/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I discussed lolita with my normie friend today. I'm into classic and have been knee deep in this shit for a year now. In today's conversation my friend mentions that "everyone" automatically associates the lolita style and silhouette with children's clothing. I was taken aback. Perhaps she meant more pastel pinks and sweet, but didn't specify. Or have I just been so closed up in the community that I've become desensitized to what we look like in normie eyes? Does she think I look like an oversized toddler?
Distraught feels gulls.

>Inbf4 bait
I just want to dress like a fancy noble lady yet with a knee length skirt.

>>10025902
anon as another trans person in lolita, just like ignore this thread. almost everyone i know has been posted in here at some point and half of the time it's just a vendetta or it's someone reeing about fatties or trannies or someone who dresses better than them. don't take most of this stuff personally, ignore it and move on. the gulls will be gulls nothing will ever actually stop the salt fest