/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8556457
I did something mildy similar to my comm. My comm has some history with drama because of a drama queen and even broke up. I added fuel to really old drama here on /cgl/ first accidently then on purpose, just to see if I could a reaction from the comm leader which was the former drama queen. Turned out she still is and it was good not to join the comm again.

>>8160279
Same here, they are many lulz to have and it's nice being easily one of the most well dressed persons in a room.

Can we have a thread to request coords with particular colour schemes?

I'm particularly looking for brown x red coords.

>>7711611

>>6577630
143/175

>>6518732

>>6304957

Wizard actually

I have a problem.

There's a divide in my community - a group of girls who have been around a long time, and another group of more "mixed" experience. My friends are mostly in the former. The latter has somewhat of a bad reputation, partly because they tend to embrace new girls who are still in their ita phase, whereas the first group tends more towards trying to help new girls become better Lolitas.

Anyways, I always feel bad when a newer lolita gravitates towards the second group and I've been trying to try and make more connections between the two. I started talking to one of these girls who seems nice but has a bit of a google problem, always complains about being plus size (she's not) and won't listen when other plus size lolis give her advice on where to find things that will fit her.

I made a terrible mistake, /cgl/. I told her about a meetup that I thought was "Public" but had been set to public by mistake. She joined the meetup. That would be the end of it except for something else I wasn't fully aware of at the time. It turns out she had been saying really terrible things about one of my closest friends in the "private" facebook of the second group. In public, she always backpeddles whenever someone disagrees with her on anything, so I've only ever really seen her be apologetic.

I need to figure out how to get her to not come to the meetup. Even if it means not going myself. I want to break off ties with this girl because I've finally realized that there is no hope for her, no reaching her. I feel absolutely terrible. What do?