/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Sometimes I can't fucking handle the rudeness and the immaturity of the lolita fashion. It's not the making fun of itas or people dressed like shit that piss me off. It's the fact that you guys try to come off as fucking debutantes of lolita fashion, super polite and grown-up and lady-like when you have absolutely no understanding of etiquette at all. I see shit all the time like "I need to convince my friend to uninvite a girl I don't like to the tea party because I don't like her" and "I blatantly talk shit to people at meet-ups who wear replicas." These fucking people claim to be so fucking knowledgeable in how to be a proper host or part-goer when they can barely conduct themselves past 5 year old temper tantrums.

I'm not talking about life-style lolita bullshit. I'm not referring to talking shit on itas either. I'm talking about girls who have never been taught how to conduct themselves at a party or function, or what proper protocol is. If you don't like a girl at a tea party, YOU do not go to the tea party. If you honestly cannot keep your mouth shut to enjoy a meet-up without harassing girls about replicas, you should probably just stick to online bullying. Being civil at a formal function seems like common fucking sense to me, but I guess it isn't for some of you. You have this problem understanding what is appropriate for meet-ups and what is appropriate for online shit talking. It boggles me.

All these beautiful classy tea parties with amazing dresses and coords, and you're about as cordial as a 4 year old, and claim to be some kind of politeness goddess. I feel like more lolitas should read a book about party etiquette and how to conduct yourself at a formal gathering, because this shit is ridiculous.

(not referring to everyone on /cgl/ btw, but a lot of you are here)

I've seen some shit