>>7031374
Ah yes, I had those symptoms too! My problem is more with the ribs right under my boobs, where the underwire sits, I can't have any pressure there at all from anything, not even like...non wired bras or tight fiiting clothes. Sucks man. But yes, I would get the back pain too and breathing just felt horrible and believe me I had tried every bra in existence to see if they were the problem.

The sad thing is anon, I actually have been to the doctors and spent about £1000 on tests for that and another problem and nothing came back. (I was basically told to just take pain medication, fucking what) but I was recommended to start acupuncture and whilst it hasn't fixed the problem it has helped a lot. The only closer I got to putting a name to it was someone suggested it might be Costochondritis?

Oops, wall of text sorry!

>> No.7031395

>>7031388
Awh, man. I guess I'll just stop wearing bras altogether, then. I'm super flat so it's not like it matters anyway. I'll have to look up Costochondritis, though. Thank you! It's just nice to hear something other than 'well your bra obviously isn't fitted properly'.

>> No.7031398

>>7031395
Yeah, I'm relatively small anyway so I can get away with it too! Thank god, I think I would be even more upset if I was a larger size.

I would still maybe go to the doctors to bring it up anyway, if you can. (Don't know if you are american sorry, if you are from the UK/free health care definitely go!)

>> No.7031401

>>7031157
Technically 28E here, so a 33-34 bust measurement, and my blouses all gape to some extent. It sucks because I don't even have a large chest by any means. One cutsew is always bursting open at the buttons round there... Ugh.

>> No.7031405

>>7031398
I'm UK. Maybe when I go find my new GP after I move I'll ask about it. I've never really had a proper health exam anyway. Thanks for the advice!

>> No.7031413

>>7031401
Omg, gotta take that name off.

>> No.7031411

>>7031336
Well, MM and VM are too big for me but I can have all the old school dress I want, so it's ok

>> No.7031424 [DELETED] 

>>7031098
>Bonus question: what's with the attraction to the feminine body type in males? Are muscles on a guy intimidating or something?

I'm just attracted to effeminate men. I partially blame it on me being a huge Escaflowne fan back in the day when I liked anime. The love of my life is effeminate and is into pretty women with unnaturally colored hair so worked out perfectly since there's very little we don't have in common. I'm just not attracted to muscle-y/manly guys for some reason.

>> No.7031926

>tfw when the unshirred AP dress you had planned to lose weight for actually fits!

Question about this... I was reading the measurements listed (for melty royal chocolate low waist in L), and by all the measurements I've ever taken, I should not have fit the dress, but it did, with room to spare even. Is this like this with all of AP's dresses?

>> No.7031938
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7031938

this is a beautiful fucking print and color
but its a fucking BABYDOLL EMPIRE WAIST. It will never NOT look like shit on me

>> No.7031965

>>7031346
85 cm with a B cup

>> No.7033834

>>7031219
Time of the Roses II jsk.

>> No.7033869

>>7033834
Have an email? Got something for you!

>> No.7033875

>>7033834
>>7033869
...and since I just realized this sounds really creepy, I mean a link, though don't know what color or pricerange you want.

I also don't know why I saged that. Tired, oops.

>> No.7033882

>tfw you've just sold something on the comm sales and you're happily wrapping it up when you spot a tiny stain you've never noticed before MOTHER FUCKER

>tfw you stop wrapping it up and sit on the floor staring at the dress debating whether to tell the person because you know you'll probably have to give a discount but the stain is so tiny you know they'll never see it and you could get away with it but FUCK the golden rule and you hate when other people do that to you

>> No.7033921

>>7031401
Yeah I've never considered myself large chested...especially when I come from a family where every girl is 2-3x my bust size.
also the name really confused me lol

>> No.7033933
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7033933

>tfw too shy to go to a meet yet
>tfw way to big of a wardrobe for how little i actually wear lolita

>> No.7033936

>tfw you have sasquash size 11 feet and it's hard to find nice lolita shoes without having to have them custom made. Even bodyline's biggest size is too small.
>tfw you see such gorgeous shoes on taobao but they will never fit your feet

Thanks genetics. It's be nice to have smaller feet. It would make shoe shopping (for not just lolita) so much easier. 90% of stores only seem to go up to a size 10.

>> No.7033940

>>7033936
I'm a 9.5/10 depending, I have a terrible time as well
>tfw your feet are too big for all of your dream shoes

>> No.7033942

>>7031130
Holy shit you are fucking gorgeous.

If you're worried about people thinking you're a dude, maybe wear more feminine wigs? I don't see how people could think so, though.

10/10 would waifu

>> No.7033961
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7033961

>Tfw you want to improve but you don't know how no matter how much you look at yourself
>Tfw you want an outer perspective but aren't good with criticism

>> No.7033986
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7033986

So what do you say to someone who says you look like a man?

Come on ladies, let's cook up some real zingers.

>If you honestly think that I'm the manliest person in this room, you might need to get your eyes checked, or at least do yourself a favor and review your sexuality.

>> No.7035725

>>7033869
YES PLEAESE! Oh god please still be around

>> No.7035740

>>7033834
Haha you're lucky I practically live on cgl in the evening, emailed!

>> No.7035742

>>7035740
Oops this is meant for >>7035725 obviously herp

>> No.7035871

>>7033986
yes! lets do this lolita comebacks!
(when made fun of two guys) "I'm a woman, and I've got more balls and confidence than you assholes combined"