/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10614857
anon unless you're very short, 10 pounds wont matter much. hell, im short and gained probably 30 pounds from when i started wearing lolita as an underweight teenager. i still wear the fashion, i still wear sweet lolita, in my late 20s. i still feel good in the fashion.

nothing against >>10614827, if you dont like the fashion anymore, thats fine! be happy that lolita has a strong secondhand sales community and you can mostly get your money back to start over in a new style. but before doing all that ask yourself

>am i doing this because i want it, or because misogyny has told me women's happiness is restricted in a certain way?
>do i just need to get active/lose a little weight?
>am i not wearing the fashion for fun anymore?