/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8911664
I was very boyish too years ago but when i started to see jfashion online i left any tomboyish clothing for just skirts and dressed coordinated in jfashion ways. I'm glad to hear in Japan and Korea women (i have heard also men) dress very nicely everyday compared to western countries. Anon, don't give up to dress in jfash also in your country, do what makes you happy. If i can't dress lolita for everyday in my case at least i can wear something that remind me of lolita or just frilly jfashion.
>>8912390
You aren't too old for fairy kei!I'm almost 26 and i don't care to dress a bit childish, if you feel to tone down you can wear some pastel larme kei with peterpan collared dresses and no prints for example. It looks similar to fairy kei when it's in pastel colors like pink or sax blue, ginghams and whites with sheer fabrics.Pic related is what i mean more or less but in pastel colors.

I want to get this gothic OP but i'm not sure which size i have to choose M or L to be comfortable? My waist is 71 cm but my bust and shoulder would swim in the L size i think. I see no shirring in this dress.