/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8965874
>cute and feminine babyface
I'm pretty sure its not the face. though with a bad haircut and bushy brows I can look like a guy lol. but I know what looks good on me and I avoid doing things that make me look manly.

It couldn't be my voice because these strangers haven't even heard me talk before.

When it comes to people questioning my gender I've got it down to a science. this literally only happens when I'm not wearing a super padded bra.
when I'm in lolita people go out of their way to try to make snide comments to me, so there's a much larger chance of it happening.
when I'm outside of lolita it rarely happens, but man do people stare at me for twice as long than when I DO wear a pushup bra.

not to mention, it depends on where you live as well. I've traveled several in more conservative states its more likely for people to approach you on this (including shopkeepers???) while people are less likely to say anything if you're libreral but man by this point in my life I can tell when someone gives me a "boy or girl" type stare.

>tfw I just want people to stop looking at me like pic related