/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Interestingly, other lesbo loli couples are always super cute.

>>10513425
that tends to happen when your biggest interest is some niche Japanese subculture (niche in the west). Normies aren't going to want to have to explain to their normie friends why their girlfriend dresses like a "princess" and that its not a pedo thing.

>>10513425
I’m a straight lolita with a super cute and swole cosplay bf. It’s possible.

Def the case for every European comm I’ve seen. It’s the girls that insist on bringing their bfs to meets as well, god forbid they wear anything more presentable than jeans and an old t-shirt too

>>10513426
>you now remember lor and holly

>>10513425
Aren't you just a bitter cuck ?

>>10513442
probably this. Normie men would just find a lolita GF to be too embarrassing. Only men who don't care about looking presentable or ridiculous (akk the ugly ones who already have just given up on looking cool) are going to accept a lolita GF.

>>10513425
My bf is kind of good looking but he's also very abusive and dismissive about my feelings.

I've been watching lesbian tiktok compilation on youtube (I don't want to download tiktok) and daydreaming about having a cute lesbian gf with a modicum of emotional intelligence. But I'm a chronically ill loser and stuck living with my bf because he pays the bills.

>>10513425
Ugly girls have ugly bf

maybe for some people personality/ having someone who is supportive of their weird hobby is more important than looks/ styled.

>>10513488
>for some people
For intelligent people.

>>10513479
/Thread

>>10513479
not OP but I've seen a handful of cute lolitas with astonishingly ugly bfs

my bf

Handsome men can have their pick of women. Why on earth would they settle for some snobby clout obsessed dress hoarder?? HAHAHAHA

>>10513450
Bruh. For real. Our comm went no men allowed for EXACTLY this reason and then everyone tried to spin it into an anti-trans thing when it was solely due to the fact that people kept bringing their shittily dressed and poorly behaved boyfriends (in spite of their insistence of being a perfect gentleman)

>>10513488
The thing is though, they don’t even have a personality lmao. Most of the time they’re both heinous and insufferable.

>>10513526
Truth bomb

I've wondered the same thing. I've never met a lolita with a well dressed/groomed bf. Always some ugly redneck looking guy.
When lolitas date other women, its usually women also into lolita, so why when they date men, do they not date men into lolita/ouji/j-fashion/other related fashion?

>>10513474
You can find a gf who will pay the bills and not abuse you. Raise your standards anon.

>>10513488

Personality is my answer. My own personality/tastes are kind of unusual, so finding someone that really "clicks" with me is so rare that being compatible, enjoying each other's company, and understanding each other are higher priorities than looks (not including grooming, of course).

>>10513425
get a life dyke

>>10513575
This is just a silly question when the fashion is 95% women and fakebois. Alt fashion in general attracts ugly and/or maladjusted men, which I guess goes the same for women.

My guess is that lolitas typically have low self esteem. There's certainly an argument for caring more about personality, but as others have pointed out a lot of these men don't have a good personality either and even the world's greatest personality for me wouldn't make up for obesity or lack of basic grooming.

That's not counting the many lolitas who themselves aren't goodlooking and simply have a partner at their own level.

>>10513575
My best friend and I are both lolitas, and our boyfriends are both attractive. But her boyfriend dresses like shit, so to curb her needs my boyfriend can't be present either so that her man doesn't walk around in his fucking basketball shorts with us. My bf only dresses well because he's in the punk/hardcore scene. One day I did a super fun shoot with him in his crazy battle jacket and Docs while I wore OTT sweet.

I really do feel for lolitas who have badly dressed partners because it reflects poorly on them and their efforts in the fashion. However, there's not a lot of guys who know anything about lolita fashion at all. My ex hated it and thought it was attention seeking... and he dressed like shit. I'm pretty lucky my bf was weeby enough to know about Japanese street fashion, and that he has tastes that include sweet, gothic, and proto/old school. He finds my GLBs very interesting.

I guess the lolita community just magnifies an existing thing? Let's be honest here attractive women almost always date down, in terms of both looks and personality.

>>10513469
I think this is probably the closest explanation. Attractive guys have way more to lose by dating a weird girl that strikes most normies as a pedo fetish, especially if they're not actually involved in the fashion. Normie guys who settle for weird gfs do so at an exchange rate of attractiveness for the weirdness of the girl.

>>10513585
no matter how ugly the lolita is, somehow, impossibly, the bf is always way uglier lol.

>>10513488
Personality is important but you shouldn't have to only pick one, like there are nice people out there who aren't fuggos. Though I guess those girls don't see their SOs that way. There are girls out there who legit have a fetish for fat ugly neckbeards.

>>10513575
There's very few men into J-fashion or who look good in general lmfao.

>>10513619
Yeah, if there's 10 men in jfashion/aristo 2 are women, 4 are gay, 2 are old and married, 1.5 are uggo fetishizers who think wearing a top hat makes them egl and maybe .5 are het single men who are average at best. The pickings are slim.

>>10513625
>1.5 are uggo fetishizers who think wearing a top hat makes them egl

You forgot about the poorfags that think a walmart vest with womens capris makes them ouji lmao

>>10513504
Pics?

To those talking about how normie men wouldn't want lolita girlfriends, what about the reverse? I admit my bf is not the best looking but the good looking guys I have come across have not been the best type of people.
>One believed he was actually a vampire and was a pathological lier
>Another was a model but an alcoholic and pothead who loved acting out for attention
>One was just boring. The only interest he had was sports and sport vidya
I'm not saying all handsome guys are like this, and I'm not saying all unattractive guys are perfect (They can be even worse) but I think that attractiveness isn't the only thing sought after and doesn't always make up for people with personalities that don't click with the other.

>>10513425
You're all a bunch of weirdos who drop hundreds of dollars on stupid looking dresses

>>10513632
Don't have pics but I remember Laceferatu posting a picture of her with her absolutely hideous partner on CoF once

>>10513605
Isn't this just conflating attractive with normie? I would say my boyfriend is conventionally attractive but he's very far from normie. He didn't know about the fashion before he met me but he likes how feminine it is and prefers it to lazy normie fashion.

>>10513632
misako-skinwalker-chan is pretty but her boyfriend is very hard to look at compared to her

>>10513576
>a gf that pays the bills and doesn't abuse me

sounds like a pipedream. If I leave my bf I'll have to live with my parents, would anybody worthwhile actually date a 27 year old loser living at their parents' place in the crappy part of town?

>>10513625
honestly, as part of that .5, the only lolitas I have met irl or on dating sites that had any interest in me at all have been obese. A good number of lolitas I've met just general hate men. One lolita I know dating a guy posts a lot of anti-men stuff on social media. I'm starting to think lolita bfs are so ugly is because they pick out losers that they can bully. idk
The number of decently attractive bi/straight lolitas who view men as equals is very very low, from my experience.

>>10513673
fuck off scrote.

>>10513673
the only .5 ur part of is the half-inch dick club incel trash

>>10513690
>>10513698
case in point

>>10513425
Its not about look. Its about money.

>>10513673
This is that guy who used to constantly cringepost on the ouji thread with mirror photos of his Paul Revere cosplay, isn’t it?

>>10513645
Just get a job and find your own place, Jesus. There’s no shame in staying with your parents and not dating while you’re job searching.

>>10513642
You’re right. This much filter and she still couldn’t make him look like anything other than a literal gremlin.

>>10513736
Hahaha OP forgot to mention that guys in the fashion overrate their own attractiveness by like 999999 times

My bf is cute as heck and loves brands like listen flavor, galaxxxy, etc. He’s not a perfect ouji prince or anything, but we look cute together I think! It might help that he’s bi though, so he’s a little more comfortable with makeup and styling than a straight boy might be?

>>10513741
He's just an average looking dude. Does cgl just have unrealistically high standards for everyone? I swear the most average people get called ugly. Maybe I'm just not that concerned about looks for my partner.

It's not a lolita thing. Most women have ugly boyfriends. This is because most men are ugly. Also, lolita fashion is weird so that already makes dating difficult.

And "attractive" guys in alt circles always end up going for boring normie girlfriends.

my bf is a tall skinny /fa/ model but i think people just have low standards/are leeches. that or they're really nice to make up for being ugly idk

Can anyone do a small dump of lolitas with bfs who are cute and/or well dressed? I wanted to post some but I can’t find much.

lolita couple mini dump to give hope to us frilly femcels

>>10513736
I self post sometimes, but never have in the ouji thread or while wearing ouji
>>10513742
I'm not overweight and I shower regularly, that alone puts any man or women above average in attractiveness in the US, imo
>>10513744
right? He looks fine. the lolitas I know dating men all have gross neckbeard bfs.

>>10513640
If it makes you feel better she was just dating him for the $$$ and cheated on him and dumped his ass apparently

>>10513757
Are you trying to tell me that's not a woman lmao

my bf and I are average looking and well dressed

>>10513754
This entire photo is cringy as fuck.

>>10513425
You sound like a bitter incel.
Nobody owes you a cute partner just because you have X interests.

>>10513741
He's not ugly.

>>10513673
Part of the time, girls who say they hate men and still dating one, hate men as a gender but not the individual. I have a strong dislike for trannies as a whole but individuals are fine, I even have 3 of them as close friends and they agree that the state of the transsexual community is garbage, just like your average guy can admit most men are shit. The dislike is warranted due to the shitty things these people do on average or as a group. I wouldn't think too much into the hate.

gib lolita gf

>>10513425
Honestly it doesn't bother me if they're ugly, but what bothers me is when they show up to meets acting sullen as fuck, dressed sloppily and acting like they don't want to be there. Refuse to talk to anyone other than their girlfriend. If you can't be respectful about your girlfriend's interests, you don't deserve her. The only boy I've ever taken to a meet wasn't even my boyfriend, just my best guy friend (who is gay), and he STILL managed to make himself presentable (he wasn't in ouji but he dressed himself well), and he was friendly and personable with everyone at the meet instead of only talking to me.

>>10513778
...what?
Why would you say you hate a group of people if you don't actually hate everyone in that group?

>>10513759
Y'all got any caps or deets? How long ago did she post a photo of him to COF?

>>10513425
I dont understand either. Ill have nothing less than a kawaii prince boi. Who wants a fat hairy guy like i dont understand.

>>10513752
this is actually 2 girls, i found the original creator and it's just her+her gf. but a girl can dream tho

>>10513780
>only boy I've ever taken to a meet wasn't even my boyfriend, just my best guy friend (who is gay), and he STILL managed to make himself presentable (he wasn't in ouji but he dressed himself well), and he was friendly and personable with everyone at the meet instead of only talking
That's cute. What did he wear?

>>10513785
"Hate" is an abused expression everyone uses. People say "hate" when they often mean "dislike". That's just how people talk, similar to "litterally" no longer meaning "literal" and other words. Anyway, nothing is black and white. I can dislike an entire group but I'm aware that individuals can be exceptions and pray that these exceptions become the norm someday.

That said, men as a whole are horrible, violent, sex driven, attention craving people that are the cause of most problems in the world, but it would be stupid to think every single man is like this.

>>10513795
He looks like a fatter arin from game grumps

>>10513795
He'll start off cute/attractive then gain weight and stop caring after a few years.

>>10513806
as long as they have the V they are in shape

>>10513804
>People say "hate" when they often mean "dislike"
Why would you say you dislike a group of people if you don't actually dislike everyone in that group?

>Anyway, nothing is black and white.
which is exactly why its such a bizarre thing to say

>>10513737
I'm too ill to work anymore than I already do and my job wouldn't be enough for me to even live with like 10 roommates in the hood. Also I can't drive because of my illness.

>>10513802
>>10513752
Pretty sure this is Cadney and her ex bf. She posted this on tumblr back in the day

>>10513802
No that is a guy and he is kind of an ass.

I like my skinny, tall, /tg/ autist bf, thank you very much.

>>10513809
I've already explained it, if you don't understand it by this point then I can't help you.

>>10513789
Dude did you miss when Hera dragged her ass all over Instagram? Just go to lolcow lazy

This should be extremely obvious. 99% of women are after money. They'll whore themselves out if a male provides for them. It's a strategy that has worked for thousands of years. I don't think women are even sexually attracted to the male body. Women don't have any sort of dignity.

>>10513795
I couldn’t believe this when I saw it. Did they just get married at an old age?

>>10513810
Then people won’t date you because you’re lazy and/or completely useless, not because you’re a lolita. Just go live with your parents and be the neet you deserve to be.

>>10513837
So ugly for someone so cute

>>10513837
I posted this a while ago and people here tutted at me for making fun of a happy couple. Maybe she has just aged better than him but no matter what their age difference is, his comparative ugliness and mid level manager blandness is depressing.

Pic related is a couple that appears to have a big age difference but in which the guy at least looks cool and well dressed, I think.

>>10513847
I give this a pass because she atleast is with someone with a fashion sense and actually cares about how he looks.

>>10513803
My memory is foggy as to the pants he wore (either slacks or dressy jeans I think), but he also wore a buttoned blazer, and a chiffon scarf tucked into his jacket similar to an ascot. He actually called me while I was heading to a meet, and when I told him where I was going he excitedly asked if he could come, then quickly amending himself and asking if I had a problem with it or if it was allowed.

>>10513850
Yes, aesthetically speaking I like them as a couple and he seems cool. And it seems he went gray early so he’s probably not as old as he looks. Brazilians can be superior if they can get around their weak currency.

>>10513847
At least there’s some aesthetic here. Tbh age doesn’t bother me as much as fugliness and shitty behavior.

>>10513837
His dumpy body, saggy face, weak chin and saul goodman hair is giving me awful "dad and daughter" vibes in this pic

>>10513835
Lol half of the girls I know with fugly boyfriends are supporting them and their deadbeat gaming hobbies but go off scrote

>>10513847
He daddy af ngl

>>10513837
This looks like a father married his daughter.

>>10513837
Every part of this photo is exactly what op was talking about lmao

>>10513872
Ignore the bait. If you've noticed, there's been several simialr posts through the thread that's gone unanswered and should stay that way. Nothing you say will convince these guys, they're just looking for an opportunity to argue and feel better about themselves.

>>10513876
I love how they think they’re subtle when their whole ass post reads like a breitbart article

>>10513844
Plenty of guys will date me and buy me lolita and pay the bills, I'm adorable pedobait. My current bf pays the bills, he's just an asshole with no emotional intelligence. I want a gf to that I have an actual emotional connection with, I'm sick of men.

>>10513890
I wonder when people like you will realize that your fake chronic illnesses are symptomatic of the same desperation to be cared for that makes people get into dressing up in diapers for pedo roleplayers. If you’re not doing that already.

>>10513850
>>10513870
Yes, the top of my comment was referring to the grossness of that mermaid girl’s wedding photo. I posted kari and her bf as a counterpoint. Sorry if that wasn’t clear

>>10513873
Tru

>>10513832
I'm not reading that 100 page pdf of her rambling lmao

>>10513898
Damn I must be a really good actress to fake being deaf and epileptic.

>>10513847
He doesn't look all that old to be honest and theyre the only cute couple in this thread.

The other pics posted here make me want to bleach my eyes.

>>10513902
>>10513890
>pedobait
you're great at acting autistic too

>>10513837
the pic is only off because of what they're wearing. if they were in normie clothes they would look like a perfectly normal happy couple. you're only solidifying the idea that ap sweet is a style for ddlg kinks by making fun of this pic.

>>10513912
Nice bait-he's still old and gross

>>10513810
just die then lmao

the russian couple that wear a lot of classic/historical based coords is true lolita romance goals

>>10513917
>tfw no sun king bf

>>10513504
Looks aren't everything. They're probably a dependable person, financially well off, and have a good personality ... or there's sometimes the chance that they're into the same kink and their sex life is on some other level that you can't immediately comprehend.
There's also the possibility that the cute lolitas you're seeing have codependency issues and need someone who is willing to put up with their shit.

Personally i think my boyfriend is handsome, but i know he is not everyone's cup of tea. Plus he doesn't like fashion really, but he encourages my passion for lolita. I know he wouldn't mesh well at meetups and he agrees, so he never would come to a meet.
As for dating men who are into lolita/ouji they are just gross. Either they are ugly, old "trans" men, or people who fetishize it. I've only ever met one decent male lolita and he turned out to be gay and finally came to terms while dumping his gf.
Also i like that my boyfriend isn't into dressing into lolita/ouji. I like that we have separate interests but both are supportive of each other's passions. I've dated another girl who was into lolita and it was unhealthy and was a bit competitive.

>>10513919
Cute but man looks like Captain Hook

>>10513922
>man looks like captain hook

you say that like it's a bad thing

>>10513914
wdym? they look like they're in the same age group.

>>10513637
This. I used to date a "9" -as he called himself- and he was so toxic and full of shit that when I found this ugly guy that not only liked lolita fashion and supported me 100%, I couldn't say no. And I have no regrets. I like that he prefers spending money in dresses than in his own clothes.

>>10513922
>I've dated another girl who was into lolita and it was unhealthy and was a bit competitive.
that sounds like a you, her or both problem

>>10513924
They're both pushing 50? Kek

>>10513929
Aw, they are cute.

>>10513916
Already tried 3 times

Because lolitas value having a bf with money over having one thats cute, obviously. Its the rich lolitas youll notice that have the pretty boys. The poor ones (most of them) date sad engineers with steady paychecks.

>>10513425
You sound like a tranny.

>>10513943
>engineers with steady paychecks
What? Most engineers I know are getting raises and bonuses that alone add to be more than an average person's salary. I wouldn't define that as just "steady."

>>10513931
Yeah it was an issue between us and i'm sure other lolita couples don't deal with it but it was something i went through so now the idea of dating other lolita worries me.
For example i at the time was going through ED recovery and she kept showing me how many of the really small dresses/skirts from brands she could wear which was a heavy trigger, since i use to fit them when i was under weight. That was the major issue and i feel bad cause maybe i was showing off my new brand pieces i was buying too much? I was just so excited to share with her, but she didn't make as much money as me. So maybe there was jealousy from her on that front?
Again i don't now what happened exactly to turn our relationship sour, but it put me off lolita gfs forever.

>>10513935
i dunno I'm bad with ages. maybe pushing 30

>>10513932
Perfect
>>10513930
She looks like she doesn't want to be there and he looks 12
>>10513929
Not bad, though that hairstyle on him makes him look younger in a bad way. Needs shorter hair for that face shape.

>>10513964
This is such a dorky photo but they suit each other in their equal dorkiness.

>>10513474
>falling for the dyke meme
Just ditch your abusive boyfriend and get a better one, geez.
>>10513488
This. My friend loves gunpla and stuck with her fugloid bf because he does too.
>>10513575
Because you don't want to be with a man that cares about fashion. Just learn how to dress him and convince him it's in his best interest to look spiffy. He doesn't have to dress like an anime prince either.
>>10513585
What baffles me is ugliness + bad personality. I can deal with a fatty and he can lose weight. You can't turn an absolute asshole into a kind man and you can't make a goblin into a cutie.
>>10513576
Thanks for accidentally admitting that homosexuality is a choice.

>>10513943
where is the lie lmao

>>10513964
this is so cringe i'm dying

>>10513959
ya, you are. She's probably 30ish here and her daddy is at least 50, probably closer to 60.

>>10513847
>>10513850
>fashion sense

With that party city top hat???

>>10514073
DAWG I'M NOT DUMB. In no lifetime is that dude pushing 50 or 60 you crazzzzzzzy

>>10514122
nayrt, he's definitely pushing 50 at a minimum. The lolita is definitely older than she looks though, she's been around so long I'd be surprised if she weren't at least 35.

>>10513912
Ok retard

>>10513570
Just say no cishet males allowed.

>>10513940
hang in there anon. life might seem predetermined sometimes because of the hand we were dealt, but we don't know what lies in the future. there's so much interesting stuff and stuff yet undiscovered mmayve papa elon will take us to space or something cool like in our animuu. i dunno just love yourself cause if you don't who will yaa kno
>>10514131
damn can you imagine being 50 and a bunch of kids are talking shit about on a chinese imageboard haha suckss
>>10514137
shut up :O

>>10513570
Just go the wedding route and say no plus ones...

>>10514122
Look at his hair. It’s either a toupee or the worst dye job I’ve ever seen. Look around his eyes and chin, at first glance or in passing he might go for like 40, but if you take a closer look he’s clearly 50+

As a "quasimodo-looking mf", I can assure you that cute cosplay/lolita women are not running around with most of us. If you're seeing it in the wild, chances are that guy has tons of cash and she feels obligated to spend some pity time with him because he bankrolled her outfit.

>>10513847
Yeah, they look about the same age, not sure what you are on.

>>10513837
This on the other hand... I don't like the way this guy looks at all. He looks like someone who ordered a russian mail bride (no offense to the girl, she looks sweet).

Because they are lesbians and use ugly boyfriends as a cope.

>>10513425
Because you're all terrible. You aren't as pretty or interesting as you think you are, your standards are too high and you're a mental trainwrecks. Any man that meets your standards and gives you a chance immediately regrets his decision and remembers to avoid your kind like the plague.

>>10514138
Don't do this, ever.
>>10514162
This is the correct answer.
>>10514267
Some people look way younger and others way older than the age they actually are. I'm not saying the guy is or isn't much older than her, but I've seen guys in their early 30s that look like that, and women in their late 20s that still look barely a day out of high school.
>>10514270
You wish.

straight men look bad. they do not prioritize grooming. they are oily, ashy, sallow, unkempt, unclean motherfuckers.

straight women deserve our pity

men who dress even slightly well are often scared away from the community lol

>>10514307
True. My current BF was only with guys before me so im lucky I guess.

>>10514271
Based

>>10514309

>>10514312

>>10514313
end of s

>>10514315
*end of sexual harassment dump

>>10514248
yeah you right. I looked up Saul’s age from breaking bad because he reminds me of that guy.

>>10514309
>>10514312
Are guys really so thinned skinned they check out of a whole community when they get the tiniest modicum of the sexual harassment nearly every woman on the planet has dealt with before and after the invention of the internet

>>10513425
This is why I'm single, bishie twinks who are at the very least bi are incredibly hard to find. :(

>>10514343
thats the opposite of thin skin. Allowing yourself to continue to be bullied or harassed is what thin skinned people do. People with thick skin know how to say no and leave.

>>10514351
Sorry, we can’t just say no to being female. Although fakebois try.

>>10514309
>>10514312
I don't know why you're upset, it's just a compliment after all. Men would kill to be catcalled in the streets, right?

>>10514351
>Allowing yourself to be harassed
How is existing allowing yourself to be harassed? It's just funny because women have gotten this treatment and worse regardless of what we wear/do since we've existed, yet it appears these guys get a few thirsty girl comments and want to cry about it. Deal with it.

>>10514360
I asked this once while trying to make a point in a group conversation. The answer was "Yes, but only if I find the woman attractive".

>>10514343
>>10514358
>>10514360
>>10514361
Men are not used to the attention at all so it can get very overwhelming. My first boyfriend would actually blush when I would tell him simple stuff like your hair looks nice or that he looked spiffy. If I had a dime for everyone time I've being catcalled... I'd still be poor but it would be way more than the average guy, I think.

>>10514360
getting catcalled is pretty uncomfortable cause it puts you on the spot. having another girl let you know when girls are checking you out subtly is a pretty big ego boost tho.

>>10514271
OT but where is this from?

>>10514358
>Sorry, we can’t just say no to being female.
i don't actually understand what this is suppose to mean

>>10514361
>How is existing allowing yourself to be harassed?
its not

>Deal with it.
men are too thick skinned to apparently. Only insecure thin skinned people would allow themselves to be put in an abusive situation and stay. Thick skinned people can stand up for themselves and leave.

>>10514370
This, I don't get it. Why do you have to "deal with it" when you can choose not to? That sounds like what an abusive boyfriend would say.

>>10514370
>>Sorry, we can’t just say no to being female.
>i don't actually understand what this is suppose to mean
anon means that being female = being sexually harassed no matter what. they cannot leave because there is nowhere to go without harassment

>>10514392
This. I know of women who get sexually harassed /less/ but I've never met a woman who had zero experience with men making them uncomfortable over sexual comments/advances.

>>10514370
>Only insecure thin skinned people would allow themselves to be put in an abusive situation and stay.
Consistent abuse is one thing, if an environment is regularly hurting you then leave, but many women receive random hurtful comments from strangers on the street, at work, or seemingly out of the blue from people they thought were trustworthy. The amount of middle aged old men at my old job that would just randomly comment about how sexy I was is staggering. I worked at a book store and dress like a mfing nun....

>>10513425
No one cares about your opinion fucking retard. Whatever you think is ugly or attractive isnt what everyone thinks. Jealous dyke.

>>10514307
Compared to lesbians? lmafo have you seen what lesbians look like?

>>10514392
>they cannot leave because there is nowhere to go without harassment
anon, non-sexist people exist. I know there are a LOT of degenerate people in the world, but to suggest its impossible to find a group of people that won't harass you is insane.

>>10514400
>many women receive random hurtful comments from strangers on the street, at work, or seemingly out of the blue from people they thought were trustworthy.
And what do you do? Stay standing there or do you walk away and leave? If people on the street, at work, or somewhere else harass you, then you leave that area.
I rather be a recluse than stick around with a group of abusive people.

>>10514360
I used to get catcalled as a teenage boy and I really hated it

>>10514400
That's true but I think the point is that who they replied to is seething in envy because a man, who isn't harassed by default, gets to remove himself from the equation, while we can't. So, to cope she was saying that he should man up and take the abuse... which is retarded.
>>10514433
Well said. It pisses me off when lesbians act predatory and nobody calls them out. They are unironically worse than scrotes, who at least are wired to act like that and have to be taught not to... what is dykes' excuse?
>>10514442
Stop oversimplifying it. In most countries if you had to "leave" any environment where you won't get unwanted comments from men then you'd have to live like a hermit in the middle of a forest. And we're not talking about catcalling only... when was the last time you heard anyone tell some random guy that he should smile more often? or that he would look better if he smiled?

>>10514371
>>10514370
>>10514442
How do you choose not to be called out by people for just walking down the street? Walking home from/to school every now and then some old guy would come up to me and ask my name, where I was going etc. How do you stop this? You can't. If you tell them to fuck off, they get agressive and grab you. If you ignore them, they keep following you until they get pissed and either get agressive or leave you alone. There's always a risk no matter what you do.

But as an adult, that's why I carry weapons on me. I can't take down a guy if he tries to attack me, but you can be sure I'm leaving a scar or taking a piece.
>>10514468
That's my sarcastic point. People shouldn't harass others, but they do. And it's fucked up and yet men say "oh, I wish I could be catcalled and harassed. " which just is them trying to justify thewe dumb acts and just blame women for it instead of correcting themselves, then call boys "pussies" for not taking this harassment.

>>10514482
>Stop oversimplifying it. In most countries if you had to "leave" any environment where you won't get unwanted comments from men then you'd have to live like a hermit in the middle of a forest.
Then so it be
>when was the last time you heard anyone tell some random guy that he should smile more often? or that he would look better if he smiled?
I'd get told that all the time as a teen, specifically from middle aged women.

>>10514488
>How do you choose not to be called out by people for just walking down the street?
You don't. For the last time, you choose to stay. When someone cat calls you in the street, what do you do? Stick around or *leave*?
How do you still not get it? You LEAVE when you face harassment.

>How do you stop this?
You can't, its impossible, **thats why you leave when you encounter it**.

> If you tell them to fuck off
You *****LEAVE******
Thats it, thats all i'm saying. You don't say anything back, you don't stick around, you just leave.

>>10514402
Sorry your fuggo face got posted neckbeard

>>10514488
Yeah, and girls call you gay if you don't like them creeping on or even grabbing you. Women are just as bad

>>10513425
Lolitas are insane so attractive men can do better.

>>10514280
I hate how much attention to detail was put into this lmao

Man, why did we have to get on street harassment again. This thread was fun when it was about posting uggo bfs

>>10514501
>women are just as bad
Yes, do tell me the rate of women attacking, killing and raping men for not giving them attention vs the other way around. On a world wide scale. I'll wait.

>>10514535
Because scrotes are being attention whores.

>larping tranny OP and seething crossboarder scrotes thread
>182 replies
Cgl is fucking dead.

>>10513902
You know we’re all anonymous here, right? You don’t have to defend yourself. It’s absolutely pointless and kind of embarrassing.

this thread became very based, thank you ladies

>>10514606
Based and pinkpilled

girl power woo

>>10514612
Shut the fuck up soup

>>10514624
oh snap, a male poster came back itt. let’s get him ladies !!!

>>10513425
lolitas prioritize wealth before anything else. Even if she's got a good salary herself she still wants a wealthy man. And why would a good looking wealthy man date a doll-dressing freak?

>>10514628
whatever floats your boat mate I dont judge

>>10513425
My fiancee is cute and matches outfits that he buys for me, what a shame that cute girls stoop so low.

>>10514628
Who wouldn't want someone that has a stable job? I mean, do you really expect someone, man or woman, to date a person that can't provide for themselves? Well, aside from groomers and people looking for someone to date a wo/manchild to make themselves feel better.

>>10514489
When women try to "just walk away" men get violent. Women have been murdered in the street for simply ignoring a man's harassment and trying to walk away.

>>10514635
your odds of getting murders will be much higher by sticking around than just leaving.

>>10514681
Who sticks around? No one. The point anon is making is that it doesn't matter what you do. You leave, you get followed. You tell them to fuck off while leaving, you get grabbed. Best bet is to carry a weapon but girls aren't generally taught this.

what backwards 3rd world hellhole do you guys live in, the us?

Japanese and Asian lolitas not living in America have no problem finding boyfriends, it’s just us westerners that seem to struggle.

>>10514628
>lolitas prioritize wealth before anything else
Only the ones that can't make their own stuff.
>>10514634
You want to get real?
I'd much rather date someone cute and tender who is on welfare / disability (no devastating stuff) than someone who is obsessed with their job or absorbed in work culture. Sure, a middle ground would be ideal, but we have slim pickings. You don't have to be a self-absorbed "groomer" or have self-esteem to value companionship over financial security. What you're saying is the kind of "ammo" incels throw back to say "See? They re all materialistic".

Specially after Covid, the world is changing. UBI will become a thing sooner or later and perspectives will change. When that happens, a ton of people will realize how wrong their former perspective was.

>>10514686
i'm sick of this meme, as awful as the US is in many other aspects it's really not that dangerous

>>10514694
It's not about the country, it's about the mount of certain kind of people in that country.

>>10514694
lol wrong
depending on where you live, it absolutely is a dangerous hellhole

>>10514700
by that logic that applies to every country tho

>>10514701
not at all. the us is very dangerous for a "1st world country".

>>10514687
Idk, Misako is still single. (though she might just be gay or asexual, who knows)

>>10514682
What country do you live in where that is an actual concern? In the US and most other first world countries, you got better chance of winning the lottery than getting attacked by a stranger.

>>10514702
it's the most dangerous out of all "first world countries" but it's still nothing compared to actual third world hellholes

>>10514706
There are cases of this in the US too and there's no way for a woman to know if a man is just being aggressive about being rejected or is gonna murder her later. And one of the top types of workplace deaths in the US is someone being killed by their partner at work, usually a woman as the victim. So even if it isn't a stranger, relationships with straight men are dangerous everywhere

>>10514706
You are so wrong you literally cannot calculate how wrong you are. Most lotteries the chance of winning is 1 in 100,000,000. The probability of getting murder in the USA is 1 in 20,000. That's 5000 times higher chance. And that's the combined average of the country. In somewhere like Atlanta the chance is 1 in 1,000 meaning there your chances of getting murdered randomly is one thousand times more likely than winning the lottery.

>>10514705
she said that her wearing lolita has made her romantic life way harder

>>10514628
I've dated men who were making significantly less than me (I'm a software engineer) and I've dated men who made significantly more than me (but were terrible with money and sank it into weed/pleasure). I think it's more important to have similar views on finances rather than exactly how much money you actually make, at least for me. I had no problem footing the bill when the issue was that I simply could better afford to; it was more the principle of the matter when I had to help out because my ex-boyfriend blew all his money on Magic cards. My current partner and I have similar values in terms of finances, and life is so much easier (he's also into fashion and handsome, but those are a bonus)

Also I've never had trouble getting into a relationship when I've wanted one, but I also wear classic so maybe it's different.

>>10514709
There are cases of winning the lottery too
>>10514713
I said assaulted by a stranger. The overwhelming majority of crime is between people who know each other.

>>10514706
Bruh, I've been followed by men just walking down the sidewalk in my work uniform. I've been grabbed while waiting at the bus stop by two guys and thankfully someone else came up and stopped them. I've lived in both big cities and small towns. You can ask any woman anywhere and they'll tell you they've all had similar experiences from minor incidents to major ones. Look at these incels shooting up places and running women down because they've felt jilted. Look at these pick up artists that try to teach men to pester a woman until she gives in.

>>10514705
She's straight and wants a partner, she's just having trouble finding one because lolita scares all the dudes her age away.

>>10513467
They're actually pretty cute, especialy together imho. It's just that lor's face looks like an inverted nipple.

>>10514722
Why are you telling me this? I've acknowledged in every single post that what you describe happens.

>>10514722
>bruh
You deserved it.

>>10514562
Your dresses are ugly as fuck

>>10514727
Nta but you were retarded to say that the chances of you winning the lottery were higher than being assaulted by a stranger lmao

>>10514721
>The overwhelming majority of crime is between people who know each other.
And so that means that these attacks don't happen at an alarming rate? You guys are so stupid and dismissive of issues it's no wonder it's a stereotype that men lack empathy. Anytime an issue with women's problems is brought up, you all try to bring up excuses to make the issue go away or try to say "w-well, men have it bad too!" Shut the fuck up. If men have an issue with this, then talk to other men about it because 9/10 times it's another man that's beating your asses up and killing you.

I wish the MRA actually did shit for men and actually helped each other instead of just crying about women. Build a damn shelter for yourselves and fix y'alls suicide rate.

>>10514735
>And so that means that these attacks don't happen at an alarming rate?
it means its rare. You act as if pointing out something rarely happens is the same as saying it never happens or it doesn't matter. Please listen to what I'm actually saying and not try to twist my words.

>>10514735
You're being reductive too.
>hey can we build a new men's shelter
>no
End of story. I live in a city (Germany) where women's shelters are 20 to 1 vs. men's or unisex ones, so they definitely have it harder in some regards. What I never understood about both feminists and MRA is that isn't a victimhood competition, but anyway... This entire conversation started because one anon was annoyed that the ouji got "scared" away from the community because of catcalling and her reply was he should just suck it up, and I said that it was an envious and retarded position to take.

Just because we get harassed doesn't mean harassment is fine and men should just "grow thicker skin", "grow a spine", "man up", or any other variation of the idea. It's a double standard.

>>10514743
It's not rare. If it was, then it wouldn't be an issue that has caused so many programs to crop up to prevent these problems.
>>10514744
>Get told no
>Give up
Meanwhile
>Women build their own shelters out of their own homes
>Then eventually get their own buildings, not funded by anyone buy themselves and some men that helped their cause
>Shelters are attacked but they still persevere

There are actually men's shelters, but men have not been going to them/funding them/participating in them. Instead, you have them trying to go to women's shelters or cry about why they don't have one instead of doing something about it.

And exactly, harassment isn't fine, but what was posted in those images were laughable forms of harassment. You post your picture online, no matter who you are, man or woman, you're going to get called out for whatever reason. It's called out for being thin-skinned because it's implied you should leave something you enjoy because people are harassing you for it.
>I like ouji fashion
>O no girls are harassing me
>I should tell them to fuck off or ignore/block them so I can continue doing what I enjoy
>No, I'm just going to not do it anymore because I can't take it.
If the guy was being stalked, dox'd or attacked, then I wouldn't blame him. But online comments? Please.

>>10513425
Because of this

>>10514755
>But online comments? Please.
>were laughable forms of harassment
You're literally part of the problem. You say "harassment isn't fine" but then immediately defend it. Harassment is harassment. It's detrimental, retrograde part of culture and it should be chastised at every opportunity.

If a man writes:
>ooo mama nice
instead of
>That's a very nice outfit.
People claim he's a misogynist piece of shit and patriarchal disrespectful scum of the earth.

If a woman writes
>hubba hubba
instead of
>That's a very nice outfit.
People say "laughable forms of harassment" and call the person thin-skinned.

You just literally proved the double standard.

>>10514735
Men lack empathy and are Olympic level goalpost movers.

Women: “Men commit the vast majority of crime *pulls out crime statistics*”
Men: “B-but you’re more likely to be assaulted/killed by someone you know!”

Which is true, but guess what? It’s still members of the male sex overwhelmingly assaulting/killing women and other men they know. They can’t accept the fact that their sex as a whole chimp out and commit crime more than women. So much for men being the logical sex lol

>>10514763
nayrt but neither of those are the general reaction. there is a double standard though

>>10514765
I agree with you, but you're still misunderstanding the original point. Harassment is still harassment a all levels and by and to all people. One thing does not supersede, negate, or validate the other.

>>10514766
>neither of those are the general reaction
Anon, that is -literally- what we are seeing right now before our very eyes in this very thread.

>>10514744
Any time a man mentions female perpetrated sexual harassment, assault, etc., someone has to jump in and turn it into a pissing contest

does anyone have that photo from a few months back where a newblita wore lolita to her wedding and the groom wasn't dressed as nicely?

>>10514768
The slapfight you two are having is not representative of everybody

>>10514772
We're talking about the lolita community in a lolita thread in a forum about dressing up, stop being retarded. That is indeed a general reaction in this context, and you see it all the time. Go the facebook or instagram page of a voluptuous cosplayer woman of your choice and you will see it.

>>10514763
You keep claiming a double standard when I've been saying both men and women get these kinds of comments and women tend to shrug them off because they're used to it, but a man getting one and then quitting something he enjoys because of the comments is laughable. It's laughable if a woman does the same because quitting something you like over tame comments is weak.

Hide the comments, tell them to stop, and/or report them. Take action instead of "uwu now I feel self conscious for wearing a fashion that litterally stands out and calls attention to me." Again, it's one thing if the person is being threatened and in danger but comments? Get over it. It comes with the internet.

>>10514782
Forget about men and women. This isn't about sex / gender, it's about the admission of wrongdoing when it only fits your narrative. Women being used to harassment doesn't mean that men have to take it because somehow that makes it "fair".
>it's laughable if a woman does the same
No, because isn't what the person is driven to do, but the why, which you keep defending.
>it's one thing if the person is being threatened and in danger but comments? Get over it
This is -exactly- what actual misogynist say about women who complain about harassment.

Once again you prove to be part of the problem... and one of the many answers to the question asked by the OP.

>>10514774
>We're talking about the lolita community in a lolita thread
> Go the facebook or instagram page of a voluptuous cosplayer woman
???

>>10514786
Yes, for comparison. Lolita fashion isn't particularly revealing so it doesn't attract that kind of posts from men as often.

>>10514784
>Doesn't mean men have to take it
They don't. Time and time again I say do something about it. Report, block, call out. You're defending that they should just give up and cry. I'm saying they should take action against it. If taking action to stop the problem counts as defending the problem, I don't know what to tell you dude.

>>10514788
>If taking action to stop the problem counts as defending the problem
No, it's you insisting the reaction is the problem instead of the behaviour. It doesn't matter if the person being harassed laughs it up, claims they love it, or throw a tantrum.

>>10514787
>Lolita fashion isn't particularly revealing so it doesn't attract that kind of posts from men as often.
which is why neither of your examples are representative of most people

>>10514790
Of men in lolita communities towards men? Of course not, men don't gravitate to such interest at all with very rare exceptions.
Of women in lolita communities towards men? Yes. Lolitas are thirsty as fuck and I'm no exception, I just don't go around commenting.

>>10514791
oh so you're projecting. that explains everything. NEXT!

>>10514792
What the hell are you talking about, we have evidence in this very thread. And there is nothing wrong with having feelings or opinions regarding a man (or a woman), it's all about how and when you express them.

>>10513425
Because a lot of people know how insane and weird lolita culture is

>>10514793
most lolitas aren't man-hating anons and don't go around commenting their weird thirst though

>>10514789
The behavior is inevitable. The reactor can only do their part to stop it by the methods I've mentioned to protect themselves. You are not giving any solutions and are just whining about the issue. If you really want to stop the behavior, that's going to take a societal effort by teachers, parents and peers. I hope you've donated or done community service to stop this behavioral problem. If so, good for you. But the person getting the comments is going to have to look after and protect themselves first.

You are the type that will comfort a victim. I'm the type that would rather give someone the tools to prevent them from being a victim in the first place.

>>10514797
Ah, so that's you meant originally. My bad then, sorry. I thought you were referring to the kind of comments instead of the frequency.

>>10514798
>You are not giving any solutions and are just whining about the issue
I have given solutions: To stop defending the behaviour (which you are doing by saying that it's inevitable, when the male counterpart -has- objectively being reduced due to outcry), and to chastise people that both do it and defend it. You're delusional if you think lolitas thinking "he should grow thicker skin" instead of "nobody should harass anyone" isn't an issue on its own.

It’s been brought to my attention that Felix was attack by the community over comments as well. He was just trying to help empower us girls and give us advice to keep us safe from creepers.

If we’re going to forgive those lolitas for harassing that cute ouji twink. I think we should also extend a forgiving hand to Felix as well.

>>10514804
I still don't see how your chastising is helping other than further making me see you as agreeing victims should just quit because they got harassment comments. We have too many weak willed people in this first world that default to being sad and giving up instead of doing something about it, and I laugh at them. They should grow thicker skin and learn how to take care and defend themselves. Dunno what kind of sugarcoated world you live in, but online comments are a joke because they are the mildest, weakest form of harassment in a world where you need to carry a gun/knife walking down the street.

>>10514808
Don't be toxic.

>>10514810
I’m sorry for being toxic ;_;

>>10514809
>rape is fine
>the real problem is women putting themselves in situations where they can be raped

>>10514705
I follow many Japanese and Chinese lolitas who are married with children so misako’s difficulty might come from her being famous in the community

ugh fucking scrotes ruin everything. I just came here to see uggo couples.

scrotetards are like the " if you give a mouse a cookie" equivalent of cgl. please stop giving them the attention they wank their male victimhood boner off on.

>>10513425
>they're literally always out here running around some quasimodo-looking mf.
i've noticed this a lot too, it just seems to be common with weeb girls in general (even super pretty ones). i guess onions-guzzlers appeal to them somehow but I have no fucking idea why

>>10514843
She looks like an alien in her shoops

Can y'all stop infighting and post fuggo couples?

>>10513917
Anyone know what their @ is?

>>10514961
@nicolasdaiglere

>>10514963
Thank you!

>>10514706
Men no matter are fucking disgusting animals. You don't see it because you yourself are a man. You will never see it. Women constantly have to defend themselves from you. Why do you think they are told not to drink at parties, go in groups everywhere and not to go out at night, things that a man can do comfortably. No matter what anybody tells you are are incapable of ever understanding that men are and will always be a threat to the safety to a women considering that they are natural predators and responsible for well over 90% of all sexual and violent crimes. Many of these men will spend 2 minutes in jail before being let go again to go and fuck every thing up yet again because men don't give a fuck. So shut the fuck up, you are not a women, so you have no place to tell anybody that men are not dangerous because you are biased.

>>10514280
Classic image

>>10513425
Stupid, insecure idiots that will easily settle for anyone that won’t notice their flaws. Quick and easy and they’ll never be found out for being brainless losers with little to no aspirations in life. Men like that will bend over backwards for women like this.

Lolitas need FDS.

>>10514761
This. People here say a loli is 7/10 hanging out with some 3/10 when once you remove the makeup and dress she's a 3-4/10 too.

>>10514894
Male weebs are seen as beta and "safer" than normal guys, plus they share the same interest. Normal men are into hobbies and interests that are a bit shallow. I don't mean to say that weeb/gamer men are insightful or deep (as much as they like to think they are), but there is usually more to them that lolitas can share with them than that of normal men who rather go clubbing, watch sports, and have litterally nothing else about them.

This is just my own personal experience though. With "normal" guys there isn't much to talk about (when they do talk, it's litterally about nothing or they just talk about themselves) and with "nerdy" guys, even if I find them disgusting, I can hold a longer conversation with (like discussing the plot of a series, it's characters, details of a hobby etc.). The "safer" part is because normal guys outwardly feel more agressive while beta boys don't appear as such (even though they're just as likely to get more violent and emotional).

There is a perfect middle ground that exists but like the same for women, they're hard to find or already taken.

>>10514991

Bitch, shut the fuck up. No wonder people want to slap your face when you're like that. This is why some women have ugly bfs. Because the pretty ones have options. They don't have to put up with the bitching to get some pussy.

>>10515223
Lol u mad

>>10514761
Men are retards how can you not tell she's wearing shitloads of makeup+false lashes+a wig?

>>10515244

Sod that, how can anyone look past those moles?

>>10515251
Those moles are cute

>>10515253

Those moles look like someone assaulted her with raisins.

>>10515258
>>10515251
>>10515253

They're kinda just there, not huge or ugly looking. Do people actually think moles are some hideous thing outside of Asia?

>>10513425
I'm a pretty cute guy, never have been with a lolita girl but plenty of girls that cosplayed. Hard to meet them these days, though.

>>10515260
nayrt but as an American I find facial moles to be pretty disgusting

>>10515269
>>10515260
>>10515258
>>10515253
>>10515251
Do you all mean warts? Because moles are inoffensive, and those look like warts

>>10515271
Warts are growths from the HPV virus. Those are not warts, they're raised moles (natural skin variation not caused by a virus). Usually raised moles are gross while flat moles that are essentially just darker freckles are inoffensive.

>>10515260

Yes. Especially the one near the eye.

this is my fave couple, I have a crush on him

>>10515260
American here, they're called Beauty Marks and honestly varies from person to person. I think they're cute unless they are skin tag tier.

>>10515289
The flat moles are fine but the raised one next to her eye is gross.

>>10515289

Beauty marks are a divisive characteristic, and >>10514761 is too much to call them that.

>>10515293
>>10515294
That's not very body positive of you. Joking aside, I personally think what she has is fine. When they get like this is where I draw the line.

>>10515284
He's gay

>>10515269
Same here. Doesn't matter if they're flat or raised to me, I just find them really gross. Doubly so on the face. I have a slightly raised mole on my neck and I've never liked to see it in the mirror or touch it.

>>10515346
Wait until you see people with freckles

>>10515350
Freckles are totally different. I'm not bothered by them at all.

>>10515357
So flat moles are weirder to you than freckles, despite both being a skin pigmentation thing? I find them both normal and cute. Raised moles of any large size or weird irregular shape do kinda throw me off tho

I'm surprised these weebs werent posted

>>10513890
Be "poly". This is what all the poly people I know do

>>10515362
He’s kinda nerdy cute but at the same time looks a little inbred.

>>10515361
Moles aren't just pigmentation, they have texture different to the normal skin and their density varies greatly. Some can lose thickness over time or get larger and turn out to be a sign of cancer.

>>10515375
So you find people ugly for possibly having cancer?

>>10515303
who cares

>>10515377
nta but moles are ugly. there's a reason many cultures have superstitions surrounding them.

>>10515378
they both look like shit. and the worst part is they both clearly think they don't.

>>10515380
>There's a reason many cultures have superstition about them
NTA but this is just about the dumbest thing I've read today.

>>10515378
They seem fine.
>>10515362
Yuck.
>>10515284
I like em. They look like they belong on a series with a laugh track.
>>10515378
Wait are these the same people? I don't know, white people look alike.

>>10515260
Beauty marks =/= moles. Those raised ones are absolutely disgusting, specially the one in the picture because it's in such a glaring place (right by her eyes, where you would look at often).
>>10515350
Freckles are great though.
>>10515361
I don't understand how you have trouble realizing that moles are like a bullseye in the skin while freckles are part of a pattern.

>>10515381
they look fine anon not everybody has to be a 10/10

>>10515369
Looking inbred is cute? Topkek

>>10515362
Is this that couple from the deerstalker video where the bride looks absolutely pissed the whole time?

>>10515381
you could never, anon

>>10513919
Yeah, but that "man" is actually a womam

>>10515404
She's the cringy old schooler who had a lolita wedding with her Mean Girls clique

>>10515421
thank fuck for that. my fiance is vk anyway i'm all set.

>>10515362
oh god it’s the “my entire budget was the dress” wedding

>>10514991
You do realize that men are responsible for the majority of crime, but are also usually the ones who stop it as well, right? Most emergency response workers are men. Who do you think builds the infrastructure that women depend on? Masculinity is just a tool and can be used for either good or evil. Yes, men can be dangerous, but you grossly generalize an entire group. If you hate men so much, move to a matriarchy... oh wait but those don't exist.

>>10515421
He’s stylish, put-together, and not ugly, but I don’t find him attractive at all. Like I’m dry as a desert here.

>ITT: women blame straight men for not being fashionistas

Only gay men and men who are trying to appear "le im totally grown up and ill show that by mimicking what everyone else says I should do by putting on a suit" care about fashion. So either he won't be into you anyway, or you won't like him at all because he's just posing to look more well put together than he actually is if he dresses presentably.

Go for the guy in jeans and an old t-shirt, at least he's not playacting solely to get into your pants.

>>10515482
git gud, faggot

>>10515481
there's nothing well put together about his cheap aliexpress stuff that's a few sizes too small.

>>10515498
His items look fitted or tailored anon. Calm down.

>>10515497

Nta but git gud doing what? You care about it, not we.

>>10515482
>le

>>10515528
This + the reddit spacing = opinion immediately discarded. Almost assuredly one of those actual self-appointed incels.

>>10513576
My Lolita gf bought me a house and a $70k truck. Roll reversal I’m a normal guy lol.

It's funny how it's just lolita and not so much other jfash- most gyaru I know have a handsome well dressed normie bf, most decora/fairy kei types seem to date a guy who dresses similarly. It must be the weirdness factor/ageplay stigma.

>>10514991
Hello, based department?

>>10515478
You do realise the fact those don't exist proves her point, right? Women don't have the option of living in a women's society. You're right on the point about men being the largest defence against crime as well as its largest instigators, but maybe some women would just like to be away from both parties. I could quite happily have men just as online/con friends who I only see occasionally bc I don't live around any.

(nayrt)

>>10515528
>>10515530
Not that anon, but are you two really that stupid?

>>10514991
>"REEEE MEN ARE VIOLENT MONSTERS! BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GODDESS!"

>>10515557
>You do realise the fact those don't exist proves her point, right? Women don't have the option of living in a women's society.
Men aren't just some neat little sub-group you can subtract from a society, I am saying they are a prerequisite for civilization. No men, no civilization. How does that and a lack of a female society prove that men are disgusting creatures? The fact that there is a patriarchy is irrelevant as long as there is legislation that treats the sexes equally.
>but maybe some women would just like to be away from both parties.
Then move to antarctica.
>I could quite happily have men just as online/con friends who I only see occasionally bc I don't live around any.
At least you are reasonable.

>>10515459
Is there any old schooler this board doesn't find cringy?

>>10515564
>>10514606

>>10515577
Yeah, I don't think all men are intrinsically evil, but I think our current social setup plays on their natural biological instinct to make the strong ones dangerous and the weak ones suicidal. It isn't good for you or for us.


Femdom supremacy when. Government mandated mangibs for straight women who want a family, and lesbians can have some small sweet ones or eggs around to do the housework and play vidya with.

>>10515593
To expand on my first point- I am a lesbian with anger issues, and I think if I had been raised male I would be a danger to women, perhaps to everyone as I absolutely had the circumstances necessary to breed a school shooter or serial killer. However due to my upbringing and body, when I get angry I cry, not break someone's jaw. I think it's my unusual position as a woman with a lot of masculine traits that makes me see things this way.

>>10515594
>I think our current social setup plays on their natural biological instinct to make the strong ones dangerous and the weak ones suicidal.
Agreed
>I think if I had been raised male I would be a danger to women
Testosterone is an enabler of risk so you're probably right.
> I absolutely had the circumstances necessary to breed a school shooter or serial killer.
I hope you find peace anon, circumstances out of your control don't define you.

>>10515557
>You do realise the fact those don't exist proves her point, right? Women don't have the option of living in a women's society
Because women hate eachother and their societies implode. You need someone else to direct your anger towards and do the heavy lifting for you.

>>10515592
Are you mocking women for not having the body to act on their bloodlust or are you bragging about how abortions aren't legally murders, how the legal definition of rape doesn't cover being raped by women, and how when a woman hits a man he is told to suck it up. Perhaps you're saying that non-violent crime such as manipulation and theft are alright. All in a legal system that MEN made for YOU.

>>10515594
Same but I'm a man. When I get angry I lift, I listen to music, I make content for my friends, I play vidya or I just lie in bed being miserable. I don't break jaws. You aren't masculine. You're what you think is masculine, which you've made clear you think is harmful intent. Meanwhile femininity is all sugar, spice and everything nice. No gossiping, backstabbing, cliques, manipulation and exclusion.
Every school, every few classes, has an angry bottom feeder who wishes he could punish violently everyone who is making his life hell or knows about it and still favours his tormentors. How many school shootings have happened around the world in how many schools and how many years?

>>10515603
[scrotes mad x84]

go home untermensch, this board isn't the place for you

>>10513425
I’d assume they go with ugly niggas because they have money.

>>10515481
It's the facial hair. Facial hair is not aesthetic no matter how it's groomed.

>>10513944
Are all these people not trannys?

>>10515612
You have nothing to say to counter what I typed, so instead you mock. Violence is all you understand.

>>10515618
You posted three paragraphs and an article I've seen floating around r9k for nearly a decade. You're a pathetic mad incel throwing a tantrum because women see no need for his existence. Take yourself home and tuck yourself into bed as you are clearly tired from a hard, hard day of internet misogyny.

>>10515619
Can you dispute the contents of three paragraphs?

>>10515620
They too are the same recycled r9k horseshit that I decided not to bother debating years ago. These bitter, jealous little men live in an echo chamber and tell each other the same shit all day every day. What is to be gained by arguing with them? I wouldn't attempt to explain philosophy to a chimp, or vaccines to the average middle aged soccer mom. Same principle.

>>10515622
You realize that people seeing you losing your composure and being unable to read three paragraphs is bad for you image, right?

I have to say, I'm gonna miss this thread. I enjoyed watching all you autists sperg and seethe.

>>10513516
Post more examples of poorly dressed guys, there’s not enough in this thread

>>10515623
What image you cretin? Do you realise where you are?

I want a lolita girlfriend so bad. I want to buy eachothers dream dresses for christmas and spoil her with new releases that she likes. I want to twin with her and go on cute picnics or take photos at scenic places. I want to hold her hand when we're out and about in brand. My dream is out of reach due to my painfully unfortunate face, though. :(

The world would be a better place if every straight woman realized how shit men are, and just started going out with other women.

>>10515959
Finally have human extinction

>>10515482
wearing sensible well-fitting clothing that aligns with your self expression or work/activity should be common sense.

if you spend money on clothing that you wear every day of your life, feel constantly against your skin, and is how you choose to present yourself to the world. why would you not wear things made of a quality material, that feels good and lasts long? clothing is like.. gear, man. it's equipment. it's a tool that serves a purpose that you use every day, and you've chosen never to learn how to utilize that tool so that your sleeves are the right length and your pants don't drag on the ground, so that your waxed millerain cotton jacket breaks wind and resists rain while your merino wool shirt retains warmth and still breathes so that you don't sweat, your heavy denim pants protect your knees and shins and are fitted well so that they don't drag on the ground but are still loose enough to let you kneel down and change a tire which you should also know how to do

you can get by with whatever.. but you look just as insecure as the men that are over compensating in fashion - because you are insecure somehow. insecure in your taste to try things new, insecure in your body to try things on, insecure in your masculinity to clean your own asshole, and so on. not-trying is a cope, you would rather not participate in fashion at all so that you are not judged, but that is a choice in itself that you will be judged on. you look like you wear what your mom bought you and never evolved. if you presented yourself in a distinct style, wear whatever makes you happy, or just smartly fitted workwear.. presenting yourself in an intentional way, looking put-together, like what you decided to outfit your body in was purposeful - this makes you look more fully realized, like a more confident and individual person. you can't go on thinking about how high your IQ is and how everyone is an NPC when you choose to blend into the crowd for your entire life.

>>10515960
that would be nice. but there are sperm cells in female bone marrow. Men have become uneccessary.

>>10513778
I'm the exact contrary,I'm a woman who wjholheartedly despise the other women (except grandma, but she's dead). Only have male friends.
I'm enjoying seeing the tranners bullying the rad fems. It's delicious karma IMO.

>>10513516
nohomo but your boyfriends fit is clean as fuck, tell him i like the craig green shirt uwu

>>10513526
Fucked up......but true.

>>10515959
Nah, lesbians are mentally ill and extremely violent. The world would be a way better place if we just exterminated all homosexuals immediately, including the closet ones and anyone who has ever "experimented". It would right away cull like 20% of the population, mostly in the middle east and asia were most abuse to women happens.
>>10516012
Very good, sensible, and level-headed reply. I agree men who care TOO much about fashion can be a red flag, but caring too little is also an issue.
>>10517050
I get along fine with other women, but I've also had several "you reap what you sow" conversations with feminist friends. Their salt is delicious but I'm also sad it ever had to come this far for (only some of) them to realize their stupidity. Unfortunately, it's only going to get worse for a long time, it seems.
>>10517868
It's not true, and if it were it wouldn't be fucked up, but logical. The issue is when people pretend they deserve a 9/10 when they all they have going on is fashion obsession.

i'm honestly blown away how much criticism i see here for the mens clothes. can someone so dedicated to mens fashion give me a whole outfit to buy? because i would probably totally take your word for it.

>>10518405
inb4 i'm a bag of shit because i'm 5'7

>>10518405
Why are you asking here? go to /fa/ or something.

>>10513425
>Do decent looking straight guys get squicked by the fashion?
Decent looking straight guys aren't often weebs and if they are it's far and few between.

>>10513474
Don't, I have to hear the fucking lesbo couple argue about the stupidest and gayest shit through my air vents at 12 AM. I give it a few weeks till they split, the dynamic rarely works.

>>10513575
>so why when they date men, do they not date men into lolita/ouji/j-fashion/other related fashion?

Ouji is seen as a pretty exotic style for a lot men and also high effort so I imagine it's still pretty niche. There's definetly a huge proportional disparity between the genders so a lot of these girls have to date other guys.

>>10513741
He could lose some weight but despite that he isn't that bad.

>>10513943
Engineers make bank

>>10515959
Except 95% of woman find that idea repulsive.

>>10514310
I don't know whether or not you realize this, but that does not say good things about you at all.