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>>9551193
Detach from your ex asap, it almost ruined my laifu once.

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>i'm pretty damn autistic and have a hard time keeping friends
>literally haven't had a real friend since grade school
>finally find someone the last semester of college who actually wants to hang out with me and just play vidya/watch anime
>fast foward a year later
>realize he's borderline sociopath
>constantly gaslighting me in petty arguments
>refuses to ever apologize even when he's 100% in the wrong, and I mean NEVER
>have to choose between having no friends again or staying friends with an asshole who probably doesn't even care about me

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>>9258755
Thanks anon!

>tfw no size 42 either

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>>9103548
I highly doubt that there will be lots of answers, but whatever.

I was one of those school creepers that are regulary mentioned in cringe/horror stories. Why? Because I was an autistic little fucker that did not know boundaries and tend to get over-enthusiastic over different things. Learning when to keep/release your enthusiasm, learning how to deal with people in general and work on things to lower my autism levels as much as possible were the most important things to become someone who isn't instantly tagged as creepy, to function in society and to be able to make friends and be able to maintain the relationship.

It is damn painful if you find someone you actually get along with and scare them away, because you don't know how to behave like a decent human being, even more if you were a loner and shy the most of your life until then. And if this happens more than once with different types of people in also completely diverse types of circles and fields of interests, then it's highly unprobable that it is always them.

I took me quite some time to figure out myself what went wrong and to learn what I have to do to make it better in future.

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>>7479226
Gr8 m8 m8 I r8 8/8

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I get really upset with myself because I'm so negative about everything. I always find something to nag about peoples costumes (way above their skill level, shitty wig/make-up, doesn't suit the character at all, sloppily made costume, generally just a bad looking person etc..) and even if they were good cosplayers I'd have a problem with their personality ("I follow this bitch on twitter and I know she only got interested in this series after it got popular! stay away from my babies attentionwhore ugh") and so on. It's gotten to the point where I only have a couple of friends and even then I'm afraid my constant negativity will eventually drive them away too.
I've kind of figured that the reason I judge others so harshly is because I do not look the way I wish I would, aren't skillful enough to make elaborate costumes and generally just lack motivation to do even half of the costumes I actually want to. It doesn't help that I'm embarrassed of this hobby so I don't want to spend all of my money on it. I back out of anything that seems too difficult and never look at it again. I deliberately stop myself from doing costumes that I would look awful in no matter how much I'd love to do them, and I think that's why it pisses me off when other people are able to have fun without thinking about silly things like those and just do what they want.
The worst thing is even when I know all this I still can't stop, and I keep being judgemental of everyone who's not perfect and still hold myself back from doing some of the cosplays I really want because I couldn't even imagine dealing with looking myself in the mirror and thinking "as I thought, I look like shit".
Even when I fit the character I'm cosplaying I keep thinking how much better it'd look if I was this and that and everything but the way I am now and that's honestly just so tiring.

sorry for the stupid rant and being a little bitch

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I get really upset with myself because I'm so negative about everything. I always find something to nag about peoples costumes (way above their skill level, shitty wig/make-up, doesn't suit the character at all, sloppily made costume, generally just a bad looking person etc..) and even if they were good cosplayers I'd have a problem with their personality ("I follow this bitch on twitter and I know she only got interested in this series after it got popular! stay away from my babies attentionwhore ugh") and so on. It's gotten to the point where I only have a couple of friends and even then I'm afraid my constant negativity will eventually drive them away too.
I've kind of figured that the reason I judge others so harshly is because I do not look the way I wish I would, aren't skillful enough to make elaborate costumes and generally just lack motivation to do even half of the costumes I actually want to. It doesn't help that I'm embarrassed of this hobby so I don't want to spend all of my money on it. I back out of anything that seems like a lost cause and never look at it again. I deliberately stop myself from doing costumes that I would look awful in no matter how much I'd love to do them, and I think that's why it pisses me off when other people are able to have fun without thinking about silly things like those and just do what they want.
The worst thing is even when I know all this I still can't stop, and I keep being judgemental of everyone who's not perfect and still hold myself back from doing some of the cosplays I really want because I couldn't even imagine dealing with looking myself in the mirror and thinking "as I thought, I look like shit".
Even when I fit the character I'm cosplaying I keep thinking how much better it'd look if I was this and that and everything but the way I am now and that's honestly just so tiring.

sorry for the stupid rant and being a little bitch

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>>7327653
She has the potential to be cute tho.

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>>7271066
>I'm on my bed using a laptop as I type this

N-not all of us can be cool like /g/!

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>>7140411
I can't fit in the clothes I want comfortably, they're disproportionate and uncomfortable. 32D isn't even large anyway, which just makes it worse.

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>>7112512
>those feels

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>>7031165
>bought a binder but it was TOO SMALL GDI
>get discouraged so havent bought another one in a larger size
>sports bras make the blouse button but there's still gaps
>too afraid of altering burando and lowering the value

i cant even hold all of these fucking feelings dude

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>>6986970
but money is a barrier when you don't have any....
>couldn't afford the chantilly/AtP teap arty

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>>6960420
>that feel when ashli

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last time i posted my art in one of these threads i got a ton of hatemail on tumblr

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>>6904860
>drop 300+ USD on AP international store
>they didn't include a sticker/postcard/thank you note ore anything

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>>6878997
>>6879122
no i meant I am the wuss, not him...he'd probably reply nicely too
sorry for shitting up your thread!

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>>6864376
me

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>tfw long distance bf is going to AX but not you

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i keep getting an error message

>> No.6580873 [View]
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He thinks it's stupid and immature. Baka onii-chan doesn't understand.

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>>6567838
no one's got anything?

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>>6528118

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>>6423606
hhnnghh I would love to be able to do something cute like this with my hair but I'm sure that it would look super retarded in real life

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