/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8908709
You can totally be feminine and ladylike without looking ditzy. Just look at Kate Middleton, she never looks 'sexy', but is always feminine nonetheless. In the West, I feel when women say 'cute shoes' or 'cute' dress they always implicitly mean sexy. And it's not just your mum, I've seen grown ass women feel outright threatened when you say you don't like revealing clothes. One of my former friends felt so insulted when a guy approached me instead of her despite her shoving her tits in his face every time she saw him, and then she said I was slut shaming her despite me not saying a damn thing, in her presence or otherwise.
>>8908708
Exactly! I get no pleasure from reading Vogue the way I do my Anecans and Fudge. Like ok, that's a nice Valentino gown. But when am I ever gonna wear a Valentino gown? When am I ever gonna wear silver spiderwebs on my eyelids or visit Milan in my life? Never. Also I think Cara Delevingne is ugly and her entire personality is very obviously fake and annoying. Same with Kiko Mizuhara who for some reason appears in every single issue of 25ans nowadays, which I used to love.

Japanese casual fashion is a lot more comfortable and there are so many cute low heels available whereas in the west every low heel ever is either too chunky or some ugly orthopaedic granny abomination /rant