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>tfw you want to be there for everyone who's starved for love
Don't do it.
Most people who suffer from crippling feelz have some internal issue that prevents them from feeling happy or comfortable, no matter the situation.
Trying to send them love will not make them feel loved, and will drain you.

>I know that people aren't projects and that you should never try to "fix" them, but goddamnit. When you see someone in need, isn't it only right to want to reach out and try to pull them out of their hole?
The hole is of their own making. They pull themselves into it. You treat them as a project to fix, they'll treat themselves as a project to break.

>How does anyone just overlook another person's suffering without feeling something?
If it can't be fixed then it's not worth worrying about.

Do you know those people who borrow money from their friends/relatives just to buy stuff they don't need, and they're out of cash within 3 days and they beg for more money?
You giving them money won't help their situation.
This is also the case with people who cannot find happiness with themselves. You giving them happiness does not make them happy.

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