/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Working on a coord for Not So Scary and I'm trying to decide between the hairbow that matches the dress (pictured) or a handmade witch's hat with a pumpkin accessory attached (still in progress). I feel like the hat is too big and heavy looking, but the headbow looks so small and boring. Also might ditch the bat bag and just carry a pumpkin shaped trick-or-treat bucket.
I'm still very new to lolita, so feel free to concrit; I don't want to go out looking like an embarassment if it can be avoided.