/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Okay, so this alone is a big question I've been having for the longest time and it's tough for me to ask even as an anon:

Is there a point of no return when it comes to masculinity? I'm probably overblowing myself on that front, but I feel like I'm way too mannish and many of the things that seems suggested as fixes may end up backfiring with even worse results.

Crossdressing and generally aiming for a more effeminate look has always been an attractive prospect for me, but I'd rather know if maybe I'm just not cut out for it.