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Serious discussion time.

Does cosplay inherently attract 'broken' or 'damaged' females?

I've been going to cons for years now, and if you would have asked me this 3-4 years ago when I first started going, I would have laughed at you and called it bullshit. But honestly, now I'd probably agree. I don't know whether it's that these sorts of girls have become more prominent in the scene, or whether I've only just started noticing them as I began to pay more attention to it, but it's certainly there, as a thing.

Has anyone else noticed it? What do you think is the reason behind it if yes?

>> No.6597258

Cosplay/Japanese media attracts broken people, not just girls.

>> No.6597260

Something as outlandish as Anime and Manga are some of the highest forms of escapism. Because they are so far from the clutches of reality, broken people adore it.

>> No.6597262

>>6597258

This. It's just that broken females are more obvious because of Histrionic Personality Disorder. They do things like post nudes everywhere, have sex with tons of guys or generally behave like a slut. Broken guys tend to become more and more introverted by contrast.

That's why I find it really funny when seagulls always throw the word 'virgin' around as an insult, as if they're any more well adjusted for having spread their legs for a few guys when on the inside, they're probably even more broken.

>> No.6597263

I know I'll get flamed for this, but a lot of girls like Yukapon, Applemilk whatever seem to have a common trend of not having a father figure around. Maybe that plays some role?

>> No.6597265

>>6597260
It's generally guys who get into it for the escapist value it provides. Women see it as more an extension of a social circle, an opportunity to meet guys, to be prominent in that social circle and so on.

>> No.6597278

>Does cosplay inherently attract 'broken' or 'damaged' females?

Yes. 'Nerd girls' are incredibly slutty. It's not even funny. And I'm not talking about known sluts of /cgl/. Like, try asking the average seagull how many sex partners she had. Katsumyio in example had over 7. This might not seem impressive but keep in mind she's barely 20 years old.

>> No.6597283

>>6597265
>Women cosplay for attention.
>Men can cosplay for fun / as a hobby too.

I agree. Well put.

>> No.6597286

>>6597278

You sound surprised dude, you need to understand that ordinary, non-"nerd" females are probably more worth your time. They're less slutty, less shallow, less entitled and most importantly, less goddamn crazy.

Although I do agree. Remember how many people on here defended Yukapon when it turned out she was a whore for random chinks?

>> No.6597292

>>6597286
What. I missed that

>> No.6597293

I'm noticing this 'cosplayers are sluts' meme gaining traction outside of /cgl/ and 4chan and to be honest, it's annoying. I don't want to be thought of in that light.

>> No.6597295

>>6597292

Yukapon went to Japan and whored around, she took videos of herself masturbating and even pissing for random guys for money or whatever. When the whore was found out, /cgl/ defended her massively.

>> No.6597302

>>6597295
Aw that is a bit disappointing. I thought she was so cute too. I mean I guess she still is, but yeah.
Whatever became of that shop or brand she was trying to start?

And to be on topic... Most of the gals I have met are overly sexual or make all these claims, but really have no clue. Basically starving for attention.

>> No.6597310

>>6597295
That actually sounds kinda hot.

She sounds pretty cool.

>> No.6597311

No, I don't think it attracts broken girls specifically. Cats attract broken girls (cat ladies), clubs attract broken girls (club whores), acting attracts broken girls (desperate daddy issue actress)... There are broken goth girls, broken nerds, broken pretty girls.

Similarly, cosplay attracts a lot of misogynist dudes. Although, as does clubs, and old people's bingo games, as does groups of stoners, and just about everything ever.

Essentially what I'm trying to say is that broken people everywhere. In everything. Of both genders. When you are in that group, you obviously notice it more and think that they're the only ones, but they aren't.

>> No.6597317

>>6597302
Yeah. A big part of HPD is behaving overtly sexual all the time, even when it's really inappropriate to be doing so. Think about how common that is with cosplayers in general.

>>6597310
Nasty ass cosplay skank.

>> No.6597320

>>6597317
She's a skank because she made a masturbation video? That's pretty common these days, you know.

Stop being such a prude. Go coordinate your lolita shoe collection.

>> No.6597325

>>6597320
Making schlicking and pissing videos for random men is common for you girls? lol.

No wonder /a/ thinks you're trash.

>> No.6597328

Every alternative culture and hobby attracts broken people.

Why?
Because they are fucking broken an raised on mainstream media. It never worked, they never felt accepted, so they look for something else.

>> No.6597329

>>6597320
What the fuck is wrong with you?! That shits not common at all. Don't make it sound that way.

>> No.6597331

>>6597325
>>6597329
Look up some adult social websites sometime. Just because your life revolves around being an unsexual nerd, wearing lolita dresses and calling guys at anime cons "creepers" doesn't mean the whole world is that way.

But continue trying to get people to believe being sexual is immoral.

>> No.6597334

>>6597329
She has internet disease. She's spent so long on the Internet that she thinks sending random men nudes is normal. Also called femanonitis. It's funny how many nudes you can get from cosplayers just by pretending to be attractive with a fake pic.

>> No.6597336

Dated one for half a year.

So.. Yes.

Inherent daddy issues, lack of father figure, obsessed with control (she stole my FB password and read everything I wrote), somewhat slutty.

But on the flipside, she was great to just hang around with and could be incredibly cute.

And the sex. Oh god the sex. Nothing like finally fucking a girl in a school uniform.

In conclusion, put your dick in crazy, but don't put in your heart.

>> No.6597337

I would take a guess at saying it's escapism when it comes to broken girls, I wouldn't exactly say it's attention whoring in every girls case though and that cosplayers are sluts, sure you'll get some, but it would be a massive lie to say all are like that.

>> No.6597338

>>6597336
Yeah. Seagulls are for sex, not relationships.

>> No.6597341

>>6597336
dont put my dick in my heart what?

>> No.6597342

>>6597341
Don't put your heart in crazy. It's really not that complicated.

>> No.6597343

OP's premise is flawed in that it assumes that there are females who AREN'T "broken" or "damaged."

>> No.6597344

>>6597341
Yep, >>6597342 is what I meant.
I, for one, am done with relationships with girls with daddy issues. But I'm so not done with fucking them <3

>> No.6597347

>>6597331
Still making a niche thing sound like common practice which it isn't if I have to go on a specialty site. BTW way to pick at my reply that doesn't say anything about morality/immorality but just a so called "common practice" of making masturbation videos.

So thanks for pretty much summing up that you can't read and have an agenda.

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>>6597344
Why you so mean?

>> No.6597349 [DELETED] 

>>6597331

>telling someone being unsexual is bad
>on a thread where people are trying to figure out why broken sluts are everywhere in cosplay

I can't even begin.

>> No.6597352

>>6597348
Because I tried to be in a happy relationship with broken girls twice, and both times, they ended up wrecking my heart more the more commitment and love I put into it. Especially the second one, who was only happy and "normal" after sex (and only if the sex involved me throwing her around, slapping her ass, choking and biting her and all that ...I mean, I love that kind of sex, but it's really hard to find someone who's into that and who ISN'T completely fucked up).

Don't worry though, I also think (hope) that most girls grow out of that bullshit a bit; both girls I dated were 18 when we got together.

>> No.6597353

>>6597263
Yukapon's dad was in the picture and she still turned out to be a huge slut. Lack of a father figure has nothing to do with it.

>> No.6597361

>>6597352
Oh, in that case I can see your point.

I'm scared I'll never "grow out of it".

The other day Charms posted on tumblr something about "if you ACTUALLY have a problem, you'll find a way to cope, you'll figure it all. If you never manage to cope it's because you are a bitch who only wants the drama and feeds on the attention" and it was so mean. I'm scared I'll never grow out of it, but at the same time I cannot believe I'm the histrionic crazy kind because honestly, I don't talk to anyone besides people on 4chan and my mom. I'm not getting any attention from anywhere.

I know I should know better than take something written on tumblr seriously but still.
And ahh, sorry for ranting like that. I'm home alone for the next few days with noone to talk to and not even on the internet I seem to be able to be heard at all.

You know what is the feeling of utter, complete, crushing loneliness, the notion that even if you did something to seriously injury yourself nobody would know, nobody would care, nobody would even look for you or notice your absence and they'd only find out days later?

I should leave the thread before the "lel weak" "u so pathetic" comments, but I... had to say this. I'm sorry.

>> No.6597364

>>6597353
Yukapon is adopted.

>> No.6597365

>>6597361
It's okay, anon, don't worry. You will grow out of it.

>> No.6597371

>>6597347
lol right, being sexual on the internet is such a "niche". Only, what, 400 million people are on adult websites?

And yes, you're trying to insinuate that this person is somehow a bad or contemptible person for making a masturbation video or being sexual. Which makes absolutely no fucking sense.

By the way, just out of curiosity, what is your view on girls who have vendettas and try to disparage other girls on anonymous image boards? They seem like total angels.

>> No.6597375

>>6597371
>400 million people are on adult websites
Yes I know a lot of people go look at porn on the internet but that's not what you said in your reply here at>>6597331 where you said "adult social websites".
The two aren't the same thing.

I'm not insinuating they were bad for doing it nor was I reprimanding her, I was still and am now picking on your reply that spoke of it that was common practice, even look at my replies >>6597329 and >>6597347
So I'd like it if you'd just stop assuming I'm saying something when I'm not and it's clearly written that I'm not and you're just reading what you want.

And if you're implying I have a vendetta against Yukapon or anything, I haven't kept up with any of this, and I am sage-ing every of my replies because it has nothing actually to do with the question at hand.

>> No.6597376

>tfw you always wanted a cute nerdy gf but then you find out in this thread that they're all crazy and sleep with others while in relationship with you

I should have just been a normalfag like everyone else.

>> No.6597380

>>6597361
>"if you ACTUALLY have a problem, you'll find a way to cope, you'll figure it all. If you never manage to cope it's because you are a bitch who only wants the drama and feeds on the attention"
Well that's the biggest load of shit I have ever read. Yes, there are problems people exaggerate that they could easily deal with, and I'm sure most of the social media sites are loaded with those sort of complaints, but to cast the statement that people can just cope with any problem is ludicrous. A lot of people seriously need help.

>> No.6597381

>>6597361
Charms is a complete dumbass and histronic herself so I wouldn't listen to her unsolicited "advice". Unless it's for beauty stuff, she is a beauty school dropout after all.

>> No.6597387

>>6597311
Not sure why this post didn't get more attention, but I definitely agree.

>> No.6597390

>>6597387
More inflammatory posts were made shortly thereafter.

That particular post also brings to light another important point, when dealing with people attempt to leave your prejudices at the door. Surprisingly some of the nicest and most interesting people I have talked to, especially on 4chan, have been some of the "strangest".

>> No.6597391

I think more than just the cosplayers are broken people. The whole anime and manga scene attracts some seriously delusional people. More than half their life is lived in their head and through the characters they feel so strongly about.

I mean a lot aren't bad people, they are just a little messed up. Not very grounded in reality for one reason or another.

>> No.6597394

>>6597391
Taking the opposite outlook: They are very grounded in reality, they just don't like the reality they find themselves in. /a/ sort of being the ultimate testament to this theory. Sort of a "Yeah, this is reality but it sucks dick so fuck it."

>> No.6597395

>>6597390
Well yeah, broken or messed up doesn't immediately imply that they are mean, boring or bad people. Messed up people are usually fascinating, and in many cases, they are kind people. They just struggle sometimes and can be hard to handle.

>> No.6597397

>>6597394
I suppose I can sort of get behind that. But I see it more as a refusal to accept reality the way it is and refuse to work with it. Which is why it feels more like they aren't grounded.

>> No.6597401

Holy shit I've been thinking the same thing, it's not just cosplay though, it seems to be mostly nerd-oriented things from what I've seen. Almost all of my fandom friends have some sort of trauma or have had bullshit happening to them. I'm standing here as a fucking beacon of normality in comparison and I honestly thought it was just me.

>> No.6597405

>GIRLS?? Having SEX?!?!? SLLLLLLLLLLLLLUUUUUTTTTTTTTTSSSSSSSSSS

Goddammit America, why is it always like this with you?

>> No.6597407

>>6597405
She did something far worse than sex.


She MASTURBATED.

>> No.6597408

>>6597405
Remember, as a female, 1+ partners makes you a slut whore.

>> No.6597409
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>>6597397
I look at it more like broken idealists. The world and the people in it (themselves likely included) did not live up to their expectations and it crushed them.

This image is oddly related. Waifufags sort of follow my proposed idea above very well.

>> No.6597411

Anyone else ever notice that it's usually not the Asian girls who behave like this?

In general, and on /cgl/ I mean. Maybe that's why a lot of white guys prefer them?

>> No.6597412

>>6597371
Are you seriously this delusional? You think 1/15th of the world's population are on AFF and fetlife? LOL.

>> No.6597413

>>6597411
You obviously haven't been around a lot of asian girls.

>> No.6597414

>>6597408
It's ALWAYS the Americans though, what is it with those guys and hating on body lovin'?

>> No.6597415

>>6597412
As well as thousands of other sites, yes.

>> No.6597418

>>6597411
You can likely blame two things for that, the Yamato Nadeshiko idea (as well as it's presentation in media) and the fact that Asian is "different, but not too different".

>> No.6597417

>>6597361
What do you mean?

Grow out of what? What about your behavior at the moment do you not like? Are you sltuty?

And why are you referring to Charms as a source of advice. She's insane. And she's a whore on top of all that.

>> No.6597419

>>6597361
>You know what is the feeling of utter, complete, crushing loneliness

Uh, you're a girl, you don't feel this. Ever.

Loneliness for you is not having sex for a few weeks.

>> No.6597422

>>6597364
So her mother was a whore?

Like mother like daughter. Blood always tells.

>> No.6597423

>>6597405
>Implying America isn't ridiculously liberal in its attitudes towards sex

Who are you comparing America to? Sweden?

America compared to the rest of the world is insanely open about sex.

You think your beloved nihonians aren't conservative socially?

>> No.6597424

>>6597414
It's strange. In America, we love showing off women, we love praising them for looks, and basically telling them you should look cute and put together all the time. In fact, people get upset with dumpy girls, like they aren't living up to their expectations. Guys and girls a like get mad at them and look down on them.

So we sexualize them, we praise them for attracting attention, but if they act on it, they are sluts. I don't really get it. And this whole thing of you should look good but never act on it, really fucks with girls heads. I mean, they are human, they get aroused just like men, they want to be fucked. But NOPE, you shouldn't do anything about it, cause it will ruin your image.

Well no wonder why girls have so many rape fantasies and like guys who swoop in and are like, damn gurl, let me get some of that. Fucking the confident douche who makes it obvious he wants to give her the D over the nice guy who cares about her. They make it okay for her to want it bad.

Which of course, makes the nice guys think of them as sluts. So it just keeps spinning. The circle of stupid keeps on going.

>> No.6597428

>>6597413
Bootybothered white girl spotted.

>>6597418
>blame

Why would you blame anyone for it?

I'm glad there are some semi normal girls left in the world who don't think spreading your legs makes you "strong" and "powerful" because Jessica Valenti said so.

Asian girls are way more marriage material than white girls are.

>> No.6597431

>>6597424
>Liberal suggesting that holding women to some kind of average baseline level of attractiveness (i.e. "dont be a fatass") is exclusively "American" and therefore parochial
>Liberal suggesting America is sexually conservative

Nope. Stop using other Western countries as your only point of reference. East Asia is vastly more conservative than America.

>Well no wonder why girls have so many rape fantasies

You have them because of biology sweetheart.

>> No.6597433

>>6597428
Well it is two of the possible culprits for the case, as it were. Blame seemed appropriate.

>> No.6597436

>>6597423
Europe + South America + Australia are all waaay more sexually liberal than America, that's half of the world. They're also joined by Canada and most of Central America.

America's view on sexuality is on par with the Middle East and fucking Africa. You guys are fucked.

>> No.6597437

athens you don't get tired of making the same threads over and over? Go get some plastic surgery you creepy fuck.

>> No.6597438

>>6597428
Same. I don't actually date Asian girls out of any intrinsically greater attraction to them, it's just that they're more reserved, have a better work ethic, have a lower number of sexual partners, generally don't place as huge an emphasis on sex as white girls and so on.

Show me a white girl who is reserved and not slutty and I'll date her in a heartbeat.

>> No.6597439

>>6597431
But we're only talking about America. Not talking about Asia or other Western countries. Point of reference has nothing to do with this.

Also, having rape fantasies because of biology. That is cute. Last I checked I don't have those, and last I checked I have a pretty nice D.

>> No.6597441

>>6597436
Depends what part of Europe you're from. Eastern Europe and Southern Europe aren't really that 'open' and 'free'.

Australia is the same as any Anglo country.

Sweden is a bit more liberal, but it's hardly an example to follow, the place is a joke.

East Asian countries are top of all the rankings that matter (academic achievement, intelligence, patents per capita, lowest obesity rates, highest life expectencies etc).

They're the examples to follow.

>> No.6597442

>>6597439
So what is America conservative in comparison to, if you're just considering it in a vacuum? You make all these bombastic claims like "America does X, America does Y, it's so weird how America does Z".

What exactly is your point of reference here for these sorts of exagerrated, bombastic assertions?

>> No.6597443

The problem with cosplay is the suspension of disbelief is what attracts everyone to it. Admit it: when you put on a complete costume, you are channelling that character.

That creates a massive disconnect between your inner monologue and the external plurality of real life.

At a con you might check someone out and think "no, their chin is too weak, she has the wrong skin color to be her" etc. At the same time, you are living the character you think you are. You see yourself as the living embodiment of the fictional superhero, but you simultaneously see everyone else there as "just a person in dress-up".

Cognitive dissonance like that makes the brain operate on alert mode (fight/flight), it's neurological, you cannot turn it off. This makes social interactions hostile and/or panicked.

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>>6597438
lol generalizations much?

Asian girls are just as slutty, lazy and stupid as anyone else in the world. Stop believing in dumb stereotypes.

>> No.6597449

>>6597442
It's not a comparison, it's observations. And I didn't say it was conservative.

I'm saying it's goofy that we sexualize women so much and then turn around and have a distaste for them being sexually active. Just saying it's silly.

>> No.6597450

>>6597361

You really shouldn't be looking to Charms of all people for advice.

>> No.6597445

>>6597361
Sorry I didn't answer, hanging out with little sister lol.
You should not worry too much about it, if anything, the girls I was with were still really sweet. Also, what's your tumblr?

>> No.6597451

>>6597441
The point is that in no other self-proclaimed "first world country" has a view on female sexuality like the US does, it's horrible and destructive.

>> No.6597453

>>6597451
A lot of the people who use the moral bullshit of the USA as an excuse are the same people who act slutty. And there's a big difference between a girl openly living out her sexuality and a slut. I'm from europe btw.

>> No.6597455

>>6597441
On the contrary most academic achievements, geniuses, and best educations come from America. Those people from east asian countries come to USA when they want the best education. And of the top 20 countries for life expectancy only 3 are even from the continent of Asia. Pretty sure you just made up the "patents" thing too.

But yeah, I suppose some of them have lower obesity rates. That's really something to be proud of, I guess.

>> No.6597458

>>6597451
>The point is that in no other self-proclaimed "first world country" has a view on female sexuality like the US does, it's horrible and destructive.

Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Singapore?

All these countries are much more conservative.

>> No.6597459

>>6597449
>I'm saying it's goofy that we sexualize women so much and then turn around and have a distaste for them being sexually active. Just saying it's silly.

So you're saying women are so weak minded the media turns them into sluts?

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>>6597455
Japan has the highest aggregate number of registered patents in the world, despite having a population under 1/2 of that of Murka.

>> No.6597461

>>6597455
Also, Shanghai has a higher life expectency than New York despite being more polluted.

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>>6597460
Trying to compare number of patents is meaningless because a patent is nothing more than a rights to an intellectual property, not a denomination of an invention's merit. And each country distrubtes and makes their own rules for patents.

In any case, America is #1 in number of patents, having over 4.5 million patents. Japan has 800k.

http://www.uspto.gov/web/offices/aido/oeip/taf/cst_all.htm

>> No.6597469

The whole time I read that back and forth as "parents" not "patents". I was so confused.

>> No.6597471

>>6597469
And I read them as "patients" and not "patents".

>> No.6597470

>>6597466
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/educatio20498356

>> No.6597472

I think subcultures attract those that feel like outsiders, especially when you're younger, so if you're into a niche interest or dress a certain way you're more likely to find belonging. Belonging to a community can actually be really good for self esteem issues or if you have mental health problems etc.

I'm female and I'm fairly confident and well rounded, if a bit odd, I go to cons to socialise and have fun and I'm meeting more people now anime and comics are less of a niche interest.

>> No.6597473

>>6597471
Haha, how to read, by you and me.

>> No.6597474

>>6597438
You never actually saw a Japanese girl in your life, right?

>> No.6597479

>>6597474
Another butthurt white girl.

Aren't you the ones always gushing over your oppas?

>> No.6597480

>>6597411
>asian girls
>not crazy

I have a lot of relatives/friends in the military who thought this too.

Now they're all living with or married to crazy asian women (mainly Japanese, go figure) who trapped them with pregnancy or marriage (once you get married in Japan it is hard to get a divorce).

True story: once my brother's Japanese girlfriend tried to call his cellphone while he was at work but he had it turned off because the battery was dying and they were testing engines (he is a jet mechanic in the USAF). When he turned his phone on hours later he had over 100 missed calls from her with some crazy messages he couldn't understand and when he got home she'd thrown all his clothing outside of the house.

another true story: my friend's Japanese wife (they live in Japan also) gets super angry when he listens to his favorite artist, Shiina Ringo because she is an attractive woman. She screams and trashes his stuff, deletes his harddrive with music on, etc. In order to make life bearable he deleted his facebook so she wouldn't get angry about him talking to his female friends. I haven't heard anything from him in over a year.

>> No.6597482

>>6597466
Those are no. of patents in force.

Obvious America in the past was a lot more productive.

These days Japan leads the world in terms of patent registration.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List__countries_by_patents#Top_20_counies_in_2010

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6597483

I love asian girls for their sensitivity, kindness, and motherly virtue.

>> No.6597486

>>6597483
Comparing SE Asians and NE Asians is like comparing Whites and Arabs.

>> No.6597491

>>6597482
So... your point is that in the past couple years more Japanese people have applied for patents? What exactly do you wish that to mean?

>These days Japan leads the world in terms of patent registration.

That's like saying "These days France leads the world in terms of number of people registering their cars at the DMV."

Also, you're still glossing over the fact that most of the countries on any list is not east asian. Which was what your argument originally was before it fell into some kind patrotism for Japan.

>> No.6597495

>>6597483
>No, no those asian girls don't count. I was talking about some other asian girls.

gif comes from china, btw.

>> No.6597498

>>6597495
>gif comes from china

Citation needed.

>> No.6597499

>>6597495

I thought that gif was from India. At least, that's what I've seen it labelled as in the past.

>> No.6597503

>>6597483
Most white women sympathized with Casey Anthony.

>> No.6597505

>>6597503
I hope that's sarcasm. Everyone I know wanted her to be shanked in jail

>> No.6597507

>>6597505
>Wishing other people to be murdered

Typical crazy white bitch.

>> No.6597509

>>6597505
I only ever hear the "I hate kids" stuff from whtie girls tbh.

>> No.6597510

>>6597483
This one's a gypsy.

>> No.6597512

>>6597256
>Does cosplay inherently attract 'broken' or 'damaged' females?

To be 100% honest, yes it does for the most part

>> No.6597515

What I don't get is why broken girls can't tone down the sluttyness?

Most of them I've spoken to who grow up admit that promiscuity actually ended up hurting them emotionally. So why do they do it?

Why can't they be shut ins like the guys?

>> No.6597518

>>6597320
>She's a skank because she made a masturbation video?

well actually yes it does

>> No.6597517

>>6597503

What.

I hated her, she was so greedy and entitled, some people would kill for a healthy, sweet child like she had.

>> No.6597520

>>6597518
I heard she also exposes her ankles in public.

>> No.6597522

>>6597515
It's a way for them to get attention - any attention.

These girls have spent their lives being bullied or told they aren't good enough, some guy with questionable motives comes along and uses her as a fuck toy and there you go. Off she goes thinking that's how she needs to act to get acceptance.

>> No.6597523

>>6597520
fuck off retard
posting nudes, masturbation videos etc does indeed make you a skank
it practically defines the damn word

>> No.6597525

>>6597523
No. It makes you a sexual being in the year 2013.

You don't even know what "skank" means.

>> No.6597527

Why is everyone on 4chan so obsessed with other people's sex lives? If a girl wants to have lots of sex, whatever. If a guy wants to have no sex and would rather have a waifu and lots of money to spend on vidya and figma, whatever. Unless you personally want to have sex with these people and are being thwarted by their attitudes/behaviour, why care?

>> No.6597528

>>6597320
>She's a skank because she made a masturbation video? That's pretty common these days, you know.
So is making pissing videos too.

Right guys.... right.... right?

ITS NORMAL RIGHT?

>> No.6597529

>>6597525
>No. It makes you a sexual being in the year 2013.
>You don't even know what "skank" means.


>Posting nudes, masturbation videos and pissing vidoes
>makes you a sexual being in 2013!
Only on /cgl/.... I should screencap this

>> No.6597532

>>6597525
I think you've spent too much time on the internet. It's not normal and it's not looked upon as normal.

>> No.6597533

>Does cosplay inherently attract 'broken' or 'damaged' females?

Yes

>paranoid
>psychiatric medication
>into heavy drugs
>gaudy tattoos
>socially inept
>slutty attitude
>come from broken families
>extremely nasty attitude
>super special snowflake syndrome

This particular hobby attracts the worst of the worst

>> No.6597534

>>6597527
>hy is everyone on 4chan so obsessed with other people's sex lives?
Why are people obsessed with other peoples jobs/hobbies/interests/clothing.

It helps you determine the kind of person they are, and if you'd ever want to get to know them.
Hurr.

>> No.6597535

>>6597534
So? You just decide 'okay, this person does this, I'd rather not date them' and get on with your life.

>> No.6597537

>>6597535
>So? You just decide 'okay, this person does this, I'd rather not date them' and get on with your life.
Exactly,
Its when people try argue "they arent a slut/skank/piece of trash! You shouldnt avoid them like that! Its different in 2013 etc etc". that people start to argue.

>> No.6597538 [DELETED] 

>>6597532
It's certain not abnormal.

And more importantly, why the fuck do you CARE? She's not doing anything wrong. Mind your own business stop being so prissy and judgmental.

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>>6597533
This, it tends to be the same with those that play video games (at least those that i've met).

90% of the time its daddy issues/attention issues. Etc

>> No.6597542

>>6597532
It's certainly not abnormal.

And more importantly, why the fuck do you CARE? She's not doing anything wrong. Mind your own business stop being so prissy and judgmental.

>> No.6597545

>>6597538
>It's certain not abnormal.
>And more importantly, why the fuck do you CARE? She's not doing anything wrong. Mind your own business stop being so prissy and judgmental.

>not abnormal.
Once again, ONLY ON /CGL/ FOLKS.

And as for this
>more importantly, why the fuck do you CARE?
Thats the point, we don't. We accept the fact that shes a rather disgusting human being, you're trying to argue that shes not and that its "normal".

>> No.6597543

>>6597538
>It's certain not abnormal.

Yes it is. It's not something you'd admit to your friends, let alone your parents.

You just have internet disease like most camwhores, you probably think pornstars are "artists" too.

>> No.6597549

>>6597537
People argue here because women on /cgl/ want to put down and belittle other women. Finding something petty to attack another person with is all you need.

>> No.6597548

>>6597537
The person defending Yuka is a tard, but I can see why people generally object to people saying that all cosplayers are sluts, because it's a pointless generalisation. Generally, the people who make these threads have already decided cosplayers are sluts, so they might as well jsut go ahead and avoid cosplayers and be done with the issue. Sure, they might miss out on meeting some nice girls, but it's not exactly a giant loss to the cosplay community if some guys decide they don't want to date cosplayers.

>> No.6597550

>>6597533
>extremely nasty attitude

This.

Cosplayers are just nasty, unpleasant people in general. This applies to interpersonal relationships too. The world is eternally a high school where they're vicariously living out the bitchy queen-bee high scool life they wish they could have had.

They don't realize all the normal girls have grown up and don't spend their entire lives ranting and raving about how much they hate the girl they're pretending to be friends with.

And you people call /a/ and /jp/ and /v/ sad and losers, it's embarassing.

Most guys don't marry women like you, you stay single for your entire lives more or less. Enjoy your "polyamory" lol.

>> No.6597551

>>6597548
>The person defending Yuka is a tard, but I can see why people generally object to people saying that all cosplayers are sluts, because it's a pointless generalisation. Generally, the people who make these threads have already decided cosplayers are sluts, so they might as well jsut go ahead and avoid cosplayers and be done with the issue. Sure, they might miss out on meeting some nice girls, but it's not exactly a giant loss to the cosplay community if some guys decide they don't want to date cosplayers.
I agree with you. Though I'd think that for those who do care about the scene, they'd be rather concerned over the image its getting from those kinds of slut cosplayers.

>> No.6597552

>>6597548
>The person defending Yuka is a tard
I've yet to hear a compelling argument on why she should be attacked in the first place. "She's a silly weeaboo" is not a valid excuse.

>> No.6597555

>>6597527

For them, it's entertaining and a form of escapism in and of itself.

I'd go as far as saying that it's them living vicariously through another person's life

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>>6597552
>I've yet to hear a compelling argument on why she should be attacked in the first place. "She's a silly weeaboo" is not a valid excuse.

>ignores the previous posts responding to that matter.

>> No.6597558

>>6597551
People who are judgmental about cosplay are probably just as judgmental about other things which don't fit their narrow worldview and so best avoided in general. It's not like that's a hard thing to do. Seems like most people in this thread aren't capable of 'agreeing to disagree'.

>>6597549
Your post doesn't make any sense unless you're implying that it's women propagating the 'eww don't date cosplayers they're sluts' stereotype, which I think we can both agree isn't true.

>> No.6597557

>>6597548
>so they might as well jsut go ahead and avoid cosplayers and be done with the issue
If they want to meet someone with similar interests and cosplay/anime/manga is a big part of their life, this isn't really feasible.

>> No.6597559

>>6597548

What value is there in the UK cosplay community in all seriousness?

I mean, look at Annie. She epitomizes the 'broken, daddy issues female' cosplayer.

Is she and those like her really worth being friends with?

>> No.6597560

>>6597556
Which post, the ones calling her a "skank" because one time she masturbated? Is that the compelling argument you're talking about?

Perhaps you can only speak in vague green text taunts because you have no argument.

>> No.6597562

>>6597557
Welp, that's not the cosplayer's problem, is it? If you like a certain type of girl and those girls do things you don't like, you either suck it up or go find another type of girl who shares your views. You can't mould a whole subculture into your perfect waifu, people are going to do their own thing. This whole post just smacks of trying ot control other people, which is about the most pointless thing you can ever try to do.

>> No.6597563

>>6597552
She's a whore. Like, literally a whore.

She's a humongous weeb of the "asian men are superior desu" kind.

She's batshit.

I have more respect for Koti than I do Yukapon. Yet /cgl/ loves Yuka because she reminds them of their own camwhoring days.

>> No.6597564
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>>6597558
>People who are judgmental about cosplay are probably just as judgmental about other things which don't fit their narrow worldview and so best avoided in general.
A good assumption, but an assumption nonetheless.

I enjoy the idea of cosplay and love the idea of meeting people interested in the same fictional works/ideas that i'm in. However with the scene it currently has that can be hard.

Granted of course that not all cosplayers are like that. But it still doesnt help.

>> No.6597566

>GENERAL GENERALIZING GENERATIONS

>> No.6597567

>>6597558
>Your point doesn't make any sense unless I agree with it

typical moron tripfag.

>> No.6597568

>>6597559
I don't care what you think of Annie and I'm pretty sure Annie doesn't care what you think of Annie. Incredibly lazy trolling attempt.

>> No.6597570

>>6597560
>Which post, the ones calling her a "skank" because one time she masturbated? Is that the compelling argument you're talking about?
>Perhaps you can only speak in vague green text taunts because you have no argument.

>Because she masturbated.
Can you even read?
>videos of her masturbating and pissing.
Totally normal guys, totally normal.

>> No.6597571

>>6597560
Why do you omit the fact she masturbated on camera and pissed on camera for a random Japanese man?

Why do you omit to mention the fact she's slept around with numerous guys while she's there?

>> No.6597572

>>6597568
>I don't care what you think of Annie and I'm pretty sure Annie doesn't care what you think of Annie. Incredibly lazy trolling attempt.
Thats not the point hes making, hes talking about the community and the effect her actions has on the image of said community.

This isn't that hard to understand.

>> No.6597574

>>6597527
>If a guy wants to have sex with little girls, whatever.
'Whatever' is a two way street.

>> No.6597575

>>6597567
So I was right and you're a pillock? Excellent, glad we managed to clear that one up.

>>6597564
Well, I can see why that would bother you, but as I said earlier, you can't control other people. No amount of bile on 4chan is going to change how cosplayers conduct their sex lives, so it's much more productive to just hold out for a girl who shares your views on sex. There's plenty of them, but I think most people (most robots) have just decided it's easier to bitch about it on /cgl/ than to actually go out and meet those people, especially since they're likely to be shyer than the promiscuous type and harder to meet.

>> No.6597577

>>6597568
Eva why are you being so closed minded?

>> No.6597581

>>6597568

You're incredibly stupid if you think Annie isn't exactly the kind of person Libra referred to.

Purposefully infecting someone with an STD because you dislike his girlfriend?

That's typical cosplayer behavior.

>> No.6597584

>>6597581
>Purposefully infecting someone with an STD because you dislike his girlfriend?
Holy shit this happened?

What. the. fuck.

>> No.6597585

>>6597572
He's trolling. If he had a valid point to make, he wouldn't have started name-dropping.

>>6597574
As long as he's not going out and raping children, why should I care? It's not like people choose to be paedophiles.
I'm going to move one step ahead here and pre-empt you replying to this with 'baww but guys can rape little girls if they want!' The difference is that the examples I gave don't harm anybody.

>> No.6597586

>>6597562
Nice straw man. In order to avoid this
>Sure, they might miss out on meeting some nice girls
they keep looking, despite knowing their chances are small. It's not about forcing anyone to act a certain way; it's about lamenting the fact they don't and pondering why that is.

>> No.6597587

>>6597574
Actually, if it were okay for men to have sex with 10 year old girls, I'm pretty sure they'd let whores whore themselves out, no problem.

Anon for president.

>> No.6597588

>>6597571
Diff. Anon just dropping in.
Okay, she did those things. Still not affecting her life obviously. Now you think she's a skank. Okay...now what? Why does this matter again?

>> No.6597589

>>6597563
Unless she makes a living by asking for money in exchange for sexual services no, she is not "literally a whore." And even if she WAS a prostitute, is there anything actually wrong with that?

>She's a humongous weeb
More like you're humongously immature. Do you also wait in the parking lot after school for people in glasses to pass by so you can laugh and call them nerds? Grow up.

>She's batshit
What is this supposed to mean, that she's silly or flamboyant? Again, WHY do you care? How is this grounds for assault?

>I don't respect her
NOBODY IS ASKING YOU TO.

>> No.6597590

>>6597581
Annie's one person and a fairly unusual case. If the entire cosplay community behaved like Annie did at her worst, it would have imploded long ago.

>> No.6597591

>>6597572
I'm of one mind on this also. I'd like to actually go to a few cons and meet a few people, and some of the people sound quite nice, but people like Annie just put me off completely. It's like every /jp/ stereotype about what cosplayers are like rolled into one massive ball of daddy issues.

>> No.6597592

>>6597575
Why invest the time and effort with broken people who refuse to change? You are a prime example of

>'broken' or 'damaged'

>> No.6597594

>>6597588
>Okay, she did those things
Cool that you accept it.
>Now you think she's a skank. Okay...now what? Why does this matter again?
Shes a skank, a dirty one. Why does it matter? Well it doesnt anymore, just tells me more about her and that i wouldnt want to be anywhere near her.
Ruins the image of the community shes associated with too

>> No.6597595

>>6597588
>Still not affecting her life obviously.

Yeah, sure. She's Zeno of Citium.

>> No.6597599

>>6597589
>Unless she makes a living by asking for money in exchange for sexual services no, she is not "literally a whore." And even if she WAS a prostitute, is there anything actually wrong with that?
Oh boy now we are actually arguing terminology.

>is there anything wrong with that?
Holy. Fucking. Shit.
I thought people were joking when they mentioned how bad /cgl/ was. Did you even learn about history and prostitution?

>>6597589
>>I don't respect her
>NOBODY IS ASKING YOU TO.
Holy shit, this fucking teenager logic.

Its hilarious

>> No.6597597

>>6597585

Would you be alright if there was a law that made it legal for old men to have sex with 10 year olds if it also made sure that whores like you won't be made fun of anymore?

Or are you willing to sacrifice yourself and your whore sisters and willing to keep being slut shamed so that 10 year olds don't have the sex they crave for 24/7?

>> No.6597598

>>6597571
Do you believe that masturbating on camera is immoral?

>SHE SLEEPS AROUND WITH ALL KINDS OF GUYS IN JAPAN

Nice rumor mongering. I wonder if you have even a shred of evidence.

>> No.6597600

>>6597589
Actually, I'm pretty sure she did it for gifts and a career boost, so yes, literally a whore. That's a pretty simple case of exchanging sex for money.

>>6597586
See, I would agree with you if these people just complained about it among themselves (as they do on /r9k/, and I have no problem with that), but coming on /cgl/ and making a big deal out of it is trying to control cosplayers and force them to change, which is completely retarded. Your description makes it sound a hell of a lot less aggressive than it actually is.

>> No.6597601

>>6597588
Still a skank

>>6597589
>Unless she makes a living by asking for money in exchange for sexual services no, she is not "literally a whore.

A whore is still a whore but you have a hard time understanding that

>humongous weeb
She suffers from basic forms of communication

>> No.6597602

>>6597589
>anything wrong with that?

Why yes, there is.

>More like you're humongously immature.

No, I think the immature one is the one who does the whole fixation on asian men routine. Most weeb chicks grow out of that, let alone ordianry girls.

>What is this supposed to mean

That she is emotionally and mentally dysfunctional.

>NOBODY IS ASKING YOU TO.

Frigg off nerd.

You femanons exist to dress up for us.

>> No.6597604

>>6597592
And you are not?

>> No.6597608

>>6597592
And I found someone who loves me for it, lucky me!
If you don't want to invest the time and effort, don't. Nobody is forcing anyone to date cosplayers.

>>6597597
You're really pretty bad at this.

>> No.6597605

>>6597594
>This girl masturbated in a video during her private personal life. I don't want to be anywhere near her.

Can you be any more judgmental?

>> No.6597607

>>6597598
>Do you believe that masturbating on camera is immoral?

Yes. I would be disappointed in my daughter if she did that for random men over the internet, and so should you, and if you aren't, then don't have children, because they're going to be enormous fuckups.

>> No.6597609

>>6597600
>but coming on /cgl/ and making a big deal out of it is trying to control cosplayers and force them to change, which is completely retarded. Your description makes it sound a hell of a lot less aggressive than it actually is.
What if they are people who care about the scene and would rather it NOT be viewed as a group of broken attention whoring bitches?

This is not a new concept to groups/organisations. Image is important

>> No.6597610

>>6597600
Where better to determine the cause of this behaviour and, indeed, the truth of it than a board dedicated to cosplay?

>> No.6597611

>>6597605
The fact it's private doesn't change the fact it was for a guy she hardly knew.

I mean, just how weeby have you got to be tio schlick on camera for a guy purely because he's Nihonjin desu?

>> No.6597612

>>6597605
>Can you be any more judgmental?

>ignores the whole talk of her pissing/whoring out.
Yea, im very 'judgemental'

>> No.6597614
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ITT:

>arguing with Eva Braun

REMINDER THAT SHE'S A HYPOCRITE WHO ARGUES FOR ARGUING'S SAKE

>"OH EM GEE, I'M A LESBIAN BISEXUAL WHO LEARNS FRENCH TO BECOME A BANK MANAGER BECAUSE IM ON OXFORD xD"
>"ALSO I LOVE ONLY UGLY VIRGINS FROM /r9k/ COZ THEY SUPPA QT OR MUSCULAR NIGRETTES WITH MUSTACHES xDDD"
>"ALSO IT TURNS OUT THAT I'M JUST A REGULAR BLAND WHORE THAT DROPS TRIP TO SAY SHE SLEPT WITH SOME FOUR-EYED INBRED CREEPER"

>> No.6597616

>>6597608
I asked you a simple question but you're too chicken shit to answer.

Good to know.

>> No.6597621

I'm a girl but I just want cons to go back to how they were. No fake geek girls (yes, they do exist), no idiots into PUA who are only there to meet girls (these two groups feed off of each other), no goddamn raves and drugfags everywhere.

These people have their own events they can attend.

>> No.6597618

Heh. Nothing anyone says is going to persuade the other person.
Jesus fucking christ, there's enough hate in the community guys. Learn to let shit go.

>> No.6597619

>>6597614
>>6597614
Holy shit, thank you for that. Adding to the filter.

>> No.6597625

>>6597602
>Why yes, there is. I can't think of anything to say on that note.. but just trust me.

>No, I think the immature one is the one who does the whole fixation on asian men routine. Most weeb chicks grow out of that, let alone ordianry girls.
Her being immature or not is irrelevant to you being immature. A girl being "weeaboo" is not grounds for you to go on a childish cyber bullying campaign against her.

>she is emotionally and mentally dysfunctional.

I doubt you know her well enough to judge something like that. But even if it were to be true that's still not a reason to hate or bully someone. If you were a good human being you would feel sympathy for people with mental illness.

>> No.6597626

>>6597525
>No. It makes you a sexual being in the year 2013.

um no pretty much everyone on the planet is a "sexual being" and sex is private personal thing between people
posting nudes videos etc is NOT being a sexual being it is being an attention whore skank
no matter what you retards say or try to explain away people with healthy self images stable mental health and a good sex lives do not post their junk all over the internet for millions of people to gawk at

>> No.6597627

>>6597614
/thread

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>>6597621
>I'm a girl but I just want cons to go back to how they were. No fake geek girls (yes, they do exist), no idiots into PUA who are only there to meet girls (these two groups feed off of each other), no goddamn raves and drugfags everywhere.
>These people have their own events they can attend


>PureCosplayGirl
Iwanttobelieve.jpg

>> No.6597630

>>6597609
It's still trying to control people and it's still pointless. Even if the change you want to effect in people is positive, it's still not something you have any right or power to do. People have to make their own mistakes.

>>6597610
Did you perhaps mean 'where better to scream and cry at women for not doing what I want them to?' Because that's what happens. Reasonable discussion is very rare.

>>6597614
Thank you for your contribution to the thread.

>> No.6597631

>>6597630
>>6597256
Samefag.

>> No.6597633

>>6597630
No. If that's what I meant, I imagine that's what I would've written.

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>>6597631

>> No.6597635

>>6597633
>>6597631
>Still responding to Eva.

>> No.6597636

>>6597614
NICKNAKS xD

>> No.6597638

>>6597598
Oh no its vile and disgusting

>>6597600
>control cosplayers and force them to change

We are all slut shaming? They are not going to change because they have a different form of logic

>>6597604
This what qualifies broken/damage

>usage of recreational drugs
>alcoholic
>psychiatric drugs
>paranoid
>whore

>>6597608
>I found someone who loves me for it

Well they are the rejects of society

>Nobody is forcing anyone to date cosplayers.

No its depressing to see these disposable products on cgl.

>> No.6597642

>>6597633
But surely you must admit that the type of discussion you described in your post never happens. People don't come here to talk about sex reasonably, they come here to troll and wail about not being able to control women. At the end of the day, it's a pointless endeavour no matter what the tone of the discussion is, generalizing isn't going to get you anywhere and all you're going to learn is what the high population of /fit/ and /r9k/ trolls on /cgl/ want you to think about cosplayers. All you can do is get to know people as individuals or go along to cons and observe the scene.

>> No.6597647

>>6597638
You are free to express your opinion on my partner, but nobody's going to give any measurable semblance of a shit.

>> No.6597648

>>6597638
>deluded
>becoming so engrossed in your hobbyit becomes all you want to do

Your list sucks

>> No.6597651

>>6597635
Very astute of you. I hadn't realised myself.

>>6597642
>But surely you must admit that the type of discussion you described in your post never happens.
I don't know. I haven't posted here in months.

>> No.6597655

>>6597651
Fair enough, but yeah, that's what almost always happens.

>> No.6597656

>>6597642
>not being able to control women

No one is controlling anybody?

>generalizing isn't going to get you anywhere

No one is generalizing? You can see this common broken behavior throughout cgl.

>high population of /fit/ and /r9k/ trolls on /cgl/

Do you come from /fit/ or /r9k/?

>All you can do is get to know people as individuals

When they are broken in the first place? No point in investing that sort of time on someone so vile and shallow.

>observe the scene.

We are all doing that

>> No.6597660

I just want a girl who is interested in stuff other than sex and stuff related to sex.

Seems the nerdier the girl, the more obsessed with sex she is. And women need it more than we do, if you don't give them the D every day, they cheat.

Right girls?

>> No.6597662

>>6597656
Already said, if you don't want to invest the time, don't. Nobody is forcing you to. Are you illiterate?

Unfortunately the few reasonable people in this thread are being drowned out by trolls and the terminally stupid, so I'm out. It all just boils down to the futility of trying to control other people when you can only control yourself and your own choices.

>> No.6597666

>>6597647
>measurable semblance of a shit

This is why everyone laughs at your efforts

>>6597648
>Your list sucks

catalysts for poor social behavior

>> No.6597668

>>6597660
Right!

>> No.6597672

>>6597662
> Nobody is forcing you to

Just pointing out the flaw on the point you are trying to make.

> few reasonable people in this thread

You mean like me and only me and a few anons?

>trying to control other people

You mean the slut shaming for broken people?

>> No.6597677

>>6597668
I thought you disliked the typical HPD slutty cosplayers Bunny.

>> No.6597680

>>6597677
Isn't everyone a slut when it comes down to it?

>> No.6597683

>>6597680
No. Some people are virgins.