/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Someone in my comm posted this the other day and I choked on my own tea, ruined my day I can't unsee this

>>10579398
What the fuck

>>10579398
Don’t let someone else ruin your day
Ruin your own damn day instead

>>10579398
Had a chuckle at this. Reminds me of the good old days.

>Centipedes? In MY vagina???

the sissys. Before covid we only had one that would sometimes show up and he was such a typical middle-aged sissy.
Now with COVID Ive noticed at least one more male showing up for the digital meets, so I do not look forward to meeting him irl if he shows up. Also gives huge sissy hon vibes

The most ita girl I think I've ever seen online or off. She's incredibly sweet but I get so much secondhand embarrassment seeing her.
That and she really likes having tea at american girl doll tea parties with her doll (and a bunch of 5-10 year olds) in her mortifying coords.

>>10579398
It's supposed to be a joke, like, making fun of the "uwu daddy" thing.

I remember at paradiso 2019 some dude showed up to the tea party in straight up latex. That was super gross, he wasn't there for very long but I very much do wish our events didn't attract literal kinksters.

>>10579502
doubt it, there's more ddlg related posts than I care to mention

>Be me
>At local restaurant meetup
>In walks ita fatty chan
>The eye watering smell of coochie stank nearly kills me on the spot as she walks by
>FML she sits across the table from me
>Immediately starts yell talking so loud I feel like my eardrums are about to burst
>Can't wait for her food to arrive hoping she shuts the fuck up
>Food finally arrives thank god
>Little do I know the true horror has yet to begin
>Fatty chan takes one bite and starts open mouth chewing as loud as possible
>SMACK SMACK SMACK
>Want to die on the spot and completely lose my appetite
>Fatty chan picks up a roll
>Queue the loudest, wettest finger sucking I've ever heard in my entire life
>The sound still echos in my skull haunting me to this very day
>*BURP*
>*SLUUUURP*
>At this point I want to launch across the table and strangle her
>Flag the waiter down, pay my bill, and nearly sprint out of there in a desperate bid to maintain my sanity

>>10579398
yeah anon, this is a joke post

>>10579501
Kek is it baninabear?

not embarassing or gross but one of the brolita is about to turn tranny and i'm mighty uncomfortable. He was ok but now i'm gonna avoid him because men in dresses are a thing but men in dresses thinking they're women really freak me out. Before you know it they start threatening to punch you for being a "terf".
I miss back in the LJ days where we wouldn't have as many of those

>>10579592
this actually happened before? u were threatened by a tranny?

>>10579597
Honestly after sexual harassment while a minor, all women are united in being threatened violence by a man who is delusional. Most women I know have been threatened by troons before

>>10579608
i hear a lot about trannys being super weird in comms but like... my comm is super sweet and they never mention anything (out of place) about them being trans, they're just living their lives (to be fair, this is mtf so i guess it's different?) also many brolita's i've met have been cool

though, there's this one person who follows me on social media and they had pics of them in lolita and diapers and they were being nice when commenting on my posts but looking at their profile made me feel super uncomfortable and unsafe lol

>>10579533
fatties are always so loud i wonder why.
Anyone eating loudly (at a meet none of the less) deserves to be stabbed with a fork

>>10579608
I’m surprised to hear that it’s so common

my (cis female) experience with trannies is similar to >>10579612
most trannies (normies/not lolita) I met have been very nice, some r kinda emotional from the hormone therapy , but most have been very nice people

My entire comm is full of troons and cosplay itas. I think im am the only woman to show up wearing full brand.
Call me a "brand" whore for it idc, its so fucking embrassing being in a park with a bunch of taobao freaks and being the only one in the flock actually put together. It makes me look like these retards caretaker.

>>10579634
If you dislike your comm that much you could just not go to meets. No shame in being a lonelita.

>>10579636
I went to one meet, and yes i am a lolelita now and forever likely.

>>10579622
seconded. Online tranny goons are be widely different from IRL trans people (and not those you see at the eyesore that Pride has become). They can be cool and genuinely chill to hang out with if they aren't SJW fakeboys or coombrains

>>10579424
It's more likely than you think!

>>10579675
>>10579622
>>10579612

They are only nice because they are waiting for underages to groom. Watch how they act when you don't want to fuck them.

>>10579597
where the fuck have you been?

>>10579691
the trannies I knew were into men. I don’t think I’ve met a tranny that were into girls. I guess if I met a tranny that were into girls and wearing sweet lolita and looking borderline age play, I’d be concerned and very cautious around them too

>>10579700
Hey what you are describing is the difference between HSTS and AGP mtf troons. Both are irritating to me for different reasons, but autogynophiles are 1000% much worse. AGP spawns the likes of yaniv

>>10579691
One of my close childhood friends is trans ftm (not a lolita, has no interest in feminine stuff) and also has never had interest in sex. I'm sure creeps do exist out there and they can go to fucking hell. But as is the same with any social group, slapping that stereotype on them is harmful to those who are just normal folks

>>10579700
Go on any dating app meant for lesbians and you'll find a dozen men in Party City wigs and badly applied lipstick demanding their "fellow lesbians" suck their feminine penis.

>>10579708
imo the "normal" ones have nothing to worry about if they're not trying to harm anyone or trying to get into spaces they dont belong in.

>>10579700
I know a lot of ftm trans guys who are into girls? I think most trans people are straight right?? Same as most cis people

>>10579710
wtf. those must be trolls and not real mtf trans

>>10579714
I forgot to clarify. I was talking about mtf trans in my previous post, not ftm trans

>>10579714
There is no real way for me to confirm this because there is no research done, but from observation, I have noticed that most trans people nowadays were normal heterosexuals prior to transitioning.

>>10579718
You mean you think these are all straight men with a lesbian fetish in wigs trolling a lesbian dating app and not true and honest lesbian transwymyn?

>>10579748
kek. I was imagining something completely different when I read “party city wigs and badly applied lipstick”. I was wrong and I stand corrected

if this is the type of mtf trans showing up to lolita meets and acting really strange towards the younger female lolitas, then that’s definitely concerning and might be best to keep them away

These gender labels are getting confusing, but what I meant was there are “normal” mtf trans that are genuinely into Lolita fashion and have no creepy intentions and it just kinda sucks that the creepy ones created a bad rep for the “normal” ones and they are all labeled as potential creeps now

>>10579748
The hairlines are so tragic

>>10579612
You shouldn’t take what terf trolls on cgl say seriously, anon. It’s a bad habit and might get you into trouble irl. Like everyone else, most trans people are actually fine to be around.

>>10579817
Being concerned for safety is not being a "terf troll". Everyone's experiences are different

>>10579612
looking out for your own safety is not a “bad habit” if someone makes you feel uncomfortable you should pay attention to that feeling and not brush it aside, there’s very good reason to be cautious around a group of people who are time and again outed as predators at unusually high rates

>>10579759
Sucks for the "good" males but that's the way its going to be until they can sort their shit out and maybe start policing their own communities instead of letting this clownery get so far.

>>10579817
>>fine to be around
>>trannys are actually a disguise mechanism caused by narcissistic personality disorder
>>narccist will kill you the second you no longer have a use for them
>>know they are fucked up in the head and flaunt it as a social crutch to get heart strings pulled.

You would avoid all trannies if you know what's good for you. The mtfs are usually pedos trying to groom minors in furry discords with their "hatching" and also very hyper sexual because of their perceived vision of what they think women act like and the ftms are abusive domestic violence fuckers worse then biological males.

>>10579870
What tf is this video

>>10579870
since this is brought up. how do lolita comms handle creepy lesbians and ftms ?

>>10579836
No offense but people use this same logic to defend their racism.
>>Nooo I'm not being racist I just feel uncomfortable around black people. Most criminals are black though so it's totally fine to think like this. No my statistics aren't flawed in any way. I'm just looking out for my safety cause I don't want my stuff stolen.

>>10579927
I hope you wear a Houston Astros cap in Los Angeles.

>>10579927
wow those two things are not comparable.

>>10579927
This logic is flawed because it's not black women committing large amounts of violent crime, it's black men, and any smart woman should be uncomfortable around all men anyway.

>>10579397
This brings back memories

>Save up money and buy first AP JSK to look nice for my first irl meet
>Show up and meet everyone at a museum
>Everyone's super chill
>We decide to walk around the city and go for food
>Enter who we will call 'Dildo-chan'
>Wants to go to a sex shop
>Will not shut up about kinky sex
>HelpMe.jpeg
>Everyone is being polite but no one says it's not appropriate
>Sees a sex shop
>Let's go anons this will be SO empowering
>We all awkwardly file into this tiny sex shop
>Not enough room so we're all shoulder to shoulder
>Dildo-chan decides to give a tour despite never having been there
>Shows us how everything works while the workers awkwardly card us
>Points out all the items she has
>Talks loudly about how dildos are the best life investment
>I am 12/10 embarrassed but say nothing because it's my first meet.

Several meets later she had a very public meltdown after someone lightly alluded to her being posted here.

Last I heard she sold all her brand and, shockingly, has an OF.

Farewell Dildo-chan.

>>10579949
Black men have historically been made out to be bad and violent, moreso than white men, and white women have historically weaponized their whiteness to attack black men, see Emmett Till. This is 12 year old "I'm not racist I hate all people XD" logic and not the cool feminist take you think it is.

>>10579935
How.

>>10579951
I don't think "women historically lie about rape to target innocent men" is the woke take you think it is

>>10579398
What a terrible day to have eyes

>>10579398
what the actual fuck

>>10579424
>lobsters? In MY cooter??
>>10579950
what an ending for dildochan. hope that post about her was ruthless.

>>10579932
Kek

>>10579397
>host rooms for a few cons
>anon we will call bob is part of our group pretty chill guy(we thought)
>bob knows a shit fuck ton about the community more than anyone somehow so usually knows where parties and things are
>one year bob attends our room and wants to chill with us, sure okay
>bob seems fine the entire time
>after the con anon comes up to me about being sorry for not paying for the room
>wat, anon only did floor space which we agreed booze and chipping in for food was ok
>bob apparently was making a fuss about him for paying
>ask bob about this bob says anon was suppose to pay all along
>nope
>backs to "well anon slept in my spot on the bed one night so he has to pay"
>bob hasn't even paid me yet
>tell him not how it works
>bob blows it off and says well whatever
>ask a few other people about this
>bob had been doing this to most anons who took floor space for years
>call him out on it
>dude loses it says we would all be lost at cons without him he 'earned' it
>tell him to cut the shit or fuck right off I bought the room not him
>he won't so kick him from the group
>ask some prior anons what's up, dude has been doing this for YEARS
>turns out anon has been fucking with the community talking shit, leaking private info, and straight up lying about things at cons
>has supposedly been taking said money from anons to go on dates with lolita cosplayers
>ask him dude what the fuck be honest and shut the fuck up
>he doesn't
>next con we go to get weird vibes from former gulls
>someone tells me that bob has told people that we steal things, serve underage drinks to girls, harrass them, and other shit
>mega WTF
>call him out on this in public he denies all of it says it's a complete misunderstanding
>ask him how but he refuses and bails

Turns out bob has been caught by other people doing the same shit but has enough info on everyone that no one will really kick him out of the group. Fucking bob man

>>10579748
I could buy "Alexis"
At least they're trying

I know a lot of people hating on trans folks here are crossboardibg larpers, but let me be explicitly clear. If you terf cunts harass any of my trans friends irl because of their gender, i will kick your fucking teeth in. I hate all kinksters in our comms too, but there is no need to be a bunch of cunts about the whole thing.

>>10580031
Shut the fuck up tranny, you will never fucking pass. Stop trying to beat up women and then using the excuse that you are a "woman" as some shit to try and validate your fucking violent behaviour. Stay the fuck out of our bathrooms you fucking deviant sex freak.

>>10580033
Im cis het, but I am SWOLE and I will fucking end you, you pathetic cunt. I do reps just imagining punching cunty lolelita terfs. Hope you aren't too attached to your teeth anon.

>>10579887
Statistically women are much less likely to be violent, commit sexual abuse, or be "creepy" as you say.

And dont even bother bringing up the "lesbians commit higher rates of domestic abuse!" the study that this was spawned from was inaccurate and misrepresented.

https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/181867.pdf

>The survey found that same-sex cohabitants reported significantly more intimate partner violence than did opposite-sex cohabitants. Among women, 39.2 percent of the same-sex cohabitants and 21.7 percent of the opposite sex cohabitants reported being raped, physically assaulted, and/or stalked by a marital/cohabiting partner at some time in their lifetime. Among men, the comparable figures are 23.1 percent and 7.4 percent (exhibit 8). At first glance, these findings suggest that both male and female same-sex couples experience more intimate partner violence than do opposite sex couples. However, a comparison of intimate partner victimization rates among same-sex and opposite-sex cohabitants by perpetrator gender produced some interesting findings: 30.4 percent of same-sex cohabiting women reported being victimized by a male partner, whereas 11.4 percent reported being victimized by a female partner. Thus, same-sex cohabiting women were nearly three times more likely to report being victimized by a male partner than by a female partner. Moreover, opposite-sex cohabiting women were nearly twice as likely to report being victimized by a male partner than were same-sex cohabiting women by a female partner(20.3 percent and 11.4 percent)

Basically what the original study asked was "have you ever been assaulted or abused in your life" yet failed to ask the question as to "by whom"

>>10580036
Jfc go back to /lgbt you're literally mentally ill and this is a discussion about wanting transvestites to leave us the fuck alone and not harass minors.

Where did you get the idea that any of us want to seek out you and harass you or your friends? You should tell your psychiatrist about this interaction and show them screenshots so they know how deranged you are.

You don't hate kinksters because autogynophilia is a literal sexual fetish and the widely used term for trans up until very recently. You are defending creeps getting sexually aroused off of people thinking they are a woman when they are not.

>>10579398
This is a shitpost from reddit.

>>10580037

>Statistically women are much less likely to be violent, commit sexual abuse, or be "creepy" as you say.

NTA but it seems like statistically you are more likely to change topic when someone asks you a question? You didn't answer it at all. You just jumped over it.

>>10580061
>You don't hate kinksters because autogynophilia is a literal sexual fetish and the widely used term for trans up until very recently.

Nope. It's not what autogynophilia actually is/was. You are factually incorrect here.

>>10580036
hahaha sure bud

>>10580075
>You didn't answer it at all. You just jumped over it.

The implication is that it just doesnt happen.

>>10579531
I dont know this person in particular so they might be serious but I know that post in particular is supposed to be an ironic joke.

>>10580036
YWNBAW

>>10580177
wow, you sure did destroy that anon with facts and logic
kek

This was a little while back, but there was a girl in my comm who was just rude, abrasive, and short with people. I think she didn't mean to at least half the time, but regardless, it got to the point people started avoiding meets when they knew she was coming. We had to write down extra rules because of her, because she would do things that other people implicitly knew were rude or bad, but she needed them specially addressed. She ended up getting banned later, and she acted like being banned from the comm meant that she wasn't allowed to wear lolita. She made threats to hurt herself and cried about having nowhere to wear her clothes. She also keeps saying that we told she is a "bad lolita" (I guess she meant ita??) even though no one ever brought up her style or appearance, and comm issues were strictly regarding her behaviour.

She made her own comm with blackjack and hookers and invited a bunch of friends including dudes that have zero interest in lolita. Last I heard she was making a bunch of sock puppets to advertise her comm and stalking a bunch of e-famous lolitas. Good riddance.

Ever since l*r made the react video last year of a famous youtuber trying lolita, and how some people in my comm had a meet with her. it honestly left such a bad taste in my mouth when she began to whine. then she proceeded to shill in her collab stuff as well.

Comms before covid always had meets with very limited people- my comm was no different. just because you’re efamous doesn’t give you an automatic pass to be invited to everything.

This has been sitting on my chest for almost a year now, feels good to get it off

>>10580252
You mean when she cried over Darcei going to a meet in the Toronto comm that Lor didn't get invited to?

I think she sort of acknowledged her friends/comm members meant no harm in that video, but she just had some personal issues or insecurities and all and even that she understood two youtubers with different goals or whatever wouldn't exactly mix well. She still left it in the video though so idk.

>>10580081
>The implication is that it just doesnt happen.
Which is not true.

I have a girl in my comm that I absolutely cannot stand and I feel really bad about it because she hasn't done anything wrong to me personally.

I wouldn't say she's ita, she dresses decently well. She's desperate for attention and wants to hang out as often as possible, but she's such a boring person. It is beyond me how someone who's into alternative japanese street fashion styles, gothic, fetish stuff and very extravagant make up can be so unbelievably boring. It's like talking to your distant relative that you see once a year at a family reunion.

Our comm is very small and this girl does not miss any meetup, so I consider leaving the comm just because of her.

>>10580031
“I will violently beat all women who make me feel slightly uncomfortable” -a neutered male who drinks onions daily

>>10580031
>>10580036
“I will violently beat all women who want trannies to leave them in peace. I will forcibly beat my way into their spaces. They will accept me or else. Wait, why are they all so mean to me:((“

>>10580353
Is it possible she just has social anxiety? Maybe she doesn’t know what to say.

>>10580353
You must not like your comm if one boring person makes you wanna leave.

>>10580252
I've always wondered about this. If you go to the comments of that video, so many people are shitting on you guys when you did nothing wrong, and Lor just sat back and let it happen. Is everyone angry about what she did?

>>10580394
I'm not defending her but she's got a spine as strong as a pipe cleaner I don't expect her to mod her comments, especially ones that seem to be "on her side"

>>10580353
I'm trying to figure out how you went from
>one member of my comm is boring to talk to
to
>therefore I want to leave my comm?
Are there other details you aren't giving here or?

>>10580415
She is clingy and wants to socialize a lot, and in the very small group it is not possible to avoid her.

I am not hiding anything, I cannot put my finger on why I dislike her. It's totally irrational, I know. I start wondering if I need therapy if I start hating people for no reason.

>>10579397
I've given up on my comm and only follow their antics for entertainment at this point, but the final straw was definitely noteworthy
> pre-covid
> Yearly tea that happens pretty consistently
> Organizer rotates based on who takes the initiative
> New organizer takes over
> Complains how the per-person cost is too high (it isn't)
> Decides to move venues
> All venues already booked or more expensive
> Moves tea party to her boyfriend's parent's house
> It's a potluck

Cringey and disappointing, but partially on me for not stepping up to organize something better. What was worse was this:
> Other comm member makes a non-tea meet for those that don't want to drive to a stranger's house
>Advertises the meet on various generic nerd discords
>Get a message from a creepy coworker asking if I'm going to the meet

I know I'm not losing much (my comm is full of taobao itas who all try to prop up each other's youtube channels) but advertising a meet to random scores is where I draw the line.

I left my comm years ago because to be honest, everyone there was a little off. Every time I would get home from a meet I would just feel weird because I essentially spent my whole day hanging out with a group of strangers... I just never found someone I felt a 'click' with. Has anyone else had a similar experience?

> comm requires payment before tea meets
> nbd because it goes towards reserving a venue and it prevents people from backing out
> have a family emergency and can't go
> knowingly forfeit my money
> later find out that the venue requires no downpayment
> mods used my money to buy drinks
> let it go because i'm new
> mods host another tea meet
> this time they cancel it themselves and keep everyone's money despite people asking about it

I don't go to events anymore

>>10580427
Yeah ngl this sounds like a bit of a you problem

>>10580353
as someone who's into a handful of fringe hobbies, this is entirely believable. having "interesting" hobbies doesn't give someone social skills

>>10580554
yes. everyone was friendly and pleasant enough but i didnt have anything in common with anyone and keeping a conversation going was hard. i was never someone who struggled to make friends or keep conversational momentum but just kept hitting dead ends. i contribute to social media discussions occasionally but overall stopped participating meaningfully in my comm around 2014 or so and have no regrets

i also treat lolita like regular clothes much of the time so i dont need a "reason" to wear the clothes and definitely dont need to wear them with others to enjoy them

>>10579951
I hate third wave intersectional feminists. stop caping for men. trannies, black, or otherwise. it's believe all victims until they're white, isn't it?

>>10580353
How do you know she likes fetish stuff? It’s unrelated to lolita. Did she bring it up herself? I could see that being an issue

>>10580554
Not as strongly as you, but the anime club I go to can be really frustrating. It's more me than everyone else but I have very little in common with them. And the conversations are so weird, like things are so formal, and people kind of take turns talking.

>>10580427
There's not necessarily anything wrong with you. How do other people act around her? If everyone's a bit unwilling to talk to her, then she's probably a bit annoying and just an unlikeable person.
Could be you too though.

I'm just a really unlikeable person myself, I don't do anything bad but people just avoid me. I try to hold back on socializing a bit though to not annoy people too much but she could be a bit like me. I may be more of a boring person though.
Wait, is she only socializing with you more intensely than everyone else? Because when I notice that someone dislikes me a bit, doesn't want to talk to me, I intensify my socialization around that person because I've kind of already given up on them liking me.

>>10580617
She talked about going to fetish parties and being a shibari model. I don't mind people being open about such things, I'm just not into it at all.

>>10580632
>>How do other people act around her?

Everyone's pretty chill around her, they don't avoid her but no one wants to hang out with her much or communicate outside meetups as far as I can see.

She does seem to socialize with me more than with others.

>>10580562
That sounds awful.

>>10580198
shut the fuck up samefag. We know how you operate. Fucking rapists that throw your shit because women won't sleep with your fake lesbians with dicks ugly selves.

>>10580036
I mean you literally just proved what they said about you, sooooooooo gtfo violent tranny.

>>10580037
I lived with lesbians, 100 percent of them one was abusive while the other one was submissive as fuck. More then a normal hetero relationship. I am willing to put my entire life savings that that stat is under reported.

>>10580853
Seethe harder lapping crossboarder. Even fake women aren't interested in you LOL

I hate it. We make a space for ourselves and then men in (poor) disguise force their way in saying "I am like you, we like the same things". No. You are nothing like me. You have the rest of the world. I have this corner and you are coming to take it away from me. Go make your own private space and stick with your fellow freaks.

question to the people ITT: are you bothered when someone's bf tags along with them to meets? it happens a lot so I'm curious

and i don't mean limited space special ticketed events, i mean meets that are like "let's have a picnic" or "let's go to the arcade" etc

>>10580031
Go start a trans community and leave us alone

>>10580917
No one really cares, but I don't think the majority of girls are trying to talk to another girl's bf lmao

>>10580917
I get a bit annoyed if they turn up looking ratty/ignore everyone else and refuse to talk to anyone who isn’t their gf. Polite bfs who take a mild interest and don’t dominate though? Perfectly fine

>>10580935

Going to a place where everyone is hard into a hobby that you know nothing about can be intimidating. They aren't snobs, they're out of their depth. Try saying hello to them.

Outing myself as a board tourist but I check in here like every few months and it’s always exactly the same:
Reeeeee fatties
Reeeeee trannies.

Can you find someone else to hate already just to freshen things up?

>>10580031
KEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEK

I would be genuinely embarrassed to have a community that had any of you disgusting transphobes in it.

>>10581332
go jerkoff to lor if u want such a hugbox.

>>10580031
<3

>>10580031
Threatening with violence. What a surprise.

>>10580031
Typical tranny, threatening violence against women for not caving in to their insanity.

>>10579748
name my band
> the ramonas

>>10580562
fuck them mods

>>10580917
it's so cringe, I fucking hate it. I went to a meet where the bf and gf were hamplanets and the dude was balding, wearing cargo shorts, white tube socks, and fucking sandals. he was so cringe.

>>10581387
>women cant be violent too
Way to be sexist

>>10581393
Stilton, Quimby or Flowers?

>>10581396
To be fair that's not bf being cringe, its just fat people being disgusting, which is true 100% of the time.
People over 200 pounds shouldn't even be allows outside desu.

>>10580905
same. when I first statted wearing it I had hoped lolita comms were still a space where I could bond with women over frills and feel safe...oh well. being a lonelita isn't so bad.

>>10581404
What are you expecting out of a community that predominately is geared towards feminine characteristics? Lmfao. Most of us don't want to be around guys.

>>10581404
Women don't typically talk about kicking each others teeth in.
Its the same as most things "women do too" yeah women do the things men do too, but the manner in which they talk about doing it or how they conduct it is much different.

>>10581590
idk what women you’re hanging about with scrotey mcscroteface, but ok

>>10581613
Copying /cgl/ memes won't make you a woman.

>>10581647
I’m a woman, and it’s not a cgl meme you fucking idiot, it’s a british meme. If you’re gonna do a transphobia cope, at least get your insults factually correct

>>10581653
Oh no he's getting angry again.

>anons unironically fighting who is more feminine
comedy gold

>>10580686
>>10581395
thank you anons. the pandemic gives me an excuse not to see them. sucks to have no comm

>>10580954
Why bother coming if they won’t even make the effort? My partner never comes to meets but he doesn’t mind jumping into convo around my friends. Besides even at meets it’s not like all we talk about is the latest burando release. We chat about tv, video games, local (non fashion) events etc

>>10581694
>Why bother coming if they won’t even make the effort?
my partner and i try to never be apart as much as we can, so i go to his stuff and he goes to mine. we're each other's anchors. and i don't mean that in a romantic way, we might be undiagnosed spergs or something lol

i don't mind boyfriends at meets, usually they're sweet enough and if they aren't i just ignore them and talk to everyone else

>>10581699
>we're each other's anchors
>we might be undiagnosed spergs

Actually anon this sounds like textbook codependency, one or both of you likely have insecure/anxious attachment styles.

>>10580562
Paying up front for tea meets isn’t that uncommon even when venues don’t require a down payment from the comms I’ve been in, and I’ve moved around a few times. It’s a good deterrent for people flaking and anyone can lie about a last minute emergency. Those mods still sound like cunts tho. If the organizer cancels the meet, then refunds should be standard.

When the first comm I joined started doing this it immediately cut down on all the ita poor fags that would consistently RSVP and then “have an emergency.”
The few girls always flaking would whine about how there are no affordable(meaning free) meets or meets close enough to their podunk towns 60 miles away from the city.

One day the most obnoxious among them flounced after her first try at organizing a meet that met her criteria of being free and far af for everyone but her. The only people that RSVP’d were her ita poorfag minions. Then when no one showed up, she made a rambling post about how she doesn’t believe any of us that actually do meet up are really friends. That we only meet up for the gram, and to flaunt our wealth because we’re “classist cunts ruining the fashion.” I tried to be nice and tell her how many meets I hosted where no one showed up when I started hosting meets. She calls me an ugly over compensating brand whore then gets banned.

Really tho, no one is driving an hour or more to hang out with you in a playground during the hottest time of year looking like little bo peep around a bunch of rabid toddlers and their breeder Karens.

>>10581701
you're probably right, but considering we're both like that and don't have other issues i think we'll be ok. as long as one of us doesn't die or something

This whole thread is genuinely embarrassing and gross.

>>10580917
It's fine if it's somewhere public like a museum or cafe. But it's weird at a tea party or private event. Especially if he needs his own ticket to attend and is taking up a spot.

>>10581718
the best thing we can do is verbally shit in it long enough that these people don't feel like posting anymore.

>>10581590
As a woman, I will physically maul you. To prove a point.

>>10581804
You are not a woman and never will be

>>10580892
Fine with me, superstraight making ya'll inverted scrotums seethe.

>>10581327
Yeah when the fucking ugly trannies get the fuck out

>>10579618
Could've just been an American in general.

>>10579883
Your average tranny speedrunner

>>10580930
Idk, I brought my bf to a few meets and a little while after we broke up he stared dating some fairy kei slut in the comm

I’m the gross one, but my comm members don’t know. I’m depressed and shower infrequently, and if it’s not right before a comm I don’t take care of myself. If I ever run into a fellow member outside of lolita I know I’ll be seen as a gross laughingstock

>>10581857
Hey anon I'm in the same exact boat. Bad hygiene is a common in depression. I hope you and I get better. /Hugs

I jpined a lolita discord server. There was an absolute wall of a black list including kin doubles, various fictional characters, the word queer, rabbits, gineue pigs, horses, and two lolita influencers. The owner of the server was an adult who identified as a he/him lesbian.

>>10581857
>members don't know
They're just being polite.

>>10581804
You will end up in an infographic like this, Mandrea.

>>10581857
I feel this way too. I have the worst depression I've had in years, and I miss when I felt like my life was together and not such a mess

The mean girl types. I swear I have witnessed those same kind bitchy behaviours that are typical of highschoolers, in women in their late 20s.

For instance, sharing awkward stuff about her friend sexuality (who is in the same comm) unwarrantedly, "as a secret"

Extremely embarassing.

>>10581950
how old are you? you seem too young to realize that adults are a myth and everyone is a dumb high schooler forever.

>>10581954

Get a less toxic group sis.

>>10581950
It turned me off my local comm too. Made me realize my normie friends were much better people overall. Just try to find a group you vibe with. Sometimes you can't help a little gossip but there's a line between casual gossip and toxic pot stirring.

>>10579887
Secret meets

>>10581718
/cgl/ is embarrassing in general

>>10581954
Maybe in lolita but normal people aren’t

>>10581976
Ahahaha good one anon. I've met more immature childish normie adults than lolitas desu.

As far as liking "childish" things. The only people who are judgemental about that are people who think you have to throw away everything you like in life just to pay bills or have kids which is stupid. You don't have to be miserable to be a functioning adult.

>>10581976
you clearly haven't ever worked in an office. normal people are the same. why do you think celeb gossip is a thing?

>>10580905
Based.

>>10581993
celeb gossip is very different from revealing a friend or comm member’s personal info

>>10582063
nayrt, when people do things like get excessively drunk at every party and drop hints about their dysfunctional lives or relationships it absolutely gets talked about around the office. And I'm in a small enough industry that I can ask around about applicants when we look into their backgrounds, and this is the sort of shit that will come up.

>>10579501
mandrea?

>>10580031
Terf this Terf that. Cry more about it libfem trash

>>10582063
As someone who works in offices with fairly relatively upstanding people, they will immediately start talking about people the moment they're not around.
Given usually its only about particularly juicy tidbits, but they do it all the same.

>>10581694
Meets can be very intimidating for guys.

>>10581699
This sounds unhealthy, jesus

I usually hang out with a small group a friends from my local comm that I get along with and that's cool and all, but every once in a while they invite this other girl who not only dresses like complete shit (shiny costume wigs, taobao, dirty sneakers every time) but every time ends up completely dominating the conversation and basically monologuing about shit like boy problems, her therapy sessions, astrology, how she's "pretty much a lesbian" despite never having any kind of romantic experience with a woman, she just goes on and on about whatever comes to mind. it's legitimately torture for me.

>>10582293
I think it sounds cute.
If both sides enjoy each other's company why is it a problem,

>>10582293
Everybody's relationship is different. Some people want space and alone time, others don't. If two people in a relationship love being around each other 24/7, more power to them. It's actually really sweet imo

>>10579949
Inaccurate. White men commit more violent crimes, not to mention commit the most crimes against women, but that’s not the narrative

>>10582392
The fbi says differently tranny.

>>10579612
Yeah most trannies irl I know like that are fine, it's only the sissy 50 year olds that are weird. The ones that are really horrible stay online which I guess is why they seem to be fucking everywhere, certainly doesn't give the irl ones a good name

>>10579841
How are they even gonna police it though? Some black people suck ass but we can't tell other black people they should be policing their community

>>10582458
why not? all they ever do is posture about how much they care about their community but their communities remain rampant with crime against their own. gibsmedat.

>>10579398
Ok google how I can unsee this

>>10582458
This. It's like black or any other minority dictating that white people MUST police there own communities. Black, white, and any other group of people are not obligated to police there own communities.

>>10581963
People here shit on normies all the time but in my experience they are much kinder than actual lolitas are.

>>10581975
definitely one of the worst ones in catalog rn

>>10583122
I'd say anyone - from normies to lolitas or what have you - who solely identifies by a single aspect of themselves tends to be shittier as a person than people who don't hang their entire selves on one label. The kindest people I've met are the ones who don't broadcast who they are on first meeting and have far more to their personalities than one facet.

>>10583294
Agreed. I don't identify as a 'lolita' or really as anything but myself. I think limiting yourself to one sole identifier or labels, makes you a kinda boring person because then you limit yourself.

I can interact like a socially functional human being, but I just don't really find normies interesting.

I was the shitty, embarrassing person in my comm back in the day. My coords weren’t the problem, though... my mental health was. Pathological lying, poor social skills, the whole works. I hated myself and was a total asshole to people, culminating in extremely public internet breakdown.

Ending up living in the ward for awhile and got the correct diagnosis. Thank god for therapy and growth. I left the comm because it wasn’t healthy for me, and the best way I could make amends was to leave everyone alone. It’s been years now. I was the worst.

>>10584580
It sounds like you've grown a lot anon!

>>10584594
Thanks. I hope so. I just wish I could give back to the person I hurt the worst. They didn’t deserve it. I found them online, and I’m very glad to say that they seem to be thriving in spite of me.

I’m not internet stalking them; they deserve privacy. My guilt screams to go apologize, to give them the chance to confront me for their own peace of mind... but I can’t force a choice like that on them; it’s selfish. And the guilt is my problem.

Weirdly, years later I had someone pull the exact same shit I pulled, but on me. So I’m in the position of being both victim and abuser. I just want that person to get well bc I know what it’s like. They even had their break down on here like I did lol.

Thank you for being my online therapist for a bit. It’s cathartic.

>>10581515
An adult man should be over 200lbs not because of his dorito gut but because he's over 6' and works out.

>>10581515
>People over 200 pounds shouldn't even be allows outside desu.

Nah they should be encouraged to go outside, touch some grass, fucking go for a walk, and taught to appreciate physical activity and doing things besides eating, so they can lose some weight.

>>10584609
Well done, anon. I'm happy you're doing better now.

>>10580031
>folks

>>10584936
Nayrt but have you never spoken to someone black and/or from the South before?

>>10584937
Certainly have, and sadly their slang has been hijacked

>>10584937
We dont say folks. You fucking left trannies started it.

>>10584975
Are you implying that porky pig is a gay tranny

>>10584668
Incredibly based. I lift so that I can pick up (literally) a lolita gf

>>10579398
Looks like something that a troon would post.

>>10580031
I have lots of trans friends as a cis person too, and the last thing any of them wanna fuckin do is make anyone uncomfortable or assault someone because they've been exposed to assault themselves. Whether it's sexual or physical. Like fuck, some of them even I haven't been able to clock because they've passed so well, and they get mistaken for being cis and someone gropes them. They're reasonable, empathetic people that know the trauma of being taken advantage of the same way as any cis woman that's had their space invaded. One girl I know asks for consent CONSISTENTLY in any sexual situation she's in, because she's been raped and doesn't want to inflict the same pain on other girls she has sex with.

>>10584978
I also lift to be able to suplex ugly trannies on sight and carry my TERF gf to the alter

>>10584975
I'm a black cis woman AND from the South, you idiot. We DO say folks, fucking larper. Just cause SJWs use Southern or AAVE slang and terms to feel cool doesn't mean that all the rest of us down here don't, retard.

>>10581327
agreed.

most trannies, black people, lolitas, fatties, and whoever else is generally fine and relatively well adjusted in real life. cgl is just where they come to reee about it so much that it shits up a thread that isnt even about that. seriously make a fucking tranny/fatty hate thread and redirect all the spurging to there so i can actually read stories about comms and shit. this thread was literally 20% stories about lolita comms and the rest reeeing about unrelated shit.

>>10581327
yeah, gets old lol

>>10581327
Hey, we've changed it up recently. Now there's also

Reeeeee nazis

>>10579530
Was that the guy with translucent pink bondage hand cuffs and collar or a different one?
I seriously can't believe the dress code wasn't enforced

>>10580031
Come get me then, bitch

>>10587209
aren't you too scared that their mtf friends will kick your ass cause they're men?

>>10580031
lol dude, you are a man in a dress, dilate

I was kinda cringey in my early 20’s but even I didn’t join the ita anime club.

>>10587221
imagine being so delusional to think that people joining a group and establishing friendships is cringey

>>10582392
Not per capita.

>>10585053
Based. kek at the SJWs throwing a shitfit over Qpot release an expensive Harry Potter set.

The downside is having to buy HP stuff to let my terf flag fly. I don't hate HP but I'm just not into popcul merchandise.

>>10582457
They're online all the time because they're unemployable. They use folx instead of folks, because they're insane retards.

>>10580036
>>10580031
>"We are not violent"
>"We will punch you for not wanting to be around us you fucking cunt"
Hmmm. Funny how you don't have this smoke for men who actually harass and murder MtFs, just for women who simply don't want to hang out with them. It's almost like...

>>10586462
This. Get a containment thread and reee in there.
Now tell me what’s going on in TX, GA, and FL comms. Any events now that vaccines are becoming available?

>>10587650
Shit posted in wrong thread

>>10587218
That's true, all troons want to beat the shit out of women because they're literally just /r9k/ incels in thigh-highs

>>10587731
it's true.

>>10582457
>it's only the sissy 50 year olds that are weird.

>>10587746
Mana isn't a sissy or a tranny. He's a crossdressing art hoe male goth vampire musician.

>>10579949
>and any smart woman should be uncomfortable around all men anyway.

Not every father is a danger to his daughter.

>>10587746
Mana is an angel and wouldn't stand for groomers molesting minors in comms or incels in wristcuffs threatening to punch out teeth of women who don't want to associate with them.

>>10587759
>>10587775
Based

>>10587774
Not every man is as cool as my dad

>>10587776
>Not every man is as cool as my dad
It's unimportant. That OP said _ALL_ men.

>>10587779
>It's unimportant. I'm being obtuse because my actual point has no legs to stand on

>>10587782
I merely noticed that all men include your father. Unless your father happens to not be a man. Does your argument stand on legs or hands or other body parts does not bother me.

>>10587779
I support my friends being afraid of my dad just as their dads support me being apprehensive of him. Good men, the ones that you think we should exclude from the "all men" framework support and encourage distrust of men in general.
Her >>10587776 dad would probably agree too.

Men who value and cherish the girls and women in their lives understand the necessity of keeping distance from males.
So yes, ALL men is the right phrase because the exceptions prefer loved ones' safety over hurt feelings

>>10587791
>Men who value and cherish the girls and women in their lives understand the necessity of keeping distance from males.

Yes, women who don't keep distance are disgusting to many of males.

>So yes, ALL men is the right phrase because the exceptions prefer loved ones' safety over hurt feelings

Failing at set theory/10

>>10587785
You should probably stop talking like a tv sociopath if you want anyone to take you seriously and not think you're a 14 year old autistic child
Oo, I bet you're going to correct me that 14 is a teenager, not a child
get bent, I wasn't even the op of that post lmfao

>>10587798
>I wasn't even the op of that post lmfao
And I didn't wrote you are. lol

>I wasn't even the op of that post lmfao
That also brings the question how de heck you supposedly know what that OP meant by "all men"? Do you assume all posters here follow your ways of thinking?

>You should probably stop talking like a tv sociopath if you want anyone to take you seriously and not think you're a 14 year old autistic child

I don't give a damn if anyone on this board that on many ocassions is second in retardation only to /pol/ takes me seriously.

>>10587804
oh jesus christ, and now you're reddit spacing, well done, really showed me

>>10587805
literally wut?

>>10587804
lmfao you mistyped so much shit just from being so angry

>>10587808
I mistyped coz I suck at english and ut's 2'oclock in the night and I have long nails.

>>10587804
Then why not go back to pol? Oh wait they'd rip you a new one because they are even less lenient with reddit logic, retarded arguments and being an overall "debate-me" ass child. You would be reported for being underage and that would be the end of it.

Go back to /b/ they might actually tolerate you there.

>>10580905
You notice how it is men have co-opted the term "woman"? Every time a tranny calls you a terf it's a way to avoid calling you a woman or anything in feminine terms (even bitch). To them, being a woman is just a compliment, a title of grandeur. If they admitted you are a woman, it would draw attention to the fact they are not. In their world, only real women who agree with them can earn the title of "woman". Think about that the next time they call you a terf.
I don't even hate trans people. Ive followed trans women for years, for example Julie vu and see her as a real woman. It's the gross never passers who want all of society to lie to them that there's any point in even trying (pic rel, and all of it's comments)
If you ever thought for a second how it's a little uncomfortable to be with a comm for a public event, it's ten times worse if you have a never passing tranny. To everyone around you it goes from quirky hobby to unashamed group of sex deviants. As a lolita from the old school days, we've struggled to clear the image of this fashion and the world "lolita" for years yet now all that is thrown out the window with the steadily riding influx of never passers in the fashion.

>>10587901
>go back to X
*yawn* you are so original

>>10588654
Wait what? How is buzzcut mcgee supposed to be female? Are you pulling my leg

>>10588654
This guy isn’t trans; he’s just a “tranny” in the traditional sense, i.e. a transvestite.

>>10588661
You already find everybody so boring and annoying so anon is technically right.

>>10588661
>*yawn*
ew, it really is 14

>>10588733
only extremaly uncreative comebacks
resolving o "go back to X" is like giving up but not being honest with yourself about that

>>10588749
No, it was 4:28 in the morning. Good 10 hours before 14:00.

>>10579461
Just kick them out?

What the fuck is wrong with women groups and not just being hardasses about who can and can't be in the group? You don't even need a good excuse, "I don't like them." should be good enough to convince your friends.

>>10588837
I don't give a shit how tired you are, typing out your actions between asterisks is something only literal children do, if you aren't a child, then you have some sort developmental delay.
You aren't writing a fucking fanfiction, spaz

>>10589053
Ntayrt but people have been doing this on the net for decades you sound like the child here.

>>10589063
How often do you see people on 4chan do it?
The fuck is happening on this board

>>10589097
You got me there anon

>>10580252
Is she part of your comm? If so it was not really nice that she did not know about that meet. Anyway she should have not complained about it in that video

>>10588843
>women
>in any "creative" hobby group
>in any "community" whatsoever
>with social media accounts
>and obsession with cute things as adults
>kicking out troons and sexual predators in general from groups rather than simping for them, coddling them, fucking them, getting into abusive relationships with them, taking a millenium and a half to realize "wait maybe this is not a poor crushed misunderstood soul, but a perverted sociopath exploiting my own mental instability and obsessive desire for attention and validation", doing a 360 and overdoing it by calling him a rapist since it's "so hard for women to stand up for themselves", blaming other men for this one freak's behaviors, and vehemently attacking anyone who points out not to trust troons and crossdressers for just being bigoted hick inbred racist nazis who don't care about women

It's like you've never met anyone with two X chromosomes in your ENTIRE life.

>>10579398
This is a copypasta

>>10579708
>has never had interest in sex.

That’s not normal and is far worse than being a “creep”. You’d friend needs to see a doctor.

>>10589265

360 would point you back in your original direction. Just saiyin.

Carry on otherwise.

>>10589321
>Turn 360 degrees and moonwalk away.

>>10589324
Ok anon you got me I kekd

>>10589321
t. never been inside a Gamestop

>>10580226
Sounds like a serious and unadressed case of bpd

>>10589161
Stfu

It was not an official meet, L*r is not entitled to know about or be invited to every single lolita event just because she's e-famous. Seethe

>>10579398
Based degenerate filtering normalfags

>>10588654
ttl;dr: you are defective

>>10580905
Lolita fashion does not belong to you only.

>>10595082
It's not just her that doesn't want your troon ass in lolita.

There's a lot of women that are uncomfortable by the surge.

>>10595084
seconded.

>>10579597
I had someone deadass decide they were trans because he "fell in love with me" and I'm a lesbian.

>>10581327
Nah m8 we hate on age players here too lol

>>10596403
Did you tell him that there's a sexual preference for vag. It's almost as if people don't understand the concept.

>>10596413
Yeah he cornered me on a lunch date with friends and then got pissed off and left when I said no and that I'm only attracted to visit women. Blames me for destroying his marriage even though I hadn't even shown any interest.

>>10596427
*cis autocorrect

>>10596427
Oof. Is this an active brolita? I know of someone that was a trans and ..showed way too much interest in me as a married man-trans?.. I'm not sure, considering other people don't know he wears dresses outside of lolita.

>>10596489
Also I would like to note, I don't like receiving that much male attention from anyone unless I am into them. (And at the time I was very disgusted by men, due to recent trauma) So it was uncomfortable, so I tried to really stay far away. Especially knowing he was married.

But yeah, these brolitas/trans men in lolita are creepers. I've realized it doesn't matter if they are married.

>>10596492
Also to kinda go into detail, I was pretty recently going through trauma with domestic violence from an ex - lolita not being a safe haven for women makes me fucking annoyed, because I didn't need a man attaching to me at meets at the time. I was trying to meet other women.. I can't look at men the same way anymore, it doesn't matter if they wear a dress.

I want to use lolita as an opportunity to make more female friends. Most of my friends in the past have been men, probably because I've taken university subjects that are made up of 95% male students so I just haven't been around women as much.

I'm a covid-lita so I haven't really had the opportunity for IRL meets, but I'm pretty excited for when we can go to meets again so I can make some friends in lolita. I've just been going on about it to my partner about it this whole time.

All of you can fuck off and kys for being absolute transphobic monsters the one you ass hats called "buzz cut mcgee" Is a really nice and innocent person. You will get what you deserve one day

>>10588654
Finally, an amazingly well put and eloquent reply that made me think. Thank you.

>>10596773
Sure thing anon! I will stop being mean to ugly gross fetishists from now on! No longer a terf!

He has done absolutely nothing wrong or fetishized anything or anyone in any way. You don't even know a single thing about him. Clothing does not have gender and men can wear dresses if they damn well please.

>>10596823
>trannies actually believe this

>>10597158
Sounds like the girls who don't understand what testosterone does to the body, trying to 'not think about it.'

>>10580860
Anecdotes are not evidence.

>>10580860
abusive lesbians do exist, but the idea that it out numbers hetreo relationships knowing how psychotic men are and that responsible for almost all violent crime leads me to think you are a male seething that there are groups of women who hate dick and being fucked by a man no matter what,

>>10579887
The fact that you even have to ask that question is your answer. Creepy woman aren't as much of an issue as much as creepy men who can hide behind being an oppressed trans woman.

>>10597173
uh, anon, there is actually a higher instance of abuse in lesbian relationships, but it's because there is a higher instance of reporting abuse among lesbians (since more women are afraid to report men). if you're going to btfo someone, get facts.

>>10597176
I know the statistic you are referring to. it's distorted to make lesbians look bad and push an anti gay agenda. It's actually about what abuse lesbians experience in general, which includes any kind of abuse.

>>10579398
not the worst thing you could do

>>10588654
Oh oh TERF ALERT! TERF ALERT class! Do you believe in the invasion of women bathrooms too, bubblehead?

>>10598745
Hey your schizophrenia is getting a little out of hand. Please take your antipsychotics.

I may be moving to Oregon this year. Does anybody know what their comm is like?

>>10596773
>>10596823
>Heart bleeds for a mentally ill man in frilly clothes.
>Begs strangers on the internet to not make fun of aforementioned "nice and innocent person."
>Tells strangers to kill themselves because their fee fees are hurt by pixels on a screen.
Go kill YOURSELF you incredible, fucking faggot and take your shit tranny community right to hell.

>>10596773
Honestly just throw "Tranny", "Trannies", "Globohomo", "Nigger", and other fridge-temperature IQ /pol/bot autowords into the filter and simply do not reply to or unhide any posts that get filtered, because the odds of you ever seeing a post including any of these words and an intelligent post to accompany them are lower than the likelihood you'll see any of them in cosplay or lolita (ie: the content of the board that they are presently shitting up).

>>10596773
Saying “Buzz cut McGee” out loud made me laugh so hard. I don’t understand anyone who takes this site seriously.

that one guy in the NYC comm who doesn't stop posting

>>10598872
SJW

>>10600088
deets

>>10587746
It's kind of weird that people who call themselves crossdressers are the most stable of that whole cluster. All the other labels attract a much weirder crowd.

>>10598745
take your meds schizo troon

>>10598745
Please go back to posting about clance and supernatural on your shitty tumblr blog, you fat, dead-end, lifeless-eyed thirty year old virgin. No one would care if you killed yourself.

I kinda brought this one on me by digging and finding her art twitter but there's this girl in my comm who has weird fetishes and say some peculiar, gross things sometimes (how she enjoys cyst videos or looking at forensic pictures). she looks decently cute but now i cannot see her as anything else than that and it's bothering me

>>10601467
Weird fetishes is one thing but I don’t think the cyst thing or forensic thing is that weird? Ever heard of Dr Pimple Popper? Forensic files? There’s obviously a large audience for these things to warrant entire shows, podcasts, etc.

>>10601475
just because there’s a lot of sick weirdos who enjoy watching pimples get popped doesn’t make them any less weird or gross

>>10601559
ok virgin

>>10579870
Source?

Lolitas are a scourge on this earth and deserve to be rounded up and systematically killed

A girl in our comm ranted for twenty fucking minutes on our comm Zoom about some random girl on Lace Market's buying history and kept circling back to it whenever someone tried to change the topic. I don't know who needs to hear this, but don't leak /cgl/ culture into your comm. It makes you look deeply unhinged when you go on for 20 minutes about the buying habits of some stranger online that none of us have ever heard of and who doesn't even know you exist.

If you're reading this, we all find you extremely off-putting and none of us like you. We've always felt that way, but that Zoom call really hammered in the last nail. Touch some fucking grass, take a break from /cgl/, and get a grip.

>>10601660
Aw, did the AGP sissy fetishist get his feefees hurt?

>>10601685
No I’m not a tranny I just think all lolitas are woman children that can’t accept that they suffer from daddy issues and must consume products to fill the empty pit in their chest left by their age regression fantasies. Degeneracy.

>>10601682
Oof, sounds super cringe. Reminds me of a girl in my comm who at her first meet was going on and on about Tyler's Kelly Eden video and bringing up online lolita community drama. She was nice otherwise but seemed obsessed with discussing old shit that has been talked about on cgl or whatever irl and it was tough to be around.

>>10601685
Why do you fucking retards always fall for the most obvious bait

>>10601682
What tf was her problem with it?

>>10601688
Oh, so you're not a tranny, you're an incel.

>>10601688
Strippers and lolitas aren't synonymous, incel. Infact, pretty sure most lolitas are asexual.

>>10601705
Or lesbians

>>10601688
Or maybe they just like cute frilly shit kek
Have fun with your weird projections tho~

>>10601692
Because lolitas tend to be mentally ill and have severe persecution complexes from old grannies giving them funny looks in the store

>>10601695
Correct. I hate women. I want all women to be forcefully converted into beautiful tranny femboys

>>10601692
because gulls love to fight you fool
Someone doesn't watch national geographic

>>10601705
Honestly it's so nice to have an aesthetically pleasing fashion that's explicitly non-sexual. I can't even be bothered to care about degenerates because I know I'm covered and that makes me feel safe.

>>10601708
yoinking that gif anon

>>10601694
LM-chan's account is really new, but she was buying a lot of sought after pieces. Apparently, only veteran lolitas should be allowed to buy shit like Milky Planet and the like.

>>10601689
This girl does the same thing where she brings up rotten milk as if it's still relevant. She still will bring up things like the Kelly Eden AP dress incident, LACE, and cringey itas who were in /cgl/'s spotlight for a couple weeks 5+ years ago.

>>10601748
Semi-off topic, but I'm so sick of people assuming a new Lace Market account means you're new to the fashion.

>>10601749
i mean it's a fair assumption, LM has been around for almost a decade now. obviously there are exceptions to the rule but most folks who've been lolitas for a while have a LM account even if they dont use it much

>>10601682
This is exactly the kind of thing people were forewarning last year when there was an uptick in screenshoting peoples purchases and complaining about it on here. Now there are deranged fucks stalking your purchases and complaining about it openly online.

>>10601768
Online and in person*

>>10601768
Why do some gulls get this obsessive over what random people on LM buy? I honestly don't understand it. What's so milky about what some rando LM user is buying?

>>10601749
I hardly use lace market in favor of buying from jp secondhand sites. It’s not that far fetched to for someone to have used the comm sales and instead of moving to LM they just buy off of those sites and maybe Facebook

>>10601782
Because they’re jealous. That’s literally the only reason. And a bunch of other people who are jealous validate them pretending that it’s not jealousy. It’s disgusting and LM needs to implement hiding purchase histories for users and censor usernames of people who won/bought items in the past.

This combined with the freak on here who recently confessed she googles peoples houses when she sells on lacemarket has made me step back and rethink buying or selling on there at all.

>>10601811
>the freak on here who recently confessed she googles peoples houses when she sells on lacemarket

WTF I was JUST thinking about the hypothetical possibility of someone doing this yesterday.

>>10579949
And much moreso
black men, at least according to arrest rates crime victimization surveys
>>10579932
lel

>>10597176
>afraid to report men

It's literally free money, just make fake accusations and you get me2 neckbeards from reddit supporting your cause(stealing all his money).

Damn dude, I just came here to laugh at the mentally ill posts the females were going to drop but they really can't vent without some dude getting hard off putting a wig on interrupting. What the fuck is this timeline.