/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

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We can resume the discussion here

hate kinksters. I really do. Not just the ones who poison lolita with their DDLG shit, but kinksters in general. BDSM is weird and creepy and I'm tired of pretending it's not.
A few months ago I was talking to a male self-professed dom about a guy who got cancelled for dubious BDSM-related shit. He kept talking about how he wasn't like that, how he was ~one of the good ones~. And I just bit my tongue, trying not to say "no, you ARE like him. All of you are like him. I don't care if what you do is consensual, the implications of it should be considered disturbing nonetheless."
We need to bring back kink-shaming. I have no fucking idea how men wanting to beat the shit of women and women wanting to get beaten up by men EVER became normalized. In any other context, a man saying the idea of brutalizing a woman excites him would be shunned. But for some reason it's okay when it's a kink? These are not normal people feelings. You should be able to get an erection without making your partner LARP as a schoolgirl or rape victim. There is no such thing as a healthy BDSM relationship. Literally every single person who is into BDSM is mentally ill and I will die on that hill.

I hate kinksters. I really do. Not just the ones who poison lolita with their DDLG shit, but kinksters in general. BDSM is weird and creepy and I'm tired of pretending it's not.
A few months ago I was talking to a male self-professed dom about a guy who got cancelled for dubious BDSM-related shit. He kept talking about how he wasn't like that, how he was ~one of the good ones~. And I just bit my tongue, trying not to say "no, you ARE like him. All of you are like him. I don't care if what you do is consensual, the implications of it should be considered disturbing nonetheless."
We need to bring back kink-shaming. I have no fucking idea how men wanting to beat the shit of women and women wanting to get beaten up by men EVER became normalized. In any other context, a man saying the idea of brutalizing a woman excites him would be shunned. But for some reason it's okay when it's a kink? These are not normal people feelings. You should be able to get an erection without making your partner LARP as a schoolgirl or rape victim. There is no such thing as a healthy BDSM relationship. Literally every single person who is into BDSM is mentally ill and I will die on that hill.