/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8281151
>"negativity within the lolita community with the intent to change the future of the fashion and create a positive environment for the next generation of lolitas"

People need to stop pretending that the playing field was ever even in this fashion. For one, people are hella intolerant of obesechans, poorfags, uggos, thinly veiled sissies, transfags who don't try, and oldfags because most don't meet a certain desirable aesthetic within the fashion. A fashion, understandably, is intended to be shallow for the most part. People who don't meet the criteria are still allowed to dress in lolita, they've just got to understand they won't be everyone's cup of tea-and that's OK.

It makes no sense to me that people go searching for validation and acceptance in a hobby that's notoriously based on image. I'm not saying I don't have friends in lolita, but there's a stark difference between the way I carry myself around friends I've made at college and the friends I've made in lolita. I'm more mindful about how I dress and what I say in my comm and on the internet. Furthermore, while an opinion from someone within lolita can rustle my jimmies, it's not like my life dotes on the opinions of strangers or people I'm vaguely acquainted with. Furthermore, seagulls don't remember or care much about someone wearing a dress poorly three years ago. However, they would remember a bitch coming to cgl to whiteknight herself for 300 replies, or making butthurt videos about her 'harassment.'

So anyway, with all that said, what qualifications do these bimbos possess that makes them suitable "ambassadors," aka counsellors, for victims of actual bullying? What higher education do these bitches have in psychology or social work that gives them the experience to actually handle feelings of people they don't even know?

I hate this because it's clearly self-aggrandizing disguised as "helping others." It's shit and they ought to be ashamed.