/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>bf finally agrees to having sex with me in lolita
>we're getting into the groove and really feeling it
>POP
>waist the buttons fly off
>he tried using my waist bow as a handlebar for pounding into me
>get angry at him for thinking that was a good idea
>he gets mad at me and says "this is why I didn't want to do it with you in your clothes - I'd have to sorry about messing them up too much and making you angry!"

who was in the wrong here?

>>9980514
>Tfw Misako uses it and makes cringe ass shit like this
https://t.tiktok.com/i18n/share/video/6596466746125716737/?region=JP&mid=6578642134046345985&u_code=d09e3886m0k2lj&&iid=6592378238272784129&utm_campaign=sever_share&utm_medium=iphone&app=tiktok&utm_source=twitter

>>9971413
Anon, in the real world people will take advantage of you. You'll keep getting more tasks on your plate and they'll pay you as little as they can for it. The "wage gap" only comes from how men are more likely to threaten they'll leave heir job if they don't get a raise, or they'll throw others under the bus for their career. Non-assertive men face the same "struggles" was women in this regard, just get und reminded by political hot topic headlines. You need to not only be a good worker, but willing to take the risk of professionally and confidently throwing a metaphorical middle finger to your employer. Otherwise they'll look at you and your "oh, Anon works hard and doesn't complain about all the tasks we give them. They're a great asset to this company, but show no qualms with doing extra without the extra pay. Let's maximize the work we can get out if them while minimizing the pay."

Because at the end of the day, that's what most jobs want. The school system produces good obedient workers, and considering you always "worked hard and got good grades," you're the perfect representation of this. Congrats, you passed the test of over exerting yourself without complaining; that's what they want. You're a great employee. But you remember Todd, who skipped classes and had a rebellious attitude, doing the bare minimum to get a passing grade and thinking about his own enjoyment before others? He'll be less qualified than you, but jump the ranks faster, because he will look out for himself before he looks out for his company. Sounds contradictory, but to get anywhere in life you really do need to either have extremely good luck, or rattle a few cages.