/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>left lolita for jfashion
>left jfashion too
>trying to find my own personal fashion style
>my style sucks but I don't know where to start because I have no idea how to dress myself without the harsh guidance of others
>try to get back into lolita so I dont look like shit when I go out
>hate it
>try to get into normie fashion and follow their harsh guidlines of looking like a dull hoe or a middle age mom
>despise it
>find a jfashion I like
>no guidelines, I still end up looking like shit anyway

feels bad to be fashion incompetent