/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>6463902
>I wonder if there's a way to train yourself to get out there and be "aggressive" enough to date after feeling so unattractive all your life.

It's called developing self confidence. Once you get to that stage where you realize you're you and you feel awesome about it, talking to other people and asking people out becomes a lot easier because you know that you deserve a nice person and that person should be fucking thrilled to have you because you're so great.

It's tough, but you'll get there if you have an earnest desire to. Most of my high school was pretty similar to yours and the other anon's, but after a while, I just sucked it up and worked on feeling like an awesome person until I believed it. Something I heard from /adv/ that helped me was to bullshit that I was amazing until I actually bought into it. After that, it becomes easy because then somehow people actually start believe you are, in fact, amazing.

You guys can do it~~~!