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/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL


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So I'm a 23-year-old six foot long dude with a lanky build. Recently I've gotten an urge to try crossdressing. I dream of the project culminating into me going to a con dressed in thigh high socks and a pleated skirt and something else.

I'm facing numerous problems. In case someone I know would see me they would most likely think I'm gay so I will most likely have to wear a mask of some kind? This does not make me gay right? Right? Possible characters I could go for? Is my height truly a dealbreaker for looking cute? Should I just waste this dream and go do some lifting and other manly stuff? Is it fucked up to get this idea at my age?

>> No.6654530
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step 1. be adorable
step 2. buy a perfect mariya cosplay (i would say make but i really doubt you are capable of the quality i'm looking for)
step 3. otakon
step 4. i bang the living shit out of you forever

unf unf unf

>> No.6654529

hahahahahaha

>> No.6654537

A mask can help you look more feminine, and also if you don't want to be recognized. Just make sure to learn makeup, tweeze your eyebrows, get a wig, a good bra and inserts, and maybe long sleeved shirts to hide veiny/manly arms. It's all about details, hiding the manly things and emphasizing/faking the feminine things. Never think that you can skip one little thing, because those little things together are what's going to add up and make you look like a girl in the end.

Also, you might want to go for the "onee-type" characters or bigger sister/older girl characters. Maybe a glasses-girl? All kinds of more mature looking girls, really.

>> No.6654548

Laughing so hard. Most crossdressers are in relationships with women. If you think this is going to make you gay, it sounds like you're already questioning you sexuality.

>> No.6654556

>>6654537
Thanks. I suppose this is a good start. I should most likely start by wearing girl clothes at home just to find out what makes me look feminine and start some trials with simple make-up. A good coverage is needed so a long sleeved shirt with ZR should bring decent results on that part. I'm kind of a perfectionist and if I really get into this stuff I might find the resources to invest on this project since I don't want to go for a cheap or half-assed look. It would be so easy to go to a foreign con where no one would notice me. I live in such a small country that people would brand me as a faggot for eternity if I was found wearing skirts and other girl clothes in public.

>> No.6654557

Ru Paul is 6 motherfuckin 4. if he can look cute then you can

>> No.6654558

>>6654557
I am a pretty masculine dude and this is my opinion

>> No.6654567

>>6654548
Oh come on. Can't a man have a hobby? Doing something like this isn't an everyday thing and people are bound to judge shit like this. It bother's me that it's okay to do it for your partner or if you are a female but immediately when a dude wants to dress like a cute girl it's fuckin gay. Double standards and all that. At this rate I'll be forever sitting in my apartment taking pictures of myself since my forbidden attraction to skirts is shunned. I've only had sex with vaginas so far and I'm fully aware that it's only gay if balls make contact but I'm afraid of being branded as "that crossdressing fag" by various people.

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>>6654557
damn str8

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>>6654567
The gay panic is overwhelming.

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>>6654570
>>6654523

I see what both of you did tharr

>> No.6654609

Eh, 3/10 you seem to be getting some idiots to bite

>> No.6654623

>>6654609
Dude I'm serious. I've never posted here so I don't know what this board considers a troll. I'm serious as shit about this project and it pisses me off when you call me a troll. What exactly makes my post seem like bullshit. Is it such a utopia that a tall dude wants to look cute? Or is it the whole part about me fearing my judgental surroundings?

>> No.6654638

>>6654523
Question 1: Do you want to have sex with other men?

If yes, then you are gay. If no, then you are not, regardless of how you dress.

>> No.6654641

Sorry OP, /cgl/ bitches are so overprivileged that they don't understand that if anyone would find out about you that it's social suicide and depending on where you live probably worse, since women are always used to to be able to wear whatever they want and such.
Anyway, the best tip i can give you is that there is no magic trick, it's all hard work and every little bit you do helps.

i suggest google for most things, one of the things i do recommend is getting a bit of high-quality make-up, especially concealer or foundation is important for beardshadow, also contouring is very important, you can also google that and what types of make-up you need for it.

i wish you best of luck OP

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>>6654623
It's the fact you're paranoided about being perceived or becoming gay.

Just fucking do what you want, if people are going to judge you for crossdressing they're probably already judging and talking about you behind you back.

>> No.6654648

>>6654623
http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD6D36A6AAA64DA46

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>>6654523
Hi Anon, realtalk here.

If you want to go as a girl do it, but just look for characters that fit your build like the one attached here. It would help if you posted a few pictures of what you looked like so we could give better answers. Of course you could post in the suggestions thread too. The real key is great padding and great makeup. As a few anon's (or one twice?) have posted, Ru Pauls Drag race is actually a good show to get ideas about how to transform yourself into a fabulous looking female. Just remember to tone the makeup down for cosplay.


It does not make you gay unless you prefer to have sex with men ...or something.

>> No.6654655

As long as you have the right build and wear your make up right you'll be fine. I know 6gt+ girls who can rock lolis.

>> No.6654659

>>6654623
OP it's okay to be paranoid about being perceived as gay. Have you ever read the manga Hourou Musukou? The main character is trans but it does a good job of pointing out the double standard inherent to crossdressing. The sad fact is that it's okay for girls to be masculine but not for boys to be feminine, as if being feminine is somehow wrong. It sucks, but good for you trying to do what you love--and wanting to do it right.

Invest in good makeup--you'll need to counteract five o'clock shadow unless you're as smooth as a baby's bottom. Learn how to contour so you can hide the more masculine parts of yourself. You'll probably need a high collar as an adam's apple is usually a dead giveaway.

Shave your legs (or wax), but you should probably wear dancer's tights anyway. Most girls should, let alone crossdressers. They hold everything in and make your legs look nicer.

Other than that, pad the fuck out of yourself. If you have an girl friends that you're comfortable talking to about this, ask to watch them walk and talk and stuff. Copy their mannerisms. If you have no friends or don't want to talk to anybody, go on public transportation and watch how girls hold themselves. But don't act like a creeper.

You don't HAVE to restrict yourself to older characters, but it will make passing easier for you. One character you might try is Kuranosuke from Kuragehime--he's a crossdresser in the show, so a more androgynous look is appropriate for him. And it would be awesome to actually see a male cosplaying him.

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>>6654641
>/cgl/ bitches are so overprivileged that they don't understand that if anyone would find out about you that it's social suicide and depending on where you live probably worse, since women are always used to to be able to wear whatever they want and such
You know you're talking to a board of cosplayers and lolitas, right? And that we get told nearly ever week on this board that we're disgusting because of what we're wearing?

Just brush that fucking dirt off your shoulders, OP. Working yourself up into hysterics about it just makes you seem like you have something to hide.

Sage because I probably got trolled.

>> No.6654668

You could always cosplay Bridget from Guilty Gear, OP.
If you get caught or anything, you can just pass it off like, "Oh, but Bridget is a boy, anyways!"

>> No.6654672

>>6654641
>since women are always used to to be able to wear whatever they want and such.

Then explain why so many lolitas have trouble wearing lolita if you can wear whatever we want? We can wear whatever we want as long as it makes us sexually appealing to the male gender. But if you're a lesbian you're obviously faking, so look hot so i can have a threesome with you kay?

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>watch out everyone it seems there is a clever ruseman among us

>> No.6654705

>>6654523
Ur closeted and you are manifesting this because of your represt felling so say froid, maybe it's a childhood act resurfacing, who cares tho just do what u want u might get looks but who cares

>> No.6655928

Thanks for all the stuff for everyone who's contributed and I assure you guys I'm no ruseman. Just a regular dude who wants a new hobby. Another problem I have is getting clothes. If I walk into a shop and buy women's clothes they'll call the guerds to throw the pervert out so at least for starters I was thinking of buying online since it's cheap at least where I live. How should I go about sizes on skirts for instance? I wear jeans with a 32 waist if that helps. I'll try take pics of myself once I get my bad quality cam rolling. At least it should help some.