/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I love lolita and wish I was brave enough to wear it regularly

but I'm not
and I feel vulnerable and shy and scared when I'm wearing it by myself. My boyfriend loves it and I feel good when I'm with him
but....

I hate meetups. I hate hanging out with a comm. Some of the girls are gross weeaboos, and then the rest and prissy and annoying and elitist.

I just want to wear cute things without being terrified.

>>mfw we have the 'asians pretending to be white girls' discussion in every single thread

>tfw finally get my hair shiny and devoid of frizz and now I'm losing my curl pattern
what do