/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I am trying to get into fairy kei and decora but I feel like i am struggling to fit the correct criteria for the fashion and I dont want to end up being like the people on tumblr who tag stuff as fairy kei when its not even close.
I came up with my first outfit, and while I think its cute I am not sure which category it would fall under, if any at all.
pointers and suggestions are greatly appreciated (ignore the cat ears/set. I was at a con and felt like being obnoxious lol I feel it almost takes away from the outfit now that i look back at the photos)