/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8000089
What is 'her situation' that I don't understand? You really believe I'm unable to comprehend deception? Keep in mind this was not a case of molestation from an older brother, a cousin, an uncle, a father, or a husband. It was (implicitly) a fuckbuddy. That most carnal relationship possible, and one that suggests several things about her character (slave to desire, poor mental health, disregard of romance, etc).

>I was really upset and I needed someone to talk to ... walked in crying and upset because I was overwhelmed with everything.

For the sake of commenting, I'm just going to assume somebody died (somehow, I'd wager it was not something that devastating which reduced a 20-year-old adult like her to tears). Whatever could somebody like a fuckbuddy say that would console you?

'Relax babe, you're beautiful. I really liked when you sucked my cock that one time.'
'Wow, that makes me feel so much better! I'm so glad to have a friend that doesn't hesitate beating his women in bed.'

So let's say she was forced to a state of mind where *any* attention would appease her, and that she doesn't indulge in a bit of narcissism, but was truly overwhelmed by some sort of news or act that was inflicted on her. Sure. What kept her from seeking help? By her own admission:

>I kept telling him no, tried to push him off of me ... I was scared ... Because I firmly believed at the time it was my fault that it happened to me, that if I wasn't so upset I wouldn't have been taken advantage of.

At that moment, she considered her rapist a friend, appropriating the rape as 'punishment' for her own incompetence. But I don't buy that. I believe what she wanted was attention, not punishment, and when she got it, she quickly regretted it, realizing that meaningless sex does not heal the heart.

The guy is garbage, yet the two have one thing in common: they can't manage their emotions. And this is why I call her a headcase. Both of their behaviors deserve shame and discouragement.