/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

i’m having some mixed feelings about my friend. she likes to do closet cosplays and “bimbofication” with her tits out. she’s black and has this issue with her baby daddy dating a white woman, she seems trans/homophobic when she claims not to be. and she will put down white women all of the time because of her issues with the men she deals with but at the same time has this fixed fetishization for asians/the culture. it’s kind of off putting to me, especially since i’m white/asian myself.

idk i just find her really problematic at times and don’t know how seriously i want to spend time with someone like that at a con again. i hate it when people get upset and try to make me feel guilty for “being attractive” when they are scared the person they’re interested in likes me like some random assumption. it’s not fair. do any other gulls have this issue with their friends?