/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9740696
Male anon with a 10 month old daughter here. Since I became a father, I've quickly noticed that some women get really weird whenever the topic of me having a kid gets brought up in conversation. They'll immediately start telling me how hard it is to have kids (despite not actually having any themselves) and how I must be so stressed and how I must hate my life. Then when I respond with something along the lines of "well actually, it's been okay so far" they get borderline mad and start insisting that no, I'm wrong and having kids is literally the worst thing ever. I usually just change the subject because the more I try to tell them otherwise the more angry they get.

And the relationship is permanently tainted from then on because they will constantly bring up the fact I have kids (in a negative way) at every opportunity they get. "Oh you're feeling stressed? Yeah having kids must be hard" "Oh you're not going out tonight? Yeah well sucks to be a dad huh"... etc. It's got to the point now where I try to avoid bringing up the fact I have children because I don't want to risk ruining a relationship with a female that I get along with.

I don't really understand why some people are like this. I have a few theories but that's about it. It sucks