/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

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>>10407797
What an ugly dress. Who thought that design was a good idea? Gothic ABDL vibes.

Same bitch with the btssb bag

>>10407828
Did you just self post?

9783322793

>>10407828
terrible haircut but everything else is fine

>>10407830
Ya, i tried to post twice and it flipped the file. Roast me im dead inside anyways.

>>10407834
cringe

>>10407793
This one is almost cute as something historical if it were made for children and not such shitty cheap fabric. Definitely not on him though and not with that fetish choker.
>>10407796
This is 5$ ebay lingerie.

>>10407789
>shitty metal cat ears
idk why but this is the thing that makes me hate this unreasonably.

>>10407791
prime hover lolita candidate.i don't hate this, actually.An underskirt wouldn't go amiss, but it's not the worst i've ever seen.

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>>10407797
That room she’s posing in looks so sad.

>>10407798
HOLY SHIT. That makeup is HILARIOUS and TERRIFYING.

>>10407797
while this coord has absolutely no redeeming qualities, i really do have a specific hatred of these regular office blouses being crammed into attempts at lolita

>>10407798
jesus fucking christ how terrifying

>>10407828
looks like a goth who is unsure of how to style lolita. the frilly and plain elements are mismatched- i think the dress is just normiewear? i actually think the v bangs can work in gothic lolita, it's just all unpolished.

>>10407863
these shoes are a fucking scourge, i don't understand why the tasteless are so convinced that they go with pastel colored clothing

>>10407894
he legit looks like he took his inspiration from a blowup doll lmao and something about his eyes look so glassy and empty which just intensifies the uncanny feeling

This chick made her own it's comm when the local comms wouldn't accept her lol. She makes these horrible handmade clothes

>>10407943
Why wouldn't the comm accept her? As bad as the coording is here, it's still lolita

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>>10407944
yeah, i've seen brand itas that look way worse than this desu. maybe she's really rude or something.

>>10407946
god it all looks so cheap

>>10407950
i don't really get what's happening here but it isn't working. is that an apron?

I don't know just one of admins of a group told me, yeah kind of sucks. I just don't like the layered ruffles

I don't know honestly, just one of the admins of a group told me. Kinda sucks. I'm just not a fan of the layered ruffles it looks off

>>10407834
get help

>>10407834
Whats it like being this retarded

>>10407856
Isn't the point of lingerie to be sexy

>>10407833
Imagine thinking the only thing wrong with this is the haircut.

>>10407946
Imagine having a fucking skunk as your fursona. I mean, having a fursona at all is terrible, but why the fuck would you choose to be a skunk?

Posted for this just for her. See below. Your welcome dear

Please do not re use or re post this image without my consent thank you!

>>10408017
Don't selfpost. Also, this coord isn't ita

>>10408000
Yeah but it's literally from a 5$ chinese lingerie set commonly seen on ebay.

>>10407960
IIRC, she’s part of the same con as the Holy Lantern Replica-Chan from COF earlier this year.

>>10408017
>Selfposting this hard

>>10408017
Out of curiosity, where is that dress from?

>>10408060
Cmon anon, you know this

>>10408061
I'm sorry, but I honestly don't

>>10408063
It's Fantastic Dolly

>>10408017
Can’t even see the coord, this is so over-edited.

>>10408017
It doesn't fit but meh. Can barely see it but you can tell she's stuffed in like a roll of biscuits

>>10407946
Well they can’t go outside wearing that bow considering it looks like it is made out of card. Why make a dress but not a proper bow? Furries are such lazy assholes.

>>10407786
El mandibula

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>>10408069
How is she fitting into it? I looked up the measurements today considering buying it in the restock and if it legitimately holds her it'd certainly fit me I guess.

she insisted this pile of synthetic garbage was her real hair in COF
the shoop doesn't hide it

>>10408125
I saw this on CoF and I was so confused by everything she said. Why lie about wearing a wig? Also the whole “My hair is too full and thick to do Lolita Hairstyles with I wish I had thin hair.” Like girl, Lolita Hairstyles are only doable with thick full hair. I got the feeling she was doing it for the attention/replies.

>>10408125
Left picture makes it really obvious this is a wig.That's just... not what people's hair looks like.

>>10408112
Thank you anon. It's beautiful

>>10408113
I’ve been debating buying it too, but I’m surprised she can fit in it, so maybe I’ll go ahead and get one.

>>10408125
She edited the post saying she has hair extensions and "didn't know" that doesn't count as real hair.

I'm sorry. If it's not growing out of your fucking head, it's not *your* hair. Congratulations. We could all have lion's manes if we added tracks.

>>10407792
I don't understand the corset. Is it on backwards? Something looks wrong and I can't put my finger on it

>>10408157
The corset is definitely backwards

>>10408175
Left is cute

>>10408175
not ita. just hating on chubby people... try harder.

>>10408060
>not recognizing fantasic dolly
>posting on the ita thread
larper confirmed

>>10408181
not really considering the low-quality socks, real hair showing from under the too small wig, and the ill fitt of the dress as if it was about to rip at the sleeves.

>>10408155
its definitely not even extensions kek, its just a generic belle delphine ethot wig

>>10407943
she's from europe but randomly joined my US comm's zoom call?

>>10408256
That's bizarre. Where is she from anyway?

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>>10408257
She's from and currently in Southern California.

>>10408258
well my point still stands, I am not in SoCal and she joined my non-socal comm's zoom call
I assumed she was European because she also advertised some European comm's virtual tea party on my comm's page

>>10408138
As someone with thin hair, fuck her.

She’s been in the last few threads I’m sensing a vendetta

>>10408017
She’s been in the last few threads. Someone clearly has a vendetta

>>10408066
What are you talking about? You can see the coord just fine.

>>10407834
um

>>10408125
The fact that it's one uniform pinkish blonde color despite the fact that she clearly has brunette eyebrows is a dead giveaway

>>10408341
>what is hair dye

>>10408349
Nobody has hair that long of that color with no obvious signs of roots unless it was literally done like 2 days prior to the photo. Plus the completely uniform color. Hair dye doesn't get that kind of result.

>>10407834
I know it might not mean much coming from an anon on a Taiwanese mango harvesting site but it will get better anon. I hope you will feel better about yourself someday, even if it might seem impossible right now.

>>10408353
have you ever been to a good salon? also, what is maintenance?

>>10408358
Are you actually trying to argue that it looks like her real hair lmao

>>10408358
the poster already said it's not her hair. it's clearly a lacefront wig. you can tell from the hairline.

>>10408358
>have you been to a good salon
ntyart, but i'm a hairdresser at a good salon. hair doesn't look like this. next.

>>10408125
lol she left

>>10408125
I'm a hairdresser and this is hot garbage.

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>>10408381
I'm saying no roots an an even hair color like that is possible with upkeep and a good dye job. reading comprehension is a bitch.

>>10408360
It's like she's trying to combine her one actual lolita item with the stuff she has in her closet, which includes renfaire garb.

>>10408445
the wig in question doesn't look like a good dye job though retard.

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>>10408360
I feel bad for this girl, she's clearly trying but she seems to have been born without a sense of style

>>10408256
How did she even get the link to it

>>10408125
Does anyone have caps of her arguing in the comments? I left CoF

>>10408360
She looks so happy

>>10408445
have you ever seen a nice dye job irl? it doesn't look like that, it looks like actual hair.

>>10407828
You look like you're getting the idea but your blouse it too plain. Get a cheap one from Bodyline or secondhand to complete the look. Also maybe consider white tights or ankle socks. Your lower half is too dark compared to the upper half. I'm guessing this is because you're new and your wardrobe is limited, but consider balance when you buy things going forward.

>>10408175
Both of these are cute, just plain and and casual.

>>10408524
That room is a mess, why would they show that off?
>sticking your tongue out to show off piercing
Most embarrassing behavior

>>10408360
Never change Wish-chan.

I start to admire her persistence, she outs herself regularly here and gets roasted all the time but still hasn't given up and can do such a smile.

>>10408357
This isn't the feels thread

>>10408666
Did not notice the tongue piercing yikes

>>10408524
Everything about this picture is depressing.

Nightmare fuel

>>10408865
Her gyaru eye makeup looks nice though

>>10408865
Not ita, just... not lolita

>>10408865
Not ita. The coord is very lackluster but the hair and makeup is on point.

>>10408865
This is literally a gyaru coord you cretin

>>10408885
How do you know I am french?

>>10408863
>nightmare

Where? It's not good but it's not like this is horrific.

>>10408865
Is this a man?

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>>10408885
this eye makeup is not gyaru

>>10408942
Saw this online and my first thought was
>I can’t wait to see this on Cgl

>>10408973
We need to fire the CoF mods so posts like this and the furry crap actually get taken down. And the people asspatting her need to be banned from the group

>>10408958
Why? It looks pretty gyaru to me

>>10408028
They aren’t self posting, someone has a vendetta against them and keep posting them here repeatedly

>>10408017
Can we go back to posting itas instead of people we have a personal vendetta against?

>>10408891
So, you can't see the 5 o'clock shadow?

>>10409011
If she just switched the black for a light color I’d forgive it.

>>10409014
>liz lisa knockoffs

every time

>>10408360
her hair and face are cute
everything else is garbage

>>10408942
Man, if you changed this to not be lolita by swapping the skirt for some cute yellow high waisted shorts and ditch the belt, this would be great.

>>10408887
I hope you’re joking and not actually thinking anon used cretin in the wrong form.

>>10408875
there are many outfits in this thread clearly not trying to be lolita, but you have to be angry about something online.

>>10409050
I like the skirt, it just doesn’t look good with whatever lumpy petti she put under it. But there’s no need to call it lolita just because she’s wearing that petti.

>>10408942
Mexican lolitas, what else to espect? Down there any outfit could be called lolita

>>10408958
>not knowing anything about Gyaru

>>10409023
Get your eyes checked. I’ve met this girl and while she’s a freak, she’s not a man.

>>10409109
it looks more like shit drag makeup kek.

>>10409064
Looking at her bare thighs like that is a bit uncomfortable... why not wear tights under????

>>10409111
She is just a ddlg freak when she is not wearing diapers

>>10409124
of all the things in the coord this seems like a weird one to complain about

>>10409160
She looks dirty

>>10409124
Probably because it’s hot, but yeah she should have done something about her bare thighs. They’re so wrinkled it gives you the feeling you’re looking directly at her labia.

>>10409183
I hate this man but the coord really isn't ita, and that's almost the most upsetting part. This would look really cute on a girl.

>>10409159
This is the second time she has been posted in an ita thread in this exact coord. I smell a vendetta-chan

>>10409159
Not ita. Her coord is decent, she's just fat

>>10409160
That dress looks tacky and doesn't flatter her shape at all

>>10409200
just get rid of the sunglasses and change the shoes and it's perfectly alright. Lots of the 'ita coords' here can easily be turned into alright coords if you just change 1 or 2 things

>>10408892
Yes, a drag queen

>>10409200
The bag needs to go, just looks tacky.
As for shoes, these aren’t the most offensive sneakers I’ve seen paired with lolita. They’re not dirty, or a mismatched color. I don’t care for the platform but they at least fit the color scheme and are cute. Maybe she was walking around a lot?

>>10409200
This pic is old, why are we rehashing this?

>>10409254
This looks like a newbie, she just needs some concrit and time to learn how to coord

>>10409337
It would also look better if she wasn’t shaped like an overflowing sack of potatoes

>>10407798
If prostitute lolita was a thing, this is what it would look like

>>10408064
Fantasic*

>>10408522
Too bad happy isn't rori

What is with this girl's hats?

>>10409373
Isn’t this the woman who claims that she was e-famous and got kicked out of a lolita community for stalking someone?

>>10409337
No newbie at all

>>10409373
I really dont get red jewellery over a white/blue dress... Also that white hat is really bad, it looks like its been sitting in some grandmas attic for the last 30 years

>>10409064
Not the worst, but not the best. This is a weird angle to shoot from

>>10409159
Decent coord, she's just fat

>>10409421
I actually quite like this ngl, OTT ouji slaps

>>10409421
She just keeps getting more and more cringey

>>10409440
I forgot to mention the caption she claims is a lolita newb on a budget and wishes us a happy ild

>>10409392
I’m gonna need sauce or some spoon feeding to look through the archives

>>10409159
Honest question: can people this big not wear petticoats? I know that’s a bodyline dress but her body fills out the skirt so much I doubt a petti would fit.

>>10409446
probably not, it'd look overstuffed unless it's really light. definitely needs more skirt material.

>>10407946
Someone needs to join the lolita furry group on Facebook. I want to see all the trash fires.

>>10409195
No this was the same fat girl who thought crocs were lolita. She IS ita

>>10409440
She posted her skirt was from amazon. And was proud of it. Also check the shit makeup and man face. Prime ita

>>10409429
Hi k8

>>10409392
She is a compulsive liar. She also has stated she has a popular YouTube, was asked to join the circus while wearing Lolita and other crazy things.

Full Metal Alchemist Edward Elric Inspired Coord

>>10409183
It is so upsetting that women must share their fashion and community with these monsters.

>>10409449
I love her jsk, does anyone know its name?

>>10409440
I spy 3 tits

>>10409183
I’ve seen this person post several decent coords. I have zero reason to believe they’re a fetishist but I’m sorry, that face just says “sissy” to me.

>>10409482
Maybe he is an autist or something

If I see one more man in a dress I'm going to scream. I hate it so much, I hate that we allow it.

>>10409474
Why are you so new https://lolibrary.org/items/aatp-secret-hospital-for-dolls-its-me-who-heals-you-jsk-i

>>10409482
A man forcing himself into women's clothing and women's spaces...but you see nothing fetishistic?

>>10409486
Thank you

>>10409421
Not a fan of the veil and horns but from the neck down this is awesome.

>>10409468
I came here just to see if this was posted.

Remove the arm and everything is still just as awful.

>>10409498
Hi friend of k8

>>10408113
she's talked about altering brand on one post before

>>10409449
Other than the weird tulle growing out of her shoulder there's nothing particularly wrong with her coord?

>>10409440
You forgot the best part! She made her headdress from zip ties...

>>10408125
It’s still a wig. And cringe at her “culture”...

>>10409160
I think this would be super cute on someone without tattoos and more conventionally attractive. Maybe with a different blouse too, but that's kind of a nitpick at best.

>>10409523
Way too filtered

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>>10409487
the fact that he doesn't do the least bit of shoop on his face or just use a sticker is what solidifies the sissy status for me. he's proud to look like an old guy in a dress and he wants you to know it.

>>10409499
same here anon

>>10409487
to be fair brolitas do the same thing. Just because someones face doesn't fit doesn't make them a fetishist

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>>10408865
that makeup makes her look like a drag queen

>>10409468
Everyone’s kissing this girl’s ass in the comments for what is a shit tier cosplay and coord

Sometimes you just have to know when to shut the camera off, strip it off, and start all the fuck over.

>>10409468
are we sure this isn’t “hobo rolls in a closet and get duct tape stuck to her arm” inspired

Dropped pic, I can't even focus this is so awful.

>>10409064
Omg I used to follow her on insta for plus sized Lolita positivity! Unfollowed bc of this shit. Not hella it's, but why would you post this online! Subsequent pics she colored over with grey, then finally changed out the bodypillowcase with something not cringe

>>10409160
How can a normal-sized person still have a boobloaf?

>>10409392
Just saw her bitching about not being able to post to some Lolita FB group bc the mods said she isn't posting full coords when she claims otherwise, unable to understand that you can't cut off your legs and still have it be a full coord. "But my room is small" was her excuse when you can just have the camera farther away?

>>10409648
because you can still have big boobs while being relatively skinny everywhere else.

>>10409523
She used the blur tool to try and hide the lacefront lol

>>10409645
Like damn at least get some fuckin crocs on.

>>10409523
This girl is such a chronic liar, I hope she keeps posting. First she lies about her wig, now she's saying her outfit is handmade when it's obviously that cheap taobao hoop petticoat with an office blouse and some fast fashion milanoouji thrown on top. Is that what constitutes handmade these days?

>>10409695
She claimed she didn't know having extensions didn't count as her "real hair," so I can see her claiming throwing together random shit as "handmade"

The bat wing bib. The bottom half style just seems out of place here. I can't get over that bat wing bib. I need to leave them alone but gosh, like an Ita pile of wretchedness.

>>10409712
"bat wing bib" yourself you fucking retard. The AP magic bat cape is amazing but agreed the bottom half looks like shit

>>10409523
Is that even the same wig lmao. Looks thinner at the ends and lumpier through the wig cap

That coord is as bad as the wig, invest in some nice brand legwear and main pieces, and lolita shoes

>>10409523
Ugh these “omg so Nordic and magical” types are so cringe.

>>10409449
vendetta

>>10409712
How fucking dumb are you anyway, imagine not knowing the difference between a bib and a cape. Regardless, it’s AP and it matches the dress theme. Still ita though.

>>10409523
All I can think when I see that 'rune' is "F in chat"

>>10409718
Press F to pay respects to her fashion sense

>>10409685
Your vendetta is showing

>>10408125
>>10409523
That's the most fake, wiggy looking wig I've ever seen. Does she really think that looks like human hair?

>>10407828
4chan removes exif data <3

>>10409712
Nitpick. This just looks like a really bad photo. You can see the white matches the white lace on her wrist cuffs. Did you yank this photo from a comm page?

>>10409717
I know what the fuck it is, but it looks like a torn paper bib you get at a ribs restaurant.

>>10409725
nyart but i saw this pic on my explore page on Instagram, I agree it seems nitpick, the coord isn’t ita but it isn’t great either.

>>10409635
he is one

>>10409712
This isn’t the most ita of coords I’ve seen but why do itas and fatties flock to Holy Lantern??

>>10409721
True dude, I do hate anyone without crocs.

>>10409748
The same why they flock to Honey Cake. It is big enough to squeeze in

>>10409373
I was watching this godawful show called Call to Cosplay the other day and I swear she looks like one of the season 2 contestants (Ashphord Jacoway). Is it her?

>>10409645
This is fine, calm down.

From a general jfashion group I hope she does not think this is lolita

>>10409695
Not only that. I thought I had seen this girl before and I was right. She is very vocal about giving other people coord advice and even posted in "I'm Telling Tyler" for irrelevant shit. She has 2 accounts. I think she wants us to believe that they're not the same person. In her first account she uses her real name and before she turned all her PP to private, there were pics of her real hair and it's actually short. She's just young and wants attention.

>>10409647
Wtf I thought it had a tentacle wrapped around its leg at first but it's actually like cut into segments or something?? Wtf kinda degenerate shit is this

>>10409523
>i was ordained as a seidr
no you weren't either you idiot. this girl has boundless cringe.

>>10409819
it's just slime anon. good old fashioned slime rape! so kawaii.

>>10409647
I don't understand what is wrong with that pillow case

>>10409421
Only k8 could wear a full set and make it look cheap and ugly
>>10409468
Imagine your tits looking like that in this dress and still deciding to wear it

>>10409831
Probably half of all Western lolitas look like that in their dresses, but it’s usually obscured by a print.

>>10409833
Are good bras too expensive or something

>>10409645
Maybe you should get your eyes checked honey, this is a perfectly okay coord

>>10409712
Aren’t you that ita leader from the Begginer lolita amino?

>>10409840
Wtf? It looks cheap and nasty. The sheer white socks and black top are not flattering on someone that big, but even on a small person would still not be a good coord. Too much cheap shit in one coord

>>10409645
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>>10409843
Smells like vendetta

>>10409841
Kek

>>10409841
Oh, is that where you got started? Your ID card just dropped.

>>10409160
Unflattering fit and cheap earrings, but otherwise this looks fine.

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>>10409850
I don't even know who this girl is but this level of wking is embarrassing

>>10409501
Stop fucking posting cosplays it's boring as hell

>>10409183
This coord is super cute, just unfortunate he looks like that.

I used to frequent these threads daily as watching people ripping each other apart is like crack to me. Ever since I got a gf and she clings to me like fucking glue I haven't been able to visit my guilty pleasure since she's always looking at whatever screen I am. Thankfully this is the first night in over a year I've been finally left alone to indulge. Thank you gulls.

>>10409850
Your friend doesn't know how to dress. Defending her this much makes her look worse so I recommend you just stop.

>>10409638
And she's bawwing at bullies along with some other people who said her outfit doesnt read as lolita. COF is truly shit.

>>10409799
This girl is a train wreck through and through, never have I seen her post anything worth looking at.

>>10409936
so many lolitas are horders

>>10409979
The room is a mess, yes, but messy =/= hoarder.

>>10408175
I see nothing wrong here

>>10409523
Wow does she think we are this dumb? This is from her alt account

>>10409986
this is 100% hoarder room. you can see the huge cheap plastic bin coming into view on the left.

>>10409421
How does she fuck this up every time? Always something throwing it way off...I cant put my finger on it ever what it is.

>>10410029
oh god there's so much going on here

>>10410029
That paneling. Is she poor since she ditched her rich husband?

>>10409183
At least he is wearing and modified a knock off of ap.

>>10410029
It’s like she competes with herself to see how tacky she can get

>>10407946
Yikes, that fursuit is really poorly made. At least an attempt to coord it with a dress that almost matches was made

>>10408005
"Braaaaaaaap" fetishists.
https://youtu.be/fsZHbeUFvRc

>>10409839
Lolita bodices generally aren’t cut for bigger cup sizes and a lot of these women will actually wear minimiser bras because with a proper bra the bodice won’t zip up.

>>10409826
So you like furry porn? Fuck off

>>10409160
I'm trying to figure out what the print is called, anyone know?

>>10410083
Btssb Toy’s Fluffy Dream

>>10410076
Looks like cute "I'm chilling out at home" room wear to me.

>>10410076
Her hair looks moldy

>>10410029
Poor jsk it must be saved from her, I love this dress in red so much

>>10410090
Thanks anon!

>>10410104
i give people a pass on getting their hair colored during quarantine, but if she looked like that prior to lockdown then it's fair game

>>10410029
She really looked at this coord and took and picture and thought “yeah, I’m gonna post this”

>>10410046
Tea plz.

>>10410046
It does look like a poor people apartment, like one of those “garden homes.” The carpeting it pretty horrendous, too. But she’s surrounded by so many hundreds of dollars worth of garbage that I can only conclude she lacks priorities, not money.

>>10410181
Probably just divorce money since she doesn’t work

>>10410029
Symmetrical face piercings are so bad bc they call attention to exactly how unsymmetrical your face is.

>>10410076
This dress looks so cozy

>>10410178

lolcow, /w/.

>>10409840
I would hate to be in a com that teaches this is a good coord. Please tell me she is a beginner.

>>10409699
Well considering that's not even hair extensions she really is just a big fat liar liar pants on fire.

>>10410029
How is she not cancelled? She loves DollsKill

>>10409718
why did you put rune it quotes?

>>10410230
then leave, you've obviously got a vendetta for this person in your comm

>>10410279
Bitch, I don't even know what country they are in. It's ita material, this is an Ita thread. People make comments on the Itas. It's how it works here. JFC

>>10409424
Not defending her, she looks like absolute garbage, but there's red coral in the print you dumb fuck.

>>10410029
this pains me to look at. also why are her legs toothpicks

>>10409879
Sounds so toxic

>>10410262
Her “fans” (I guess that’s what you would call them) don’t give a shit

>>10410289
ooo, someone's big mad their vendetta didn't get the attention they wanted huh
sorry nobody was mean enough to your waifu for you in this thread

>>10410357
Nta but you're wking too hard

>>10410311
It's irritating to say the least. She has no friends she sees but can't cope without interaction and desires to be glued to me all the time.

>Going to check the mail
>>I'm coming

>Going to get my haircut
>>I want to go for the drive

>I'm going to get milk
>>Me too!

>I'm taking the garbage out
>>I'll help!

We work at the same places at the same days and times and go to the same university (different courses) so it can be very overwhelming when we are literally never apart, ever. When I just want to indulge in a guilty pleasure or just entertain myself without being constantly pestered for attention or constantly asked questions about what I am doing and why.

Oh well.

>>10410387
I recommend having a serious conversation about boundaries and the importance of alone time. Was she like this pre ‘rona? Not having her own friends to hang out with sounds like a big red flag.

>>10409879
>>10410387
You must've picked up my ex, that sounds just like her. She used to follow me around so close that she'd bump into me if I stopped. No friends of her own or hobbies that she could partake in alone. It was like dating Patrick.

>>10410387
this sounds like a classic pursuer-distancer relationship and is not going to end well

>>10410395
I myself don't have friends that I see so I didn't see it as a red flag. I enjoy being alone and doing my own thing, she seemed like that at the start of the relationship.

She was like this always as soon as we moved in together.

Her biggest problem is she has no idea what she wants to do in life, no ambitions other than some vague ideas of earning lots of money, whereas I tend to pursue my ambitions unrelentingly. She follows me like a lost animal because she has no path or her own to follow. Honestly, it's made me consider breaking up with her because i have ambitions and goals for myself I need to meet such as interning overseas in Europe, earning scholarships to study in Asia and I want to live and work in a foreign country that doesn't speak english. Whenever I discuss these things with her she says "Well, what about me? You make plans with no room for me."

She gets in the way of the things I want to do rather than supporting them wholeheartedly or pursuing her own goals.

>>10410399
I've told her she needs to find a hobby or an interest and she has vague ideas of an etsy store but always makes an excuse as to why she can't start it just yet.

Her life revolves around me and that's hard for me because I like my along time and I am no one special so being put up as a pedestal is irritating since I feel I have a hero-like obligation to fufill to her.

If you don't mind me asking, what made you break up?

>Aplogies to everyone ITT, I didn't mean to turn it into a feels thread.

>>10410402
We broke up because she was too clingy and some other issues in the relationship (she was a gold-star lesbian who constantly thought because I was bi I was going to cheat on her with a man, she was a habitual liar and liked to paint me as an abuser to my friends if I so much as snapped at her for making mean comments about my appearance ie "I'm so scared of Anon yelling at me, I never know what will set her off" and other such examples).

>>10410402
Are you my roommate? Because this sounds a lot like him+his fiance. She will literally throw a fit if he even considers going to bed at a different time than her. Cut it off, bro. You're more important than anything she could even think about offering you.

>>10410357
You're making it worse, stop trying to defend your ita self. Being posted here doesn't automatically make it a vendetta. It just means someone thought you were ita. Calm the fuck down and go learn how to coord.

>>10410230
>>10410230

dude your shitposting is weird, yea the coord is less than stelar (still not ita) but your obsession is showing

>>10410387
Whatever if you dont like your relationship as it is deal with it maturely dont bitch about it in the ita thread of all places. If she is being clingy, I am sorry to say, you have given her some right to do so.
Also I would suggest share your guilty pleasures and such. I find all my relationships to be more rewarding when I share as much of me as possible.

>>10409856
this was literally posted to cof as a "misa inspired coord"

>>10410455
The defense over this Amazon quality heap is pretty entertaining.

>>10410029
Did K8 get surgery or something? She looks super different here compared to her older photos. Also holy shit this is dire even for her

>>10410029
Remember when K8 used to look fine? I do wonder how people just lose a sense of taste

>>10410513
drugs.

>>10410402
If things are as you describe I would break it off with her. It's going to really hurt both of you if you continue to let this happen and it's making you unhappy.

>>10410387
Dude.... you need to go ahead and say something. That’s incredibly unhealthy for her AND you.

>>10410387
Do you guys just... not speak? Ever? Why doesn't she know this bothers you? Unless you fear some kind of abuse you tell your partner this shit, not let it fester and rant about it on the internet.

>>10410262
She posted today that she deleted all her dollskill tagged stuff

>>10407794
ugh, baby ponytail's fabric and design choices are so tragic

>>10407834
If you want to do black x white, it needs to be either really oldschool (mostly solid cotton fabrics, cotton lace with no netting, etc) or like really artistic and obviously well-considered. Blouse reads classic casual, shoes and bag are more oldschool, other items are like sweet/classic in black. Pick a lane.

>>10409421
I love what kate has been doing, this is awesome. Way better than a few years ago as far as creativity

>>10411005
Hi K8

>>10411007
not k8, although after spending the last 30 minutes on lolcow i am seriously worried for k8s mental health actually. But I still like some coords better lately, old shit was boring. Something about the crazy eyes does it for me.

>>10411020
She looks like shit and is a shitty person. Stop licking her ass.

>>10409879
Why not share with her? Sometimes I send some of the especially bad coords I find on here to my girlfriend and we snark about them together. She's not even into lolita or J-Fash.

>>10409979
Deerstalker pictures wasn't lying when they said it. I usually don't mind it as long as their shit is clean and organized instead of strewn all over the place like it is here. How much of that stuff could just be organized onto that built-in shelving behind her?

>>10409421
I hate K8 but I think this is nitpick territory. I'd like it without the horns. At least her makeup isn't quite as bad as her signature nasty cakeface that she somehow thought was appropriate to slather on when modeling for AP.

>>10410402
Honestly, her not having a life plan is a HUGE red flag. In my relationship I'm already working on stabilizing my career and my girlfriend is finishing up college for her career. We worked one another into our goals, but dating someone who doesn't have any ambitions is asking for problems. At the very least she'll be a financial burden unless she plans to be a stay-at-home wife/mom in the future and you will be able to make enough to support her.

>>10409064
Why would you post a pic like this? To have your ankles that far apart and your thighs still are stuck together. It completely distracts from normie shoes t-shirt, & trying to have a summer coord with a thick, quilt like fabric dress.

>>10409713
All this is missing is the rib sauce. It actually does look like a bib on her.

maddy please get out of the ita thread and get back to work
-ian

>>10411793
Just because you hate your body doesn’t mean everyone does.

>>10411913
Not everyone hates my body? Awww, you are so sweet, anon.

>>10411952
You’re welcome, everybody deserves to be happy in their own skin.

>>10411967
But nobody deserves, without consent, to scroll in a lolita group and see an up skirt shot. Thighs that big indicate over eating, which is an eating disorder that leads to obesity. If you didn't want comments on your fat, then don't show up skirt shots of your fat.

>>10411986
>upskirt
Where? You’re gonna give yourself an aneurism getting that mad that overweight people dare to exist without caring about what you think of them.

>>10412015
not that anon, but the camera is low and angled up. You cant see panty or anything obviously, but you can for sure see a considerable amount of her thighs.

>>10412015
Not discussing the existence of people. The photo is an up skirt of fat thighs. Why share it????? Why do you assume people want to look at your fat thighs????

>>10412035
>>10412042
Reach of the week

>>10411886
Hurry up and approve requests to join your group. CoF is 80% ita

>>10411020
I used to feel that way about her too until I was able to become acquainted with her. She literally does not care about anyone other than herself. And she’s only nice to you if you have a decent following so she can parkour off your tags

shut up about k8, post itas

>>10412605
good idea, poor execution

>>10409645
The longer you look, the worse this gets.

>>10410516
And uncanny levels of shoop to correct the drug damage

>>10410697
So it's confirmed that she lurks

>>10411002
>If you want to do black x white, it needs to be either really oldschool or like really artistic
Shhhh newfag

ive been waiting to post this bitch im a bit of a vendetta chan with her the dress is a replica and she tagged this with "creepy doll"

>>10413027
That's not a cutout top, she just unbuttoned the middle I am cackling

>>10413027
That's not even the worst of her, look up coronaviruswh0re, she tags herself as lolita after she bought that dress from lolitain. It's not even too small for her, she just laces it tight in back to unbutton it like that.

>>10408865
I thought that was a mask.