/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Some QRD and addendums, since I've met enough "tfw no gf" types to know their biggest issues
>fun and positivity are magnetic. People want to be around fun
This reads like incredibly basic common sense, but it can't be if so many fail to believe it. Guys always talking about how much they NEED cosplay gf always suffer from at least one of the following: refuse to stay out after a certain hour, are impossible hold a conversation with because they can only resort to mindless meme spam, or (most likely) are sour groups about absolutely everything. The Redditism of "You must be fun at parties" exists for a reason.
>a strong man uses his strength and abundance to lift others up
>not to knock them down
Also applies to a good number of the smarmy posters in this thread too, no doubt.
>His Girl Might be Fair Game
And this is the other biggest self-imposed hurdle. The assumption that "every girl has a boyfriend / is there with her boyfriend" is just as misguided as thinking it means there's no chance. One has to wonder how much of it is bad faith actors after seeing it so many times

>>10854197
Glad to help. The first step to happy mind is saying upbeat things. The second step (and the first step to getting everything you want) is believing it.