/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I don't even know how to word this really. Augh.
I got my first dress, a meta jsk last month and my boyfriend thinks the lolita fashion is too childlike. He is considerably older than me but prefers to be hush about it even though I'm in my 20's. I know he is thinking but won't say it is something that seems like age play if I wear it but he always makes a comment when I go to put it on that ends up leaving the dress in my closet. I can respect that he doesn't want to come across a certain way. I mean, I'd be pissed if he suddenly wanted to wear something that might reflect poorly on me. What I am going to ask though is: Is there a way to "casual lolify" this dress or something? I can't sell it, I love it :c

>what did you just receive?

My first lolita dress. It's a beautiful meta one, still has the tag, came in the meta bag and included a free hairband (offbrand). Too good to be true but is reality nor was it too expensive.