/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Hi /cgl/ i want to play game. You see my gf left me recently because she 'couldn't manage her feels' which is a code word for 'I like to cheat you with another girl (she' s bi) and can't foresee that my actions have emotional impact on other people beside me', i was always there for her, even in her three suicide attempts that left me emotional tired as fuck (it was before the cheating) and here's the matter: she's a Lolita, an ultra fanatic Lolita to the point that her dresses are like part of her soul or something, and when she left, she leave all his lolita wardrobe in my house. And well, I'm in a really anger state of mind, why i should always be the rational, the emotional stable guy of the couple, i didn't even fight her for fear she would made another suicide attempt. But now she's gone and I'm with a lot of emotional anger it came to my mind, what if i burn all her lolita clothes? Turn them to ashes, satisfy my anger. But that wouldn't be the action of a good man doesn't it? And i want to be a good man because self judgement is what kill us inside, is what corrupt our memories and our soul, so i think, I'm a man who likes to think, i think about /cgl/ and how she spend hours and hours of her life showing me the lolita community, smiling at those precious dresses, skirts, cardigans, classic, sweet, Gothic every small detail she could spend hours and hours talking about it with a smile on her face. So i decide /cgl/ would have a chance to save the wardrobe of my ex lolita, if you can convince me why is so important that i do not burn them all to hell to satisfy my anger of a broken heart