/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Man I really love lolita

>>10031260
Man I just really love cosplay

>>10031243
>tfw comm mom caught me having brunch with the bf in plain clothes and embarrasses me in front of him

>>10031264

>>10031266

>>10031265
Here I thought Cunny poster was available...

>>10031264
>>10031266
>>10031267
Why are you posting le youtube recommendation waifu

How to convince bf to go to a con with me? He thinks it will be pure cringe and no fun. Chloroform rag and a potato sack?

>>10031270
Because the lyrics are perfect for the /cgl/ feels thread.

>>10031271
A lot of you gulls get boyfriends that have completely different likes from yourselves.

>>10031274
He is a huge weeb and we connect deeply on dorky ass shit from anime to vidya and all kinds of other things. He just thinks he is too cool for cons even though I am sure he would love to go to one if he would give it a chance.

Finally finished watching gems.
Holy FUCK do I regret not watching it alongside 4chan as well as missing the time when there were so many gem cosplayers. Really want to cosplay as one as well as do a shoot with one as a photog.
I remember brushing it aside just because >3dcgshit, what a waste not not even give it a chance at the time. Man I had only planned on watching 3 eps while editing photos, ended up watching the whole series straight through and completely ignored editing.

Torn between waiting for an S2 or reading the manga

>>10031264
>I filled the cracks in my heart with crack

>>10031271
>>10031275
my bf is a huge weeb as well and actually watches more anime than me, but when i asked him to come to his first convention with me (and i've been to more than a handful) he was super excited, and was even willing to photograph me in my first cosplay.

i think it helped him feel like he was included and didn't care what anyone thought, and to be honest anon, all we did the entire weekend was make fun of cringe people and the awkward moments, it was a bonding experience

>>10031277
Who's your fav gem and are you male or female? Important question

>>10031277
>Watching Steven universe

What do I do with a shitty, SHITTY wig that they won't let me return? How do I get my $20 worth out of it?

>>10031277
>3dcgshit
hard pass.

>>10031305
sell it to itas and bad cosplayers?

>tfw no cosplay/lolita gf

>>10031305
you the anon who said they couldn't make rent because you bought a shitty wig?

if you're buying a wig on that tight of a budget that you can't even guarantee it's good, you deserve it. where you live and how you live should be your priority, not a nappy wig.

for a tip, a good rule of thumb is if you want to buy something, don't buy it unless you can buy two of the item, if you can't, you can't afford it and you shouldn't be buying it.

>tfw have been verbally abused by girls in a cgl/cosplay server
>now can't get enough
Any girl on here wants to verbally abused me?

>>10031317
You can't just throw out a feel like that willy-nilly, you fucking faggot. You commit to wanting one or the other. We all know lolita gfs are superior

>>10031326
The best abuse for you is no abuse for you.

>>10031327
This is bait in AP.

Is it ita to just wear a blouse and thong to tea?

>>10031326
How much are you paying?

>>10031327
How DARE you question the integrity of my feel, ignorant simpleton! I have borne witness to this feel aeons before your wretched existence disgraced this place with your disgusting presence.

>>10031305
>>10031330

I feel so awful. Recently I've been questioning my lolita wardrobe and my taste so much that I don't know anymore what I actually like and where I want to go. What do you guys do to find again your inspiration and figure out what you want?

I pray to our holy mana and our holy lady misako to beg for forgiveness for what i'm going to be doing within the next few days. i ask for my sins of buying from a scalper to be forgiven since it's totally a dream dress but holy shit fuck rainies for having dresses i want

>>10031358
Think about what made you fall in love with lolita in the first place. What did you like about it? What inspired you when you just started? Are you wearing the substyle you fell in love with initially, or did you drift off to another substyle for whatever reason? Getting in touch with newbie nostalgia is the best way to rekindle the "spark", I feel.

>>10031358
Has something happened that made you feel insecure about your style? The spark has never wavered for me. Although on bad days sometimes I just sit with my dresses and accessories and go through them one by one, looking at their details and prints and it gives me a kind of visual high. Maybe go back and look through your wardrobe and re-experience some of your dresses? Good luck, anon. Sending you some good feels.

>>10031358
I organized my dresses from left to right in the closet based on how much I like them. You could try something similar and see if there is any similarity or pattern to the things closer to the right side of the scale.

>bf has been distant and our sex life is basically dead
>hard hit on me bc reasons
>has been filling the void with aggressive (lolita) shopping and day dreaming
>bf confesses his depressed again
I feel like I'm the worst but atleast I asked him about it several times and I would never cheat on him. I just hope he will be better but my needs make me feel so selfish. All the stuff I got is lovely but I really should have taken him to movies or to eat out instead.

>>10031361
I have had to give in to her once too. And few times when she wasn't a known scalper yet. I hope Mana will forgive us.

>mom agrees to buy me lolita for Christmas
>"send me links to the one you want"
>Suddenly forget every dress I've ever wanted

>>10031271
offer him a reward

>>10031414
I agree. Let him fuck your throat until it bleeds.

>>10031326
u r a shit poo poo head
pay me

>>10031418
>>10031414
Imagine having a gf so boring that facefucking is considered a once in a blue moon treat you only get after saving up enough good boy points

>Local community is getting really into Deltarune just a year after the Undertale and Homestuck people finally started to change up
Fug

>>10031392
GOD i actually feel this so hard right now. i can't even decide if i want to be with mine anymore because i just feel depressed and i do nothing now!!! I hope everything works out anon! and i've bought from rainies once, worth it because it's my most worn piece and this one i'm getting will be another one i wear frequently. i just am sad knowing she probably paid nothing for it (just like i did with a dress made with the same fabric in the same year, the difference is like nearly 60 bucks tho ugh)

>>10031423
What are you ? A jewlita?

>>10031427
Imagine having a gf

>>10031447
You just had to go there, didn't you lad

I’m at an age where my body is trying to signal the biological urge to birth babies but my mental state is absolute shit. Is there any way to get rid of this urge? I know for a fact that the minute I were to get pregnant or god forbid give birth I’d resent it. Even trying to think about all the lolita I could buy by not having children isn’t helping.

>>10031243
>tfw no mercury gf

>>10031457
remember that even if ur body wants a baby, yr body DOES NOT want a baby

goodbye lolita 5ever

>>10031458
I love Ami-chan!

>>10031457
Procreate

>>10031427
Ever got a gf who will let you cut her and lick up the blood?

>tfw no guro gf

>>10031500
>tfw no kinky bf/gf to cut me up

anon maybe one day our dreams will
come true

>>10031502
I liked my last gf didn't have a gag reflex but if I went too rough I could bruise her throat.

>>10031504
bruh i can't even get the vanilla version of that rn fml

i wish this mother fucker i like would just stop ghosting me already

>>10031506
Girls can't fufill most of my desires or at least not the girls I end up liking, so I just resort to doujins. Girls are a meme most of the time. Then again, so are guys.

>>10031507
see it's easy to find men that wanna hurt me cuz men love preying on small girls but every time i date one they're all like "oh noooo i can't hurt you" and in my mind i'm like "fucking cut me you pussy"

but i feel you on the doujin level, i can't get some of that stuff irl

>the no weeb friends to go to a con with
How to make friends with similar interests whilst keeping those interests hidden from everyone else?

>tfw no low sex drive gf who'd rather just sit on the couch together and cuddle than be kinky

>>10031511
Try starting with smaller things to get them comfortable with inflicting pain on you.

>>10031515
>implying i haven't
i'm just cursed to have awful sex forever

>>10031243
Do you think Sailor Jupiter wanted to bury her face in it and take a whiff?

>>10031511
I like hurting the girl only when she actually enjoys being hurt. If she is not enjoying it then I hate it and don't want to hurt her.

Maybe you're not giving off enough vibes that this is what you enjoy.

>trying to lose weight for health and aesthetic reasons
>lose weight but still don't lose much of my double chin
>Makes me super self-conscious and not want to cosplay
>Can't afford liposuction

>>10031514
What do you think kinky people do after kinky sex? You cuddle in the afterglow and give each other compliments. It's the best part.

>>10031521
Oh, I know this feel. I'm not quite at the double chin point, but I wish the skin there would be tighter.

>>10031520
I think i just keep crushing on men who are softies bc i want a pretty boy to be interested in fashion with me, and all the emo/goth boys who are normally into that stuff are complete barf bags. I've had a few experiences with it and it was very enjoyable for us both but the last time it was summer and too humid and i got a MINOR infection and he freaked out and said no more

>>10031524

Mine isn't constant double chin status, but it's extremely hard to pose without it showing.

>>10031523
You don't shamefully avoid looking at each other while trying not to think about what you just did?

>>10031527
is that what straight people do after sex

>>10031525
>>10031525
I am pretty boy into fashion. Where do I send my application? Not an emo/goth though.

>>10031527
The shame is part of the fun.
>I can't believe you did that to me
>>I got carried away and my mind went blank, sorry if it made you uncomfortable.
>Do it again next time but rougher

I love sex.

>>10031523
That's great for them, but I'm still a low sex drive vanilla person looking for another low sex drive vanilla person.

>>10031531
*gag*

>>10031531
where r u located anon? depending on yr answer: this could b us

I wish I could solve all of my problems by by hitting them with my face until they accept defeat

>>10031547
Which problems isn't that working on?

>>10031554
Facial aesthetics.

>>10031427
Different strokes for different folks. Not everyone is into leather, whips, and anal.

>>10031457
Spend some time around children. That sounds like the opposite of a cure, but trust me. Enough time and the screams, poo, and tantrums will kick it out of you.

>>10031563
>putting anal in the same category as leather and whips

>>10031554
Romance and my physics homework

>>10031559
I can see how that would be a problem.

>>10031566
Works for my maths homework. Post homework.

>tfw ghosted by random 4chan bois

wew i am that pathetic aren't i

>>10031569
It has only been an hour. It's too soon to give up yet.

>>10031573
i need validation and i need it NOW

(jk i'm just really bored and this board does at night ugh)

>>10031564
not necessarily anon. formerly vocally childfree but my sister just had a kid and even witnessing the whirlwind of shit, piss, and milky vomit that is a newborn, there’s something about him that makes me suddenly understand the desperate biological urge to reproduce

>>10031569
It's been an hour. Give up.

>>10031585
i must panic RIGHT now

>>10031538
>lunarcore
Dear lord, why is this a thing?

>>10031533
I hope you find what you're looking for anon.

>>10031537
Sorry you having boring sex.

>>10031538
Australia.

>>10031600
My English is kill atm from no sleep. I apologise.

>>10031600
it's okay anon me too

>>10031600
>Australia
Why are there so many of you in these threads?

>>10031604
because we love to shitpost

>>10031604
Maybe I am the only Australian and I just take on different personalities for maximum shitposting effect.

Or just that this country sucks and I want to stay inside all day on 4chan.

>>10031243
Hello, is the hit or miss girl posting here? I was told so on /biz/

How much do I have to pay to marry her?

>>10031607
hey same but usa

>>10031600
>Sorry you having boring sex.
It's not really my thing, sorry, but thanks for your concern.

>>10031606
>>10031607
Are either of you Chris Hemsworth?

>>10031624
i'm overweight chris hemsworth

>>10031531
>I love sex.
alright alright someone get this normalfag outta here, they're makin us look bad

>>10031625
*overweight and ugly chris hemsworth

>>10031627
how dare you

my looks are average for sure

>>10031628
So decidedly not Chris Hemsworth. Why do you even exist?

>>10031630
because my parents liked having sex, i guess

>>10031631
That explains how you came to exist but not why you still do.

>Everybody talking about sex
>Tfw coming up on my 26th sex-free year
I'm 90% convinced at this point that sex is just a lie people tell on the internet.

One of my life goals is to find an accurate-looking Saya (Dagashi Kashi) cosplayer and giver her a hug and see her smile.

>>10031624
Unfortunately not.

>>10031446
No I'm gonna do the best job of hurting you that you'll ever get and you're going to pay me for it

>>10031457
Pour it all into a puppy or a rabbit, I had no mental urge to have children but I feel like the biological side is satisfied with me looking after pets.

I miss this retard.

>>10031243
That's a brap.

>tfw no gull gf to make casual porn with
Where are all of you kinky fucks when I need you?

>>10031701
>wanting to keep a permanent record of your debauchery

>>10031702
It's ez to remove faces and stay anonymous doing it

Where are all the kinky girls who aren't ugly?

>>10031704
doing porn

>>10031705
>porn stars who do kinky porn
>not ugly

What kind of porn do you watch?

Also most porn stars I don't find attractive. Not because they're not pretty or anything, they're all really similar in an eerie sense.

>>10031704
Hiding the fact they're kinky because they have more to lose in regards to their social standing.

>>10031600
>Sorry you having boring sex.

Why is it that y'all think that just because other don't have mental issues that they take out through hurting each other while fucking that their sex is boring?

>>10031709
What's not boring about vanilla sex? It's vanilla for a reason. It's the most basic. Everyone has done it. Sex should be fun and exciting. If not for you, for your partner at least. You should get giddy and laugh when you're talking about the fucked up things your going to do with your partner next time because it's something you two share that is completely unique and for the most part exclusive to you and your partner. It's like your own little club of fucked up secrets.

>>10031709
>not wanting to do nothing but missionary your entire life means you have mental issues

>>10031707
amateur porn, obviously

the only porn worth watching

>>10031713
This nigga knows what's up

>>10031711
>it's something you two share that is completely unique and for the most part exclusive to you and your partner

Sweetie, there are other kinky people in the world who have done what you do already. Sorry. Your sex isn't unique either.

>>10031712
Anyone who is into hurting another person/being hurt by someone during sex has mental issues. I'm not judging. It's just a fact. I've got a mess of a head too, but it doesn't come out during sex.

>>10031721
That's not what I meant by unique. The sex that two people have together can only be had by those people. It's idiosyncratic.

>>10031721
>I've got a mess of a head too
Good for you, honey. I hope you're getting help for your mental illness. I don't have any though

>>10031724
Then so is vanilla sex by that very definition.

>>10031726
I am, thanks for your well wishes. I hope your figure out what's wrong with you one day too.

>>10031721
Sadism/masochism is not the only form kink takes, anon.

>>10031727
Are you really such an idiot that you think even someone who likes to have their ass slapped during sex has some glaring underlying mental issues that they need help with?

>>10031727
I didn't say vanilla sex wasn't unique. I said it was boring.

This thread is not very feminist.

>>10031734
You can suck my fucking dick.

>>10031728
I'm aware but it's what was being discussed in this thread.

>>10031729
Not an idiot. If you don't think wanting someone to physically hurt you and having mental issues don't go hand in hand, I don't know what to tell you. People with a level head, good self esteem and self respect don't go looking for someone to punish them.

>people who don't like the same things I like are [insert slur here]

>>10031732
And then when you differentiated what makes kinky sex not boring, you talked about how it's because it's unique. Don't backpedal just because I used your own argument against you. It's embarrassing. Take the L and move on.

>>10031736
>wanting to have your ass slapped while you're taking it from the back means you consider yourself some masochistic fuckdoll who desperately needs her master to punish her
This is how stupid you sound

>>10031740
So where do you draw the line?

>They haven't gone through the whole spectrum of kinks yet after which vanilla becomes obscene

>>10031741
Scat along with wanting to fuck animals and children. And from my experience, your point about having low self esteem is quite the opposite when it comes to that kind of thing. My last girlfriend was as vanilla as they come in the bedroom and wouldn't even dirty talk because it made her too embarrassed. You have to be comfortable in your own skin to explore kinks in any meaningful way

>>10031736
>People with a level head, good self esteem and self respect don't go looking for someone to punish them.

Sex is a release of pent up frustration and fulfilment of fantasy. People like being hurt, punished and bossed around not because they're sick in the head but because they are in the complete care of somebody else, they are the responsibility of someone else, they don't have to worry about anything, it's relaxing and relieving to not have to think about anything other than what's in the moment. You don't have to do anything, you don't have to think, you just do what your told and take whatever is given.

And on the other side being a sadist/dom is very nice as well. The other person is fully entrusting themselves to you. They love you so much that they are willing to allow you to hurt them because they trust you won't go beyond their boundaries. It's also very nice knowing that person is completely within their care, they are the responsibility of that person, whether or not that person is going to enjoy themselves is up to the dom and of course you want them to enjoy themselves and have fun. It's enjoyable to care for someone in that way and to know they love and trust you.

You most likely have almost zero sexual experience and are very immature.

>>10031739
Kinky sex is not boring because it's not vanilla. Kinky sex is every other flavour. Missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation is vanilla. Both are ice cream. Both are good. But everyone knows what vanilla tastes like, everyone has experienced it, it's the most basic, it's nice to have sometimes but majority of the time you want to try other flavours.

Vanilla is boring becasue you know what it tastes like, you've tasted it a million times before, everyone agrees that vanilla is good. But give someone orange sherbet flavour which will be forcing your partner to drink your drool, it might not be everyone's cup of tea. That's what makes it not boring.

>>10031745
>everyone has experienced it

>>10031604
Reporting in

>>10031738
naggers

>>10031745
What happens if you get bored of kink shit though?

>>10031761
You start with petty crimes like jay walking then move on to armed robbery increasing the danger level until eventually you have a Persian cat you pet in your dungeon while plotting to take over the world.

>>10031734
Why not? Most of us are feminists.

>>10031745
I put this post into a text analyzer and the AI says it's 90.3% likely that this poster is male so I assume he never had sex and he's making TL;DR posts about it on the girl board because he

>>10031777
Don't leave me hanging like this, anon, because he what?

>>10031776

>>10031780
She got assassinated.

>>10031782
Is /r9k/ fulfilling their prophesies of an incel revolution?

>>10031783
Yes, and it will be a quiet revolution. Best case scenario she only got kidnapped and soon will be someone's cock slave.

>>10031784
That's a fate worse than death.

>>10031776
Speak for yourself. Third wave feminism was a mistake

>>10031789
That's like saying "all subway workers are pedophiles bc that one boss guy was a pedophile"

>>10031761
Ntayrt but me and my boyfriend treat it like a craving. Some months we will be into one thing more and when that starts to get less exciting we switch it up. We have never gotten so bored or used to a thing that we didnt come back to it later. Luckily we have a lot of kinks that we can switch it up with?

>>10031791
Retarded analogy. I'm sure there's a great many regular, functioning people who identify as feminist but I'd rather not because these days in Western countries, it's only ever associated with useless shit like the pay gap, affirmative action and complaining about manspreading. If you're a feminist doing work in some shithole Islamic-governed nation like Saudi Arabia, you have my utmost respect. Otherwise I only associate the word with cringe

>>10031794
> I'm sure there's a great many regular, functioning people who identify as feminist
Congrats, that was the point of my analogy. And maybe I would've ended up like you if I hadn't seen so many women in my life abused by men and various court systems favouring said men. I really don't care if you call yourself a feminist or not, but I find the people rejecting femenism as a whole are the kind of people who refuse to consider that other people in the same city, state, or country may have experienced life in a very different way.

>>10031795
The point of your shitty analogy was to insinuate that because there's I think there's at least one feminist crazy, it must mean that I think anyone who identifies as such is exactly the same, when that's not what I argued at all. There have been polls conducted among people these days and they've shown they're less and less likely to identify as feminist, and I think they're perfectly entitled to do that.
>if I hadn't seen so many women in my life abused by men and various court systems favouring said men
Courts almost unanimously side with the mother in custodial child cases in any Western country you find yourself in. Men regularly have their reputations irreparably fucked over rape/abuse allegations and are regularly presumed guilty until proven innocent. I'm of the opinion that human beings in general have equal capacity for shitty behaviour regardless of their gender, which is why I don't feel the need to identify as feminist.

>>10031795
>>10031799
Do you not get sick of constantly having the same, tired arguments on 4chan? Because I sure as hell get sick of reading them.

>>10031789
t.male

i like cosplay and think it's pretty neat

>>10031806
Agreed, and I'm not even a cosplayer.

>>10031799
Bitter 4chan male detected, everyone go home

>>10031805
>>10031811
>this is the height of feminist banter

>>10031814
>implying banter with an immovable incel is possible

>>10031816
>anyone who doesn't identify as a feminist with me is an incel
Please tell me more about how third-wave feminism totally isn't a joke

>>10031816
>>10031819
get a room, you two

>>10031819
Here's your last (you), chew it slowly

>>10031821
>go to get the room
>she starts screeching at me because I have the audacity to split the bill instead of paying for it all myself

>>10031821
Only if you come with us anon chan

>>10031823
We should hang out, anon. As friends, male friends.

>>10031824
that's anon-sama to you

>>10031824
Suppose that's fine, as long as our dicks don't touch
>>10031826
Are you coming with us?

>>10031830
Sure, I'm game.

>>10031828
But I don't want to b-baka!

>>10031830
>dicks don't touch
But then how will we combine our dick energy to achieve maximum Big Dick

>tfw no dog girlfriend

>>10031840
>tfw no dog

>>10031240
I'm working hard and everything, I'm just not roiding so I probably won't have an obscenely ripped body.
As it is I could definitely do him if I went on a cut right now but I'm holding out until after winter is over to do that.
Me and nurse-Chan still talk around /cgl/ from time to time, but what in really hoping to do is finish the cosplay and go on the cut, then do a cool photoshoot or something that shows it off and post it here, asking her what she thinks.

>>10031816
Yaaas! Slay!

>>10031819
Sad male virgin. >>10031821 this is also you btw, trying to convince the girl to have sex with you.

>>10031852
Wait, I thought you guys were an actual couple. Dreams shattered.

>>10031856
TRICKED

>>10031861
>misogynerd thinks he can fool me

>>10031861
The underline is supposed to go through the brackets. Take note for next time.

>>10031457
is it normal for a man to have these feelings too?

i'm in my mid 20s and i have been getting this strong anxiety/desire to have babies with a woman

>>10031862
>>10031863
All aboard the ruse cruise

>>10031864
Nope, for you it's just part of your general desire to lose your virginity, /r9k/-kun. You don't really have a job, so in your fantasies you are ignorant of the economic impact the child support would cause. Also, you probably read a lot of Japanese erotic comic books which often have "PLEASE GET PREGNANT WITH MY SEED" and promote unprotected sex, so that's what you want also.

Why are some gulls obsessed with talking about /r9k/ at every opportunity?

>>10031872
>/r9k/ males come here to practice talking to girls on the Internet
>they wonder why they get destroyed by fierce and brave girls such as >>10031868

>>10031872
Tsundere.

>>10031868
i guess you're right. i don't go on r9k though.

>>10031876
Your LARP would be more convincing if you cut the obvious YAAAS QUEEN STRONG AND BRAVE Instathot speak

>>10031872
Because it's so easy to spot crossboarders here.

>>10031886
>someone post something I don't like
>screech crossboarder
By that criteria, yes, it is extremely simple to do

>be filthy crossboarder
>have lolita-related dream
>about the actual dresses and not the girls wearing them
You gulls have poisoned me.

>>10031889
I'm a different anon, but ok. What I meant is that there's certain topics that are brought up when the anon is either a troll or very new to the board. Not to mention cgl usually has a fairly standard set of jokes, memes, and post formats so when a poster strongly deviates, they come across as a crossboarder.
>post something you don't agree with
Everyone who's been here a longer time knows that posting anything anti-feminist is going to derail the thread fucking hard, I don't give a shit either way, but this board is about cosplay and egl, not your fucking political views

>>10031896
ONE OF US ONE OF US

>>10031897
>being upset the designated off-topic shitposting thread full of posts completely unrelated to cosplay and EGL is being 'derailed' by something off-topic

>>10031896

>>10031903
I'll be pissed of at whatever the fuck I want, faggot

>>10031903
nayrt but this thread shouldnt even exist, crossboarders need to stay away

>>10031896
You finally understand why we’re all vestal virgins who only care about burando and saving ourselves for Mana-sama

>>10031904
Fortunately, my bank account is safe; I have no interest in crossdressing.

>>10031906
Of course, anon-kun, And I'm still free to tell you that you're a retard for feeling that way.

>>10031907
P-please don't point out the overlap on-topic and off-topic nature of feels threads. They're my favourite part of this board's culture.

>>10031910
K

>>10031692
Why the sudden HnK boom on /cgl/? I thought I was the only one who knows about the anime just a few weeks ago

I started dating a guy about a year ago. I’m bi and male and had been hurt by some girls in the past, so I thought maybe dating a guy would be easier. No, because the girls I dated were emotionally stunted (not their fault, they had family situations that set them up for it) and would never be honest about their feelings, but he was a billion times more stunted. His family just ignores problems instead of talking them out, but that can make tiny issues into giant ones.

I tried even harder with him, because I wanted to marry the guy, but made the mistake of being open with him about something I was upset by. He misunderstood what I was saying and then refused to let me clarify or talk about it at all, and he ended up ghosting me for a month and then dumping me.

It’s been months. Mutual friends interfered and in some cases straight up lied to him about advice they gave me. Now I see them all having a grand old time together, while they all pointedly ignore me, and I feel even worse about it. Like not only did I fuck up with my boyfriend, but by hurting him, I made all these other people think I’m a crappy person and I can’t patch things up with any of them without making them think I’m just trying to get them to put in a good word to him.

I’m an idiot because I’m still in love with him and want him to take me back. We’re both cosplayers in a lot of the same fandoms so I know we’re probably going to run into each other at some point unless I just remove myself from the scene. He said he wanted to be friends after dumping me but never talked to me again and mutual friends have told me he’s “still angry” at me. We had a lot of cosplay plans together and I don’t know if I should just abandon all my half finished projects or what.

Tl;dr this is all just a hugely messy situation and has been really darkening my life. I’m sure it sucked for him, too, and that’s the worst part.

>>10031929
Did you tell him that you're bi? Some gay guys tend to have prejudices against bis

Just ordered a bunch of shit from Bodyline. I'm excited but also nervous about the quality I'm going to get.

>>10031929
I’m so sorry to hear that anon. I know that feeling about being so in love with someone that it literally blinds you. It sounds like those mutual friends of yours love drama and starting shit so I would suggest staying far far FAR away from them. You don’t need that sort of toxicity especially after dealing with a break up. I hope you eventually get over him and start the healing process anon.

>>10031929
Finish the cosplays anyway. Unless you're one half of a horse or something it's entirely possible to wear them alone. If you happen to run into him at a con you can always just ignore him. I'll never understand how this is such a big deal for people. When you encounter somebody you always, always have the option to not engage and that's exactly what you should do. Focus on having a good time, ex-bf be damned. Also, as somebody who was raised in a similar environment to him, he's never going to learn to talk about his problems. That ship sailed a long time ago. If you're going to insist he does the relationship will never work no matter how many times you try.

>>10031924
>only one

You don't venture beyond this board often?

anon who wants to date her coworker reporting in with an update:

so this moron puruses /b/ and out of pure drunken shits and giggles i go on last night to look and find a thread that's definitely written by him (yes, i knew bc it was a story he told me about how he misses his ex, what they went thru together, etc) so i'm lurking and being a fucking weirdo and i see him post in another thread about his cute coworker he likes (his writing style is also pretty easy to spot) and how he got ghosted by HER and how he feels like HE made things weird. Well, get this. None of my messages for the PAST WEEK AND A HALF. HAVE NOT BEEN SENDING. TO HIM.

>>10031946
I meant on /cgl/.

>>10031951
It's a great series an the anime adaptation elevates the source material.

>>10031947
Fire your phone company and buy a new phone.

>>10031954
I agree with you, the anime was masterfully done. Though the past few chapters had left much to be desired

>>10031956
bro i'm so fucking mad you don't even KNOW

>>10031959
well now you know so go get him anon you better fucking do it!!

>>10031966
I texted him and made sure it sent but i haven't gotten anything back. God if i get rejected after all this i'm gunna hang myself with my purse straps

>>10031969
Does your phone have a phone feature? It's a really useful feature in a phone.

>>10031947
>>10031969
This is weapons grade autism

>>10031969
I would try calling them. In the past my texts wouldn’t go through at times but calls to the person worked just fine. If the calls are blocked too then go ahead and go nuts.

>>10031972
>>10031973
I'm pretty sure it's his phone because we had issues before when i was sending him pictures of the meet i went to! He didn't get a single picture and i had to resend them a few days after when i asked him if he got them. I haven't had issues texting or sending pictures to anyone else

>>10031973
Basically this

>>10031977
i'm an awkward sperg on 4chan you think i'd be here for advice if i could talk on the phone get out of here lmao

>>10031981
It’s just a suggestion, anon.

>>10031243
>Jupiter gf
I'd rather have Uranus and Neptun
but Jupiter is ok too

>>10031611
>Hello, is the hit or miss girl posting here?

Hit or miss girl???

>>10031339
no, that's slutty

>>10031457
remover your ovaries
might work

>>10031989
I'd rather have ur anus, too, anon-kun

>>10031992
https://youtu.be/gVEdQJ7qtJw

>>10031243
>Help friend with her very first coord
>we both get dressed up, take pictures
>decide to go out
>the moment we hit the sidewalk a group of men start talking at us
>hearing things like 'what kind of costumes are thooose?'
>we quickly rush into a shop to get away.
>She looks at me shocked
>I almost feel like I needed to apologize for not warning her enough

Luckily this didn't scare her away from lolita and we're soul sisters now.

>>10031947
>>10031959
>>10031969
Hoo boy, what an entertaining yet sad tale. But fear not Anon, but relish in all of your feelings of rage and despair. If you get together you'll be able to reminisce and laugh at this little drama for years.

It's really cute that you both vent about your crushes on your respective corners of 4chan.

>>10031682
>and giver her a hug and see her smile.
not your dick and an ahegao?

>>10031789
don't worry, Islam will solve that problem
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7OOUYPbxcQ

>>10031947
If I'm reading this correctly and if we accept that it was indeed him posting about you on /b/ then it stands to reason that he's a lying sympathy-seeking scumbag. Why are you still pursuing him again, sis?

>>10031929
I know this feel. I was in a very similar situation a few years ago. My advice to you is to accept that closure will never happen. Sometimes we never get the chance to say those meaningful words to each other, and we just have to move on.

>>10032006
Despite looking like a cute anime girl I would barely know her at that point.

I would gladly like to know her better if she was interested in spending time with me.

>>10031978
use whatsapp or another messenger app

>>10031840
>Xenogears reference
I'm happy

>>10031864
male here
the urge to breed is normal
so don't worry

>>10031896
>>10031904
this sounds gay

>>10031999
I'm male tough

>>10032005
we call each each other neckbeards playfully and he makes fun of me for being a cgl nerd it's all very cute and i loved it. Hopefully either way it'll work out, bc damn yr right about it being absolutely sadly hilarious.

>>10032007
Why would he be lying if from his end he never received my messages, to him he probably did think he got ghosted by me. And because i was stupid and didn't check that those messages had ever sent, i also thought he ghosted me when in reality we're both socially inept idiots

>>10032015
>he never received my messages
You said he did...
>None of my messages [...] HAVE NOT BEEN SENDING TO HIM.
If you meant to say the opposite then you should probably apologize. In person, sweetie.

>>10031933
He's actually bi as well. He's dated other guys but has been rejected by some women he was interested in.

>>10031936
Thanks. I'm trying, but we have a LOT of mutual friends. I'm basically keeping everyone at arm's length just in case but it's hard because it means isolating myself when I feel like I have nobody to talk to. Not just about this, but about anything.

That's the only reason I've gotten to the point of needing to post anonymously about it somewhere.

>>10031940
I never insisted that he talk about things, but I'll say that the situation is a lot more complicated and nuanced than I can go into without airing a lot of dirty laundry here. I was pretty blindsided that the particular thing that ended the relationship was what ended it, though. I could have just not said anything and maybe we'd still be together.

Regarding con stuff, I don't want him to not be able to enjoy his fandoms because of the possibility of running into me. I also don't like to ignore people if I'm around them, because people have done that to me and it makes me feel like shit. I don't have any ill will toward him and I think pointedly ignoring him while choosing to exist in the same space would probably not convey that as well as letting him have the spaces to himself.

I'm mostly just sad about it all. Working on stuff we were supposed to do together just makes me feel kind of sad. I just can't detach emotionally when I feel like this was my fault.

Oh well, thanks for letting me vent.

>>10032021
I just wrote my thing wrong. I meant that none of my messages sent at all. I'll probably try to when i see him next but i'm super super anxious about it, i'll probably end up crying ahhh!!!

>>10032029
>i'll probably end up crying
Good. Ask him out while you're crying in public too so he can't refuse.

>>10032030
omg this is making me roll ily anons thanks for all the advice sorry i'm a total moron and i hope things are O K A Y after this lol

>>10032014
>I'm male tough
And?

>>10031995
I want a hysterectomy but unless I have cancer I doubt any doctor will remove my uterus for me

>>10032037
I'm also white and heterosexuell
and fat and hairy (including my ass)

>>10032040
Based white girl. Wish there were more white girls like this!

>>10032023
>dating a prison bi/gay/anything
Why do this to yourself?

>SO is creating an enterprise. Constantly asks me for advice despite the fact that I don't know much about it
>I do my best to learn, I learn about what he does about branding, marketing, enterpreneuring... everything he asks me about, I get a crash course to give him the best, most accurate advice I can
>I am giving him good advice too, at times he even seems impressed
>However, has never realy listened to me or chosen anything I've created or chosen for his business
>Try not to get frustrated, that's who he is, he's a bit rough arund the edges, try my best to remain patient and not let it get to me, he's not doing it to be cruel to me. Never stop working for him and giving him advice
>Meanwhile, trying to create my own brand image as an odotemitta
>Suggest logos to make myself more recognizable, they are related to my name so people will recognize me at sight. Send him some pictures I am considering drawing my logo after, ask him if he has a favourite
>..."Oh, I think a friends' girlfriend is better suited to this, she's actually working on my own logo right now, she's been for a time. She could draw you something generic like a cator something, maybe I could sneakily ask her, should I ask her, can I ask her ? I am ging to ask her, be right back
>My face when
I don't eve know if she works at this kind of thing.
AmI a bad person for feeling kind of frustrated and salty over this ? I kind of want to never hep him with his business again, nor allow him to have a say in mine.

>>10032040
depends on the doctor (and money)

>>10032043
stirb du judenschwein

>>10032040
If anything just get your tubes tied. The uterus is a structural organ and removing it can lead to problems like incontinence

>go to con
>it's all jailbait
>go to costume events at bars
>it's all middle aged women
What do I do?

>>10032043
I’m actually a spic

>>10032051
Oh no. In that case, what made you think of doing such a horrible thing? I'm sure it looks like a great option now, but one day you're really gonna want to have those beautiful brown babies. We need more Hispanics in America.

>>10032051
>Latino
>calling herself a "spic"
0/10 bait

>>10032055
Fuck off, Schlomo. We both know the only thing the US needs is a nuke, along with Israel

>>10032057
>t. Never talked to legal latinos

>>10032006
>don't worry, Islam will solve that problem
better video for that
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_qIF1VELj4

>>10032055
hans, hol das Gas!

>>10032049
I definitely plan on it. At the same time I feel that I’ll regret it. I know better than to not have kids, but it’s hard to fight off this urge to. I realize that this is me being crazy and that I don’t actually want children but damn this primal urge to procreate.
>>10032055
I think we have more than enough brown babies in this country. And honestly just babies in general.

>>10032057
I’m a Hispanic woman who dislikes other Hispanics, shocking isn’t it? After living with a crazy Mexican family all my life I want nothing more than to settle down with a non-Hispanic man or woman who likes weeb shit.

>>10031857
I-I'm trying Anon.

>>10032057
shoo shoo SJW

>>10032058
Nuke Israel and California only. Keep the shartover states alive!

>>10032078
would be an austrian ok?
(altough, I would might like to have children, one day)

>>10031947
Kek
Enjoy the weird cute husband and spergy kids. I'm happy for you gull.

>>10032050
Drink at the con bar?

>>10032078
Haha, I'm going to fucking die alone. I should've been born white.

>>10032047
He may have just been trying to help and didn't realize you wouldn't like it gull

>>10032057
>t. Never talked to a hispanic

>tfw no hispanic weeb gf to ride my face and call me gringo papi while we watch hentai

>have cosplay gf whos not an attention whore or slut
>go to conventions together and she actually enjoys my company
>cant have fun because I'm depressed as shit and just want to stay in the hotel and be sad

Im about to turn 30 and have never had a real job and cant beat the depression in the morning to keep one do I just end it now

>tfw no girlfriend to cherish like a lemon

>>10032138
If you don’t mind being suffocated by my overly endowed Hispanic/Latina rear end and petticoat we can arrange that papi gringo

>>10032141
Meds?

>>10032149
>If you don’t mind being suffocated by my overly endowed Hispanic/Latina rear end
This is how I want to die. Make it happen

just received my dream shoes in the mail today (idk why but i frequently get sunday packages) and they're even better irl than they were in pictures. I own a pair of antaina replicas of them (i couldn't find any :< ) and knowing and feeling and seeing the difference in quality is amazing.

>>10031295
Boring answer but Phos, usually don't have the main character as my favorite.
>tfw male with broad shoulders and dorito shaped body

>>10032215
Don't let your dreams be dreams anon.
>pic rel, me

I just broke my fast with a homemade cookie binge. I fucked up, but I don't even care. I fucking love cookies.

>Wore Antarcticite cosplay to Houseki meetup
>Pics just got uploaded
>Mfw I realize I should have doubled up on dance belts

Fuck white stretch fabric

I finally got my brother's little sister into lolita!! What are the best resources for her to avoid being ita?

https://www.wikihow.com/Wear-Thong-Underwear

>>10031924
>HnK
Huh?

>>10032243
Post pics Zayan

>>10031947
Anon that made a two post long encouragement for you here.

Going to keep this pretty short and sweet - now's the time to just ask him out. Like, bring up to him in person that you've been sending him texts. It seems like my assumption of him having low self esteem was correct, but I didn't take the possibility of dropped messages into account...

If you don't want to let him know you found his posts on /b/ (do you regularly browse it?) then you can just say that you know there were problems with your messages getting through to him before and wanna make sure he's been getting yours (even if you know he hasn't). From that point, you can casually whip out your (dick) phone and show him your messages. If you already have confirmation he likes you, then just fucking ask him out with confidence. After you clear the misunderstanding, you can say like "oh, I'm glad it was just a mixup. Cause I kinda like you and was going to ask you on a date but thought maybe I was going on too strongly and scare you away or something? But if it's all fine with you, I'd like to go out somewhere with you..." Bam, easy setup.

The alternative route (that I would take) is bringing up that you saw a post on 4chan that you think was him. Depends on how you think he'd react, but honestly a little embarrassment on his part can help break the ice a bit more. Relationships work best when you're able to easily uncover someone's vulnerabilities, and then accept them without hesitation. So if he feels "oh man, she knows I'm a loser who browses /b/" but your response is "haha it was a little annoying reading cause I wasn't ghosting you! It's the opposite, actually, cause I really like you and was venting on /cgl/ about thinking YOU ghosted ME!" being careful to match your tone with a heavy body of humor, so that he knows you're just laughing over the shared embarrassment you two have and how you both did very similar thing stopping vent out your frustrations.
(Cont.)

WHY ARE THERE SO MANY SHADES OF WHITE REEEEEEEEEEE

>tfw spot a group of lolitas at Round One today
Oh.

>>10032269
(Cont.)
Now, the bonding moment thing can help you solidify your relationship with him as it straight up puts you two into a position where you open up to one another about an embarrassing secret you mutually share. I mean, he may read my very post about this topic once you reveal it to him, but then he'd probably get a laugh it.

You can choose to reveal this later in the relationship as a bomb too, once you two get more comfortable with opening up to one another. Either way, these kind of things are pretty funny bonding moments to have.

Good luck, Anon.

>>10032057
I'm Hispanic and call myself a spicy/beaner all the time. People are too fucking sensitive over the smallest shit.

>>10032261
>Zayan
>Implying he’d be worried about modesty
>Implying he wouldn’t have already posted pics of his bulge

>>10032286
Haha yeah imagine that

>>10032283
my boyfriend is hispanic and loves it when I call him a beaner/spic/etc

>>10032243
>Uploaded
Where?

>>10031857
not yet.

Been forcing myself to read for one hour each night before bed and been having the best night's sleep ever.

Stay away from screens anons and use a lamp with a warm light to read with.

>>10032279
>>10032269
thank you anon, i tried texting him again and MADE SURE it sent but i still got nothin from him. Making me anxious but i should talk to him. I won't see him till tuesday at the earliest but i'm ready for tomorrow to be gone so i can finally ask

you're so great thank you so much and i hope you get everything you want

>>10032023
>Regarding con stuff, I don't want him to not be able to enjoy his fandoms because of the possibility of running into me. I also don't like to ignore people if I'm around them, because people have done that to me and it makes me feel like shit. I don't have any ill will toward him and I think pointedly ignoring him while choosing to exist in the same space would probably not convey that as well as letting him have the spaces to himself.

You are not responsible for other people's feelings and if they can't handle being in the same (open fandom) space as you after THEY ended it, they are not mentally healthy to begin with and need to work on their own shit first. By isolating yourself for it you are just letting yourself be a doormat, and it won't even fix the problem. You should actually work on establishing your own individual happiness right now.

>>10031704
Taken

>>10032357
Excuse me

>>10032363
C A N B E R R A

>>10032372
??? Like those weird mole things that hang out in hot springs?

>>10032333
lmao this is what you get for using imessage
turn that shit off and just use good old mms

>>10032380
Those are capybaras. Canberra is a city near the southeast coast of Australia.

>>10031852
>>10031857
I wish.

>>10031327
Lolita gf ftw confidence for days

>>10032391
A whole city of weird mole things that hang out in hot springs?

>>10032395
If only. That'd be heaven on earth.

>>10031427
I let a past bf facefuck me once. My jaw hurt so badly I couldn't sleep for three days and I still have issues with it years later. It isn't cute. It's painful. How about you get fucked in the ass with a cactus? Fun, eh?

>>10032402
Don't give her >>10032363 any ideas.

>>10031704
probably too far from you

NEW THREAD WHEN???

The complex I always visit recently put up a massive Christmas tree and usually I love Christmas decorations. But all I could think about is tfw no Lolita gf to take pictures of in front of the beautiful decorations and have all the passers by gawk at how cute she would be.

That feel when...

>>10032425
are you me because same honestly. i want a qt bf to dress up for christmas with me and make a big dinner with me

>>10032357
Or in open relationships.

>>10032148
r9k out

>>10031564
>tfw tried this and am now trying for babby with husband

I am self conscious about how ugly my face is to shave my beard, but practically every character with a beard is an absolute unit who I look nothing like

>>10033069
Similar feel
>Have beard
>Want to cosplay somebody
>Anybody
>No character I know anything about has a beard
>Only option is armor but don't have enough space or skills to make armor
>Too attached to beard to shave it off
Guess I'll just die.

>>10033069
Well don't worry if you go bald there Kratos from God of War 4.

>almost finished with a couple's cosplay with gf
>tells me this morning she got drunk and cheated on me
>tells me she's had feelings for the other guy for a while but it's my fault because i'm not meeting her needs in the relationship
>tells me her therapist says that this can make the relationship stronger
She's the only girl that's ever given me any attention (I'm short, fat, and weird), I don't want to be alone again but I don't know if I can stay in this. Also now I have half of a Ragna The Bloodedge cosplay finished, too much time and money invested but i don't want to wear it.