/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>tfw you're a guy but really think Lolita is beautiful.
>tfw you want to be part of one of the community get togethers/tea parties, but you don't know how you'd ever fit in and not look weird.
>tfw you wouldn't mind dressing up as a butler or something and serving, but you're short and fat.

It's a painful kind of feel because I'd love to be like Haji from Blood+ or Wilhelm from RE:Zero but I just don't have the body for it. Do you think I could get away with it even though I'm overweight, if I act the part? Or would I just be laughed at/shunned.