/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>Go to gathering
>Join two new discord channels related to subject of gathering
>Trans lady gets offended by rando in the first formal discord channel making a dumb comment about a photo where they couldn't tell if they were guys or girls
>She wants mods to regulate their commentary
>try to explain I've also had random comments saying I've looked like a guy but such a comment is considered kindergarten levels of offensive and not worth censoring people over
>thinks I'm calling her mentally a kindergartener and gets offended and says she's gonna ignore me. She also just realizes at this point that I'm not a mod of that channel
>Few days later in second more intimate discord channel, we are talking to each other and even throwing jokes back and forth at each other
>wondering if she even realizes I'm the same person
Happy that we get along now but not even sure how I'm gonna approach this in the future if we interact more and go to the same gatherings