/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

What should I do if a 300$ package got lost? Do I request a refund or am I out 300$? I don't want to request a refund because that leaves the seller out of the dress and the money, but if I don't, I lose the money. There's no good way to go about this. I've never had this happen before, I'm really scared I've lost all my money. It was with a seller on lacemarket.
I've been crying a lot since I found out it got lost in the mail. I just want peace.

>tfw want to try oldschool since i first got into lolita in the early 2000's
>tfw too scared i'll look ita

>>9760463
Thanks for trying to cheer me up & encourage me anon.

>If you earn yourself a good reputation at work, nobody will give a crap about what you do in your downtime.
A big part of the line of work I'm doing is probably going to involve clients, rather than mostly mingling with coworkers.
It's people that I don't know who scares me, not people that I do know. I'm afraid it'll make people lose respect for me.

>Finally, why are you so afraid of aging?
Man cuz it's weird if I'm 40 with lil wrinkles and I still wear pink dresses with cakes on them and wear my hair as twintails...

>>9226875
>mtf trans
>pass pretty well in regular clothes
>height pretty much gives me away in lolita
>tfw people call me brolita

>dream dress available

>forever sobbing because i lent a friend money and she hasn't payed me back yet, so i can't pay for the dress.
>it's not even her fault that she can't pay me back, the money's just taking forever to process to my bank account

why.

I want this dress so bad.

I want to go but not good at making friends.

OP you wanna like, be my friend or something?

>tfw free after may, perfect time to go out for ILD
>really want to meet girls in comm
>only have two main pieces, and will be wearing them immediately before the weekend
>i guess i'll participate next year, when i have more pieces to wear

>>7448857
oh anon...