/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10585148
I hate scrotes in Lolita fashion

>>10585148
I couldn't really care what people wear but I just had to come and see if this guy had been posted

Makes me feel extremely uncomfortable seeing old men in lolita??

That seems entirely inappropriate

We just gonna have meets with old men there now?

>>10585160
When I only saw the top part I wondered why this was posted, but then I went down to the shoes and socks.

>>10585148
I don’t know how to feel about this

>>10585148
Why spend that much on a JSK just to impersonate a horrid trash pile? This isn't lolita. Lolita is about quality of presentation. This is so awful that this iconic brand dress is downgraded to trash.

>>10585164
You saw the top part and thought it was okay? Are you a roofer? You saw the roof of the house and thought the roof was suitable? That must be it.

I'm getting a strong discord predator vibe from this one

>>10585162
Exactly. Meet ups are going to be old men in flea market coords, fake trans looking to be sexually stimulated, and a cast of itas that would make a sewage plant a relief for the eyes.

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>>10585172

>>10585170
Creepy. That's it. I absolutely refuse to call anything lolita if quality of presentation is lacking. Gatekeepers are desperately needed now more than ever. This isn't even "ita" because it lacks a serious attempt to be lolita. This here is a fucking joke.

>>10585175
>tfw no apex lolitas to chase away creeps and weirdos

>>10585173
An absolute, outrageous insult to that military beret. The thing sludge under it needs to crawl back into its degenerative slim hole.

>>10585167
Anon was talking about >>10585160

>>10585181
My apologies, I was clearly wrong. I do apologise. I mistakenly thought it was a post to the Honey Cake tragedy. Very sorry.

>>10585167
Posted in error as I wrongly thought this comment was for the Honey Cake horror. So sorry Anon, I am sorry and do apologise.

>>10585148
>>10585170
>>10585172
>>10585173

>>10585187
Hot mess served up at a choke and puke diner. Pick a theme and stick with it, not multiple themes.

>>10585173
I like this guy, you're all just no fun. The legwear isn't good on this one but I like seeing this guy and think he's living his best life. A lot of you took the idea of sissies trying to join the community and applied it to any man who wants to wear lolita, even if they haven't done anything.

>>10585192
I think if he put some falsies, a wig, and some makeup on no one would have problem with him. The army look from the neck up does him no favors.

>>10585187
Different styles & themes make this a blind challenge fail.

>>10585192
>>10585194
i dont take issue with him personally and dont mind men in lolita (provided they aren't sissies) but he looks bad. straight up. he needs some makeup, styled wig, better blouses, what the fuck is the military beret even there for, etc.

looking at his fb profile he does other altfashions well enough so not sure why he can't connect the dots in lolita

>>10585173
Ofc he's wearing Jo's dress. She and her "everyone can be kawaii" message is cancer for the lolita community

>>10585203
Completely agree Anon. She is a beacon of dismal deceived hope and an ita breeding mill.

>>10585160
not ita, nitpick

>>10585148
This is the first time I'll agree with cgl about men getting asspats for being men. This coord looks like ass.

>>10585207
nayrt but looking like you can’t pull the waist of your bloomers up past your thighs isn’t a good look

>>10585215
I personally don't mind long or peeking bloomers. It's clear it's intentional, she's too thin for it to be that they don't fit/she can't pull them up.

I just hate those tacky ass bunny ear socks. They ruin the whole look to me.

>>10585218
the elastic shouldn't be under her knees tho

>>10585227
Long bloomers is a thing

>>10585192
I just don't want men that look like men in this fashion. We get clowned on enough, if you're not going to take the extra step to look good fuck off. That goes for the female whales out there too.

Stop making this fashion look like a costume by being so ugly.

>>10585229
>milanoo
jesus

>>10585231
99% of the women who wear lolita look like lor anyway, a few men in dresses aren't going to keep everyone from noticing how you are all mentally unhinged.

>>10585232
I just grabbed the first one on Google. They obviously stole the picture

>>10585234
hard kek

>>10585148
The state of cof is absolutely alarming

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>>10585157
i wish someone would make a fb group for just woman in lolita fashion, we should be able to have woman safe space and everyone that identifies as a male can go make their own group

>>10585172
Im so confused did that shoop their legs? Why do they look like total drama people

>>10585255
Everyone in the group would be shamed by all the woke sjw. Most girls wouldn't dare to publicly admit they feel uncomfortable.

>>10585259
Why do we even need thew sjws? They all look and smell like shit

>>10585148
I think men can wear lolita as long as they aren't sissies, look good, and can respect boundaries, like for example asking before going to meets since some may not be comforable with a man in a female space. This guy is ita because his coords are bad, but of course as a male in the fashion COF will give him asspats. He seems like a decent guy who appreciates lolita so I hope he improves.

>>10585263
I can’t comprehend why a grown ass man want to put on a frilly dress and flaunt it to a group of young women. It just seem wrong how they want to participate in the community

>>10585187
That blouse looks like a pink trash bag. What in the world? It just seems like a hodgepodge of items that don't match.

>>10585255
Yes please I’d love that!!

>>10585255
sounds good in theory but seems like the kind of thing that would get you blacklisted from other FB groups, especially if you don't allow troons

>>10585264
They must want to feel included in this feminine space. If men want to participate in the fashion, they should at least try to do it well. Clothes shouldn't really have a gender, but it is annoying since some men can be rather creepy, and a lot of times they seem to put low effort into their coords.

>>10585264
A lot of men literally just get off on be able to invade women’s communities because they can

>>10585187
Fatties do not look good in the kaneko blouse. It’s like runway couture— exaggerated silhouettes only work with a thin frame. I dont hate the blouse itself, I just wish fatties would stop squeezing into it

>>10585257
i feel like they're doing some ageplay knees together pose while having manly calves

>>10585257
just fat calves, narrow hips and a shitty pose

>>10585234
This ugly ass man looks mentally unhinged.

>>10585308
all lolitas are mentall unhinged.

>>10585234
I would prefer 100 lors to 1 of him

>>10585240
>>10585243
Most of the people there don’t even wear lolita and they only like genderspecials’ and troons’ and disabled lolitas’ photos for “equity”

Actual cis lolitas wearing decently cute coords get no likes

>>10585260
Because of they don’t like you’ll they’ll get you fired from job in real life because real life employers haven’t figured out yet that the inmates have taken over the asylum and fb/Twitter are a crazy echo chamber no rational person cares about anymore

>>10585337
This

>>10585243
>>10585333
Can we move off of a shit platform like facebook and back to something more exclusive to actual lolita community?

There's all these people who are just looking in to the community and just ready to fight people in our community, when they don't even belong in our community because they are just "watching" lmao.

I know there are FB groups that validate you're a lolita first, before they will accept your membership. I'd like to move to daily posting for something like that.

>>10585148
Ew. Looks like this pervert who used to come into my store.

>>10585373
Why would you put a sticker on your face in one part and not the other? If you’re making a derpy face who gives a shit, have some balls and show it. Everyone knows the difference between ugo and bad facial expression. God I’m so sick of how obsessed everyone has become with looking perfect (aka fake) online. No one gives a shit what you look like as long it’s in the broad range of normal which this girl clearly is from the close-up

>>10585373
ngl.. for some reason kinda liking this dress. The hat is shit, but the coord isn't *that* bad..

>>10585148
Wow. This guy really looks like a older George Clooney. I wonder how close he would look to him in a nice suit...

>>10585166
Honey Cake is a meme at this point. Especially the version he is wearing.
Why are you so mad? It was an MTO open to everyone on the planet.

I don't want men in lolita either, but jesus, you're way too upset about the polyester tent version of Honey Cake.

>>10585280
Nobody looks good in that blouse. I’ve yet to see it ever look decent in a coord.

>>10585170
crossposted in femboy and crossdressing subs too...these people always give themselves away when you click on their profiles

>>10585373
It looka like Baby's first coord, and if it is, she might just be learning.

>>10585323
I'm sorry, but the only way that face can work is if you just be an old lady. A black bob wig and natural make-up (no colorful lips, eyeshadow or blush) to just airbush things out would do best. Old Ladies in Lolita is a cute look; old people trying make themselves much younger looking with "youthful" make-up choices just implies a lot of negative connotations.

>>10585254
Girl on the left needs to not color her bangs so much paler then the rest of her hair; it looks like a balding pattern. Maybe she should try the ends of her longer locks instead?

>>10585229
Only okay with long bloomers if the skirt is rather short or the dess is a tent cut / no fitted waist dress.

>>10585187
She really dropped the ball with her legwear; it makes the whole thing feel thrown together. If the tights were a solid magenta that matched the main color of the blouse then it would have "grounded" the holo effect and really brought it all together (the solid black elements can't do all the work).

>>10585150
The sleeves are too baggy, but the sweater as a whole is not a bad idea whatsoever. The shoes need to go, or the bag needs to match the color of the shoes. Really I'd just find navy or black shoes. I'd dare you to match the legwear back to the sweater for a "Heihei on a boat" look. The beret w/ short hair suits you, and usually never works, so I'd take advantage of that and do it with multiple coords.

>>10585333
Any good coord easily gets at least 100 likes. If you get no likes you just look like shit kek.

>I love shirring princess so much, maybe I should be....the Shirring Queen :3
Well, shirring doesn't love you back. Do you'll be the Queen everyone hates and hopes shell die. Also:
>Queen
>They/Them pronounie
At least be consistent and call yourself a sovereign kek

>>10585405
Do fatties and man squishing themselves into tiny woman's clothing even know how shirring is supposed to look worn? It's always stretched out until it's so straitened out it just looks like flat unironed fabric with random lines sewn into them or it's so bulking up it looks like there are layer of fat filling it out, while it should be in between these extreems...

>>10585405
full shirring is actually cute on normal sized people, too bad fatties think that since they can fit it in they should wear it

>>10585407 >>10585410
It's the same as when girl's overstuff their dresses with too many petticoats; they've spotted what's "possible" and are abusing it. The idea with shirring is that you aren't maxing it out by default. You're meant to have wiggle room so that when you bloat, if you temporarily shift in weight, the dress forgives you and does not become unwearable.

I don't like that they do this and make themselves look unflattering, but I don't know what to do about it either.

>>10585405
holy michilen man rolls

>>10585259
>>10585269
>>10585267
if they identify as a male they just arent let in the group, easy to bypass the judge of sjw if you let mtf in it and just not male identifying people
not the best but only way to get around it

>>10585405
Ugh, I bought shirring princess in this colorway off LM last year. I hope that seller doesn't see his posts and think I'm this nasty scrote.

At least the release I bought at least is a little different. iirc mine has two little chest bows.

>>10585170
Who even ties waistties like that and why does the right shot look like he's sitting on an invisible toilet? It reminds me of those creeps asking on RC or BSoLF how you go to the toilet in lolita. Feel like they just wanna start conversation about peeing in dresses or use it to feel that sissy kink shame by publicly talking about their peeing issues, and then hide it as a totally serious question so they can shout people are evil if they publicy disaproves. No men is so stupid they can't think of lifting up your skirt. Especially kink creeps not. And if they are they're too retarded for any fashion involving skirts.

>>10585425
damn you sound insecure

>>10585405
He's such a filthy beast. I hope he gets fatter, balds, and then dies of whichever stds he's spreading.

>>10585192
He needs to style above his neck as well, instead of looking like grandpa veteran above the next, lolita below. We can consider taking him serious after that (consider because I don't know him and I don't care to know more of people in my fashion comm until they at least looks fashionable or seriously trying to be, so I'll judge more after that. If they style well and are no creep I don't mind men).

>>10585379
Honestly I get this. I'm just very vain and wouldn't be able to get myself to post a picture where my face looks bad. I also like to see pretty people only more than seeing normal or even ugly even if it's fake. Make of that what you will, but I don't think it's really worth making a fuss about a sticker to hide an unfortunate facial expression.

>>10585405
this freak looks like this insane stalker i used to have, so i get extra disgusted when i see him.

>>10585412
>I don't like that they do this and make themselves look unflattering, but I don't know what to do about it either.
You're missing the point. Any sane person would be able to draw the conclusion that if a garment looks unflattering no matter how you put it on, it simply doesn't fit you properly and you simply shouldn't wear it. That's what you do about it. Not wear it and buy clothes that fit instead. Only fatties and men are this collectively delusional to think it's ok to wear it like this.

>>10585419
That won't do because you still get sissies roleplaying as mtf trans to get in, and may exclude the few rare man who can dress. It's hardly a propper criteria.

>>10585452
Excluding all men doesn't help anything, some of the best brolitas used to be cis men who didn't identify as anything else. But at the same time there are nice trans women (there was even a trans girl in a place I used to live who still wore ouji sometimes and was just really into jfashion and totally nice) I know people throw Mana out there a lot but he is a good example.

Tbh the best way to avoid sissies would be to ban sweets from your comm. The only sissies who like gothic are the ones who steal old pics from online and write those creepy captions. Or maybe have a vetting process that tricks sissies and creeps into outing themselves.

>>10585323
They always do that stupid stance with their legs, it's such a dead giveaway that they're men

>>10585471
Or they stand like a fucking duck like in OP

>>10585178
What is an apex lolita?

>>10585516
I think they mean in the context of an apex predator. Unless you mean what type of person an apex lolita would be.

>>10585148
THIS IS GARBAGE AAAAAAAAAAAAA

>>10585399
That’s what I meant by no likes. No likes compared to the troons. Troons or someone lying about being discriminated against for their wheelchair can get 1000+ likes easy, cis lolitas get like 200

>>10585526
The number of comments saying he looks amazing is shocking. Even IF he wasn’t a man and was young and cute this is a TERRIBLE coord. People are just giving him compliments because he’s male. Once again white men getting ushered into everything on a red carpet, they can’t let women have even one thing

>>10585148
Fuck my life I love those shoes tho. Anyone know sauce?

>>10585528
Absolutely!! Put a younger girl in this coord and NO ONE could bat an eye at this sht

>>10585535
Please don't wear that garbage with lolita.

>>10585535
They're AP replicas

>>10585549
sry wrong pic

>>10585405
This is exactly why I only sell my shirred pieces to people I know personally and buy all the comfortable things for myself. Jfc that poor dress...

>>10585405
Imagine constantly switching out your pronouns every day like clothes in order for it to work for your agenda. He makes trans people look like a joke as he spiels on the Discord. What a clown

>>10585148
Imagine this man - you can see his tattoo through his shirt - he's older than anyone here, maybe even twice the age of some people.
>How did he find lolita?
Did his children teach him about the internet?
His grandchildren maybe? And this is what they get? There is no explanation for this that isn't horrific. Asian fetishization? Some weird child kink? Maybe he dropped by /cgl/ from some other depraved board? Men don't just live their whole lives as men and suddenly want a full skirt, pastels and lace. Don't let men like this into your spaces. I feel sad for the women in his life if there are any left. Not only that, CoF eat it up. After this and facial-harness-chan I'm firmly in the 'CoF is literally dangerous' mindset. It will continue to become a grooming space where older people can expose minors to their fetishes without punishment.

>>10585575
Same goes for these abominations
>>10585405
>>10585323
>>10585170

>>10585148
how in the fuck?

this thread is the reason I'm a lonelita

>>10585578
White women love giving asspats to freaks.

>>10585575
Sissies found the brolita tag at some point 5 or so years ago and it's been a fucking deluge of garbage ever since.

>>10585575
i would say either a fetish or just realizing way too late in life that they're trans and it's too late to really do anything about it except wear feminine clothes, a la bruce jenner

>>10585575
His wife has been dressing him in woman's fashion for quite a few years already and he just went with it.

>>10585379
I'm guilty of this. Sometimes my face looks better in a selfie than a full coord shot. But I still want both.

Alright I made one. I know advertising isn't allowed but I'll take the ban. Leavers Lace EGL
>women only
>no fetish shit
>mainly ootd and coord posting

It's still rough and needs mods, i'm open to suggestions and changes. come take a look

>>10585611
How long do yall give it till the admin gets exposed for being a nazi

>>10585616
more like how long until it gets reported out of spite

I thought you guys were exaggerating but no really I went down the last few days of COF and the average coords average looking cis woman have like 100-200 likes while that thing has like 800

>>10585616
>>10585617
nah it's fine, I worded it nicely

>>10585611
God this is so cringe. Can’t wait for the 10 of you stupid enough to join to dox yourselves as terfs. Please. Hurry up.

>>10585620
trans women are more than welcome.

this is my last post, dont want to keep derailing the thread

>>10585622
you mean self identifying like angelface? lol

>>10585160
I want her to step on my balls with those shoes.

>>10585618
And some frizzy haired black girl in a mediocre coord got like 600 likes. It's all about pandering to the SJW community with the pity likes now. I hate CoF so much.
Also is SJW activism the new way to get clout these days? I see that Tsumi** and the autism girl on Instagram, it's like their whole schtick now.

>>10585148
It has over 900 likes.

>>10585622
>>10585419
>not the best but only way to get around it

Yeah trans women are totally welcomed in with open arms, not at all begrudgingly. Cgl terfs are such cowards.

>>10585645
you're a coward
lookit you posting anonymously

Tourist here, is ita just men in lolita? I’m confused.

>>10585654
Yes.

>>10585654
All men in lolita are ita but not all itas are men

>>10585629
Which one is the autism girl?

>>10585148
im all for lolita being a space for everyone but his lack of effort makes it look like he wears it as a kink

>>10585645
shut the fuck up

>>10585656
>All men in lolita are ita but not all itas are men

>>10585675
Mana is beyond your mortal concepts of gender

>>10585546
I'll be as ita as I want thank you

>>10585550
Thanks anon!

>>10585590
So his wife has been enabling and taking an active role in him wearing the costume of a woman...

>>10585611
Cannot find the group anon

>>10585578
>>10585243

why do you guys care so much about fucking fb likes?
People trash the group and its members all the time & still care how many likes people get compared to you.
Sorry you're not as popular as a man in a dress.
I hope you know fb likes are worth nothing

>>10585714
BASED

Some of you are absolutely seething like 13 year olds over facebook photos of strangers in frilly dresses

>>10585714
It's not like that. But the public visibility that this is better than normal lolita coords gives newbies the impression you have to be a gender snowflake to succeed in the fashion. Most people in cof don't even wear the fashion but when they start they'll look at what is the most popular. Furthermore this encourages other old perverts that lurk in cof to join as well since the community will welcome them with open arms.

>>10585528
>white men
Honestly I think black man and less androgenous looking asian man (like Randall Park, Daniel Dae Kim, Andrew Yang, Psy, Jack Ma, Xi Jinping, etc) would get the same. They just don't seem to post wearing this stuff openly.

>>10585654
It's just anyone looking horrible. Lately there have been an influx of man putting in no effort and looking like creepy old men in dresses, so they get posted more. It's funny, even itas seem to have trends.

>>10585717
Literally no one whose opinion actually matters thinks like this. Go outside.

>>10585744
Nyart but it does matter for the sake of not having your groups be taken over by sissies and SJW, as well as for the degree of how bad people's reactions are when walking over the street. Their opinion may not matter, but if people think you're part of a creepy kinky sissie club they're more likely to physically stop you to bother you than when they think you're just dresses like a weirdo. Also less hard time to explain to things like parents, new in-laws, and other people you can't avoid at least minimal socialising but might want to wear your clothes around without being looked at too badly.

The facebook comm is gone already fuck trannies

>>10585717
Lets trust people to have critical thinking . . . please.
Not everything needs to be ready for them

>>10585746
this is mind blowing,
People will think you are weird, you wear weird clothes its gonna happen. Get over it or you don't belong in this fashion.
How the do you think that people will define You and your fashion choices based on what gets likes in a private fb group ?
your stupid is showing

>>10585759
Nta but why are you defending those old duds so hard? Cgl is not the place for your sjw ass

>>10585760
I am not defending anyone, but when your argument is bas ,its bad.
also i really don't like it when people get supper hung up on fb likes. Its something really damaging to our society.

also m8 Ive been in cgl way longer than you and will continue to be here after you get bullied out off this fashion

>>10585765
People have you arguments and you refused to listen. It's not like it was an argument without any background.

I don't even believe you've been here for 3+ years anon. So stay mad I guess

>>10585767
kek what arguments ?
that people will find your frilly dresses weird coz when men wear them they get likes?
Or that the poor newfags will get confused?

>>10585769
I do think the one saying that the newfags get confused was pretty valid if you look what they look like these days. Some of them never even evolve because posting to cof gets them asspats and playing a victim card gives them a lot of attention. They don't need to evolve because beeing shit beings more likes and comments. Other newfags see that and copy the style. It's pretty shitty if that is the "new generation" of lolitas.

>>10585269
I think it's possible if the admins are run by FB pages like Rufflechat, or fake name FB accounts.

>>10585654
Don't listen to CGL exclusively lol

>>10585771
>Some of them never even evolve because posting to cof gets them asspats and playing a victim card gives them a lot of attention. They don't need to evolve because beeing shit beings more likes and comments.

1- No facebook group is responsible into making you a better "being".

2- playing the victim based on what? (honestly asking, are we still talking about the men? if yes do you mean playing the victim about lolitas not liking them wearing the fashion?)

3- Critical fucking thinking, people can and should be trusted to make rational conclusions based on what is given to them

4- why do we need to spoon-feed newbies? If they want to wear the fashion it trust they will. its not that hard.

5- Its kind stupid to assume the only place newfags get their info is one fb group. there are multiple resources across a million different platforms.

6- if they dress the by "copying what has most likes" they have already proven they are already doing it for clout/ not really into lolita for what it is

Altogether your argument is flimsily at best.
If you don't like men in dresses just say that people are not going to judge you here. Obsessing over how many likes they get is a tad sad.

>>10585771

>>10585779
1) I never implied that. But this is what is resulting out of the group

2) no we're not talking about the men anymore since we shifted to cof in general. Looking at many coords that received much attention recently, they mostly mention or show some kind of disability, mental illness, gender special trait or are just old people men dressed in bit coords. Those pictures resonate a lot with most of cofs base and shape puplic perception in the group to normalizing sad postings or as mentioned old guys showing off their new uwu dresses to hide their boners

3) looking at a lot of commentators I don't think many of them are mentally able to use critical thinking. Or they're uninformed enough to believe this to be the norm

4) we don't, but afterwards we shouldn't wonder why our fashion is overrun by kinksters and men.

5) no most get it from youtubers lor, Jo and other special snowflakes on tiktok that direct directed to cof or find it by chance.

6) yeah but where is the line nowadays, since many lolitas post on instagram and other platforms and care about likes and validation. You can't really say that one person is only into it for fame and likes or not. The fact is they wear the fashion and get the likes and someone who was interested in the first place might perceive it as the right way since it's the way most liked and excepted by others


I've never obsessed about likes in this. For me it was more about what the implications might be for newbies who look at this without a critical eye.
But I mean we won't change anything anymore since this has become the new normal the past years and anonymously posting to cgl is like screaming into an empty room,it won't reach the people it's addressed at.

>>10585611
thank you for making a group but cant find it either

>>10585148
even he can't believe it lmao

please, stop encouraging him to stay where he is. He obviously is going to stay in the fashion, so encourage him to use makeup, wigs, and stop trying the Army DI from the neck up look

>>10585759
Did you even read? It's not about not wanting people to think I'm not weird. I know they will. It's about the fact there is a difference between people thinking you're "dressing weird" and "dressing like sissy kinkster community member". Especially since the later get's a ton more issues in society. That sissy & DDLG crap is just one step below pedos in most peoples eyes, and there have been multiple beaten to death in the last few months where I'm from. Sorry, but I rather not get tossed into that group because of these old man. who can't even try to dress themselves Rather just stay a weirdo dressing weird and keep it at that.

>>10585759
Also, it's easier to explain family members weird fashion is just some jfash if they don't have a preconception you're a DDLG or sissy creep.

>>10585809
>>10585809
how would your family members know that ddlg people like the brands you do?
are they members of Cof? Do they see males or kinksters dressed in egl often?
or is it just the aesthetics of your clothes?

>>10585611
You’re awfully bold for this, I hope you know that.... risking complete ostracizing by the SWJ/ woke loli comm....

Damn you’re bold. Respect.

>>10585645
People who will only state their beliefs anonymously are cowards, water is wet. Why are you surprised. If they actually cared about their terf beliefs they'd say them publicly but truth is you're all a bunch of no balls edgelords.

>>10585516
Nta but think they mean the alpha bitches that don’t take any crap or obvious fake excuses for looking like shit especially in this day and age of the fashion with all the resources available.
And I don’t mean they are mean to everyone for everything. They would help when they could if the answer wasn’t easy to find and they knew it. Give actual concrit without being a cunt or a coward. Would help drive out predators or notice if someone needs help especially in their comm at meets.

I’m excited to BtB desu after all the shit that’s gone down this week

>>10585856
Fuck, I forgot the “desu” shit. Been a little while since I was active on cgl

>>10585148
I came here just to post this. I hate men.

>>10585864
Based

>>10585864
based

>>10585864
based

>>10585670
the old school girl who's kinda ugly? I know two of those who are into OS, autistic and kinda ugly but one is more cringe than the other so

>>10585806
He’s been around for a while. He’s been in the plus size server since September last year.

Based.

>>10585148
this is why men never improve on their fashion style.
People keep 'uwu you look so cute grandpa-chan how cool!' -ing men that do the bare minimum, despite how atrocious the coord is. This wouldn't get 15 likes on CoF if it was a woman wearing it.
Stop coddling men in women's spaces.

>>10585910
all the old schoolers have autism, they talk about it all the time

>>10585959
Nevermind that OP is stretching the fucking bodice to fit his body into the dress in the first place. That shit's ripping at the seams.

>>10585964
Damn how can he be so huge he's fucking up MTO HC? Wasn't the bust for it like 130cm or some huge shit? Even a large breasted obese woman can fit that.

>>10585813
Fucking hell how stupid are you? CoF is a big group, so it helps with normalizing what's normal in the western comm. Old guys in dresses and sissy kinksters becoming normal and accepted in big groups will make it seem accepted in the general sense. Any time stuff comes into general public, that's what's shown. So when normies think about "this look", that's what they think about

Stop defending creeps like this being asspatted on CoF and similar groups like it doesn't ruin the already questionable to many normies reputation by popularising this kind of shit like it's the best thing ever that deserves the most asspats.

>>10585991
you look like a crazy freak even without these men.

>>10585992
I think some lolita's are pissy lolita will never be "normal acceptable" fashion and try to blame it on trannies for making it seem ridiculous to normies

>>10585994
>Rather be random weirdo in normies eyes than sissy ddlg kink weirdo.
>Numerous reasons why that later causes more issues in normal life unless you shelter yourself away from all human beings including colleagues, family, and others a normal human is bound to interact with in life as well as extremist that beat creeps that think sexualising children to dead.
>pissy lolita will never be "normal acceptable" fashion
Just fuck off, no one things lolita needs to be normal. You're retarded if you still don't understand why people don't like trannies to be normalised as the best thing ever that deserves 1k likes as if it's the new trend everyone should follow. Many people tried to explain, you're the one who's pissy that people just don't want you stupid trannie pronounies here. Just die already and leave us be in our weird non sissy kinkster ways.

>>10585148
He must feel so clever having found out lolitas will let him play out his fetish with them if he wears a 400$ dress instead of a 80$ one

>>10585992
Troon spotted.

>>10586002
I understand, anon. I also do not want lolita to be associated with kink weirdos and troons and they seem to be flocking to the fashion.. At one point I was supportive of *well dressed brolitas* but nowadays, it's gotten out of hand with these men in wigs or guys not even trying.

>>10585629
>is SJW activism the new way to get clout these days

that and it's a great way to have your bad/antisocial behaviour excused, saw it happen in my comm

>>10586044
no, but normies already think lolitas look like ageplay freaks.

>>10586068
Same. That racist spouting 'white gurlz' nonstop all over the place in the troon thread was my local comm. It's fucking disgusting that this behavior is excused.

>>10585806
I'm not against men in the fashion, per se, but they need shouldn't get special treatment.

If a cis woman wore this exact outfit she'd get maybe 50 likes.

>>10585960
I wish they'd all shut up it's super cringe.

>>10586173
Isn’t that part of autism though

>>10585675

>>10586112
If you even attempt to call anyone out and look like you're protecting "vvhite people", then you're branded as a racist.

>189 replies
>23 images
>giving troons the attention they obviously get off on by making the whole thread about them

this is easily the shittiest ita thread ever. Are itas really becoming that scarce?

>>10586224

>>10586225

>>10586226
I would never take photographs if that’s what my face looked like.

>>10586226

>>10586231

>>10586231

>>10586232
Is that an overdress or a nightgown..? I truly can’t tell.

>>10586234
I hate this coord so much. Its like an overstuffed sausage. The foot situation looks weird too, but maybe that's the pose.

>>10586234
Her arm looks like it needs medical attention

>>10586225
This looks like the picture a serial killer takes before killing the girl

>>10586234
How do these women even get the dress on? shit looks like it's about to burst

>>10586226
Can't tell if it's just her face, the expression, or both but fuck that's unfortunate.

>>10586292
The longer I look at this the sadder it gets

>>10586305
he a freak, but he a freak with good taste I want most of the stuff in the right side of the collage.

>>10586318
>Good taste
Are you one of them who liked old pancake mans cof posts too
Because you would not be saying the same things if those bad coords were on a girl

>>10586305

He has good taste in main pieces but absolutely zero sense of coordination. Makes me a little salty that I definitely coord better than him but he gets more asspats attention by virtue of being a man.

>>10586320
I am no on fb you agresive weirdo

>>10586320
also never said a thing about the coords just that I want his clothes, calm down

>>10586305
Is that a fucking Danganronpa plush?

All the creep/fetishist alerts just went off even louder than they already were. So gross

>>10586305
he sure does love his H&M blouses

would y'all call this dress ita? its a bit of a lacemonster but my old school ass can't pinpoint if its ita or not lmao

>>10586362
Lace looks cheap. I would say ita, solely on the quality of the lace. I personally don't think that lacemonsters are bad in all cases, as they can be quite beautiful if the lace used isn't some scratchy polyester mess. But because of how much good quality lace costs, they're very hard to find and most monsters are indeed very ita.

>>10586362
It’s ita, but it can work in an “Old school frumpy ita on purpose” kind of way if you are skilled enough eg. old Marble and Visible

>>10586292
this is her first coord you salty cunt kek

>>10586305
He makes a decent oiji, he should just stick with that

>>10585806
> 1K likes
What a fucking world we live in, Jesus. People do the dumbest shit just to feel better about themselves huh

>>10586375
First coord or not, no excuse for that bedroom

>>10585471
nah, this is how people with fat legs pose

>>10586292
Did y’all see the comment asking if her parents knew she posted a picture of their bedroom? KEK

>>10586231
Poor Fancy Candy... that’s the best colorway too.

I'm so tired of ugly ass men in lolita and the asspats they receive for their shit tier coords.
Men need to know their place and stay out of our spaces

>>10585157
I hate scrotes

>>10586439
even though I feel like this is a nitpick, because all he really needs is a wig, some of the decisions here are strange
>that cheap headbow
>that cheap badge and wonky, normie cardigan clip
>that normie bolero
>those cheap wristcuffs
>

>>10586443
yea, yea we heard that 1st time, no need to repeat by replaying to yourself

(newfag here but I'll do my best)
There was a livestream organised by my school to entertain and encourage students and it had a bunch of different discussions. For some reason one of the topics was fashion and they chose lolita. It was so horrendous and painful to watch that I couldn't help but share it on cgl... This shit is so plain awfull and to top it of the people giving her a makeover didn't do any research and made her look like an ita incel. Thanks to this shit a lot more people are misinformed and think this is just a maid cosplay hobby or something. She's wearing a cheap petti, no bloomers, the ugliest ita dress I've ever seen, neon makeup with gem stickers and to top it all of: SILVER.PLASTIC.SNEAKERS. I won't wear lolita to my school anymore because I don't want to be associated with THIS.

TL;DR: Don't let normies give ''lolita makeovers''.

>>10586452
Picture of the sneakers:

>>10586445
ESL scrote spotted

>>10586453

>>10586326
You sound psychotic

>>10586326
Truth

>>10586454
just because you have penis does not yet mean you are right

>>10586234
this brought back some memories of classic deviantart itas

>>10586489
>enby
lol
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>>10586489
it's always those types with the shittiest coords and fried hair

>>10586369
oh and then pairing it with big chunky platform mary janes and a floppy bonnet

>>10586452
Is that some kind of weird blanket made into a coat they stuck on her?

>>10586418
posting something 7 years old is barely counting. it's likely posted 7 years ago. Come with new content, otherwise it just becomes nostalgia threat instead of ita threat.

>>10586444
It's not a nitpick if a person just doesn't even care to try to look feminine, but just wants to look like a old man in a dress. "old man in a dress" is no where near the definition of lolita. At least trying is the minimum.

>>10586452
wow that's embarrassing, what was the response?

>>10586452
>no bloomers
The fact this becomes known is already an issue. I don't care if you where shorts or bloomers if it's hidden (obviously things like peaking bloomers only work with bloomers), but for god sake no one needs to see your undies unless it's due to actual accidental flash prevention.

>>10586558
If I'm correct they asked her to walk around and do a little spin. They told her that she looked so lovely...

>>10586557
nayrt

Personally I'd rather ugly old men NOT try to look feminine. People always say they should wear some makeup and a wig, but that's how you wind up with the creepy uncanny valley Ed Gein effect a lot of male itas have.

Someone like OP's Sergeant Honey Cake is far less creepy imo because at least he's not pretending to be a kawaii ugu little girl. People like him and >>10586439 need better styling over all, like making sure the clothes fit properly and picking better accessories, but they wouldn't be less ita if they were trying to look like women.

>>10586565
Agree. That’s why people like this viral middle aged guy in heels, while probably fetishists too, don’t look inherently creepy and in fact can look pretty cool if they’re confident enough.

>>10586439
>>10586444
Idk, I feel like I’d wear this for a casual day, normie bolero and all. I’d just skip the wristcuffs and the infant girl-type headband, and also the children’s jewelry.

>>10586453
Great shoes. Just not for lolita. lol

>>10586571
Dropped photo.

>>10586565
It is definitely up to people's own styling abilities and preferences. I think effeminate people like diaper baby and maybe the twinky thin younger dude could easily just shave and go brolita a la the guy in those deerstalker skits and no one would hate them, but they don't for attention, whereas the french dude and military dadlita dude both have super masculine bodies and faces that would benefit from more masculine styling. Old man dadlita in particular could even have the benefit of using military themed or style dresses and doing a masculine take on something like the Magic Princess Napoleon JSK, Chocolate Quartet I think, or similar pieces with military inspired looks already. If he wants to improve I see going the way of a kawaii lord farquad (maybe even with a little wig like those short boyish bobs) working well for him. The french guy always looks weirder when he dresses more casual, he should stick to avant garde looks or consider different makeup and styling.

>>10586581
This anon has good tastes. 10/10 would hire to style itas that are beyond hope

>>10585394
disgusting

>>10585864
fucking based

>>10586226
the cat face on the bag looks like her face

>>10586597
It warms my heart to hear that anon, thank you!

>>10586506
how does one get “fried” hair without it looking to have been dyed though? it just looks unstyled as well as an unflattering cut in general, but it’s probably just her natural untreated hair.

>>10586581
Holy shit. Real concrit. What is it doing here?!

>>10586581
>>10586597
Agreed, this anon clearly gets fashion and its nuances overall, not just lolita. Reading that and >>10586571 was a refreshing break from the endless "MEN?! IN MY FASHION??" reeing that always pops up

>>10585187
Where's that bag from tho

>>10585343
Daily egl? Vetting is pretty strict on that in my experience

>>10586655
looks like killstar

>>10586667
Seriously what is the answer to the “egl became popular in what year in response to what”-question? Popular where??

>>10586580
I don't mind the guy but the inspirational sign was hilarious to me.

>>10586112
>>10586221
Not even white and omg this.

>>10586642
Burnt hair, overly processed, heat treated, dry as fuck and void of product....

Dry product less hair tends to be the other “fried” look

>>10586667
daily egl is run by one of the retards who runs wall of shame, and another mod posts people to the ita thread. that group is trash

>>10586667
considering some of the mods are that fat drag queen loving girl who shoves her ass into modding every lolita group on Facebook and that ugly sjw black girl, it’s pretty much just another cesspit of itas.

>>10586813
>>10586847
Kek, there is truly no where to go but here.

>>10586856
Cute!! I love their eyebrows and the peaking petti is an adorable touch

>Ita Thread
>Its actually a "I hate trans people thread"

Degeneracy to absolutely mind baffling levels is ok but men wearing dresses crosses the line.

>>10586580
Anon from >>10586557
The style is less clashing with his masculine face tho. Both are somewhat casual neat styling appropiate. I can see a female manager where that outfit on casual work days, and a male manager have such a face and it'll be normal. I don't mind this, but something about super kawaii clothes with super masquiline face look off styling wise. Maybe they don't need to look more feminine per se as >>10586581
mentioned, but what they do now doesn't work. I guess my issue is more how much it clashes that just makes these man look weird, even by lolita terms.

>>10586642
Maybe bleached it, ruined it, dyed it back to a natural looking darker colour to hide their horrible at home paint job?

Also heat styling without protection

>>10586885
>the peaking petti is an adorable touch
This is an April fools joke right? Please don't be truly this tasteless...

>>10586452
switch schools

>>10586847
I’m not a mod, but I’ve seen people bitch about them so I have a question:

You’re mad that mods are “ita” to you.
You’re mad that they actually examine those who they let in.
You’re mad at the way COF is run.
You say they post itas here but you have no proof.
What DO you want from them? Y’all bitch about every group on fb but have yet to run your own the way you think it should be.... what else is missing other than the regular bitch squads that are known for being on here?

>>10585178
There are no apex lolitas because the SJW will destroy them for being exclusionary. Instead they keep to themselves.

>>10586940
There is proof you fucking meat wallet check the farms.

>>10586942
nice excuse for why everyone hates you

>>10586940
Nayrt but there's a superior fb group that has much better vetting and therefore coords. You seem pretty butthurt, are the ita mods your friends or something? The complaints about them aren't exactly baseless or new.

>>10586555
Hi Sam

>>10586893
Pretty sure this is bait but I highly doubt anyone in this thread genuinely hates actual (!) trans people who are willing to integrate by taking themselves and their transition seriously.
What we do hate is seeing our fashion getting exploited by male degerates who can't be bothered to put in even the tiniest bit of effort. They make the community look bad not ~inclusive~ or ~for everyone~.

>>10586970
samefag, yes I see the typo.

>>10586581
What the fuck is an intelligent post doing in the ita thread

>>10586940
Hi Bri

>>10586968
>>10587026
Am I the only one who thinks this is cringier than selfposting

>>10587028
Yes newfag you are

>>10587028
It's way cringier. This is newfag posting.

>>10586970
This. I have and actual trans girl in my comm and she’s lovely and hanging out with her and talking about lolita is great. She’s more than welcome.
The 60yr old honey cake dude who wears a military beret with every coord? That refuses to feminize himself in any way and is a weird old dude who wants to hang out with 20 yr old women?Creepster.
And like sure, maybe he really is into the fashion and it took it took him until now to accept that side of himself blah blah blah so what. But there’s an equally (or even more) likely chance he’s a creepster and if one 60-year-old white dude who sincerely loves the fashion gets excluded to keep five creepers out, I’m not gonna cry about it. He spent his whole life being a privileged white man, I’m not gonna be sad that he doesn’t get to have this one thing.

>>10587031
>He spent his whole life being a privileged white man

>>10587031
>He spent his whole life being a privileged white man
Friend, this is exactly the argument that’s used against the mtfs you claim to support. (But I agree.)

>>10585255
Agreed anon, I hate seeing men in lolita like where did they even come from? It’s like they just came out of the woodwork and are trying to act like they own the place

>>10587040
I guess so but he’s not even saying he’s trans, he’s literally just saying he’s an old man who likes to wear frilly clothes and hang out with girls 1/3 his age while refusing to actually make an attempt to feminize his appearance in any other way. He WANTS to look like an old man in a dress. Because he’s a sissy

>>10587050
You seriously don't need to be ftm or trans in order to feminize yourself for a fashion that is only feminine...

>>10587057
no, but since men are fucking disguisting having a safe space for women is logical

>>10587049
>Agreed anon, I hate seeing men in lolita like where did they even come from? It’s like they just came out of the woodwork and are trying to act like they own the place

>>10587040
>this is exactly the argument
argument? that's an empty figure of speech

>>10587060
Can agree. I'd prefer if men were out of our fashion at this point. I was advocating for cute guys in dresses at one point, but now it's slimey men in dresses who don't brush their hair, trim their beard, or even bad looking angry SJW mtf toxicity.

People's attitudes and behavior is what ruins inclusivity. If no trans person wanted to be excluded in the first place, then they shouldn't run their mouth like a teenager with no emotional stability and tried to make everyone accept everyone or they were going to go nuclear. The lolita community was accepting before, so asking for more than what we already were is now allowing in slimey old men, fetishists, and sissies.

Fuck. We need to do something about this.

>>10587062
Exception, not the rule, brainlet.

>>10587062
So how old is Mana now? I bet he's looking like Mr. Yan now.

>>10586893
>I hate trans people thread
Yes and? Not our fault that trannies can't dress themselves.

>>10587075
52

>>10587073
I concur. Lets get all the males, no matter their "identity" out of lolita, and kick all women out of cosplaying male characters / genderbending.

>>10587093
Lolita is fashion. Cosplay is costumes. Lolita is true-to-self style, cosplay is a fantasy. You're comparing apples and leaf blowers.

>>10587098
Fine. Then no more women in suits with slacks and ties. That's male "fashion"

>>10587060
Create a safe space then? Lolita never was and never will be an woman only space, if you want one of those inside the fashion, create it.

>>10587062
I think Mana looks better then 95% of lolita's but comparing pictures of a smol young asian man in a professional shoot with professional makeup and styling to a big old white mans amateur picture with no make up and questionable styling is a stretch.

>>10587109
Then by all means make said exception during the original post, rather than backpedal after getting called out on a blanket statement.

>>10587101
It's about the community and the fashion is specifically geared towards making someone look 'feminine.' No one wants uggo guys wearing dresses in this fashion, get over yourself.

>>10587112
You think you're arguing with one other anon and you're absolutely not. You sound like a safeplace toxicity warrior.

>>10587113
That being said, suits are geared towards making someone look manly. "Nobody" wants women looking manly"in suits. If you're gonna force gender inequality in something, expect to receive it right back.

>>10587112
I should have added NTAYRT but it's something which I always thought of when people bring up how Mana is a man as a gotcha argument.

>>10587115
Nayrt but men and women in suits don’t look many. They look sleek and sexy. Besides man and women tend to have differently tailored suits. It’s completely different from looking like a hairy ass man slob in a cute, polished, feminine dress that was meant to look elegant and girly. Same way unkempt messy women look equally as bad in Lolita.

>>10587121
Imagine not doing your hair and not doing makeup and wearing a suit. That's basically what I think the anon is comparing it to.

Men are idiots. Including this one >>10587115

Whatever excuse you want to not look presentable in fully dressed up clothing.

>>10587036
She's such a fucking ita who even is she? She's probably an Instagram cloutchaser. We need to kick all these new people out they're ruining the fashion for us oldfags.

>>10587049
Novala has always been such an ita inside and out.

>>10587141
when this entire website is such garbage that you can't even tell if this is a joke

>>10585264
Have you forgotten that fucking Mana exists?

>>10587075
>So how old is Mana now? I bet he's looking like Mr. Yan now.

52 and you can see him in quiet recent youtube videos. https://www.youtube.com/c/Moim%C3%AAmeMoiti%C3%A9official/videos

>>10587271
>Have you forgotten that fucking Mana exists?

Here are video proofs that he does

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rh3uHyws3TQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zvvg-Bo7NNU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WfTSvcch37c

>>10587233
naw we got it its just a really bad one