/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9939837
I would guess you're just entering early 20's because this is the point where friends I knew had similar problems.
My observations were that the nerdy and geeky crowd try very hard to avoid interpersonal conflict in their social lives.
When things get a little more serious in the relationships, and the adulting is required nobody knows how to react.
They would put off issues in real life or handle them poorly, and then delay facing the interpersonal problems they caused on top of it all.
But that's the thing, these girls would ALWAYS go for a guy that wasn't confrontational with them, ever.
And not by coincidence, that same type of person didn't go face reality the moment they needed to.
Because the games, the anime, the comics, funny cat pictures, and all of it.
They use them as an escape from reality.
I can say with some certainty that the most bitter and painful breakups I had seen my friends go through were caused by this.
It wasn't just one, two, or a few couples either, it was most of them.
So at least you're not alone on that, if it helps any.