/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9093471

It wouldn't be selfish, it'd be considerate of him to do so but also not 'required' but if he's just sitting around your place/the place while you clean up that's really rude. I can't stand when I am working my ass off and someone else is just sitting or standing there looking at me like I'm a fucking coolie working for massah even if it's not my mess.

Does remind me of a hilarious incident I heard of from my mum. Was away at university, they were doing renovations on the house. Step-father's sister's son was there to help for some reason, I think his mum/my step-aunt was there too. Step-father tells him to help my mum with cleaning/sweeping or something and this little 13 year old responds. "Cleaning? but that's a woman's job!". (the whole step-side of the family is hispanic but the kids father, the step-aunt's ex husband, has the real latin machismo chauvenism streak that must have rubbed off on his son)

Just imagining how goddamn livid my mum as an old school not-man-hating feminist would have been had me break down laughing at how much that little shit done goofed. Straight up deserving that jojo "To be continued" line the second he said that. But yeah it might be the streak of leaving cleaning to a woman is more pervasive than I thought.

But don't burn yourself out cleaning when you are so exhausted, just do little steps at a time.