/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I'm a brolita who was introduced to lolita via a BDSM relationship with a girl who was active in a comm. We broke up (still friends) and moved away and now I'm in a different town with a big comm. I actually like lolita for fashion but kink is still an important part in my life. I read FYeahLolita regularly, I own brand and I'm still dorking out about those indie Norse lolita prints someone was posting a while back.

I like the kink community (they're fun people and it's the only place I can wear my brand and not be the weirdest looking person in the room) but I really like Lolita and none of them seem to 'get it'. So I want to have fun with the comm on a purely vanilla basis, maybe someone there shares both of my hobbies already. But if I choose the wrong person to out myself to then I'm suddenly the creepy lolita fetishist. So here I am, not going to meet-ups because I don't wanna freak people out.

MFW

I don't know how TBFanon does it. Still what the fucking at the update on my dash where someone asked her to find them identical shoes to ones she posted and the girl already fucking lives in China as it is. Do you not speak Chinese in China or something?