/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>have no lolita friends
>post on egl thread, rarely get replies
>gain the courage to add a girl who seems really cool
>message her and she replies!
>gets really excited about having a lolita friend
>suddenly she stops replying
>feel pretty down about it, blame myself
Months later.
>post again in contact thread, still hoping for a friend
>get a reply from what could be the same girl asking why I never replied
>thefuckisgoingon.jpg
>quickly message her on Tumblr apologizing and that there must have been a mix up
>no reply
>still to this day I check my inbox
>still no reply
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>>8133121
Thanks anon! I hope I get approved this time
>got rejected from local comm for not owning a dress yet (it's in the fricking mail)
>still no approval from 2 other groups and its been 4 days
>maybe this is a sign that I should lolita alone

I really just want to make a friend that I can talk lolita/kawaii shit to and learn some stuff from