/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>have fat con friend
>she's a total sweetheart
>a few years older than me, but she totally looks up to me
>asks me about lolita today
>know she'll never fit into brand but don't want to discourage her or hurt her feelings
>also know that even if she does manage to fit into brand, she'll give up after a month
>dont want her to waste money on a dress she wont fit in/wont use
>link her to oo jia and DOL
>mfw I recommended someone buy a replica

>>7649075
>call paypal again today
>three way call between me, paypal, and my mother
>explain what happened /again/
>mother is under the impression that I bought two $450 things, instead of paypal double charging me
>mother pays off the debt on my behalf (from my account, obviously), no money is sent to my friend
>just enough left in my account to pay the original amount I owed to my friend (in cash this week)
>mother also shuts down paypal account on my behalf as she thinks this mess is my fault
>paypal lady says "oh well she already ordered your stuff and didn't get paid? I'd say just leave it at her expense"