/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8207962
Are you me?
I'm having the same troubles. I'm quite involved in the community too so I can't leave because it will cause problems. What I'm doing is taking a break from wearing the clothes and selling off any 'filler' items or pieces I don't 100% love. I still love my friends and I'm fine to attend small meets in normal clothes (my usual style is quite fancy anyway) so I won't lose touch with the people I care about that way.
Just waiting for the day to come when Lolita makes me happy again

>>8160881
I'm on a waiting list which I was supposed to be at the top of a month ago. I think I'm going to ring tomorrow to check because I can't continue like this

>>8160903
I'm a really private person so I can't even talk to my close friends about my situation. I hate feeling like I'm burdening people with my problems but at the same time I really want people to understand me too. I feel really stuck, I just want people to like me and to not feel like shit all the time. If I can get some therapy sorted out that will really help I think but in the meantime I have to keep hanging on

>>7682770
are you me, anon? save the long term relationship (it's not that long we've been dating people) it's the same. I try to keep my crush aside and hopefully it will die, sooner or later!

To stay on topic, pic related, it's my wife.