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Hm, hello /cgl/
I was thinking to change myself.
I love lolita style, and it's something that I love for 7 or 8 years, but I never tried to be a lolita because of my weight. I was always too chubby to dresses and my mom said to never dress like a lolita or I would look like a big cake or something like that.
So, now that I have my own money and I can do everything with it, I'll start being a lolita.
I was looking on 4chan for some advices and hints to a girl with 4'11" and 198,42lb
Anyone can help me? Thanks in advance!

>> No.6633492

>Anyone can help me?
sure can
>>>/fit/

>> No.6633493

>I was looking on 4chan for some advices and hints to a girl with 4'11" and 198,42lb
>198,42lb
Does anyone actually measure their weight that precisely?

>> No.6633504

You might love lolita style, but it doesn't love you.

Lose weight before you embarrass yourself.

>> No.6633509

>>6633493
At that point, hun, it's probably easier to just round up.

>> No.6633516

Your mother was right....

>> No.6633521

Oh god.

You're fucking ugly and you're obese, at your height you shouldn't weight a bit over 100lb.

For giggles, I looked up your BMI.

>Your Calculated BMI is: 40.6

You're a fucking Violet (From Willy Wonka, the first one of course, though Johnny Depp is quite a nice actor the remake was simply atrocious.)

There's no hope for you. I'd just continue eating a bit more and getting on government disability.

Ugh, I can feel grease on my skin now.

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I found a picture of OP from the future.

>> No.6633535

>>6633509
I meant like, normally your weight fluctuates even during the day. I usually just tell people I'm around 110-115...

>> No.6633536

>>6633521
That was pretty harsh, even for /cgl/ standards.

>> No.6633541

Weight lift, eat clean, and run
Jesus Christ it's not that difficult

>> No.6633544

>>6633484
You're a heavy girl, OP, there's no denying that. But you know, I think you carry it well. You have a nice round face and a cute smile, and your hair length suits your face.
Can we see a full-body photo to get a better impression of your build? From the photo you posted though, I think you could pull it off.

>> No.6633546

I have some advice for you.

STOP EATING.

>> No.6633551

>>6633544
Enabler detected.

You're not doing anyone any favors by lying to them.

>> No.6633558

>>6633551
I'm not lying to her. She's fat, but she's not ugly. Obviously it'd be better if she weren't fat, but that's not what she's asking. "Eat less and exercise" is not the advice she's asking for, I'm sure she's well aware of that already.

Don't you think she has a cute face?

>> No.6633565

>>6633484
Plus-sized lolita sales:
facebook(dawt)com(slash)groups(slash)253155801438353(slash)
egl-plus(dawt)livejournal(dawt)com(slash)

Regular lolita sales:
egl-comm-sales(dawt)livejournal(dawt)com

Take your measurements and buy stuff that will fit you (that means your measurements are at least 2-3cm less than the max garment measurement). Without seeing what your body looks like, it's hard to give you advice that specific to your body type, but typically a waist belt will help make your waist look smaller (pick a dark color). If your bust is over 45", it'll be near impossible to wear brand so focus on figuring out how to use taobao/shopping services and buy from indie brands who will do custom sizing.

>> No.6633571

>>6633558
Despite a large number of retarded fat people getting into lolita, lolita is not for fat people. It's a style that emphasizes petite features and small waists. There is absolutely no way to look good in lolita if you are fat. Telling a fat woman who weighs over twice the normal amount "you can totally do it if you wear the right coords!" is lying and enabling. You feel bad for her and trying to coddle her.

And no, she doesn't have a "cute face". She looks like Seth Rogan.

lolita is not for fatties. If you want to "change yourself" go to the god damn gym.

>> No.6633581

>>6633571
Most Japanese loli brands are sized for chubbier japanese women.

Lolita is a chubby fashion. Deal with it.

>> No.6633591

>>6633581
Chubby japanese women=M USA

>> No.6633599

You came to the wrong neighborhood fatty.

>> No.6633600

>>6633581
>chubbier japanese women
key word being Japanese. Their idea of chubby is not almost 200lbs.

>> No.6633609

>>6633571
I don't feel bad for her at all.
The only thing I feel bad for her about is that you seem to have scared her off because she's not posted since she started the thread.

If you find her so offensive, you're not forced to watch her thread you know.

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My tip is to wear A-line dresses, and have large petticoats.
>pic related
She is by no means small, but her Malco Mods 565 looks great on her and evens out her body shape.

You could try cupcake shapes, but an A-line would more likely compliment you better. Also, wear shapewear on your upper-middle. It'll help to empahsise a waist.

>> No.6633613

>>6633600
>>6633591

Doesn't change that fact that >>6633571
is deluded into thinking lolita ISN'T for chubby people. Its made for chubby Japanese women. Not fatsos, and not skinny minis.
Chubby.

>> No.6633618

This thread needs more dramu

>> No.6633619

>>6633613
Anon didn't say lolita isnt for chubby people

They said it's not for fat people

>> No.6633625

>>6633565
Links are permitted on 4Chan, yo.

>> No.6633874

>>6633610
> Makes torso look even fatter
> Makes tits look saggy
> No discernable waist
> Makes the bottom half somehow look both HUGE and tiny/short
This is terrible advice. This dress looks like a nightmare on her.

>> No.6633891

>>6633484
Lose weight or kill yourself (Hey you're doing great, kid!) Fatty McFattass. Go back to your FA hugbox tumblr group. I'm sure they'll tell you how much more beautiful you are than those evil size 16 skinnyminnies, while you inhale 20 dozen pies and some some diet (because it's healthly) coke.

>> No.6633897

>>6633625
Sometimes the site thinks you're trying to spam if you post certain kinds of links. particularly from facebook.

>> No.6633903

How the fuck does /cgl/ STILL manage to fall for these obvious troll threads? Holy shit, this place is full of dumbasses.

>> No.6633904

>>6633484
Don't pay any attention to what people say about your weight. If you like the size you're at, then everyone else can go fuck themselves. If not, go do something about it.
As for lolita, learn to coord for the style you want to get into. Look for lolis to look up to and learn from them.

>> No.6633899

>>6633619
chubby is fat.

Trying to break fat into different sub categories is something fat people do to make themselves feel less fat.

>> No.6633922

>>6633904
Please go back to tumblr.

>> No.6633943

I remember when /cgl/ used to be dicks to fat people and tell them the goddamn truth that they were to fat to pull off cosplay or lolita. What in the fuck is the hugbox mentality that's been adopted recently?

Did the whole everybody's beautiful and unique and special tumblr bullshit take over? Dear God.

For the few who've been honest to this girl, thank you. She would look ridiculous no matter how well she could cord. She is morbidly obese. You can argue lolita is a style made for chubby Asian girls, but that doesn't matter. OP is not chubby. She is not curvy. She is not all of those misused words fat women use to delusional describe themselves. She is fat and morbidly obese.

>> No.6633966

>>6633943
This.

I hate that sugar coated shit, as if life was that pleasant.

You're obese and there is nothing beautiful about that, you're LITERALLY a disease that affects entire countries.

>> No.6633969

>>6633943
It's been like this since threads singling people out were banned. If we're mean to people, the threads are deleted so we have no choice but to be nice.

Also, this is a troll thread.

>> No.6633977

>>6633969
Troll thread or not, that whole sugar coat everything because the truth is unpleasant is even worse than being mean. I can be understanding on the whole 'singling out' threads but this girl posted her own damn thread (if in fact a real thread, and by the looks of it is not). 4chan isn't all sunshine, rainbows, and puppies and /cgl/ isn't Tumblr Jr.

>> No.6634011

>>6633484

Goddamn. 198lbs at 4'11". That is just fucking disgusting. How can anyone let themselves go that much? Did you parents not teach how to eat things in portion?

>> No.6634018

>>6633943
Did you actually READ the thread? It's like a 1:5 ratio of people being too nice to people tearing her apart. Look at:
>>6633492
>>6633504
>>6633509
>>6633516
>>6633521
>>6633522
>>6633541
>>6633546
>>6633551
>>6633571
>>6633599
>>6633619
>>6633874
>>6633891
>>6633899

This "/cgl/ is tumblr now" meme is tiresome.

>> No.6634027

i seem to be in the minority here but honestly if a fat girl can coord properly and puts a little effort into her appearance, i prefer her in lolita over a thin and terribly dressed ita anyday

>> No.6634092

>>6633899
Outside of American chubby means pudgy while not landwhale status; like 130 pounds for a 5'2 girl.

>> No.6634124

>>6634092
All of which is fat.

>> No.6634139
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>>6633516
>>6633504
>>6633521
>>6633522
>>6633546
>>6633571
>>6633599
I know there are more terrible comments than these but I couldn't continue reading. I am completely sickened by all of you. 'Eat less"' is the stupidest thing I have ever heard and completely unhealthy. Not to mention it'll destroy your metabolism. Now eating HEALTHY and living healthy is a totally different story. Want to loose a couple pounds? Go vegetarian! It's insanely good for you, but I won't get started on what you carnivores are actually consuming when you think you're eating 'beef'. Anyway, wondering off topic. I'm posting because I can't believe the narcissism of you people. Lolita is to be beautiful and elegant. I honestly do believe that if you wear the right clothing, and if it fits properly, you'll look good. Go to a tailor if you have to! To think that you guys care so much about wait, I can tell you're all insecure, calling other people down, I'm sure people have called you fat and ugly as well. And let me tell you, you're attitudes are repulsive. How does it feel to know you've given in to junior high peer pressure of 'how a girl should look' Curves are sexy. more to grab, more to love. OP Don't listen to these girls, or if you do, do it to grow thicker skin, and know you're better than them, because let's get real, all of these girls still live at home with mommy and daddy, sit on tumblr, and obsess about their image. They probably stick their fingers down their throat after every meal. gross. Not to mention this satisfactory feel of knowing that these girls will probably never be happy with their image. Ladies, I hope every time you look in to a mirror you see how repulsive you are, and I hope it haunts you for the rest of your life. With that attitude you'll never be beautiful.

>> No.6634144

>>6634139
weight*

>> No.6634150

Being honest =/= being a catty motherfucker.

>> No.6634158

>>6634139
Are you trolling or is it actually your first day on /cgl/?

>> No.6634159

>>6634139
You seem like the biggest idiot ITT.

>> No.6634171

>>6634139
>I won't get started on what you carnivores are actually consuming when you think you're eating 'beef'.

Muscle?
Also going vegetarian isn't healthy for everyone. Some people need a lot of protein to stay healthy and beans and eggs don't always provide enough. You really shouldn't be trying to give legit medical advice to someone who you don't know at all, you're just as bad as these other people even though you think you're helping because you're being all touchy feely. As well as the fact that you're saying everyone lives at home and is bulimic. If you want to be taken seriously don't act like the people you're defending against. Come back when you've learned how to behave without being a passive aggressive moron.

>> No.6634399

>>6633484
>Anyone can help me?
My advice would stop being fat.

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6634448

>>6634139
> implying that being vegetarian or vegan means you only eat healthy foods

You are now all aware that both Oreos and Lay's potato chips are vegetarian/vegan.

>> No.6634455

>>6634448
i thought horse hoof or beaver gonad or some shit went into the white filling

>> No.6634473

>>6634455
That's a negative, comrade.

Ingredients are as follows:
SUGAR, ENRICHED FLOUR, HIGH OLEIC CANOLA OIL AND/OR PALM OIL AND/OR CANOLA OIL, AND/OR SOYBEAN OIL, COCOA, HIGH FRUCTOSE CORN SYRUP, CORNSTARCH, LEAVENING, SALT, SOY LECITHIN, VANILLIN, CHOCOLATE.

Directly from the nabisco website.

>> No.6634493

>>6634473
They also said Tesco's 100% beef burgers only had beef in
OH WOW LOOK WHAT HAPPENED WHEN THEY ACTUALLY CHECKED

>> No.6634501

>>6634139
You're such a filthy hypocrite. I detest girls who look down upon others for being thin, and assume they all have eating disorders (which is a despicable thing to joke about anyway.) And you idiot, if you are vegetarian you are eating less; less meat.

It's not 'junior high peer pressure,' it's the fact that being twice the weight you're supposed to be is unhealthy, disgusting and inexcusable. Every body type can be sexy, but morbid obesity is not.

You're an immature fat-apologist, and I hope you wake up and see that telling the truth is not the same as proliferating the beauty idea the media has ingrained into our gender.

>> No.6634515

>>6634493
I'd have to google it because I've no clue what you're talking about.

Also PETA lists Oreos as a vegan friendly food, and you know how they are.

>> No.6634519

>>6634448
they might be, but vegan diets eliminate so many other foods so unless you stockpile oreos and chips and vegan 'junk food' while going vegan, then you will still bybass a sufficient number of bingeworthy foods

>> No.6634532

>>6634519
No, that's what happens when you eat a HEALTHY diet, not a vegan diet. You eat healthy foods and eat junk in moderation. But you don't have to do that to technically have a vegan diet. You could subsist entirely on Oreos and Potato Chips, and call yourself a vegan without being a liar.

So maybe next time you're doling out advice, tell people to have a healthy diet instead of a vegan on, because being vegan does not automatically imply that you're eating healthy.

>> No.6634616

>>6634519
I know a handful of vegans that subsist primarily on carbs. It's no guarantee of healthy eating.

>> No.6634640

>>6634473
>>6634493
my husband went to university for agriculture and we grow our own vegetables organically. Companies in the US and Canada don't have to label GMOs on food products. I don't even eat potatoes I haven't grown my self.
http://truth-out.org/news/item/12715-monsanto-and-genetically-engineered-food-playing-roulette-with-our-health
Corn, potatoes and rice are some of the worst. And corn is in absolutely everything

>> No.6634651

>>6634501
>Every body type can be sexy, but morbid obesity is not.

>>>/d/
have fun

>> No.6634655

>>6633544
This. Good face, just start loosing weight and you'll be fine

>> No.6634720

>>6633484
You have a cute face. :3

My advice is just to eat healthier, get more active and find ways to change your lifestyle that are do-able for you. A lot of people when they try to loose weight make really huge changes and while it's great for a few weeks to a few months, they fall back into their old habits again.

- Weight loss CAN be very easy, but it takes time (about 1-2lbs per week is what is considered healthy and normal)
- You will have bad days. Don't beat yourself up over it. Just go back to the routine you've set up for yourself.
- Don't jump into a heavy exercise regimen if you are a couch potato. Instead, go for walks, ride a bike, look up the couch to 5k program. Work yourself into it slowly, otherwise you can hurt yourself.
- Never skip meals. It will mess up your metabolisim. Eat breakfast, lunch and dinner (and a snack or two). The key is portion control and moderation. Once you get used to proper portions, it's easy from there.
- Treat yourself on occasion. Don't give up things you previously loved entirely. Maybe once a week, allow yourself a bit of something "bad". But remember portions and keeping things in moderation!

I personally lost over 50lbs sofar and have another 20-30 to go before I reach my goal. You can do it!

>> No.6634725

>>6633484
you need to lose 80-100 lbs, then with your face you'll be kawaii.

>> No.6634740

This has to be a troll or some stupid vendetta whore posting her on /cgl/ making it out to be a selfpost, right?

>> No.6634788 [DELETED] 

this is a horrible thread and you should all feel horrible
(because of the trolling, not because of the carebear comments)

>> No.6634808

You're probably going to have to avoid brand and buy from indie brands or taobao. Don't expect the lolita community to accept you they don't even like me for things I can't change let alone something you can. I think you should really focus on learning make-up skills and coordinating your outfits. It's the only thing that will make up for your weight.

>> No.6634817

>mfw OP has a cute face and can look even cuter if she loses weight
>mfw no matter how much i lose weight i wont lose the uglyness
>mfw no face

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>>6634519
doesn't eliminate soda
which people drink now when they're thirsty
as a substitution for water

this is the real reason america is fat. don't buy into "zero calorie" sweet drinks either, you're just putting raw chemicals into your body at that point.

>> No.6635331

>>6634817
I donno, I had a really ugly lumpy face at 205lbs (my highest weight). My face changed dramatically after 50lbs. It's hard to tell I'm the same person. My face isn't all that pretty or cute. I have an odd nose and an ugly flat profile, but losing the weight has made me more confident about my appearance.

If OP decides to loose weight, she will probably look completely adorable.

>> No.6635360

>>6634139
>equating curves with obesity

even though this is a troll, quietly raging over here.

>> No.6635381

For now, I recommend plain simple black dresses/skirt/blouses etc. Don't wear Sweet, it will make you look like an idiot.

And start losing weight immediately. You don't have to become superskinny, but at least make sure your bust becomes less than 100cm.

>> No.6635385

If you don't want to look bad or be qualified as ita, go to the gym or shut up.

>> No.6635405

>>6635381
Seconding this. You don't have to put off wearing Lolita until you lose weight, but stick to Gothic or dark-colored Sweet until you do. It will look way better.

Lolita can be a great weight-loss motivator, so if you really want yo be successful in the fashion, get started now! Your body will thank you.

>> No.6635408

GUYS

STOP

THIS IS A FUCKING TROLL THREAD

OP HASNT RESPONDED TO A SINGLE POST HERE

STTTOOOOPPPP

yes, I mad

>> No.6635412

>>6633904
Troll or not, there are probably some fatty-chans reading this thread that could use the advice.

>> No.6635483

>>6633484
Lolita is for petite girls.
If you want to into lolita get healthier.

Don't ask /fit/, they'll shit all over you, but their sticky will tell you how to get it done.

If you refuse to lose weight and still dress up in lolita, don't be mad when people give you weird glances or outright laugh at you.

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Oh god.

/cgl/, you are so cruel. I guess she was kind of asking for it though.

>> No.6635533

>>6635483
>Lolita is for petite girls.
Funny since in Japan it's considered a fashion for fat girls.
And really some of those dresses are in no way, shape, or form 'petite.' I've heard even the smallest girls complain about how the sizing is.

Oh and protip since nobody clued you in: Everyone is secretly laughing at you and judging you when you dress in lolita out in public. Most normalfags think you're in a performance, dressing in drag, or think you're an ageplayer. It wouldn't make a difference in the world if you were a size 1 or 10. Stop being delusional. You all look like a bunch of weirdos and it's like you're fighting for the title of Queen Weirdshit. Stop.

>> No.6635547

>>6635533
I suppress my powerlevels pretty hard and I've walked by lolitas in the street with normalfag friends. They think it's cute. Honestly it doesn't occur to normalfags that a cute young girl in a poofy dress could be a weeaboo or ageplay thing.

>> No.6635568

>>6635533

It's true. Lolita looks stupid to everyone, whether you're fat or not.

>> No.6635588

>>6635533
>Most normalfags think you're in a performance, dressing in drag, or think you're an ageplayer


Too bad very few lolitas understand this

>> No.6635592

>>6635533
>It wouldn't make a difference in the world if you were a size 1 or 10.
Of course it does. It always does. Fat people look ten times more ridiculous.

>> No.6635598

>>6635533
lolita looks terrible on fat women. It's ironic that so many fat women want to get into it. The dresses you're wearing emphasize small waists and only make fat people look fatter.

>> No.6635646

>>6635588

Most of us understand this, most of us don't care.

At what point after getting dressed up in something like Lolita am I supposed to look at myself in the mirror and say "well shit, I don't look like everyone else, better take it all off"

We strive to be different, we achieve it well. Life is too short to be boring

>> No.6635651

>>6635646
There are ways to be different without looking like an unattractive victorian clown.

Also, you're not striving to be different. You're striving to be the same as girls you see pictures of in Japan. If you really wanted to be different you'd come up with your OWN style of dress.

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>>6635651

I'd be excited to see what you wear anon that makes you a crucial fashion judge in my life

>mfw you shop at Express and Banana Republic
>mfw you think that it actually looks good on you

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>>6635653
>mfw you're responding to trolls expecting some kind of legitimate discussion