/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9510333
>Like... conversations are a back and forth are they not? Say you ask too much and you only get responses and they don't ask you stuff in return, or they never even initiate conversation with you then what's the point? Wouldn't you just be bothering them? Is it acceptable to talk about yourself anyway? Like "hey you're into this series, right? me too, my favorite part is...", like that. When does it ever come across as unwarranted?


I used to think like this. You're assuming other people are worth more than you. This board is full of lolitas ( the female equivalent of fedoras) that are legitimately mad that people like them too much.

Modern feminism and the like has led people to think that even talking to other people is a social privelege. Nobody owes ethem any more not being talked to any more than you're owed to not get junk mail.

Some people not gonna like you. They can deal with it. Some people gonna like you. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, as our lord Gretzky says.

Not being talked to isn't a human right. Just toss the conversation when you feel it's a dead end. Ask questions, and then ask why, and how. It makes it easier to talk about one thing for longer.

If after two or three of those chains you don't have a common topic, break, and move on. This is your chance to fucking shine, and not have to deal with talking about sportsball. Conventions are a fucking privelege. You waste that, it's on you, buddy.