/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10085404
Do it anon! Dress up and be cute, I believe in you.

>>10078387
Society deems you too old for frills and bows by the time you're 12, that's the point of alt fashion, wearing whatever you like despite what society may think.

>>10063787
Anon I'm 28, I've been wearing the fashion since I was 17, I wear the fashion daily, seldom meet my comm, and have no intention to stop. Obviously circumstances differ but age and location don't really matter, it's how you feel that matters. I'd suggest you at least wear your frills indoors as a start. If you feel like your personal style of sweet doesn't suit you, there are others you can try like classic-sweet or old school sweet.
Does your girlfriend not know about the fashion at all? Maybe introduce her to it?
>Hey X have I ever told you about this fashion style that I love?
Show her pictures, show her the pieces you have, take pride in it (even if you have to fake it) and don't be afraid of it, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

If you really really don't feel comfortable in the fashion anymore then it's ok to let it go if it's not working out for you. You can appreciate it from the sidelines, that's perfectly valid. Maybe you'll want to try it again a few years down the road, maybe you won't, either way you should do what makes you happy.

>>9993554
Oh wow this is a damn feel. Controlling men are full of shit, don't ever let anyone tell you what to do, anon. Wear lolita to your heart's content.

>>9688329
I like it so that's all that counts.
They might be pricey but it's alright to splurge on pretty things from time to time because beauty in itself is priceless (and subjective,which is why i understand if you or some people find it ugly)
1/10 for making me respond tho

>>9506475
Happy ILD, anon!

>>9395439
Don't feel bad, most of these threads are full of shitposts, and even if people do genuinely dislike sweet, who cares?

>>9343194
I'm proud of you for going with what you like, anon. Always do what makes you happy, even if it isn't popular.

>>9285076
>into it
>do it
Define "it". Jfash? Cosplay? Either way, who cares?

>>6851582
Who cares about today's "standards". It not being up to date doesn't necessarily make it bad.