/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

How do I get rid of my skinnyfat!??

> related feel:
>cosplaying for the first time in years at a con early next year.
>have felt terrible about myself , looks and body, preventing me from doing so, but have made a lot of positive physical and mental health changes this year.
>minimal skill so buying most of the stuff, which works cause pretty normal looking character.
>still nervous I'll look like an idiot

>unrelated feel:
>pretty middle of the road politically, very much about individual rights and nerd.
> I end up matching with basically Tumblr. Jpg sjw girls constantly on dating sites , apps.
> can't stand them.
>just looking for qt.314 shit lord who enjoys shit posting and nerd stuff.

>combo feel :
>ex wanted to couples cosplay, but my issues made it hard for me to feel motivated
>knew it was important to her but never did
> eternal regrets, because i realize that it's important to support your SO and their hobbies.
> promise self if dating cosplayer again in future will give help and support they need, as their hobby is just as important to them as mine is to me.

At least we mistakes can be lessons.