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Share your weeb wedding ideas

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>> No.9967961

I want to have a fantasy forest themed wedding with a lolita tea-party in the woods to celebrate but
1 I don't have any friends to invite
2 my SO hates themed weddings

>> No.9967986

>>9967945
>tfw was hoping to be able to meitu my pics just a tiny bit but wedding photographer is a friend of my fiancé who posted the photos to IG with no editing and tagged me in every one
Now all my followers know how uggo I really am...

>> No.9968024

I’m currently planning a wedding and as much as I hate themed and lolita weddings, I kind of want to get one of BABY’s wedding-esque dresses for my reception as I’m doing a high tea for it.

>> No.9968030

>>9968024
Why do you hate them?

>> No.9968046

>>9968030
Dunno, just kind of tacky to me. For me personally, I don’t want to look at my own wedding photos, a day so significant in my life, and see that my hobby at the time was the focus of it. I’m sure people who think they’ll be in the fashion until their old will feel otherwise but I try to be realistic in all of my decision making.

>> No.9968057

Tfw you probably won’t get married and if you did your S/O doesn’t seem too invested in an actual wedding ceremony. Sigh if only I could feel like a queen for a day :(

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>tfw ex dumped me three months before wedding
>be 26 and will probably not date again until I'm 30
>tfw will probably never be qt ethereal lolita bride

Pic related, my shoes.

>> No.9968087

>>9968057
I understand the feels, anon. My s/o used to be super against marriage because he felt like it’s not something people take seriously anymore, too many bad reasons why people even do it, etc. But I was able to convince him how important it is to me, that I want it for the right reasons and that made him do a complete 360 on the subject and I’m getting my dream wedding.

You deserve to have that feeling, anon. If your s/o isn’t the type to ever budge on it then you may need to start thinking more about YOUR future and what you want. I believe in you!

>> No.9968133

>>9968046
Why not just pick a dress you love and feel good in? Your taste may sift whatever you pick and in the end it's all just clothes lolita or not.

>> No.9968172

>>9968046
People usually don't make a hobby the theme of their wedding though. I guess if you're the type that changes style/taste a lot I get it. Personally I've had the same style and hobbies for over 10 years and I don't think it will change.

>> No.9968173

>>9968081
Sad. I wanted to get married and have kids early but I don't have a bf and I'm turning 28 this year..

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>>9968024
Oh hey, I'm also doing a high tea for my reception! I'm actually hoping to wear burando for my wedding day though- my fiance is all for it and I would love to wear the dress again on future anniversaries!

>> No.9968359

>>9968081
wow what a piece of fucking garbage. what happened? and you should get out there, date casually if you can :( i'm sorry that happened to you

>> No.9968360

>>9968087
:) ty anon, sadly its still too early in the relationship and he hasn't even mentioned moving in together (three years)

>> No.9968363

>>9968360
i moved in with my so after 4 months lol

>> No.9968367

>>9968363
well if it makes you feel better i haven't pushed for it as I get that cushy financial aid living in my college dorm lmao ;-;

>> No.9968368

>>9968057
>>9968087
yeah, ya'll are fucking sad and need to date people who want the same things as you do.

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>>9968368
being this ignorant and rude

>> No.9968375

>>9968367
I.don't feel anything about your relationship. I think you should be able to bring that shit up yourself instead of waiting for him to do it though.

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Less talking OT, more dresses.

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>>9968391

I keep going back between if I want an Edwardian gown or Linda Friesen's stuff desu.

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Not really interested in a wedding, it's an anxiety attack waiting to happen, but man... The moomin themed wedding is so cute.

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>>9968395

Any other Japanese designers who do more fantasy type weddings? I know I've seen a few on IG but I always forgot to bookmark them.

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>>9968398

My mom the other day proposed a really small getaway wedding of just the two immediate families and I could hold a reception for my friends. Idk, I think that really cut down on my theoretical anxiety levels.

My boyfriend has yet to propose to me though so I'm just having fun daydreaming haha.

>> No.9968418

>>9968395
>Linda Friesen
Does anyone know how much her dresses actually go for? I've never seen a price anywhere.

>> No.9968420

>>9968395
You can ask Linda to do something edwardian inspired

>> No.9968422

>>9967943
I’ve never liked the idea of weddings. I’m just going to city hall in lolita and getting married there. I look forward to finally changing my last name so people can stop “figuring out” that my name is similar to a fictional character’s.

>> No.9968469

>>9968172
naryt but you’re dumb if you don’t think hobby themed weddings are a thing. That’s great tho if you think you’ll be into the same shit forever but most people change throughout their lifetimes, that includes hobbies.

>> No.9968474

>>9968420

Yeah, that's an option and I don't doubt her ability to make something crazy beautiful. I have a couple of Edwardian dresses I really would love to restore for a wedding though, so we'll see which desire wins out.

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Plan on getting married to my SO and would love to wear this Mary Magdalene OP. I think the design is simple and classic enough to work perfectly fine as a wedding dress. I've never been a fan of the OTT Baby dresses.

>> No.9968506

>>9968372
uhh, how am I being rude?

It's sad that they're wasting time with someone who doesn't want the same things out of life as they do. It's amazing how many people out there try to stay with someone that doesn't want the same future and instead they try to mold this person into what they want.

If anything is rude, it's people who insist on staying oblivious their's and other's needs and then try to mold everyone around them into what they want instead of doing the work it takes to find someone who shares your interests and life goals.

>> No.9968535

>>9968418
>>9968420
she never posts about the price, which is a bit frustrating

a ballpark estimate would be nice

The most I could find is someone who got a wool coat from her for 500 euro or something quite a few years ago

>> No.9968547

>>9968482
Same here anon! I wish I could get into the mindset of having a big fairy tale wedding but the thought of having 100s of people looking at me while I'm wearing a huge poofy dress scares the bejesus out of me. I was thinking of a small disney wedding but it's going to be difficult for family and friends that live back in my home country.

Maybe a Disney honeymoon instead..

>> No.9968599

>>9968469
Actually most people around me haven't

>> No.9968608

>>9968081
That really sucks but you're better off without that shithead, imagine him dumping you a few years into the marriage with a kid.

I know it feels sad to realize you won't be a young blushing bride, but life doesn't end at 30. Do your thing, don't settle but don't be afraid of letting people into your life, you might find someone who will truly want to make you happy.

>> No.9968611

>>9968395
Omg that is stunning, imma check out her website right now

>>9968506
You're making assumptions about how, if people have different thoughts on one thing (a wedding ceremony), that means their entire life philosophies are different to the point that they should break up just because you say so. This makes even less sense in the case of >>9968087 who clearly said that their s/o accepted their reasons and is now fully on board with giving them the dream wedding they want.

Swooping in and insulting people and ordering them what to do with their love life based on one single fact you know is rude af. Mind your own business and no one will call you rude.

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>>9968611
+1,0000 you hit the nail on the head right there

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>>9968087
>that made him do a complete 360 on the subject
so it's still the same as before

>> No.9968744

>>9967961
Try a half way compromise

>> No.9968749

>>9967986
That would grind my gears anon.

>> No.9968755

>>9968677
Kek.

>> No.9968756

>love the idea of wedding and marriage
>Getting either is impossible. Need to find compatible partner. Important part. Walk before can run.
>Can't browse wedding dresses. Not even on a whim cos shit always happen soon after.

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I want a Waterfall (Undertale) themed wedding so bad. The

>> No.9973149

>>9968915
The......? This is killing me

>>9968756
You can always organise a massive party for something else with a nice/fancy dress code. Like 50th birthday of a parent. 25th birthday of a sibling. Wedding anniversary of parents. Idk. Just be like hey we never have big parties, why wait for a wedding?

>> No.9973184

I think themed weddings and even cosplay weddings are really fun and beautiful. I guess if you change interests all the time it's not for you, but otherwise just do it since its your day. I wouldn't worry about what normies think about it. Unironically #daretobedifferent

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I mean yeah not everyone will have the perfect look for your Jane Austen wedding but you can still ask the guests to wear natural shades like brown and cream and no jeans.
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>>9968756
I just found this https://www.sbs.com.au/popasia/blog/2015/01/07/japanese-trend-alert-wedding-cosplay-karaoke
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>> No.9973219

>>9968087
>>9968363
On the off chance that you're Jess and for some reason come to /cgl/ -

> A.
The ring looks like something that a tacky Chinese aunty would wear.
> B.
He was cheating on you at least as quickly as May 2017. Ask him who 'Mervamp' is.

>> No.9973401

>>9973149
I accidentally pressed "The" lel i didnt have anything else to say.
Apologies for ruining the suspense.
But yeah,a Waterfall UT themed wedding would be dope. Or Undertale in general. But we would have to be careful not to make it tacky

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>>9968400
I'm pretty much planning the same thing should I ever end up getting married. Why spend thousands of dollars on one day when you could take that money and put it into a holiday at the same time as a wedding, you know?

I have always loved the idea of a Harry Potter themed wedding though, preferably in a forest.

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>>9968359
>>9968608
Holy fuck, I'm late, sorry about that, didn't think I'd get a reply-- Yeah he was a non-committal douche. There were so many signs though, looking back, so lesson learned. He probably has like six STDs right now.

I was so obsessed with veils, even more than dresses. They're so pretty! I didn't want the typical "here's some tulle" veils you get from normie weddings.

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Gosh, Disney weddings are my favorite, but I don't know how my s/o would feel about it. It's a lot of money to put down for one day.

How did/do you guys budget for your weddings?

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I never imagined my wedding day as a kid. Even when I got married I did it at the court house real quick and had a party at the local pizza place so we could play arcade games.
I saw this picture about 2 months ago (will be married for 10 years come march). If I ever hit the lottery I'm doing a big renewal of vows and having it done in a place looking like this

>> No.9978009

>>9977507
I love them too! I think if I had the money I'd love to renew my vows in Disney, as I don't think family would like that idea for the wedding, also it might be cheaper for just the couple rather than dragging a bunch of guests with you.

>> No.9978400

>>9973199
Holy crap that is tacky looking.

Shit like this is why I agree when people say you should avoid making your own wedding dress.

>> No.9978569

>>9977508
ngl he looks more excited about this than her. why do all the fucked whore bitches get the best men? like the bimbo ones who do anal for any abusive dude with a 7inch+ dick versus us cute and soft girls who are soft and innocent?

>> No.9978576

>tfw you make enough money and have enough familly wealth to afford an extravagant wedding
>tfw SO is also own for an extravagant wedding
>tfw would have no friends to invite to my extravagant wedding

>> No.9978655

tasteful nerd wedding thing we did in our ceremony: The bridal party walked down the aisle to the harpist playing the fairy fountain theme from LOZ. The nerds in the audience were hyped, everyone else thought it was a pretty tune.

>> No.9978662

>>9978569
calm down that dude looks gay anyway

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>> No.9978722

>>9978576
I will pretend to like your personality and take all my friends to your wedding if you give me a dress for my birthday

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Since I don't like to be the center of attention I want a small wedding only with closest family. No big fancy party, just a ceremony in a small old church and a comfy venue at a country hotel with a nice garden and classical music being played.

Pic related is the dress I'd want to wear and since I have really long hair I'd want a rapunzel hair style with many real flowers in my hair.

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we were engaged in tokyo disneysea and we're going to have our wedding at WDW. wedding pavilion, escape package, planning for about $15,000 to pay for it. making my own dress, hoarding supplies, I've tatted some lace appliques by hand already. I See the Light for the bridal march + the Star Wars theme for the recessional. that's all i got planned though.

>> No.9979089

>>9978569
“Cute and soft” = weighing in at about 400lbs
“Innocent” = so fugly not even horny ass teenage dudes who will fuck just about anything would fuck them.

Don’t worry lady, I’m sure you’ll find your mouth breathing soul mate here on 4chan. Try the intel’s over at /h/

>> No.9979092

>>9979089
Incels, even.

>> No.9979219

>>9978569
Either y-chromosoid b8 or you're legitimately crazy.

>> No.9979326

>>9968388
I will forever adore this dress.

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>tfw all you want is a ginormous poofy ball gown to dance the night away in
>tfw pic related is what normies consider a ball gown
Can I just get a dress with Charlotte from Princess and the Frog levels of poof, please? I’m a southern belle and want to look the part!!

>> No.9979333

>>9979327
>”Normies”
>”I’m a southern belle”

How is it even possible to sound fat through the internet?

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>>9979327
If you just run a search for “tacky wedding dress” I’m sure you can find exactly what you’re looking for.

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>>9979327
My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding is probably what you want

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>>9979327


Secret Honey has a Princess Tiana ballgown up right now. They've done a bunch of princess ballgowns and are likely to re-release stuff.

Just mentioning this if anyone's actually looking for a Disney princess wedding dress.

>> No.9979357

>>9968611
A stance on a wedding hardly is representative of one's philosophy. My mother had a lavish military wedding to her first husband, but for her second wedding to her second husband she just had a small affair with less than a dozen friends. I think learning to accept the fact that you aren't a princess and never will be is just a part of growing up that sadly a lot of women don't learn until after they have blown tons of money on a fantasy that will never become reality. The wedding industry is just one big scam, and starting off your eternal matrimony with such a stupid financial mistake is a really bad sign that the marriage is not well thought out. I can understand if you are Italian or some shit and it is a core part of your culture's identity, but for most it's just an unnecessary indulgent that would in all honesty be better spent on lotto tickets.

>> No.9979366

>>9979333
Nice try, I’m close to being underweight. Can post proof if you want.

>> No.9979384

>>9968608
>but life doesn't end at 30
It does for women.

>> No.9979389

>>9979384
Well you might as well kill yourself anon.

>> No.9979423

>>9979327
I'm right there with you. Normie dresses are basic and boring af and go for thousands. Meanwhile there are ridiculous OTT lolita dresses for $300-600. I just don't get how someone can spend so much on a boring dress to never wear it again, and leave it with barely any resale value.

>> No.9979429

>>9979343
This is cute

>> No.9979430

>>9979357
My aunt's second wedding was even bigger than her first wedding. But her previous husband died, they didn't get divorced.

>> No.9979616

:( tfw no friends or family to invite to the wedding!! My s/o has some family but overall we’re both isolated people

>> No.9979618

>>9979423
Exactly!! I remember there was an episode of Say Yes to the Dress where a lady wanted a very specific Rococo look, and it took ages for the stylists to figure out what to bring her. I relate so much to that woman.

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>>9979618
Pic related is the dress, it’s less Rococo inspired than I remembered, but it’s still very much not a normal gown.

>> No.9979796

>>9979366
Times is hard in the ol’ trailer park, I see.

>> No.9982309

>>9979622
That is the ugliest thing I have ever seen, holy fuck.

>> No.9982314

I could have an LOTR-themed wedding. I could really do it. I live like an hour out from Hobbiton. My fiancee and my family and my friends would all be 100% on board with it and go nuts dressing up for it.

But I hate themed weddings with the fire of a thousand suns.

>> No.9982337

>>9979622
Those shoes,the dress, the tacky bridesmaids attire. I don't give a fuck about wedding shit and was just scrolling through, but this is ugly af. And it must have been expensive too.

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I just want something simple and comfortable and I want to elope somewhere beautiful, like a national park. Yosemite in spring...

>> No.9982921

>>9982314

Oddest humbrag of the year award.

>I can totes do a nerd wedding
>but I won't because I hate them

>> No.9982930

>>9982912
Not even being rude but...Are you a lolita
Why are you here

>> No.9982938

>>9982921
Anon probably can't afford to pay for it, it's something like $80 for one person to enter...so for a wedding I imagine it'll be like ten thousand as most weddings are on popular days/times for venues

>> No.9983136

>>9982921
>>9982938
The venue I'm using costs more than Hobbiton actually, once you factor in catering.

Sorry I'm not having a tacky wedding just to please /cgl/.

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>>9983136

wtf is compelling you to stay in this thread then?

I mean I get it, our levels of salinity are pretty high but yours are off the chart. Go drink some water and post some pretty dresses and stop whining about how close Hobbiton is.

>>9982938
$10k for a venue? Damn, I didn't realise how pricey these things can get. I was looking at a pretty booked up church and it's $2500 to rent.

I was watching the Marvelous Mrs Maisel the other day and I couldn't get over how cute her dress was at her wedding. I think it's a good option for people who want a lolita esque silhouette but don't want a super short option the way most BTSSB dresses are.

>> No.9983155

>>9982921
just because you can do something doesn't mean you should.
Also themed weddings are extremely hit or miss. So they probably don't want to pay crazy amounts of money just to do a themed wedding when the could do the same thing out in the woods for cheaper and have it be less nerdy at the same time for any normies who may see the pictures in the future.

>> No.9983336

>>9983139
I mean that's in NZ dollars...their current pricing is 6 grand for the venue alone (assuming you want to do the ceremony and reception there) and then an extra $84 per person on top of that just to access the venue, so even for, say, a 50 person wedding that's your 10k gone not even including catering which starts at $75/head...that being said, for just the ceremony it's $3000+$84/guest, so slightly less ridiculous?

>>9983136
That's nice, but you can't really include catering in venue hire - it's a separate cost unless you went with somewhere that does an all in one deal. Also, I wouldn't boast about living close to Matamata, do you live in chlamydia central?

>> No.9983392

>>9983336
A lot of venues have a policy of no outside catering so yes, it is a huge factor in the overall cost of the venue. And Matamata is central North Island, there's a dozen places an hour away that aren't Hamilton.

Are you one of the sad autists who wants a Harry Potter wedding but can't even get a boyfriend?

>> No.9983473

>>9983392
Yes, but you can't compare "Hobbiton without catering" to "my venue with catering", you need to factor in the catering cost as well. Central North Island is all bumfuck nowhere anywhere (actually most of NZ is) so it's not like you're in somewhere much better than Hamilton.

>> No.9983500

>>9982309
>>9982337
Never said it was pretty, just that it’s not a normal dress! It is very much a burn-it-with-fire type of gown.

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This is still my favourite "lolita wedding dress", I remember seeing this on LJ back in the day and being super envious.

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>>9983509

>> No.9983513

>>9983509
>>9983510
I remember seeing this one, it's so gorgeous! A creative idea too.

>> No.9983536

>>9979616
My boyfriend has several groups of friends and a big family, but my only friends are my brother and my cousin. It's going to be so awkward when everyone find out my entire social life is just my boyfriend.

>> No.9983642

>>9983473
I am factoring in the catering at Hobbiton you moron.

>> No.9984237

>>9983536
Have a destination wedding for family only

>> No.9984256

>>9973189


>no jeans

...people wear jeans to weddings?

>> No.9986577

>>9968081
>iktf
Wanna weep uncontrollably while watching “say yes to the dress” with me?

>> No.9987490

>>9977507
We went for the cheapest and simplest ceremony possible and went with a destination wedding (Hawaii), spending the money on plane tickets, hotel, cruise, restaurants, etc. Ended up being a wonderful time spent with both of our immediate families.

>> No.9988367

>>9984256
Yup.

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>tfw my only regret about knowing I'll die alone is that I'll never get to wear a wedding dress

>> No.9991923

>>9991689
>>9973198

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>>9977820
every time I hear of people who do courthouse weddings it makes me sad. I know later on they will want one, as long as the venue is small, you can have a very fancy and affordable wedding.

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>>9994152
Not that anon, but I guess it depends on the person. My mom has always been more of a tomboy, and my dad is a pretty laid-back guy. They ended up having a courthouse wedding, and it doesn't seem they ever wanted to have a party.
I'm the complete opposite, though. I've always wanted a huge, fancy wedding. That might take a while though, since I'm barely an adult and also single.

>> No.9995147

>>9995141
>>9994152
Both of these dressee are ugly and have nothing to do with cgl

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>>9967943

>> No.9996043

>>9978009
>renew bows
people do this?

>> No.9996050

>>9996043

I mean weddings are contrived as they are, but renewing vows seems even more contrived and an excuse to spend money to try to rekindle the smoldering embers of a failed relationship. That's just me though.

>> No.9996069

>>9996050
>an excuse to spend money
Isn't that exactly what is it? Not even to rekindle any relationship, but it's just an excuse to have a wedding-themed vacation without people looking at you weird.

>> No.9996444

>tfw SO hates weddings and probably won't want one

obv nothing to leave him over but i don't want to get married in a courthouse

>> No.9996446

>>9996069

I've seen people legitimately think another wedding would solve their relationship problems.

>> No.9996447

>>9996043
>>9996050
>>9996069
I mean if you want to look at it like that then sure, but as far as I have experienced most people that renew their vows do it for one of two reasons

1. They missed out on having a proper wedding the first time and want to do it now that they have the money

2. They use it as a way to mark an anniversary and its generally not a vacation or really an expensive affair, just a small get together to say they love each other still.

>> No.9996477

>>9996444
Me and my SO have considered a somewhat destination wedding. Means we can invite people knowing they won't come, spend most of the money on ourselves traveling/having fun while still technically having a wedding.

Not quite eloping and makes my anxiety about how much money weddings cost calm down.

>> No.9996647

>>9996050
>>9996069
Nothing wrong with having a wedding themed party

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My boyfriend doesn't believe in marriage even though we've been together for years and plan on being life partners and having children someday. This thread is making my heart ache.

>> No.9997309

>>9996763
Sorry but if that were my case I would leave. Even if it was a mock marriage like a ceremony if it’s important to you then he should be willing to do that for you to make you happy.

>> No.9997310

>>9996763
If you’ve talked to him about how important it is to you and he disregarded your feelings I’d say dump him. It’s definitely not good for partners to not agree on their future together.

I’m just glad my partner is fine with not getting married and not having kids because fuck both those things.

>> No.9997318

>>9997310
Lol what about his feelings? You know how to make a marriage work and have a future together? Don't break-up

>> No.9997322

>>9997318
+1
If he doesn't believe in marriage, he probably has feelings about it that are deeper than just wanting to wear a pretty dress and have a party

>> No.9997343

>>9996763
>plan on being life partners and having children someday.

No way, thats where I had to put my foot down on the issue. My bf also doesnt really agree with marriage, but I refuse to have children unless I am married to the person.

He at least agrees with my view of what marriage should be, which is creating a whole new family that is ready to be on their own and start their own life.

I don't even want a huge party or expensive wedding, I just want to be married, it's absolutely important to me.

>> No.9997344

>>9997318
I wouldn’t know because I don’t give a shit about marriage. If someone is seriously assblasted about their partner not marrying them do you honestly think it’ll work? I understand trying but if I were a guy and my girl were annoying me about marriage 24/7 I’d break up with her. I personally wouldn’t want to get stuck with a partner who didn’t agree with the likely scenario of never getting married and never having children.

>> No.9997350

>>9997344
you're making a lot of weird assumptions based on 1 post

>>9997343
in a lot of countries you don't need to be married to be able to have children together

>> No.9997352

>>9997350
>in a lot of countries you don't need to be married to be able to have children together
That wasnt my point at all though?

I personally just would never have children while still not married, no matter how many years I have been with the man.

I know it may sound weird but its just very important to me.

>> No.9997420

>>9996763
I understand these feelings, anon. Went through the same until recently. I explained to my partner how important it is to me from a cultural standpoint (I’m not allowed to live outside of my parents home unless married but did it anyway for reasons) and from my own personal feelings. He disliked marriage until he really understood what it meant to me and then after *some* time he finally said he was ready, he wanted me to be his wife because he loved me so much and knew how important it was to me while also wanting to respect my culture.

I think if you have a heart to heart with him on the significance of this for you, you can both come to a compromise. Stay hopeful, anon.

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>tfw you want a waifu and would like to give her the special day
>tfw 24 and no wife and kids

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having worked in wedding alterations before, take it from me:

if y'all get your dress and want something cute and quirky done to it and can't do it yourself, nine times outta ten it's gonna look like hot garbage AND everyone in alterations will make fun of you for it as soon as you leave the building.

That being said you'll probably also be the most interesting thing that's happened to the poor souls in the alterations department that month, so don't let the potential mocking dissuade you.

>mfw a lady wanted an "Elvira dress" for her October wedding but she was massively overweight and brought us an ugly ballgown dress and wanted us to add black tulle and ribbon to it EVERYWHERE

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i'm going to marry in this dress

>> No.9998017

>>9997428
I used to think I would be married and have kids before I'm 30 but I'm starting to lose hope I'll ever meet the right person

>> No.9998148

I'm 33 and at this rate I will die alone with no husbando to have an elegant /cgl/ wedding with. Being bad at socializing doesn't help, and although my ex wants to get back with me, I've gotten enough self-respect and spine to no longer be interested in a NEET.

>> No.9998157

>>9998148
being a neet doesn't automatically make you a shitty person.. i don't know what he did wrong to you but when you word it like this it just makes you sound snobbish

>> No.9998171

>>9998157
this

>> No.9998394

>>9998157
>>9998171
Ya'll act like taking care of a grown man so he can play video games and watch anime instead of being a real adult is a desirable trait.

>> No.9998442

>>9998157
>white knighting neets

>> No.9998518

>>9998394
holy shit this. Obviously NEETs who think they shouldn't be judged for being worthless human beings.

>> No.9998532

>>9998394
>>9998442
>>9998518
But we don't know if the person talking shit about the NEET is actually any better.

>> No.10001424

>>9998394
nobody said that lol

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>>9998518
>>9998148
You just both come across as arrogant. Having a job and education doesn't automatically mean you are a wonderful adult. There are many jobs that make you a worse person than if you were a NEET. I make enough money to take care of myself so I don't mind that my SO is a NEET. It's nice that he can spend time with every day and doesn't constantly talk about work or uni like 99% of the people in my life.

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I have been to a lot of weddings and I feel like the people who want to ''keep it classy and small'' just end up having a really boring wedding. They look down on people who do big fancy or themed weddings, but at the same time they are too insecure to be looked at, so they go with a boring dress and make all the savest choices.
>>10001455

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>I’m obsessed with Ouji and Aristocrat fashion, fiancée isn’t
>Fiancée wants a Disney wedding
>Idea.jpg
>Find a line of Baroque-inspired tuxedos
>Has a lot of beautiful details but is more western than jfash
>Fiancée loves the idea
>Says it looks like something a prince would wear, it’s perfect for the Disney aesthetic he wants

Ironically, getting married in jfash would be less expensive but at least we found a compromise we both love

>> No.10001630

>>10001628
Oh shit, that's cute as hell. Will you wear lolita?

>> No.10001662

>>10001630
I love admiring lolita, but it might be weird since I’m a guy. I’ll be in the white tux and fiancée will be in black, haha

>> No.10001669

>>10001662
Oh! Well that's what I get for assuming, lol. Definitely gorgeous though, you have great taste, anon!

>> No.10001708

>>9983536
OP, I have friends but no one close enough that I would invite to a wedding/anyone I would actually want to share that’s moment with. The ones I do I know sure as hell they wouldn’t be able to make it (different states/still in college/broke)

>> No.10001958

>>10001628
Those poor men look like they've been starved

>> No.10001963

>>10001958
Begone, ita whale

>> No.10002038

>>10001958
Believe it or not, but men without beer belly do exist

>> No.10003506

>>10001958
I’m that size and still can’t fit AaTP. Where the fuck did you get your body standards?