/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8638184
>>8638246
Who knows man. I like to be submissive in bed because in everyday life I have to be blunt in assertive to get anything done with the people around me so its very relaxing for someone else to take charge. Also beta men make me tired.

I think the feminist movement of lately with sex and how its viewed growing in the public is allowing the followers to be more open in their sexual interests that were previously would demonize you as a wild whore because god forbid someone talk about you and hurt your fee fees. Then that whole 50 shady's of gray trend brought BDSM to the main stream and as a chain reaction people who actually knew what they were doing came forth to be bunk the book which not only kept it in the public eye, but explained it. This being in the public eye normally allowed more people to be open about participating
>remember kids, approval from your peers is more important than doing what makes you happy

But for 95% I think their just jumping on the bandwagon and will regret being that person at age 13 walking around with a collar and leash at the local con